| 4/6/2008 7:57:43 PM |
When You caught yor spouse cheating were You SHOCKED or NOT ? |
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impressivetoys
Wells, MN
age: 26
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You know, I wasnt all to shocked about it cause of I knew her for a long time through high school. But when she looked over and gave me a evil, shit grin of a smile, I lost it. But instead of goin all coo-koo on her, I just walked out, went home packed my shit and moved out. I didnt talk to her for a good 2-3 weeks. And just showed her that she isnt the only one out there that wanted me, without stooping to her level.
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| 4/6/2008 8:09:38 PM |
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dee_lightful
Skaneateles, NY
age: 44
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I knew something was going on because he was on the computer all the time. When I'd walk in the room he'd downsize the page so I couldn't see who he was chatting with. Then there were the phone calls late at night, during the night and in the morning before work. Found out what his password was and made a copy of all their emails. Confronted him with it and he still denied it until I threw the emails in his lap. I called her and left a very nasty message. His 2 sons and I were throwing him a surprise 50th bday party in 2 weeks. Needless to say everyone was given a phone call telling them the party was cancelled and why.
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| 4/7/2008 1:37:00 AM |
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white_owl
Victoria
Australia
age: 49
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My girlfriend of 18 years told me that my then partner had "put the word" on her. I asked her how she felt about that, and she said "No Way!", we're mates!! Well, a few weeks later, I was putting my baby to sleep, woke with this sick feeling in my stomach, went into my lounge and saw my girlfriend with a string of newly imbedded lovebites on her neck.. My ex was looking at the floor. I asked what was going on, and confronted them both about whether they had had sex. "Yes" was the answer I got from my ex. Well, I suspected, but I was shocked when it happened.
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| 4/7/2008 4:52:24 AM |
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pleasru
Victoria
Australia
age: 40
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Had suspected for a few years but left it at that till he moved back to Vic from Qld. ONE torn g/string later I was super sluth , bugs ,recorders etc etc but I did love her then.
I lost a
wife, family and a so called brother............... love my kids thou.
3yrs later, lovvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeee life again..... chins up..
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| 4/7/2008 11:56:57 AM |
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drlnlpn1947
Republic, MO
age: 60
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I was very shocked, knew the relationship was over for me, but had no clue he was with someone else. DUH
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| 4/7/2008 12:01:09 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57 online now!
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Shocked....Not that he did it, but the person he chose to do it with.
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| 4/7/2008 12:48:20 PM |
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passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32
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We just moved to Texas, 3 weeks I come home and catch him with someone. I was calm though, just walked over to my dresser while they watched me, pulled out my pistol, and started to count, by the time I got to 4 they realized I wasn't kidding and high tailed it out of here and got dressed on the porch 
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| 4/7/2008 12:49:11 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57 online now!
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Good for you
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| 4/7/2008 3:56:39 PM |
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passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32
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thank you 57, sorry don't do well with cheaters
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| 4/7/2008 3:58:40 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57 online now!
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Me neither, they all deserve what they get!
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| 4/7/2008 3:59:27 PM |
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mrswilliam
Ivel, KY
age: 41 online now!
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I was both, I suspected he wanted to. But I was totally shocked he did.
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| 4/7/2008 4:59:55 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48 online now!
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Sometimes I wish I didn't have the values that I do. I married for life, you don't give up, you work it out. He cheated all through the marriage. Many times I suspected and many times I caught him. The first time was before it actually happened, he always wrote me love letters and when one fell out of his brief case as I put it away, being his wife I naturally thought it was to me. He was planning a trip to go see her in another state. He didn't cheat physically, but he cheated within his heart. The first time I actually caught a wench in my house...had no clue and was totally shocked. So was she when I came home unexpected and ran her out. It was a pain in my heart I liken to the pain felt when you hear a loved one has died. Through the years I saw signs and he'd explain them away and then came the point I just didn't care anymore... I felt like a prisoner in a loveless marriage. Oh I heard the words I love you all the time but the actions spoke so much louder. He had an affair the last six years of our marriage. I met with the woman...she told me he wanted to have a child with her. Now had she come to my door to tell me she was with child or took him to court for support...My God I could not even imagine that kind of pain. Sometimes I think I'm better off alone...that way I can never be hurt again. Being alone sucks though.
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| 4/7/2008 5:00:28 PM |
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onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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YES
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| 4/7/2008 6:07:42 PM |
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chi_towngal
Chicago, IL
age: 51
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I was both. But Thanks sumbeach because your words are exactly how I felt-My soul left my body. Now I have a little bit of soul and working on the rest.
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| 4/7/2008 9:17:25 PM |
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lindawn
Murrieta, CA
age: 52
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I was very shocked because even in his death bed when he was hospitalized and dying, he would cry and swore that he loves me very much and I'm the only woman in his life. I'm very lucky that he does not cheat, he would tell me and I will reply that it is expected because we are maried.
I was begging him for an amicable divorce when he got out of the hospital because I was so unhappy, I don't want any animosity between us because of the sacrifices I've done for him when he was dying. I've a gut feeling that he is cheating when he would disappear for weeks without calling me and will come home as if there is nothing wrong. He would even implied that I've a boyfriend if he sees something new in the house or will follow me when I go to church. I swear to God, up to the day I filed for divorce, I didn't even thought of any other man in my life.
God works in a mysterious ways, a month after I filed for divorce, on the early morning of my birthday, it came like a dream, I found all the evidences of his cheating, lies. He doesn't want to divorce me and he left his attache case in the house, thinking I wouldn't find out. Even our friends and neighbors were shocked to find out that he was cheating on me and was abusive, they thought he was a perfect husband to me.
I changed the locks of the house several times when he would disappear without calling me. His girlfriend he was banging for 30 years bought him a house, one who is so stupid, he can manipulate, and willing to be used and abused. Good luck to her. Let see if she will take care of him when he gets sick, again. I'm happier these days that he is out of my life, I'm no longer in the movie sleeping with the enemy!
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