4/9/2008 5:52:14 PM |
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collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
age: 48
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are we just vurnerable because we just want somebody to talk to?
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4/9/2008 6:02:21 PM |
are lonely women/men easy prey for others to use or just use up? |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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I'd say yes... to someone who can detect it and use it against you.
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4/9/2008 6:03:08 PM |
are lonely women/men easy prey for others to use or just use up? |
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epiphany4me
Mohave Valley, AZ
age: 47
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4/9/2008 6:04:44 PM |
are lonely women/men easy prey for others to use or just use up? |
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bry11ca
Buellton, CA
age: 43
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Oh just go ahead and try to talk . . .
Nyuck!!!
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4/9/2008 6:04:45 PM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
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Yes - I wrote in the thread about describe yourself in one word "lonely" on a particular day when I felt that and suddenly I had a guy emailing me saying he was sorry to hear I was lonely............yea right.
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4/9/2008 6:10:27 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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You're only as vulnerable as you make the choice to be
and only as stupid as your loneliness makes you
I choose to be neither.
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4/9/2008 6:24:05 PM |
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kychick
Corbin, KY
age: 56
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I have been used and I was easy prey.
when you've been told "your ugly your stupid" and the next man builds you up sometimes you fall for it. I do get lonely but I'm getting smarter and I've got more money since I got rid of him
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4/9/2008 8:56:04 PM |
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vilobo
West Monroe, LA
age: 41
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It happens to guys and gals.I just told a women who used live across from me not to
come to my house anymore.She had always used other people and make me seem great
in way of talking to me.then talk bad about other people.Turn around and try use me.
She got over on me a few times.So its hard for me to trust people I considered to
be friends now.
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4/10/2008 6:09:37 AM |
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whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 57
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i think some times, but try to keep my guard up
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4/10/2008 6:15:48 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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I feel loneliness harbors desperation and can set you up to be a target for a parasite. Especially if one doesn't do anything about their loneliness. They usually sit and fester instead of going out and getting involved in community, or spending time with friends and family, or immersing themselves in hobbies or art. Idle hands are the 's tools
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4/10/2008 7:12:56 AM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
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So now I'm stupid? Thanks babe appreciate the comment. It was just a word.
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4/10/2008 7:24:46 AM |
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
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Ge0ge hit the nail on the head....i have made some poor choices in men (and overall) as a result of loneliness...I think that i have allowed myself to fall prey to men not as a result of stupidity rather this loneliness as you are saying....i have chosen to occupy as much of my time as possible with volunteer work, studying, friends, family and work in order to stay out of "trouble"
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4/10/2008 7:29:58 AM |
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dulley
Pollard, AR
age: 69
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you need to move your arm to see if she can
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4/10/2008 8:01:37 AM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
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come on....we have to *put our big girl panties on, and deal with it*!
Please avail yourself to building your self confidence..
reach out...
ask for help.
You are here on DH...
this is a great place to gather strength,
and self awareness.
There are so many tools to work with.
Get a daily infusion of thought from your computer, sign up for some
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Go and get a free make up or make lesson at a cosmetics counter,
see your *pretty self*...have someone take a digital photo of how sparkling you
look after having someone give you some help. Your soul starts to *feel better*, and
when you radiate confidence, it shows on you.
More thoughts will be forthcoming...
Wine
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4/10/2008 8:42:58 AM |
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dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 56
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You are only a victim if you let yourself be one.Repeat it over and over till you get it..
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