I find that men in their 40's & 50's still think they're 30. And think they look 30. They want a younger woman for a ltr. Funny thing is, a younger woman isnt going to want to clean up their diapers in a few years down the road. They will take their money and run.

Hell no foreriver. The men who were with me....worshipped me and vice versa. Nice try. lol

Hello

Im 27 years old. I just had a 2 and a half year relationship end and went right into a 6 yr relationship. LTRs are so overrated. Im not looking for just a one night stand. But damn. I can't seem to find the right one. I have a 6 yr old son, 5 yr old daughter and a 2 yr old daughter. Apparently, that scares away females. i don't know what to do. Any advice??

The old saying...... "Say what you mean and mean what you say" speaks volumes in this aspect. I am 46 raising my 12 year old daughter on my own. I feel that I have to be extremely cautious as to whom I date and even more so on who and if said person gets to meet my daughter. I know what I want and will not settle for less. When it is right you know it.

Men....be honest.100% honest..... if you want a "hook up or a FWB" then be a man and say it.Dont lie and be a snake and treat a lady like trash and toss her out to move on to someone else....

Ladies.... be honest as to what you want and feel. Be wary and yes cautious but don't let the past be the judge of the future. We are not all that guy..... Don't take guy A because he is close to what you want and try to mold him into what you want...

Both....... the past is the past learn from it but do not let it control your future, guide yes, control no.

It is better to be alone that to wish you were alone..... and this way I will be until the one that is right for me, and yes my daughter, comes along.

Does anyone want a long term relationship anymore

We all want the person who will love us for who we are, and treat us right. The problem is hurt people hurt people. We are so focused on the past we miss our present blessing. I also want a long term relationship, but instead of people accepting you for who you are they want to change you to what they want you to be. We can only pray we all find the happiness, and fullfillment we are looking for.

Ya, stop having children. Why would any gal want a ready made family when she probably wants to have her own someday, especially so young. Also, don't have your girlfriends around your children for their sake.

Ive been lucky enough to have had the experiance of a good lasting ,loving relationship,,
So far havent met or been contacted by a true gentleman that knows how to treat a good woman,,and until i do ,,,I will continue to wait to meet someone sincere.....
There are so many ways a man can show caring and respect and love....but it certainly dont start with this 5 minute chemistry bullshit
You want to meet for a coffee ,,,forget that...Ive got better things to do with my time
Than to take my time to get dressed pretty to meet someone thats sizing up his next sexual adventure,,,Those jerks can haul there a** right down the road,,,,
As theres plenty,of nice people locally that have manners and good taste and charactor
i swear,,Ive never met so many idiots ,,and shallow men in my life,,as those that troll....
and Troll is a good word to describe them,,,Ill keep my freinds anyday ,,who really needs to be disrespected??? certainly not me!!!!!