| 4/21/2008 12:57:26 PM |
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eightinchbend
Gadsden, AL
age: 43 online now!
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"I Like My Wife....but I LOVE My Woman." I don't think this is a song title, but it should be. If anyone should make a hit out of it, don't forget where the title came from.
No, you are not wrong for feeling this, but you are too co-dependent in the relationship to be the first to leave. In fact, you don't want to leave at all, rather you are hoping things will work out. Eight years is a lot of time invested into a person, and to see it all wash away must be terrible. You don't know what went wrong, and you're trying to figure it out...all by yourself. He is with another woman, yet comes back to your side, so you're also making excuses for him by allowing his behaviour. You say he is "torn" between the both of you. Stop sleeping with him and see who really gets "heads or tails". In a way, you cheapen yourself because you allow him to cheapen you as a wife, a mother, and a woman.
[Edited 4/21/2008 12:58:02 PM]
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| 4/21/2008 1:01:59 PM |
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nurseguyin08
Tulsa, OK
age: 44
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He's gotta go! Basically he wants a fling without consequences. Like you said, you have more respect for yourself which is great since he has none for you.
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| 4/21/2008 11:22:14 PM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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First I don't believe there is a separated status on here. Secondly yes I did post that topic because I tried to start seeing someone instead of sitting here waiting for his sorry ass to figure out what he wants.. So yeah I posted that.. Umm big deal..
Umm, yeah, there IS a "separated" status.
So you're going to allow him to debase you by keeping him around after he cheated, and then you're going to lower yourself further by having the time-honored "retaliatory fling."
Really classy.
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| 4/22/2008 2:24:50 AM |
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merleisme
Flat Rock, MI
age: 24
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Wow that guy is a real piece of crap. A marriage relationship is mutual it shouldn't be about his wants or desires and how he's so torn. I think this guy is an ego maniac who needs to be sent out of your life as fast as possible. Its guys like him that give guys in general a bad name. This display of utter disrespect to you and your children is like a punch to the stomach when you weren't looking. If I were you I'd file for divorce get some counseling and when you are ready find a man that really knows the true meaning of being a husband and father. Your husband is still just a single little boy... He should of thought of the vows you both took before he went headlong into his lusts and desires which is obviously more important then you and your children. Its sad to see this story some fool ape of a man totally taking his wife and family for granted when most guys that are single are just waiting for the moment to share something meaningful. It really saddens me to know some people could be so low.
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| 4/22/2008 4:01:20 AM |
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daisygirl17948
Mahanoy City, PA
age: 27
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This is for Katie, ummmm is there a reason you feel the need to bust on me. ( maybe u were with him possibly too???) I mean cmon already. Secondly what I did wasn't a "fling". It was trying to move on which I couldn't do. Why bother posting if all you are here to do is criticize others?? Amazing you are the only negative post on my topic!!
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| 4/22/2008 10:47:33 AM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Eh, I don't know. Maybe I'm the only one who took the trouble to read your profile and earlier posts, and notice that you're a hypocrite.
If you can't stand to be disagreed with or not have wholehearted approval and affection from the other posters here, then don't post your personal crap in public.
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| 4/22/2008 10:51:57 AM |
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dorothy72
Maroa, IL
age: 36
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yes you are wrong you should feel that you deserve to be treated with total respect by your husband....and if you would rather play ball tell him he can move out for awhile but only if he pays all bills in the house and gives you an allowance for the local male review so you can see what you might want to be doing instead of waiting for a jackass to get his head out of some hoochies asshole
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