| 5/18/2008 9:45:21 AM |
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sidirtybird
Windsor, SC
age: 27
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I couldnt have put it better myself thatgoodhood!
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| 5/19/2008 6:20:31 AM |
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seth__
Somerset, KY
age: 19
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Guys are ready to comit! Unless they think they can do better
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| 5/19/2008 6:23:18 AM |
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seth__
Somerset, KY
age: 19
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I commit everytime I get into a relationship. Thats just how I am though. I know what I want and expect to get the same in return. Does that back fire? Is a bean green?! But atleast I know I was doing the right thing as far as my part of the relationship went.
O and I agree with this guy
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| 5/19/2008 6:59:50 AM |
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kahne06
Festus, MO
age: 29
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i think kumo n dirtybird hit it on da head....nice guys finish last n r often misunderstood n underappreciated or overlooked completely...if u want a bad boy type dats wat u gonna get a bad-boy so how u expect 2 b treated as a good woman...find someone wit a balance or abandon da badboy type completly....n if u want a committed man u gotta b a committed woman...relationshipps r like jobs...u wake up every mornin n u go 2 work...if u take days off or unecessary breaks n u not putin n work then u gonna suffer when u lookin 4 da payout or u might just get fired n replaced...if everybody did there jobs n handled there position like they should the benefits n rewards will b rich....but nice guys r just as hard 2 find as a good woman especially wit this whole independent attitudes...generations morals n values have diminished n da years past n will only continue...don't get me started though 
Don't think I could of said it better myself
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| 5/19/2008 4:22:15 PM |
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kentots
Warsaw, IL
age: 19
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This is going to sound stupid coming from a guy. I want my relationship to be deep and interconnected. I would want to be really close to where me a and my partner could do anything together, what i like and what she likes. If this doesn't happen and it takes the wrong road, i usually want to start searching again. If I am with a girl and am in a deep relationship, its going to be like a binding contract in which if you break; "beware of the penalties in which may occur". Taking this a step far, marriage is like a holy binding contract and the only loop hole I've found is if she f*cks up first with somebody else. It's about finding the right one.
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| 5/19/2008 6:28:32 PM |
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jend7777777
Knoxville, TN
age: 26
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Girl I am totally feeling you! Yes guys are afraid to commit! Then when you call them out on it, they flip it all around and make you feel like a total retard! They always manage to flip it all around!
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| 5/19/2008 7:06:06 PM |
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capitan_awesome
Delaware, OH
age: 19
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ok heres the thing some guys are scared but not all are if i can sign 4 years of my life away to the govt. then what makes you think im scared of it think before you speak your making stereotypes
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| 5/20/2008 5:19:25 AM |
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stackso9
Philadelphia, PA
age: 21
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shit you sexy
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| 5/21/2008 8:07:12 AM |
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xjws79
Lafayette, IN
age: 29
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 Guess I can't read the word was commit not comment. We'll I'm going to have a hard time with the next special someone.
Whats terrible is that I've very little wrong in my relationships but the last three have ended due in cheating. Commit to one person is almost impossible these days with all the temptation out there.
I'm a faithful person who believes if we're together it's just you and me, and if thats not good enough, then theres the door. The only time I will make the womans fault is if she couldn't be honest with me if she has feelings for someone else.
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| 5/21/2008 9:00:49 AM |
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pokerjeff
Johnston, RI
age: 22
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i don't particularly like the generalization of guys being the only ones afraid of committment. I've found that a lot of girls I know are afraid to commit to any relationship more often than the man they are with. I have no idea what makes people think that men are the ones who ruin good things because they won't commit, when women are equally at fault because they are either not committed, or they push way too hard.
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| 5/22/2008 2:06:53 AM |
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amberine
Plover, WI
age: 28
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I dont think all men are afraid to commit I think both men and woman have that fear to some degree be honest has it ever crossed your mind is he the one? that i have to wake up to forever sorta freeks you out a lil doesnt it?
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| 5/22/2008 3:57:06 PM |
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keaun69
Brooklyn, NY
age: 27
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A real man isn't afraid to commit. If that were the case there wouldn't be anyone in the world married to this day. Little boys and cowards can't commit because they can't be honest and man enough to tell their woman that they still have lust in their hearts and wanna sleep around. Not that there's anything wrong with that because to each his own, but they need to state that from jumpstreet to avoid hurting someone.
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| 5/22/2008 6:16:47 PM |
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haitianvibe07
Gaithersburg, MD
age: 22
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well i am all yours so i'm not afraid
i luv u everyday with all my heart cuz u r the one for me..the one who shines my day n make sure that i am happy.
i will now and always luv u until the end of time.
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| 6/1/2008 2:20:49 PM |
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kumo404
Atlanta, GA
age: 20
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Girl I am totally feeling you! Yes guys are afraid to commit! Then when you call them out on it, they flip it all around and make you feel like a total retard! They always manage to flip it all around!
Another generalization. I bet you didn't even read the whole thread!
Just another man hater because some guy hurt you.
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| 6/1/2008 3:01:29 PM |
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e_rod21
Newark, OH
age: 21
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I have no problem with commitment, hell I'm in the Army, which just happens to be my problem. What's with women who can't commit to a life with a service member? Come on I make great money and live a very wonderful life. That and I still think I'm to nice of an individual and allow myself to be taken advantage of by some ladies.
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