rodeom
Groton, SD
56, joined Nov. 2009
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Very few people in South Dakota site and fewer interested in anything beyond social chat.
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stringopearls
Huron, SD
60, joined Jul. 2009
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I think people in SD like to hook up in person rather than cyberspace. I could be wrong.
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fornookie
Williston, ND
35, joined Nov. 2011
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very true. most are interested in chat. but some on the other hand, care little about love, they just seek friendship. or someone out of the ordinary. most of the time, i think they are a little skeptical if youre different than a knight in shining armor on a white horse.
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groovylady1968
Huron, SD
48, joined May. 2012
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That's hog wash  ... I am looking for lots of things and don't need any knight in shiny armor because I am not a princess and don't need rescuing.
The problem is ... no one wants to take a risk and actually meet someone. I know Mr, Perfect does not exist. I don't set too many standards because I don't want to judge people. A picture can only say so much. Words can be easily misunderstood or manipulated. Actions say far more about a person than pictures and words combined.
I don't want to chat with someone for a year and never meet. After the first couple of chats and the basics are known I think we should plan to meet if both of us interested in each other. Why say you are interested and lead people on? Honesty is the best policy. Ask those hard questions and don't waste my time. Either your interested or not.
The problem is no one shows up half the time or they are not what they said they were. That's okay because it shows how much effort they would put into an relationship. They turn out to be shorter or heavier then stated. This tells me right there that this is a dishonest person and sets the whole thing off in the wrong direction. I still put an effort in getting to know the person. If nothing happens after we meet that's okay. Either you like me or not. I will tell you like it is and give you more time to set things right.
I am honest from the very start and remain honest forever. If you can't accept me for who I am when we meet than I am cool with that. It goes both ways. I am not afraid to meet a man and get to know them in person. In 3 months I met one guy and it did not work out. Now I am chatting with a few guys to get the basics down and planning to meet one later this week if he don't chicken out.
I am, who I am, from sun up to sun set. I am the same in moonlight that I am on a sunny day. I don't melt in the rain and when the clouds are heavy in the sky, I am just me. I am true to myself and that makes it easier to be true to the people I meet online or in everyday life. It's simple ... you either like me or you don't. No hard feelings! Just be honest, 
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