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ida_bourquin
Gridley, CA
59, joined Jul. 2012
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There are 2 separate loves ... being IN love and loving somebody ... I was and still am IN love with my deceased husband and always will be ... but I still have hopes of loving another.
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| 7/14/2012 11:46:22 PM |
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idunggaveup
Cheyenne, WY
60, joined Apr. 2012
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Not possible. I have a lot of love to give. But I'm old, fat, and visually impared. No man is willing to look past all that and see me for who I really am. I'll spend the rest of my life alone.
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| 7/15/2012 12:07:07 AM |
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blondie55_56
Rockwall, TX
62, joined Sep. 2011
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I've tried a couple of times but I'm of the conclusion that it will have to be a widower cause they are not filled with so much mistrust and anger over their lost spouse..just saying...what I've experienced. 
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| 7/15/2012 12:58:34 PM |
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lmanderson
Carson City, NV
70, joined Mar. 2012
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I hope God has a plan for me that includes a new partner, I am 65 and not ready to accept the total loneliness I feel for ever.
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| 7/15/2012 3:39:57 PM |
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pingeye2
Savannah, GA
64, joined Jun. 2011
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I've tried a couple of times but I'm of the conclusion that it will have to be a widower cause they are not filled with so much mistrust and anger over their lost spouse..just saying...what I've experienced.
Hell, I find that in divorced women, not widows. Lots of mistrust in them.
I, personally, stopped looking. If it comes along, it does. If it doesn't, so be it.
But, what you speak of is NOT exclusive with widows/widowers.
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| 7/15/2012 9:31:23 PM |
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blondie55_56
Rockwall, TX
62, joined Sep. 2011
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Hell, I find that in divorced women, not widows. Lots of mistrust in them.
I, personally, stopped looking. If it comes along, it does. If it doesn't, so be it.
But, what you speak of is NOT exclusive with widows/widowers.
I think you may have read it wrong..I'm saying divorcees seem to have mistrust etc...not widow or widowers..???
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| 7/16/2012 12:42:51 PM |
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bulldog62
Sparks, NV
71, joined Aug. 2007
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Will I ever fall in love again? That's a very hard question to answer. I lost my best friend and lover 5 years ago and I don't know if I could let myself fall in love with another woman again. I really don't know if I'm strong enough to handle it again.
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| 7/16/2012 5:19:02 PM |
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pingeye2
Savannah, GA
64, joined Jun. 2011
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I think you may have read it wrong..I'm saying divorcees seem to have mistrust etc...not widow or widowers..???
I did, I apologize.
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| 7/16/2012 9:11:27 PM |
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2shacks
Concord, NC
54, joined Jun. 2010
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Never thought I would .. glad it happened. Didn't plan it
... wasn't looking.. glad it did
It was a little odd at first.. I 'thought ' too much.. the guilt comes in.the happiness & that hole filling in is worth stepping out there. 
Now.. when talking to someone & you get an uncomfortable feeling
Don't ignore it. Some will try to pressure..
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| 7/17/2012 10:05:42 AM |
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lockitta69
Los Angeles, CA
24, joined Jul. 2012
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well its hard 2 say cuz wen my special person died I waz like we were abt 2 get in a relationship an we had lots of plans 4 me an him but now there's nuthin of dat so a 1yr an a half passed an I had fell in love again wit dis guy from here first we were tlk an den we be came bf an gf an wen da happen we had lots of problems an there dis one time da he said its over between me an u 4 me it waz well I guess da I've all waz been heart broken an I don't think da ill find da person be any waz we broked uo an I felt sad an from da day on there's haven't been haPpy ness in me but I try not 2 be like da an have fun so dats wat I do in stead of beenin home an beenin sad I rather be wit my friends an have fun dats all I gotta say I think 
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| 7/22/2012 11:39:21 PM |
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letusing
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Feb. 2009
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My hearts open! height, & weight,race, dosen't matter here no matter how near or far you are
Im a risk taker 365 days a yr Im nothing but business you all from 8-4 M-Fri,have a good one on me sugar!, sig;sing 
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| 7/24/2012 7:20:58 PM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
69, joined Sep. 2009
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Don't have an aversion to it. Who knows?
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| 7/25/2012 4:33:49 AM |
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dittyceo
Riverdale, GA
40, joined Jul. 2012
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As God as my witness, I certainly hope so.....
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| 7/25/2012 6:32:00 AM |
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smileynatl1
Atlanta, GA
36, joined Jul. 2012
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Love is a beautiful thing when its real and although I dont wear my heart on my sleeve I pray that I will meet my king and fall in love...i want that old fashioned courting type of love my mom and dad had...not this here one day, gone the next modern day ish thats in the air these days!!
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| 7/25/2012 12:28:06 PM |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
69, joined Sep. 2009
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well its hard 2 say cuz wen my special person died I waz like we were abt 2 get in a relationship an we had lots of plans 4 me an him but now there's nuthin of dat so a 1yr an a half passed an I had fell in love again wit dis guy from here first we were tlk an den we be came bf an gf an wen da happen we had lots of problems an there dis one time da he said its over between me an u 4 me it waz well I guess da I've all waz been heart broken an I don't think da ill find da person be any waz we broked uo an I felt sad an from da day on there's haven't been haPpy ness in me but I try not 2 be like da an have fun so dats wat I do in stead of beenin home an beenin sad I rather be wit my friends an have fun dats all I gotta say I think
Hon, please please learn to talk. Your parent(s) didn''t teach you to talk like that. It sounds so juvenile and silly. Now start speaking in proper English.
You're very very young and all will be well with you. Get your education and become self sufficient. Choices choices. It's a real world out there and you need to be adult in your actions and speech.
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| 8/4/2012 5:25:01 PM |
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txgal23
Lampasas, TX
65, joined Apr. 2009
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I've read some of the post and I see that there are those like myself that isn't really sure if love will be found again..I was married to a wonderful man for over 26 years, and lost him in 2007 to cancer..We went through so much together in life..The hard times-good times-great and wonderful times..We were a match made by God..I once tesed him about how God had brought us together and that that would be the only way he would ever loss me..
I suppose what most surprises me about todays dating is they haven't changed all that much, which is sad..Who knows maybe one day someone will walk into my life and sparks will fly..
Blessings to all...Deb
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| 8/21/2012 8:08:32 AM |
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sassybigmomma
Columbia, SC
40, joined Aug. 2012
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IT IS BETTER TO BE LOVED THEN NOT TO BE LOVE AT ALL.
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| 8/21/2012 10:47:21 AM |
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bstorygood
Pond Creek, OK
62, joined Aug. 2012
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It's been two years since my husband of 39 years passed suddenly. I was so devastated the first year and half of the second year. But now I am tired of being alone. I will never find the same kind of love my husband and I had from high school age. But I am open to what God puts before me.
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| 8/26/2012 5:15:17 PM |
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jacquee1963
Cleveland, OH
53, joined Aug. 2012
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took me a long time to get to this point. jumping in with both feet and hope i land safely.the only thing keeping me sane is God. i was so lost, but took the time to find me again. it's so different now. people are too casual about certain things, and i can't trade in my principles for it. that first chapter of my life was beautiful, so i know the second half will be awesome. Because i truly believe, that what's for me is for me and no other. so right now, i'm basically getting my feet wet by going on dates, while i wait for Mr Right to enter my life. we're not meant to go through life alone, even though some choose to.
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| 8/26/2012 6:23:06 PM |
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akateddybear
East Stroudsburg, PA
67, joined Nov. 2011
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If I were asked that 2yrs ago NO  1 yr ago No
^months ago Yes
This was my reply in MARCH
MY REPLY TODAY
YES YES YES
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| 8/26/2012 6:26:54 PM |
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moonbeams73
Grand Rapids, MN
62, joined Sep. 2009
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YUP! In a wonderful relationship now!
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| 8/28/2012 12:36:48 PM |
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utsw
Salt Lake City, UT
53, joined Apr. 2012
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I hope I will fall in love again. I was married for almost 26 years when he passed away at the age of 45. The question for me it how far will the relationship go. I am getting used to being alone after 4 1/2 years. Will I get married again? I just don't know. I know I do want someone to do things with and travel with, but someone there 24/7 I don't think I am ready for that again.
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| 8/28/2012 10:41:32 PM |
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whistlerblue
Lancaster, CA
59, joined Jun. 2010
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Yes, I think I will, some day. I've reconnected with an old High School friend and we are getting to know each other all over again. We're both going slow but there is a lot of potential.
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| 8/30/2012 2:42:53 PM |
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akateddybear
East Stroudsburg, PA
67, joined Nov. 2011
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ONLY IF YOU WANT TO
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| 8/30/2012 4:45:58 PM |
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hugandakiss_xo
Merritt, NC
62, joined Jul. 2011
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I have no problem of falling in love again. Ive just got to find some one to love me
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| 9/10/2012 4:51:26 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Ms Sing
I have always been in love and will continue in the frame of mind the rest of my living days. I do not believe that one 'falls in' love but is born filled with love. Some of that love is shared more with someone near and dear to them.
Likewise, I do not believe that one 'falls out' of love. I just think that the amount of love having once been shared has been turned back a notch or two, for any variety of reasons.
Would/Could I love deeply for another person again? Oh, yes!
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| 9/10/2012 5:47:09 PM |
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brightbluestar
Port Orange, FL
72, joined Jul. 2012
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WELL EVEN IF I WANT SO HARD TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN I CAN'T FIND THE RIGHT MEN. LIKE SOMEBODY DAID: AT OUR AGE IT'S NOT EASY.
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| 9/11/2012 1:32:48 AM |
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gwwrn
Lawrenceville, GA
61, joined Jun. 2010
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Yes, you will.
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| 9/11/2012 10:10:59 AM |
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imbill1962
Snellville, GA
55, joined May. 2012
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of course you will. you don't go looking for love it might make a really good song but it's not real life. how you meet your spouse? Did you chase them, did they chase you, did you meet by happenstance? You weren't looking for it, it just happened. Don't close yourself in a box that you cannot be found. Love will find you again. Just don't hide from it.
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| 9/13/2012 12:05:22 PM |
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dulow21
California City, CA
36, joined Aug. 2012
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my hubby pasted too soon ! im young,with four kids! i try an move on but i keep letting go! its hard to let sumone in! i have kids so i have to due whats rite for them! but how due i let go? how due i love again,if i dont know how? my mind is up an down!
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| 9/20/2012 5:07:08 PM |
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puddleofink
Chicago, IL
35, joined Apr. 2011
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No.
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| 9/20/2012 6:56:05 PM |
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kari214
Puyallup, WA
34, joined Aug. 2012
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I'm only 29 and lost my husband last year. I'm hoping to fall in love again. It's hard being a young widow. I really never thought I would lose my husband to cancer  
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| 9/21/2012 7:44:12 AM |
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crash60
Guntersville, AL
57, joined Nov. 2011
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I'm not looking for love  therefore,I hope that I'll be wise enough to recognize it if it comes in my life again.
Most important: I'm not looking to MAKE it happen but I'd be willing to LET it happen.
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| 9/21/2012 2:06:35 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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To heck with " falling in love again " ..
Just.....
 
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-XoXoXoX-
 
 Digital Dog
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| 9/23/2012 8:07:00 AM |
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bamagirl0773
Theodore, AL
44, joined Sep. 2012
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No I don't. I thought I did and even remarried someone 4 yrs after my first husbands death. Big mistake.....I don't think I'll ever get over the loss, I just live with it.
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| 9/23/2012 10:46:54 AM |
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pingeye2
Savannah, GA
64, joined Jun. 2011
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No I don't. I thought I did and even remarried someone 4 yrs after my first husbands death. Big mistake.....I don't think I'll ever get over the loss, I just live with it.
Sorry to hear that.
Perhaps you tried to hard to replace your husband.
Instead of looking for your lost love, wait for love to come again.
We're all different.
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| 9/23/2012 1:44:35 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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I don'y know bout any " love again "...
But..
I'm wondering......
how do I get rid of the skeletons in my closet....
that might frighten my new wife when I find one...??.
 
-XoXoXoX-
Digital Dogp>
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| 9/23/2012 5:47:20 PM |
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wanna_dance
Boca Raton, FL
72, joined Aug. 2008
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I consider my “dating pool” to be single women in their 50’s and 60’s. So far (about 6 years), I have found that, within this group, many women genuinely want to be in a romantic relationship, but simply do not have time for the following reasons, none of which are “wrong”, they just “are”:
Many still work full or part-time or volunteer, which occupies many hours each week;
They may be taking care of a parent or two;
They have children in the area that, of course, they want to see;
They have grandchildren that they want to baby sit so their children can have time to themselves;
They have friends or family that visit or they need to go visit;
They have girlfriends they need to see and do “girly” things with;
They have a hobby or two that I don’t enjoy (golf, tennis, boating, etc,);
They have all the routine “stuff of life” that every woman has (hair, nails, shopping);
All of the above seems to leave 4 hours on a Saturday night twice a month available for dating.
Unfortunately, this 8 hours a month is not enough time to build a close, caring, loving relationship.
Yes, many of the above could be enjoyable shared activities AFTER a relationship has been created, but not things to do together BEFORE a relationship has been created.
Many also feel they have spent most of their life, until now, pleasing others and see the time now as “Me” time. A time to do whatever they want, when they choose to do it without consulting or discussing it with anyone. I can completely understand that feeling and cannot fault it, however, it does not lead to cultivating a relationship.
Also, some are snow birds that are merely looking for some South Florida entertainment for a few months.
I absolutely admire and envy the full and complete life they have built without a man, but they are at least fooling themselves into thinking they have time for a relationship.
Of course, I hear, “If a woman really wants to be with you, she will MAKE time for you.” Unfortunately, I don’t want to be in the same category with an oil change.
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| 9/23/2012 8:26:44 PM |
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lbrister
Sykesville, MD
63, joined Apr. 2011
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I really want to. Would prefer not to spend the rest of my life alone.
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| 9/24/2012 2:55:29 AM |
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hugandakiss_xo
Merritt, NC
62, joined Jul. 2011
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I am looking for love.... hoping someday it will happen !
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| 9/24/2012 3:00:40 AM |
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hugandakiss_xo
Merritt, NC
62, joined Jul. 2011
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No I don't. I thought I did and even remarried someone 4 yrs after my first husbands death. Big mistake.....I don't think I'll ever get over the loss, I just live with it.
I am looking for love not a replacement ! I don't want the same kind of man it would never work. It is fine to continue to love your deceased love ... But as far as I can see my heart has plenty or room for a new love.
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| 9/24/2012 5:11:34 AM |
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bornforyou1951
Fort Lauderdale, FL
66, joined May. 2012
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If LOVE hasnt died in everybody i meet, maybe, i can love again. I just dont know where my mate is and I need him!.
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| 9/24/2012 5:18:57 AM |
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newdirection6
Wellsville, OH
63, joined Nov. 2007
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Hummmmmmmmmmm.....I have decided if it happens it happens...would love to find someone to love again. I am tired of being by myself...I don't want to grow old by myself...
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| 9/27/2012 7:16:43 PM |
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sagittarius78
Monroe, NC
38, joined Aug. 2012
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Good question...so far I've been unsuccessful,those are big shoes to fill! Ive been single for close to 2 1/2 years now and not one person has made me feel the way he did. It gets lonely sometimes but im patiently waiting..I have all my faith and trust in God but it still hurts,really miss him alot.But to each of you stay encouraged and the best of luck bc its hard out here for us,after being with someone so long u notice things in the dating world has changed tremendously.
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| 9/27/2012 7:37:03 PM |
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sunshine_761
Meridian, MS
55, joined May. 2011
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I sure hope so. It has been almost 4 years and I am still young. I don't want to live another 20-30 years plus alone. I've lived alone way too much in my life. I have dated 2 men with whom I could have fallen in love with had the relationship not ended (their decision - more or less). I know my late husband would not want me to be alone as well. He would want me to find someone to be happy with. Someone to take care of me. That's the way he thought/felt. Had I gone first I would have wanted him to find someone as well. We are not meant to be alone.
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| 10/8/2012 7:43:47 PM |
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jkat7
Fairfax, VA
42, joined Oct. 2012
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Crash60 - good way to put it!
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| 10/8/2012 8:41:06 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 10/8/2012 11:45:47 PM |
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fallenangel0485
Waukesha, WI
31, joined Feb. 2010
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My bf died at the end of Feb and I thought I would give this a try not really sure if I should even try because I still cry from time to time... my big thing is when I go out with someone and they ask about my last bf what do I say? When I say what happens they get all werid on me
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| 10/9/2012 12:22:36 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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  The Digital Doggie says:
---- >> " I DEFINITELY want to fall in love again " 
and find me a woman......!!!
Someone I can make my " moves ' on...
 ( and I is usin all my puter abilities
so I'll be able to pinpoint my possible targets dates
and I'll never dance alone again..!!!! ) 
 
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| 10/25/2012 4:05:47 PM |
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mrsgeneva
Yuba City, CA
46, joined Aug. 2012
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I keep tellin myself its ok to want to start dating but the guilt and the feeling I have for my hubbu are too strong. I'm 41 an I'm at the point were no ones gonna want a chubby mom who's still in desperate love with her dead husband..I'm lost and my shrimk really needs to get laid cuz he's not helpin AT ALL lol ty for listening or reading..input would be greatly appreciated..
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| 10/25/2012 9:07:07 PM |
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labella
Bordentown, NJ
61, joined May. 2006
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Yes, I sure hope to. I think being in love is good for the soul, great for the heart and brings laughter back into ones life.
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| 10/26/2012 2:47:14 PM |
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rockerchristina
Melrose, MN
48, joined Jun. 2012
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I dont think im going to meet anyone on this site. Im going to stick with the guys i see and giving up on finding love.
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| 10/26/2012 4:25:21 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Yes!
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| 10/26/2012 9:40:41 PM |
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bigbearmn
Saint Cloud, MN
53, joined Jun. 2012
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I wish I could fall in love again. But, I have faith in finding love again. But,One day yes I will fall in love again ..
Hugs, Mike
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| 10/29/2012 8:35:47 PM |
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cowboy815
Jefferson, SD
66, joined Apr. 2012
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I thought I did, but all she did was asking for money and really didn't give a shit how I felt. She could have had the moon and the stars but choice a homeless guy to love
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| 11/21/2012 3:40:47 PM |
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vida60
Norman, OK
56, joined Jul. 2012
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I'm not looking for love therefore,I hope that I'll be wise enough to recognize it if it comes in my life again.
Most important: I'm not looking to MAKE it happen but I'd be willing to LET it happen.
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| 11/21/2012 3:58:17 PM |
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titan95
Water Valley, KY
40, joined Mar. 2011
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It would be nice, but I don't think it will be on this site. I mean what do I know it's up to god
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| 11/21/2012 9:59:54 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012
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No!
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| 11/22/2012 4:45:32 AM |
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pingeye2
Savannah, GA
64, joined Jun. 2011
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It would be nice, but I don't think it will be on this site. I mean what do I know it's up to god
Some people move forward, some don't. I'm sorry that some don't, and choose to live in hurt.
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| 11/22/2012 6:42:59 PM |
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txgal23
Lampasas, TX
65, joined Apr. 2009
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I would pray that I am able to find love again someday..God did not mean for us to be alone in life..
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