Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.

6/19/2012 7:21:29 AM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
beagledude85 Auburn, ME 32, joined Jul. 2011	Ok, most of us (if not all) have been shot down at one point or another. I'm just wondering if any of the ladies out there can help us out. Things like: how do we dress decently without coming off as a preppy tool. Or what's the best balance of self assurance without coming off as cocky. If I go out, I like to make sure I dress nicely and look presentable after a long day where I've been covered with grim. If I offer to buy a person a drink, it's not that I want to get into your pants, but to have an excuse to continue our conversation. Yet, it seems like women see these things and assume I'm some kind of tool or player. Ladies, give a guy a bit of advice. Guys, share your techniques that have worked... preferably the ones that don't make us look like idiots. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
6/19/2012 11:22:20 PM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
baileybabe Biddeford, ME 33, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: Well i can tell you this. Internet dating is not the place to go for advices or picking up women. You just need to go to places where you would meet other people who are alike you. Speaking of which, if you're a loser, poor, welfare user, drug addict.... internet dating suits you. Otherwise, it just wont work. There are places to go to meet quality people. Maine is not an ideal state for young and active people, it's a welfare state lol. You could consider moving out of Maine and the odds to find an ideal match would be greater. u have a lot to say..... u must know so much at a young age. im none of them things an just cuz ur bitter an act like these sites are a joke, let me tell u something...u are on here too! weird??? maybe if u took some tips too u would learn what women like an are looking for i think its a gerat idea even if u dont find someone online ....just saying
6/20/2012 8:59:02 AM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
allistarr Bath, ME 25, joined Jun. 2012	Well, I can't speak for all women, but personally there are things that I watch for, red flags so to speak... 1) You just met me, and you start jumping to pet names like hun, love, sweety, baby, beautiful, sexy, etc. I don't know why but personally I would rather him get to know me before presuming such familiarity. 2)Drinks, well, I am not yet legally allowed to drink but I have attended my fair share of parties and get-togethers if you will, and it's not about the ACTION of buying a drink for a lady, its HOW you act it out. If YOU decide that she would do well with a shot, it tells us that you don't want to get to know us, you want to get us drunk. If you subtly send a glass of wine from across the room, it says you want to get to know us, but you would like to respect our distance. Not to mention, if you send the house wine we will know your cheap, if you send a slightly higher class of wine, we will know you are either flaunting your bank account or just trying to impress us. My personal opinion, approach us, ask us if you CAN buy us a drink, and then ask us what we would like. Sincere, respectful, and you aren't pushing anything on us. 3)Dress - Personally, I don't judge a book by it's cover but for the most part, people do. I would say, dress comfortable but dress for the place you are going. Ex. Dive bar - jeans and a nice tee shirt. Sit down resturant - Clean and unripped jeans with perhaps a button down shirt, no tie unless three stars or more. Coffee house, well, there really is no dress code for that... etc. Just a lil note here, it's not so much about how you dress, it's how you act. Remember your table manners, please and thank you's and for Gods sake, chew with your mouth closed no belching at the table! Once again, can't speak for all the women out there but here are a few things that I would watch for. Main point, Actions speak louder than words but we listen to the words too. -Allistarr
6/23/2012 7:04:47 AM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
baileybabe Biddeford, ME 33, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: In case you hadn't notice, it's da internet! Take my remarks with a grain of salt if you wish. Dont assume that i'm bitter with internet. It's filled with bad and good. Many quality individuals usually dont resort to a internet dating site to land a date. landing a date in the public is fairly easy. You just need to know what to do, if not.... sorry your loss. Perhaps you should not jump the gun and save yourself the typing time. During my spare time after work and school(late evening), i like to browse the web and post way on forum(s).... is there something wrong with that? nothing wrong with it but u dont have to be so mean.
6/24/2012 10:19:31 PM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
bipbop13 Bangor, ME 49, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: i'm not . That was a honest post. Only person who i'm mean toward to is that a**hole who is trolling the forums. It appears it was a success, the troll has migrated. And you can't make a complete sentence. You have a girlfriend too. So why ARE you here?
6/24/2012 10:21:58 PM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
bipbop13 Bangor, ME 49, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from baileybabe: u have a lot to say..... u must know so much at a young age. im none of them things an just cuz ur bitter an act like these sites are a joke, let me tell u something...u are on here too! weird??? maybe if u took some tips too u would learn what women like an are looking for i think its a gerat idea even if u dont find someone online ....just saying That's the funniest thing I've read today. Way to give it to the little troll. He calls me a troll because I reply to his disrespectful posts to some of the women on here. I would say he's a troll simply for the fact that he's on a singles site, but has a girlfriend!
6/25/2012 2:44:00 AM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
dougiem Tucson, AZ 36, joined Aug. 2009	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.) [Edited 6/25/2012 2:44:35 AM ]
6/25/2012 8:35:05 AM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
sober53 Portland, ME 29, joined Jul. 2011	Its alright you just need help, and a life.
6/26/2012 8:45:03 PM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
bipbop13 Bangor, ME 49, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: It's ok, you're the jealous one. Please refer to other posts above this one. It pretty much summed up a few reasons why YOU and other sad f**kers are having a hard time with internet dating. Are you SURE you have a girlfriend? She must be pretty immature to put up with your drivel. And why get so upset pal, it's just da INteRnETz!!(boy what a waste of space on earth)
7/1/2012 9:05:39 PM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
bipbop13 Bangor, ME 49, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: totally, she's awesome actually, but thank you for the laugh. troll Wow, that answer doesn't even fit the quote. And again, someone who is here looking for a relationship is not a troll. Someone who is in here just to post crap cause its da internetZ, so it's just fine, and has a girlfriend already (yeah right) is a troll. Someday when you grow out of your underoos you'll understand.
7/3/2012 9:24:51 PM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
bipbop13 Bangor, ME 49, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: get the thumb out of your ass, you lazy f**k I don't even know who or what you're talking about anymore. Obviously the meth & bath salts have gone to your head junior.
7/5/2012 10:42:04 AM	Tips for the guys out there: Ladies, you're up.
bipbop13 Bangor, ME 49, joined Nov. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: awesome, trolling to a whole new level. Yes you are. Love your new pic with your girlfriend.

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