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gotlov3
Southgate, MI
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Just want to start a topic here for ladies that can see single dads in there area.... hope its a good idea!h
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mrbigblk69
Livingston, TX
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yes i am i single dad jus lookin for a gurl who dnt mind a guy wit kids i hve a beautiful daughter named serenity nichole nd a handsome son named nathan paul
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bluehope518
Prague
Czech Republic
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I've been a full-time single dad for 9yrs now, just trying to find a good girl with or without kids
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ascythe
Pleasant Hill, MO
35, joined May. 2010
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I'm a awesome single dad...
Sounds like a good post to me. Hard to find ladies interested, even though if were doing our dad work were not a tool or deadbeat. (That keeps us kinda busy and hidden tho! )
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ascythe
Pleasant Hill, MO
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Sounds like a good post to me!
Kinda slim finding good ladies who want us dads. Keeps us a bit busy and out of sight! Were good alternate to those tools and deadbeats IMO.
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fordguy83
Saint Cloud, FL
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Good post but women dont like dads whohave their children. I tell women I have 2 young children 1&3 they run as fast as they can
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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Think you guys should add whether you're full time dads or weekend's only.
I dont have near the same respect for single dad's who only get their kids on the weekends.
I am a full time single mother.
I dont get weekends off or have a built in babysitter cause my kids dad isnt apart of our lives at all.
Looking for the same in a guy is virtually impossible.
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dlp619
Canyon Country, CA
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Full time dad 24/7
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jordan311
Youngstown, OH
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My son comes first no matter what and always will. If that keeps me single so be it...
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baknight1110
Cedar Park, TX
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have custody of my 11 year old son for over s year now
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blackrocker78
San Antonio, TX
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I'm a 24/7 parent too. I admire a man who demonstrates his masculinity by being a good father whether he has Full custody Or not. I wish this thread had more men on it. Sad, but three cheers to you who are here. Your children' s love will always be yours.
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gotlov3
Southgate, MI
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I have my kids every wed and every other weekend
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sar100
San Antonio, TX
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I have 50/50 custody of my kids and the week that I don't have them is slow and lonely. I rather be a full time dad, but god had different plan for me.
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stereo101
Corpus Christi, TX
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Single dad 24/7 for 8 yrs of 8 yr old young lady.
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210bebe4u
San Antonio, TX
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I would like to commend all single fathers who step up and take responsibility. I am a single full-time mother of a 2yr old boy and a 9 month old baby and it is hard! Esp. If the dad doesnt do his part AT ALL, doesnt support or care to see them bc he chooses alcohol over his responsibilities. But im blessed to have a job that helps me support my children. God bless all you single responsible daddy's you.guys rock 
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cwise2982
Houston, TX
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I am a full time dad. Its not impossible w are to far away
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mysticcobra
Mc Queeney, TX
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I am a relatively new single day I mainly have my son everyday I don't work. It is hard to find time to go out by myself but he is an awesome 10 year old we have lots I fun with each other.
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kmur2phy
Plainfield, NJ
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us real men need us some real females 
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a_ric
Vacaville, CA
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anna302010
Ozark, MO
Think you guys should add whether you're full time dads or weekend's only.
I dont have near the same respect for single dad's who only get their kids on the weekends.
I am a full time single mother.
I dont get weekends off or have a built in babysitter cause my kids dad isnt apart of our lives at all.
Looking for the same in a guy is virtually impossible.
I personally find this remark completely insulting and degrading, regardless if a father only gets his kid on weekends or not doesn't make a Part Time Father!
A Father or a Dad is a DAD! 
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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I personally find this remark completely insulting and degrading, regardless if a father only gets his kid on weekends or not doesn't make a Part Time Father!
A Father or a Dad is a DAD!
Thats your perogative. Your feelings are YOUR responsability. Not mine.
Im not going to spare anyone's feelings or coddle you men like I would a child.
The reality is that the responsabilities of a full time parent are COMPLETELY different.
If you want a pat on the head & a gold star for the day, just cause you've seen your kid in the last month find someone else. Sure as hell wont be me.
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rtb88
Henderson, NV
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I don't think he was trying to "win you over". Just saying he loves his child just as much as a full time father.
Your ex may have left you or you left him. Whatever the case, but not all men try to ditch their kids. Plenty of fathers want their kids badly and don't get them. 50/50 is usually the best a man can get if he's lucky.
You honestly just sound like you let your one bad experience base your view on the rest of the world. Just seems a bit closed minded. Please don't tell me I'm asking you to coddle me either. That's just a combination of weird and ridiculous. Can't believe you said it the first time.
      
Okay ..... these signs are fun.
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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I don't think he was trying to "win you over". Just saying he loves his child just as much as a full time father.
Your ex may have left you or you left him. Whatever the case, but not all men try to ditch their kids. Plenty of fathers want their kids badly and don't get them. 50/50 is usually the best a man can get if he's lucky.
You honestly just sound like you let your one bad experience base your view on the rest of the world. Just seems a bit closed minded. Please don't tell me I'm asking you to coddle me either. That's just a combination of weird and ridiculous. Can't believe you said it the first time.
I've been dating over half my life. I've had more than ONE bad experience in that time. I get that you would ASSume I am bitter or harshly judging men. But im not.
Im just stating the fact that the responsabilities of a full time parent are totally different than that of a weekend only type situation. Im sure there are aspects of being a weekend parent that I dont get as well. Such as trying to shove as much positive influence on your kid in a very limited amount of time.
His response was to prematurely judge the fact that I said I hold more respect for those fathers who struggle on a DAILY basis (because I can relate), as an insult to weekend dads.
Which isnt true.
I actually know men in real life who are awesome weekend dads because thats all they are allowed to get. I feel sorry for them and sympathize with what they are going through.
The idea that you find it necessary to dismiss my opinion as the bitter rantings of a woman "with one bad experience" just proves your immaturity for thinking so.
Btw, I dont think your asking to get coddled. I think you are posturing so that women will be less inclined to dismiss you as too young to know wtf you're talking about.
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curvycharms
Starkville, MS
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My son comes first no matter what and always will. If that keeps me single so be it...
QFT!
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simpleguy1974
Loxley, AL
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Fulltime dad here"(have them 24/7 )seems like women don't want single dads.
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latinknight213
North Las Vegas, NV
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Im a 24/7 daddy lol! All worth it.
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ad559
Fresno, CA
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Full time dad of three kids! Can not even get a first date!!! Why ladies? I have three degrees a job two houses ....stable! What gives?
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tonguekiss79
Wappingers Falls, NY
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Single dad here. Joint custody have my baby boy every weekend and Monday's and some Tuesday's too. Just checking in.
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| 7/25/2012 7:39:28 AM |
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tonguekiss79
Wappingers Falls, NY
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Oh hey pretty lady
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| 7/25/2012 9:36:34 AM |
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gibsongaming
Howell, NJ
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Full time dad of three kids! Can not even get a first date!!! Why ladies? I have three degrees a job two houses ....stable! What gives?
From what I've seen, this is my OPINION.. as SOME of the men here and myself KNOW we are good men and responsible and loving, caring and all that, and we are Full time dads.
I constantly see the women saying this "Where are all the good men?" What they really mean is "Where are all the Hot supermodel looking men?" Because that's what I am gathering from this. They keep asking this question because they are clicking past the average looking guy that is very responsible and a full time dad just because he is Bald, or has a pot belly or he just isn't attractive.
But that's the answer to "Where are all the good men?"
We are right in your damn face. You have to sacrifice or "Settle" for one thing if you can't get both.
Can't have your cake and eat it too. 
That's just my 2 cents. Take it as you will, if it offended any women I'm sorry but that's what I feel is the reason behind it and why the genuine "good guys" get passed by.
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sarcasticsteph
Moorhead, MN
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Again doesn’t mean all women don’t want a single dad for those of you how asked. Could just be you. Many women don't care. The one thing I question when the dad is given full custody over the mom is, what did she do? Most often the split is 50/50 or care of the very young ones is given to the mother. Makes me wonder what she did to not have the 50/50 or custodial custody, and will there be a ton of mamma drama to deal with. That is what a lot of women would be worried about. If im bringing my own children into a possible volatile situation I will think twice about it.
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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I constantly see the women saying this "Where are all the good men?" What they really mean is "Where are all the Hot supermodel looking men?" Because that's what I am gathering from this. They keep asking this question because they are clicking past the average looking guy that is very responsible and a full time dad just because he is Bald, or has a pot belly or he just isn't attractive.
QFT
I dont know about these other ladies but if a guy looks too good I fu*kin pass him up without thinkin twice.
So if this excuse isnt ridiculous. Then its certainly reversed.
Most single fathers dont look for single MOTHERS.
We dont look 18 anymore.
We have stretchmarks and cellulite. Some maybe struggling with spider veins and thinning hair from the stress of it all.
And heaven forbid a woman has more than one child.
Sure a MILF is great for a fun-time-fu*k but who wants to date someone that never has the ability to actually go OUT on a date?
I see men on here complaining all the time about getting passed up because their looks arent perfect. AND visa versa.
But for some strange reason most men will treat it as if that street goes one way.
So why not pull your head out of your a** and try looking for someone thats not "happy, accommodating and stays in shape".
Life is a series of comprimises.
So instead of whining like you got a cold (aka a baby) and try comprimising YOUR standards for once.
I would apologise for offending those of you who dont fit this discription. But if you doubt my assessment go for a stroll in Man's Land.
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gibsongaming
Howell, NJ
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QFT
I dont know about these other ladies but if a guy looks too good I fu*kin pass him up without thinkin twice.
So if this excuse isnt ridiculous. Then its certainly reversed.
Most single fathers dont look for single MOTHERS.
We dont look 18 anymore.
We have stretchmarks and cellulite. Some maybe struggling with spider veins and thinning hair from the stress of it all.
And heaven forbid a woman has more than one child.
Sure a MILF is great for a fun-time-fu*k but who wants to date someone that never has the ability to actually go OUT on a date?
I see men on here complaining all the time about getting passed up because their looks arent perfect. AND visa versa.
But for some strange reason most men will treat it as if that street goes one way.
So why not pull your head out of your a** and try looking for someone thats not "happy, accommodating and stays in shape".
Life is a series of comprimises.
So instead of whining like you got a cold (aka a baby) and try comprimising YOUR standards for once.
I would apologise for offending those of you who dont fit this discription. But if you doubt my assessment go for a stroll in Man's Land.
Marry me 
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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Marry me
Maybe... Shoot me a pic of your belly button and we'll see! 
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gibsongaming
Howell, NJ
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Maybe... Shoot me a pic of your belly button and we'll see!
Hold on, let me go clean it first 
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jersey81
Houston, TX
35, joined Feb. 2010
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I had custody of my daughter since she was 6 months old..shes now 4
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| 7/25/2012 10:54:11 AM |
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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Hold on, let me go clean it first
If its not a big ol Budha belly button dont bother...
Just sayin!
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gibsongaming
Howell, NJ
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If its not a big ol Budha belly button dont bother...
Just sayin!
Well there sure as hell isn't a 6 pack around it
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anna302010
Republic, MO
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Well there sure as hell isn't a 6 pack around it
That means less than nothing to me.
Any connoisseur of belly buttons will tell you there are many types. But not all of them are fun to play with.
BEST belly button I ever encountered was an innie AND an outie!
Anyways... Moving on!
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jayanimal
Rittman, OH
41, joined Feb. 2012
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I'm a full time single dad and it's amazing how most of you ladies say you want a good man but the good men are raising their kids and not in a bar! Give us dads a chance and then you will finally get treated like a lady should be!
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nerdfighterlike
White Lake, MI
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I am a full time dad my ex takes them maybe one weekend a month and trys to ask me for money!
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| 7/26/2012 1:17:29 PM |
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latinknight213
North Las Vegas, NV
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Yeah iam full time daddy here. Dont need a lady but just letting them know theres still good ones here.
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denverdaddyo
Englewood, CO
44, joined Jul. 2012
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Full time dad, two boys 7 & 9 for the last 5 years. It's been a life changer. I'm am an amazing man for it. I'm honored, blessed and lucky!
I have the best boys ever!!!
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sar100
San Antonio, TX
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I have to add this and I don't mean anything bad towards woman. But men who are lucky enough to get there kids full time, should count there blessing because for the rest of us who truthfully want more time with there kids have a up hill battle. First with the woman, if she tells the state she wants custody, doesn't matter how good of a father you are at best your going to get is 50/50 custody. And that's only if you convince her to share. Thank about that!! We have every right to have FULL custody of our kids right from the start, why do the state automatically give her first bite a full custody for OUR kids!
If she choice NOT to give you 50/50 custody than your stuck with being a weekend dad. I for one knew right from the start if I have a child I want to rise them FULL time not 50%, not weekend, nothing less than full time. I had no choice because unless a woman is totally unfit the state will never take the kids away from her. The law say we aren't losing any rights to our kids but that's bull sh!t.
Most states and incorrect society believe that man are not capable of taken care of kids. I'm here to tell you there are millions of men just like me that want there kids more but had no choice and the matter. And yes, woman there are million of man who don't! I can't speak for those idiots.
Simply, dear I say it, its about the MONEY
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lilg7
El Paso, TX
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Thas good I'm buy maself wit a one year old..n thas a hard a** job ya diqG..
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snugglepuff1985
Kinston, NC
32, joined Jul. 2012
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hello hru iam a single woman of two
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janellesosweet
Santa Cruz, CA
46, joined Apr. 2012
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Toooooo cute and loved the honest in your face banter.
I'm a single mom of four, yes 4 kids. I know that my kids are like man garlic. It sucks but it's worth being honest because I don't want to mislead anyone. It never works out to do that, if the guy doesn't have what it takes to join me on this journey then Id rather know right away. I had some guy send me a book of a message gushing about his feelings of excitement about meeting me when he thought I only had one child and then when I corrected his assumption, he never wrote back.
I know that I'm an awesome mom and wonderful partner to my mate so I'm not going to settle for a self absorbed man. I'd much rather be with a good man especially if he's a single parent because that shows that he has values like mine.
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dwwcat
Orange, TX
45, joined Jun. 2010
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Not a new single dad, its been 4 years with 3 kids,
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| 7/28/2012 2:06:48 PM |
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cmb2667
Littleton, CO
50, joined Jul. 2012
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I am a single mom. I have a 4 year old son and a 17 year old daughter. Both spectrums have their own quirks, but still a joy. I think parenting is both the most challenging and the most rewarding job on the planet.
I admire a man who is involved in their childrens' lives and interact with them as much as possible. I understand that there are some men that do not have the luxury of having their kids live with them full time, but as long as their heart is in the right place then it doesn't matter the arrangements. They would still be considered awesome single dads if their kids are their priority.
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simpleguy1974
Loxley, AL
43, joined Mar. 2012
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Hi "(single dad with two daughters)12-7 hit me up!
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cmb2667
Littleton, CO
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Hey handsome...sent you a private message. You're awesome!
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simpleguy1974
Loxley, AL
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Hey handsome...sent you a private message. You're awesome!
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motocross71
Vernon Rockville, CT
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^^^nice
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edmguy92
Edmonton, AB
47, joined May. 2012
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I am a single dad of 1 son and hes 10. I am hoping to meet the love of my life and who loves and adores my son and all children,I hope I find you soon.
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timeforfun83
Johnston, RI
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that post is double edged sword i would love to have my daughter full time even though i see her every day i feel you can can never take kids from their mom unless they dont want them or they are a bad parent but when its a case of just being together is worse for the kids than staying apart what do you do and when needed i drop whatever im doing to run to them wich really pisses off whoever your trying to see or get to know but if they cant deal with it or understand family firs f**k em and then they are all set and its the same for her i bet it sucks
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aed559
Fresno, CA
34, joined Jul. 2012
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Single dad here! Got 3 kids 90% time if not more. No ex drama and yes all the same mother.
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carinoso17
Clementon, NJ
34, joined Jul. 2010
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Hi everyone I'm single dad I get my son in the weekends but when become a holidays or some events I in join him don't give me wrong at takes time to fix some things between u ex about u kid but is getting there is difficult
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32nemale
Norfolk, NE
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Single dad of a 2 year old daughter. It's been just me and her sinse she was about 6 or 7 months old. And yes I have full custody of her.
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frj2211
North Charleston, SC
39, joined Jul. 2012
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I am a single Dad, split custody with his mom. Would love to have him more but believe he needs his mom as much as me and never would take that from him, and would hope she would never do it to me. Newly single and looking...
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stevesure
Toms River, NJ
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magicaleyes83
Titusville, FL
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I think there is a huge difference between a weekend warrior dad by choice and one who wants his children as much as possible and just isn't given that option. Either way as long as your kids come first and you love them with all your heart that's what makes you a good father not how often you have them .
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