8/1/2012 7:09:36 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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So if you meet up & having a great time & u decide to have sex & then after u leave & u say talk to u in a few days guy or girls side & dont hear from the person obviously he or she is not interested but you couldnt even send a text or email saying so.. Aren't we all adults here??? Then you wonder why meeting up is sometimes tricky...
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8/1/2012 9:45:09 PM |
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cupidnj
Glendora, NJ
32, joined May. 2012
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well obviously if i meet up with a chick and have sex with her why would i call her back its pointless.... the challenge is gone, this isnt a girl you want to be with i mean it took a few hours to have sex with her so no point in calling
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8/10/2012 4:08:40 PM |
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coulditbeme68
Red Bank, NJ
49, joined Aug. 2012
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you know i would call you back
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8/10/2012 5:13:33 PM |
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denisemarie16
Old Bridge, NJ
50, joined Aug. 2012
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most people on these sites now adays just want sex. Not to many are looking or willing to have a relationship or even try to give one a try!
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8/10/2012 5:16:05 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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you know i would call you back
well what u waiting for ??
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8/10/2012 5:19:22 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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most people on these sites now adays just want sex. Not to many are looking or willing to have a relationship or even try to give one a try!
IM not afraid of a relationship but Im having fun being single.. Until mr wonderful sweeps me off my feet.. thats what FWB's are for (freinds w/benefits) incase u didnt know.. Theres lots of people who want a relationship u will find him denise
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8/10/2012 6:41:44 PM |
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shhytsngiggles
Somerville, NJ
36, joined Nov. 2011
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Sex on the First meet makes you a slut
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8/10/2012 9:30:15 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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Sex on the First meet makes you a slut[/quot
i think it depends if u were talking to the guy for awhile 1st but thats my opionion just likes yours
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8/11/2012 2:49:41 PM |
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njguy3000
Newark, NJ
35, joined Aug. 2012
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Sex on the first date always makes for a great date
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8/14/2012 11:06:02 AM |
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dangertrix
Phillipsburg, NJ
31, joined Nov. 2010
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most guys just want sex when on these sites.. Yes.. But some while just looking for a good f**k will consider a relationship if the right girl comes around.. Sex on the first date does not mean in any way shape or form that a relationship could not blossom from meeting a girl or guy.. I will say guys like the one a few comments up that say ooo I got to stick it in you so the "challenge" has been met so why the hell would I call you back are just juvenile douche bag b*tch boys who should have been born without a d*ck as punishment for the true p.o.s they would grow up to be... Sex is sex its a great feeling and in no way is a challenge to get it in.. I mean wtf guys... Be a man not a low life f**kup... Ladies if u have sex with a guy first date all is well if u do it with a real man.. Friends are always a good thing in life and if you are a good woman there is no reason a MAN should throw you to the side after one date sex or no sex...
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8/14/2012 11:10:22 AM |
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sylo101
Vincentown, NJ
31, joined Aug. 2012
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Some times its too complicated to even deal with.
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8/14/2012 12:11:23 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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most guys just want sex when on these sites.. Yes.. But some while just looking for a good f**k will consider a relationship if the right girl comes around.. Sex on the first date does not mean in any way shape or form that a relationship could not blossom from meeting a girl or guy.. I will say guys like the one a few comments up that say ooo I got to stick it in you so the "challenge" has been met so why the hell would I call you back are just juvenile douche bag b*tch boys who should have been born without a d*ck as punishment for the true p.o.s they would grow up to be... Sex is sex its a great feeling and in no way is a challenge to get it in.. I mean wtf guys... Be a man not a low life f**kup... Ladies if u have sex with a guy first date all is well if u do it with a real man.. Friends are always a good thing in life and if you are a good woman there is no reason a MAN should throw you to the side after one date sex or no sex...
I like what u said and agree...
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8/14/2012 12:19:00 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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Sex on the first date always makes for a great date
but do u call her again????
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8/14/2012 2:24:22 PM |
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exploring72
South Amboy, NJ
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Kinda rude not to call after that...i mean even if you decide this wasn't something worth continuing, common cpurtesy would be at LEAST one more contact to come clean aboit it.
Not that I agree with sex snd dash, but at least nut up afterwards and tell a woman thats what you were up to.
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8/14/2012 3:48:13 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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yea agreed just say thats what u want !
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8/14/2012 4:21:20 PM |
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exploring72
South Amboy, NJ
44, joined Jul. 2012
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Well I have never understood that sort of mental frame.
I mean nothing wrong with casual sex but a person deserves an answer for closure at least...its a shame this happens but its the hallmark of a selfish immature mind.
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8/15/2012 5:57:09 AM |
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njguy3000
Newark, NJ
35, joined Aug. 2012
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Of course I call I'm not that guy. If I'm not interested than no sexy time
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8/15/2012 12:05:00 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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Well I have never understood that sort of mental frame.
I mean nothing wrong with casual sex but a person deserves an answer for closure at least...its a shame this happens but its the hallmark of a selfish immature mind.
obv if no call it was just sex & ok it happens Ive had 1 night stands BUT dont say your gonna call !!
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8/15/2012 5:01:15 PM |
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bigdan1992
Ramsey, NJ
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Friends with benefits means friends and you always should call back your friend
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8/15/2012 6:11:55 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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Friends with benefits means friends and you always should call back your friend
yea im not talking about FWB in general
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8/16/2012 2:14:32 AM |
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irishca4ny
Bayside, NY
41, joined Aug. 2012
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Like what you said lori.If its with a real man\woman.Some people screw on the first date and have long relationships.Things are always hot on the first date,unless u picked a douche bag to go out with.When u don't call back that's what makes u a slut\man wh*re.thanks.
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8/16/2012 5:20:24 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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Like what you said lori.If its with a real man\woman.Some people screw on the first date and have long relationships.Things are always hot on the first date,unless u picked a douche bag to go out with.When u don't call back that's what makes u a slut\man wh*re.thanks.
well my point is dont say I will call u then.. one nighters can be hot sometimes .
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8/19/2012 1:53:50 PM |
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cupidnj
Glendora, NJ
32, joined May. 2012
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i mean id only call back if it was good... if it wasnt whats the point if the girl f**ked you the first nite im sure it wont hurt her feelings obviously a chick that spreads her legs isnt going to have a difficult time finding another c*ck lol
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8/19/2012 7:52:51 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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well i like to have sex (not with jus anyone) but of they are both sexually attracted to each other then y shouldnt they have sex it shouldnt matter how many dates...
I agree were adults most of us (LOL) & if the attraction is there why do u need to wait?? If u just want sex say it if your gonna call do it..LOL
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8/19/2012 8:26:44 PM |
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rill_r
Magnolia, NJ
30, joined Jun. 2012
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I think the way two adults spend there time together is completely up to them , having sex on the first date doesnt mean a relationship isnt possible but it also doesn't mean where going to have one because we wait six months lol
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8/19/2012 10:12:15 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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I think the way two adults spend there time together is completely up to them , having sex on the first date doesnt mean a relationship isnt possible but it also doesn't mean where going to have one because we wait six months lol
said perfectly !!!
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8/19/2012 10:28:56 PM |
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quanaj
Willingboro, NJ
28, joined Apr. 2012
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Not going to front, happened to me. I guess by not saying nothing he's not trying to hurt ur feeling but being that I want honesty (weather it's good, bad, or wateva) ask him straight up like, "let me know if u want built a relationship or be friends or wateva, let me know so I can act accordingly" There is nothing wrong with having this happen, just dont get ur feelings envolved n don't take it personally. It's not the end of the world n it will happen to everyone on here at least once. We are just willing to admit it. We are not hoes for it, shit happens, a lot of people walking around today are a product of a one night stand...lol it's life.
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8/19/2012 11:24:50 PM |
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mrducez_88
Philadelphia, PA
28, joined Aug. 2012
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Would you buy a car without test driving it?
I like a challenge. If a chick gave it up on the first night. I would never want to be in a relationship wit her. Friendship is her only option wit me.
I def would keep my word in call or txt back if it's good or bad...as long as she's attractive nd clean.
I'm keepin it 100.
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8/21/2012 9:56:47 PM |
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brianlow310
Vineland, NJ
36, joined Jun. 2012
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Sex does make a male or female is slut its called having fun while with that person ... Yeah but never hear from them again in some cases. Shit live life to the fullest
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8/21/2012 10:03:10 PM |
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fares17
Bloomfield, NJ
25, joined Aug. 2012
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I really like to have a sex with a girl
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8/22/2012 9:45:17 PM |
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babydollluv11
East Orange, NJ
24, joined Aug. 2012
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guys are sluts thats why it never works out
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8/22/2012 10:19:29 PM |
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carmine12345
Kearny, NJ
25, joined Aug. 2012
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I would deff call back
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8/23/2012 3:47:33 PM |
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domini25
Paterson, NJ
29, joined Sep. 2010
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I think sex on the first date is great and I will Call u back if it was good or even if it wasn't just Cuz I'm a man n we could be friends n kick it again n if we do have sex again then we do dats just dat.
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8/31/2012 12:08:54 AM |
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djdynamic
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
41, joined Aug. 2012
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I want sex multiple times..
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8/31/2012 9:18:14 PM |
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foxxxya1
Atlantic Highlands, NJ
49, joined Jul. 2012
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It is what it is you have sex so what if it goes any farther great if not oh well expect nothing from no one in this sex wasn't that good
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8/31/2012 11:01:46 PM |
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lasttruepoet
Union City, NJ
34, joined Aug. 2012
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This seems to me like a simple problem... Why not put your self in the other persons shoes and play it by ear?
For the ladies:
Think of what it's like to be a man... Put yourself in his shoes. Men are gauged in large part by their success with women, the worth of of masculinity is literally measured in how many beautiful women we can bed... This idiotic paradigm Is literally beaten into our conscious mind from birth... It's a similar pressure to the one women feel when their beauty is measured by the standard of beauty set by the airbrushed supermodels in magazines. So of course we want to bed you ASAP... But there in lies the problem... If we get you the first night you run the risk of making us think that you do that with every first date... If you play too hard to get you run the risk of either further igniting the male ego and turning yourself into the proverbial notch on a bedpost or injuring the delicate male ego and scaring your target away... So the key lies in using good judgement... As a rule of thumb sex the first night is not a great idea, there is something to be said for the instant chemistry factor but that's the exception to my argument not the general rule you wanna follow... We've all heard the saying "D%#* is stupid so don't let him make the important decitions" well, vagina can sometimes be foolish too so don't let it get the best of you.
Now for the fellas:
You suckas on your own! figure it out for yourselves. I have no intention in making my competitors more efficient.
With that said, happy hunting to both sides... After all, in the end we both want the same thing. ?
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9/1/2012 8:48:39 AM |
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protege_hunter
Washington, NJ
51, joined Jan. 2012
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It is what it is you have sex so what if it goes any farther great if not oh well expect nothing from no one in this sex wasn't that good
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9/2/2012 7:46:55 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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I want sex multiple times..
lets go.. lol
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9/2/2012 11:07:01 PM |
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coopster2222
Mantua, NJ
24, joined Sep. 2012
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call me
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9/2/2012 11:11:26 PM |
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eddyy1990
Egg Harbor City, NJ
27, joined Jul. 2012
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i want sex multiple times
[Edited 9/2/2012 11:12:22 PM ]
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9/4/2012 5:26:28 PM |
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djdynamic
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
41, joined Aug. 2012
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The men and women on here make me hit the floor laughing. Its real funny to just sit back ans watch these replies as most of them speak for everyone else would think or do. So whith that I'll keep with my own opinons. Peace&OneLuv!
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9/8/2012 10:53:48 AM |
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njmale73
Edison, NJ
45, joined Nov. 2011
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Nuthin,wrong with fwb, and yes, call em back. Lets try it, oral for u first then see if we go farther....lol. Love eatin the p*ssy. Mmmmmm
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9/11/2012 9:29:07 PM |
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stststst1234
Downey, CA
49, joined Sep. 2012
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Just keep them pants on and you won't have that problem
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9/12/2012 7:19:23 AM |
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nj_tech
Morristown, NJ
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Morristown , any one interested go ahead And write me a message.
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9/12/2012 11:44:26 AM |
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justpeeking43
Medford, NJ
49, joined Aug. 2011
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Yeah.... that will work..... not
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9/13/2012 8:42:24 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2012
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Yeah.... that will work..... not
LOL
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9/14/2012 11:10:51 PM |
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daveligity1
Browns Mills, NJ
37, joined Feb. 2012
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try anything once.... messege me lmao
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9/19/2012 11:31:24 PM |
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stefon92
Trenton, NJ
25, joined Sep. 2012
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It just depends if we really have fun on the date, and if we mutually agree, then we taring the sheets up!!!!
And I would call back regardless
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9/20/2012 12:55:10 PM |
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david02906
Lakewood, NJ
25, joined Apr. 2012
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i would call back who wants to try me lol
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9/22/2012 12:04:38 AM |
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steenababi
Gillette, NJ
24, joined Sep. 2011
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Nooope
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9/22/2012 12:56:34 AM |
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moneymo344
North Brunswick, NJ
30, joined Aug. 2012
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I'd wait it out..if it was ment to work, well meet again... can't be too desperate
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9/22/2012 10:08:37 PM |
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breeze092
Bensalem, PA
25, joined Sep. 2012
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you're a fool. If she wanted to get down and you denied you're a complete idiot
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9/25/2012 8:37:04 AM |
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1lovehigh
Arlington, TX
20, joined Sep. 2012
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In reality,if you are looking for a long-lasting and meaningful relationship...you DEFINITELY DO NOT want to have sex on the first date. The odds are stacked against you (didn't say impossible) for you and that person to build a steady foundation, if the first thing was built on sex. When the sex becomes a normality....then what? Now if you are just horny and your counterpart is as well.....and you have that understand that its physical first, then DO YOU! We all know for the most part that women are emotional beings opposed to men being physical beings first....which means, READ THE INSTRUCTIONS BEFORE PLAYING!
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9/30/2012 6:45:30 PM |
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thatbombdude
Newark, NJ
28, joined Sep. 2012
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I did that before n loved it but I will never do it again bc I found out the girl that was my former gf was tricking for money smh ...
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9/30/2012 8:31:11 PM |
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jerseyguy39
Ocala, FL
45, joined Apr. 2011
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What is this "meet" you speak of?
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10/6/2012 12:45:46 AM |
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tatt4tatt
South Plainfield, NJ
34, joined Aug. 2012
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Usually if the guy doesn't call back it means it wasnt up to par or what he expected it to be....put pride aside and realize that u need to watch more porn and learn some new techniques cuz if u gonna have sex the first night make it worthwhile so the guy wants to come back if not chances are the guy didnt like it or he's married already lol same goes for females with males too if it sucked why call him back? Lol
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10/6/2012 2:07:03 AM |
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hippiechk
Woodbridge, NJ
31, joined Feb. 2012
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If I give you my cookies on the first date, that simply means that was all I wanted. Sometimes after meeting, there may be nothing there but physical attraction. So, if it happens it means I think you're hot but that's it! When I hold out, then that means I like you. Because if theres chemistry then I want the sex to mean something. So, I'll wait.
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10/7/2012 12:21:51 AM |
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shazmar87
Englishtown, NJ
28, joined Nov. 2011
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Of course i will call her back
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10/17/2012 9:59:59 AM |
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wiseandtrue
Allentown, PA
72, joined Sep. 2011
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Guys who will call you back are gutless and have nowhere else to go for sex and you are their outlet. They want one thing....and your body is that thing. Guys who won't call you back already know that you're a slut and they don't want a slut. They want a woman with a little bit of morals.
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10/18/2012 4:08:01 PM |
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quarterback90
Fulshear, TX
26, joined May. 2012
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Things I would do before having sex with someone
1. talk to them
2. order some dinner
3. fix us a glass of champagne
4. talk dirty to them
5. take some pictures
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