Single Doctors in Temecula, CA

About Me

Hello I`m Brian,
If you decide to read please don't over read into my profile some of it is sad and some parts are funny I have some dry humor. Well here is my story I am widowed I lost my wife to an under age drunk driver on the 405 Freeway and Hunting Beach Blvd in 1993 when my daughter was 5 months old, then remarried in late 94 and divorced by early 1995 and now. At this time I am single and I have one child she lives with me part time when she is not away at school; and she is the Joy of my life. She is a 19 years old junior in college. She is all grown up ( So she thinks!!!!!) and going to college at University of Alabama ( ROLL TIDE ) running Track and Field she did not qualify this time Summer Olympic in London UK due to her age and being a Freshman; oh well better luck next time and that kinda sucks in some ways and I am happy about her doing what she want to accomplish for her goals ( She is just like Daddy) ;because she is not home I am suffering from the empty nest syndrome.
Daddy is not her Super Hero anymore. A Daddy / Daughter relationship is a truly beautiful thing.. When Children move out your never free from them I guess when they can afford their own toilet paper then learn to wipe their own a** I guess that is an accomplishment ( YEA) for a small victory .. (lol)
I am a live jazz and blues fan. I know with Rap Music it takes some serious talent to rhyme a whole album with the F bomb or the B word in it. I guess what is old is new and what is new is old.
I love to dance and listen to live music.
I like an independent Self Starter whom is motivated and,honest women who know what they want then go for it.
My life is full of comedy. I have to laugh about something at least 3 times a day if not life is meaningless. I was the class clown at all levels of school. Somethings will never change...If you leave your self open you will be in the cross hairs of a joke assault or Yo Mama jokes sorry but its the rules of engagement. I am kinda quirky in my own right due to being black and Jewish yea its a strange combo. I am called the Hebro or asked if I speak Hebonics. (JOKE) I sometime get conflicted not knowing if I want to Steal it or Buy it Wholesale.(joke)
I know this will sound picky but nothing wrong with having standards...
I also like a woman who has the 4 C`s of their own , You ask what are the 4 C`s? 1: Car , 2: Crib, 3: Cable, 4: Good Credit.
The reasons are : Car - I am not a taxi cab, : Crib - I like to have my own space and you have yours, : Cable If I am with you I need my ESPN to watch all the sports highlights. Plus this not like the old days you buy a TV and plug in the Rabbit ears in and watch TV They all come Cable Ready so there is nothing for free. : Good credit that's self explanatory If you make a bill pay your own bills. If you cant afford it you don't need it. Some people don't know how to define needs vs. Their wants. There is no reason to try and keep up with the Jones if you have a beer wallet don't acquire a wine taste. I know steak taste better than Top Ra men and hot dogs, but that is how I got through college as a starving student. I was a Top Ra men chef 300 recipes for R amen (joke) but hey if we all live with in our means we would all be happy and stress free; stress kills I am too beautiful to die well I would make a handsome corpse. So that mean I won`t co-sign for anybody. Not trying to push someone away its that you should be able to maintain yourself that is the BOTTOM LINE.
Some women are Gold diggers --there is no free LUNCH!!!
Then I have come across those women who say they are THICK...come on get real. " Everyone idea of THICK is not the same.. Just don't have a gut I don't have one so why do you ?
So Lets be real". Then Denial can be treated, with the right medication and therapist. But you know a Therapist is someone you pay to be your friend. They are gone when your money is.
If you know you are a size 22 trying to get your Butt in a size 1 or 2 THAT AIN'T RIGHT.
I am not hating on Shapely women at all. The numbers were chosen at random but too tight is too tight.
My Motto is She who wears the tightest dress don't get the man.
I am not a big guy, I am 6ft, 195lbs, 30-32 inch waist I love to work out Jogging walking or riding my bike appox5-10 miles per day, Lifting for 45 mins then swimming for 3 miles every other day. Mixed in with some other type of cardio and strength training with Mixed Martial Arts.
This is my work out plan, I am working hard to combat heart disease, obesity and look good in my clothes as I get older.