Sexy Single Men in Fremont, CA

About Me

Born and raised in Oakland, California and East L.A. I'm a simple above average man. Since there is much stereotyping for online daters on this Web site for some reason. Let's be straight about this from the gate. My credit report is outstanding and background check clean. Get to know someone before thinking who they are. I have raised both of my adult children, as a consistent loving Father who had joint custody. I'm not searching for any particular type of woman. Just one who could light my world on fire (not literally now lol). I was in the Marines for 6 years and toured to many places, as a professional boxer. I've seen the world while in the military and know where home is. So, I'm grounded and drama free avoiding games with a deep and humble appreciation for who I am in this world of chaos. A knowledge of who one is becomes something no person could ever take from you. I now no longer compete in the game of boxing but still love hard training with a deep passion. I enjoy an active healthy lifestyle. I'm now a Nurse furthering my career, as a Registered Nurse. I've been at my job for 11 years in E.R., as a Medication Nurse. I'm not exactly sure what to expect on this Web site. So, i will just say it all with my DISCLAIMER lol. I've encountered some strange women on DH but know it has to get better lol. I'm an open "book" for discovering friendship and possibly more with someone special. I'm not interested in going out with any woman still playing "house" with her "separated" EX for financial-emotional-sexual reasons lol. Either he's an EX or your MAN with no in between lol. I don't want to walk into any 3 way love triangles. A true lady should handle her BIZ before even posting an active profile on this site. Please don't ask for my email address trying to fish scam identity theft data or explain you reside in West Africa after being kidnapped in need of rescue by cash donation assistance or offer me email of your naked pics lol. Please don't project any attitude of distrust towards me because of other men who have submitted explicit vulgar pics online to you because its my opinion such disrespectful bullshit isn't truly necessary if a man has swagger and charisma. His vulgar pics to you just entails he has neither, as someone you just met. Just because other men have doesn't mean I would. Take the unfounded attitude back to the culprit lol. I'm not searching for a gold digger nor woman to support me. For any woman considering me....please don't play me as a game or I'll show you how it can be played. Keep it sincere and so will I. I'm not on DH strictly to meet friends. This is primarily a DATING website where you may meet friends along the way. One can use Facebook and Twitter to strictly meet friends by social media if flirting from strangers on a website scares-offends you lol. Otherwise...it's thoughtless to surf strictly for friends on a DATING website which is offensive to you ;
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I am here on DH hoping to go out with a woman where everything in our friendship falls into place naturally but still understand trust is something to be earned by the both of us. Why play games? I understand a woman needs reassurances from a man by demonstrating some effort on his part pursuing her. But let's be real... a man also needs reassurances from a woman by seeing things fall into place naturally between them making romance a true future possibility without drama, neglect, and exceedingly too much effort required. Nobody wants to be taken advantage of (man or woman).Every sincere person on this website deserves to date someone whom they could fully appreciate without being under-appreciated by them unless you're a person strictly searching for booty call recreation-entertainment . And, as such....it only makes you a scam to those who play the singles dating game for a prospective LTR (long term relationship ) like it should be played lol. If you "talk" the LTR "talk" when dating someone. It means "walking" the LTR "walk" until you decide how they fit in, if they fit in. If not....its ok to admit. Otherwise.... your searching for booty call from the "gate" lol. If the person isn't a match. Let em' know. Don't lead em' on lol. If you never knew what you wanted in a relationship and don't know how to describe what you search for ....why search to find out what you would want in a relationship on a DATING website where you must first post what you're searching for to the prospective reader? This makes one seem contradictory and confusing Lol . If I think someone is a waste of time. I'll be an honest Alpha Dog and openly admit it. I'm respectful by treating others the way I would like to be treated in return. Something which seems to be curiously missing in most ppl today. On top of all that... i pay my own taxes on the 9-5 tip lol. Friendship is a great beginning by chat. I would like to thank those of you who took time to read about me. I am grateful for it and have a blessed day…...