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I just dont understand
by stacey0215 at 6/15/2017 11:55:29 PM

For some reason, I seem to be on a downward spiral for finding men who dont have time for me, are emotionally empty and not ready for a relationship, self absorbed, and the list continues. Am I drawn to these type of people? I don't want to fix them, I just want a friend and someone to spend time with me. If it works, then it can go further. I don't want any married men, men with girlfriends, men with baby mamas but I'm finding that, at my age, a normal man almost don't exist. I'm independent, take care of myself and my daughter and granddaughter, don't smoke or do drugs. I'm self employed and work very hard. My life is in order, I keep a clean house, drive a new car, and enjoy being around people. I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me, I don't want to move into anyone's home. I love my dog, family, music, and laughing. I haven't laughed in a long time. I can't even imagine what it would be like to have someone put me first in their life. Some guy called me "broken" one day. Maybe he's right. I guess I really don't know what to look for because I'm not getting anywhere with what I'm finding. I'm frustrated and getting no where.


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6/16/2017 12:07:20 AM

It can be tiresome just hang in there and u will meet a good friend.

6/16/2017 12:12:41 AM

U don't sound broken at all..People are just so different and it's hard to find a match in this day and age..Keep doing ur thing till the right one comes along.. I perved ur profile, I think ur a keeper, someone else will see that too.. Good luck to ya..

6/16/2017 12:34:50 AM

wtf you sound like a good catch. but internet dating is a joke just too many crazys out there. well ecept snatch and tex damn girl i want to smoother them in kisses in a hot tub. LOL

6/16/2017 1:08:34 AM

Good advice above! I would add that you take this time to work on yourself. Improve yourself. Choose some things to work on that you really want... while you're waiting for that special someone to come into your life. Good Luck!

6/16/2017 4:20:50 AM

6/16/2017 8:32:55 AM

What Jeff said,good luck Stacey.

6/16/2017 8:20:52 PM

I suggest you don't use a broken dating site as one of your tools to meet your beloved. However, if you thrive on disappointment, you're in the right place.

6/18/2017 1:09:11 AM

^^^^^^ about right