Jacksonville, FL

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Sounds like you can't answer the question either

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1/20/2013 8:09:48 AM
pisces22469 Jacksonville, FL 46, joined Mar. 2011	Do you have a general rule of a number of dates before you have sex? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/20/2013 8:18:43 AM	Jacksonville, FL
lookin4ones Hurst, TX 55, joined Oct. 2010	Two years or more.
1/20/2013 8:19:48 AM	Jacksonville, FL
dfg11 Canton, OH 21, joined Jan. 2013	Agreed^
1/20/2013 8:20:21 AM	Jacksonville, FL
bigdaddyishere Las Vegas, NV 35, joined Mar. 2011	road head on the first date, or no second date
1/20/2013 8:23:38 AM	Jacksonville, FL
whitneysmith12 Woodsfield, OH 22, joined Oct. 2012	about six or more dates befor sex
1/20/2013 8:28:39 AM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	How many dates? Wow, I know this is how most people think these days. I think I was born in the wrong era but come on, I cannot be the ONLY one who thinks more in terms of being in a relationship and really REALLY getting to know someone before having sex. So, as far as a timeline I would have to say at least several months of getting to know that person. Can't really put a time line on it but I would say quite awhile. If you're going by the number of times you've taken her out to dinner, I'd say your just after one thing.
1/20/2013 8:34:57 AM	Jacksonville, FL
chasenarainbow Alexandroúpolis Greece 60, joined Jul. 2012	365..... And if that's not enuff I can always add more.......
1/20/2013 8:35:45 AM	Jacksonville, FL
1tabone1 Apex, NC 47, joined Nov. 2012	3.14 Final answer.
1/20/2013 8:40:58 AM	Jacksonville, FL
kclady41 Kansas City, MO 45, joined Jun. 2011	Well based on 43 years life experience ... sex on the first date has always been a big mistake and regret. I generally like to wait till the third. basically I will know by the end of the second date if I am into the man or not. [Edited 1/20/2013 8:41:19 AM ]
1/20/2013 8:41:44 AM	Jacksonville, FL
kclady41 Kansas City, MO 45, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from lookin4ones: Two years or more. Wow tharts will power i do not have
1/20/2013 8:42:59 AM	Jacksonville, FL
petitekitten72 Portland, MI 42, joined Apr. 2012	i don't follow any set of "rules". i do what i want when i feel like i want to L when would i have sex with someone? date one, or date 100, or never; it depends on how i feel (small smile)
1/20/2013 8:44:41 AM	Jacksonville, FL
noteasyworthit Wickenburg, AZ 27, joined Dec. 2012	30 dates no guy is gonna pay for 30 dates without getting any haha i do realize that
1/20/2013 8:57:43 AM	Jacksonville, FL
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 53, joined May. 2011	Zero, if referring to mental sex.
1/20/2013 9:09:05 AM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from spanky250: And what do you do, after you've invested several months and a lot of emotion into that relationship, and then discover he is utterly incapable (or unwilling) to please you sexually? Sexual compatibility is a leading cause of breakups and divorce. I can only speak for myself, but I am unwilling to invest as much time into a relationship as you advocate without knowing that such a fundamental part of a relationship is going to be mutually present. Lol like I said, I'm in the wrong era. Not looking to rack up the numbers either
1/20/2013 9:16:38 AM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	And do what if it is? At least I would know I tried. And wasting months of my life? How is giving the effort to get to know someone wasting my life?
1/20/2013 9:23:31 AM	Jacksonville, FL
firemen_emt_ben Mineral Wells, WV 28, joined Dec. 2012	If I really like the girl at least the second or third date. Anything after that ur never gonna get it...
1/20/2013 9:23:41 AM	Jacksonville, FL
ohdannyboy59 Arlington, TX 56, joined Sep. 2012 online now!	As a rule, I never make rules.
1/20/2013 9:25:23 AM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	It's important but it's not everything. If the relationship were worth keeping, I guess I'd just have some teaching to do.
1/20/2013 9:26:29 AM	Jacksonville, FL
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 53, joined May. 2011	Quote from hopefloats38: And do what if it is? At least I would know I tried. And wasting months of my life? How is giving the effort to get to know someone wasting my life? That right there is a fundamental difference in the way people are. Some are only satisfied if they reach the end of a journey, and some are satisfied just because of the journey itself, whether they reach the intended destination, or not.
1/20/2013 9:32:12 AM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	Yes I did
1/20/2013 11:17:18 AM	Jacksonville, FL
dahlingdarling Hollywood, FL 24, joined Oct. 2012	I don't have a general rule for how many dates equals sex as I don't have sex with my dates as I date for my amusement and entertainment not for some guy to shove his d*ck inside me and bust a nut in my hole. Then again I never saw the appeal of sex for a gal when to me sex's shot in the dark chance at an orgasm is a clear downgrade from masturbation's almost guaranteed orgasms.
1/20/2013 11:30:55 AM	Jacksonville, FL
mr_x_mr Spokane, WA 40, joined Jan. 2013	To me its not a static number. Its really just a question of after sex, do "the excuses of life" become a priority. Therefore no reason for any further involvement in her life, and vice versa. Frankly, if things such as this can be weighed in terms of respect, I'd much rather hear "I'm done, cuz you suck in bed." Than a bunch of politely phrazed hubris of "why not". But if I have to pick a number to play along. One, (1), uno. And thats because I'm not going to meet just to meet. Because conversation skills matter in a message.
1/20/2013 11:58:47 AM	Jacksonville, FL
marriedncheatin Twin Falls, ID 48, joined Jul. 2012	Quote from pisces22469: Do you have a general rule of a number of dates before you have sex? date? What date..I tell you what's my room number and I leave the door ajarthan after a good pounding we might grab lunch..dinner..breakfast than go back to the room..don't pay attention to me I'm in a whole different category of daiting than you OP
1/20/2013 12:13:10 PM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	"It may take three months, or it may be five minutes after they meet. It really is that simple.
1/20/2013 12:19:28 PM	Jacksonville, FL
heranno Green Bay, WI 61, joined Dec. 2012	op 2 ladies answered here so far and both place a huge amount of value on sex useing time lines and so forth. Neither of which is marriage material for that reason as well. As to the one above saying you can't answer that either. it happens when it happens
1/20/2013 1:49:53 PM	Jacksonville, FL
noteasyworthit Wickenburg, AZ 27, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from spanky250: Well you clearly didn't read my question, but OK. I respect your answer and wish you luck in your journey. Ya know sex would completely suck if I didn't wait atLEAST a couple months before we did. Cuz here's the thing.. for me, I am not into sex unless there is a deep emotional connection. If that isn't there .. the sex is going to suck, for me. It's going to leave me emotionally vulnerable and not satisfied. Only in a relationship that I feel comfortable and secure, and have a connection much more than physical with someone, can the sex be there. That's the beauty about sex.. you can practice A LOT if you aren't happy with it at first. I honestly dont see how the sex could be bad if the chemistry is there and the kisses are passionate.
1/20/2013 2:12:52 PM	Jacksonville, FL
hopefloats38 Atchison, KS 41, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from noteasyworthit: Ya know sex would completely suck if I didn't wait atLEAST a couple months before we did. Cuz here's the thing.. for me, I am not into sex unless there is a deep emotional connection. If that isn't there .. the sex is going to suck, for me. It's going to leave me emotionally vulnerable and not satisfied. Only in a relationship that I feel comfortable and secure, and have a connection much more than physical with someone, can the sex be there. That's the beauty about sex.. you can practice A LOT if you aren't happy with it at first. I honestly dont see how the sex could be bad if the chemistry is there and the kisses are passionate. THANK YOU
1/20/2013 2:14:23 PM	Jacksonville, FL
ashley_usa28 Charlottesville, VA 33, joined Jan. 2013	When both of you feel ready. Like if i am very attracted to a man I make it the first date or wait to the second no wait.
1/20/2013 3:54:12 PM	Jacksonville, FL
alishababy Framingham, MA 26, joined May. 2011	About 4 months and at least 10 dates.
1/20/2013 3:56:16 PM	Jacksonville, FL
nlkh Lynchburg, VA 48, joined Dec. 2008	Ok my answer is 5 years worth!!!!
1/20/2013 4:04:49 PM	Jacksonville, FL
noteasyworthit Wickenburg, AZ 27, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from spanky250: I was with another woman who, no matter what I said or did, she literally just laid there and screamed "Oh my God that's good!" but would NOT actively participate at all, she wouldn't move a single damn muscle in her body, no matter how much I tried to talk about it with her. So yes, there is ALWAYS the possibility that two people simply will not be sexually compatible. maybe you put her body in a state of shock and she couldn't move out of extreme pleasure?? lol wow "oh, God that's good" ?? as soon as you slip in the stick? You must be gifted hahahaha
1/20/2013 4:06:58 PM	Jacksonville, FL
renokaren Reno, NV 48, joined Nov. 2011	I don't have a rule.. However I tend to bond with people I have sex with... So I'm going to take my time and make sure we both want that bonding.
1/20/2013 4:08:54 PM	Jacksonville, FL
sharonorahs2 Wilmington, NC 49, joined Jul. 2012	When I am the only one he wants to date.
1/20/2013 4:26:30 PM	Jacksonville, FL
jmjrock Grand Rapids, MI 50, joined Mar. 2011	Thats called p*ssy pye in mathematics
1/20/2013 4:32:28 PM	Jacksonville, FL
heranno Green Bay, WI 61, joined Dec. 2012	whats amazing here is these ladies put so much value on themselves sexually as if it's their only worth to men. It's a sad world we live in when women think like those talking here. As to one comment made by a lady. You tend to bond with those you have sex with, so next time your going to take your time and be sure. Just so the truth is out there, your never sure, and it's never a sure thing. The best you can do is con yourself into believing your sure but thats all that is. A con job and a hard one to break because it's one you play on yourself
1/20/2013 4:34:59 PM	Jacksonville, FL
renokaren Reno, NV 48, joined Nov. 2011	I said, until I'm sure we both want that bonding.... I didn't say until I'm sure I want to spend the rest of my life with the man.
1/20/2013 6:05:27 PM	Jacksonville, FL
noteasyworthit Wickenburg, AZ 27, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from spanky250: You're missing my point. I wasn't trying to claim I was a Sex-God (even though I am ), the point is she was completely unwilling to be an active participant. She wouldn't touch me in any way other than kissing and hugging BEFORE sex, no different positions other than missionary, and she would NOT move with me at all. She would just lay there motionless and scream and moan. Now I can only speak for myself, but that's just a huge turn-off. I just wanted to scream "It's called fkING, not GETTING FKED!"... I totally get your point. I really do haha "getting f**ked" sounds great tho hahahaha JK JK The thing is.... If I sleep with a guy before I really know him, the sex is gonna suck, but if we build an emotional connection and really get to know eachother and have a relationship blooming, than sex has a chance to be amazing, where as in the beginning we wouldnt have that connection. Does that make sense? I'm not saying everyone has to have a rule. just saying for me atLEAST a couple months of really getting to know someone before sex would happen for me.
1/20/2013 6:10:36 PM	Jacksonville, FL
mjw_6230 Louisville, KY 38, joined Apr. 2009	Quote from whitneysmith12: about six or more dates befor sex so on average dinner would be about 40 bucks a date. so your pssy is worth a whopping $240 at most. give or take a few dates, depends on how good the guy looks and factor in how much you drink and how long its been since your last f*k.
1/20/2013 6:13:58 PM	Jacksonville, FL
islandqu33n Lake Oswego, OR 29, joined Sep. 2011	Oh goodness. That's too funny.
1/20/2013 8:25:08 PM	Jacksonville, FL
portuguesechick Keller, TX 21, joined Jan. 2013	6 dates.
1/20/2013 8:39:23 PM	Jacksonville, FL
heranno Green Bay, WI 61, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from portuguesechick: 6 dates. get ready to be use3d a lot by guys and only attracting guys who won';t do life long commitment
1/20/2013 9:07:57 PM	Jacksonville, FL
swagstergirl Swansea, MA 23, joined Jan. 2013	I agree with defiantly the guy spanky. Girls normally don't have sex with guys if they are goin out on dates. It's not like once they meet that they have to move in with there partner just to have sex!
1/20/2013 9:12:41 PM	Jacksonville, FL
techmech09 Arlington, TX 24, joined Jan. 2013	I'd like to think its be about three or four but honestly it's when we've you and the other person feel ready. Different people move at different paces in their relationships and there is nothing wrong with that. Just make sure that both parties involved are sure they want to take that step.
1/20/2013 9:14:57 PM	Jacksonville, FL
heranno Green Bay, WI 61, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from techmech09: I'd like to think its be about three or four but honestly it's when we've you and the other person feel ready. Different people move at different paces in their relationships and there is nothing wrong with that. Just make sure that both parties involved are sure they want to take that step. exactly right
1/20/2013 9:38:01 PM	Jacksonville, FL
ladyeden Waynesville, MO 55, joined Apr. 2008	Lets get real here. If the kissing is good, making out is hawt and the passion is there - which is most likely going to be the longshot, a connection with real potential or good(or can become good) sex? If sex is there and dosen't suck people "waste" far more time trying to make it work to keep the sex comming than if they can't connect well without it. Once sex enters in so much of the focus zeros in on that instead. So saying at least a few months getting to know and care about the person before adding sex in is wasting less time. Unless of course the focus is on screwing instead of finding a quality relationship.
1/20/2013 9:39:58 PM	Jacksonville, FL
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 63, joined Oct. 2009	You'll never find someone if all you want is sex! Wait til AFTER marriage! I can see why babes dump a guy if he's going out with her just to use her for sex. I suppose you'll say I LOVE YOU so she becomes braindead and actually does it too!
1/20/2013 9:49:43 PM	Jacksonville, FL
wolfgang741 Copiague, NY 35, joined Jan. 2013	Depends on the approach and intensions of the individual ........ If it is a situation where it's going towards the right intensions to really form a committed relationship, the focus will be more on the relationship than the sex. So in other words could be Months, and a guy that really wants it to be special will wait for the right moment or if a Girl is a virgin, the Man will respect that. But if the approach I'd just hooking up, it could be a matter of 3rd or 4th date.
1/20/2013 9:52:15 PM	Jacksonville, FL
jeweler12 Clayton, NJ 60, joined Jan. 2013	I like noteasyworthit's answer the best , despite being the yongest she's the wisest!
1/20/2013 9:57:58 PM	Jacksonville, FL
neonbabe Bell, CA 29, joined Jan. 2013	I have to connect to that person. I'd talk to them for a while then meet... First day = sex can be doable. Come on people there has to be some sort of connection there and some attraction
1/20/2013 10:03:43 PM	Jacksonville, FL
mjw_6230 Louisville, KY 38, joined Apr. 2009	damn i just had an epiphany while looking at your pic. i just realized how hood this damn site is and need to upgrade. a sleeping baby in your pic, really?
1/20/2013 10:08:07 PM	Jacksonville, FL
toughluck78 Mineral Wells, TX 37, joined Dec. 2012	I can appreciate that she used a picture with her child in it.. She's getting it out there that she a kid, and he's part of the equation.
1/20/2013 10:11:38 PM	Jacksonville, FL
dasnixter Jessieville, AR 57, joined Jul. 2010	Sex before the date to determine compatibility.
1/20/2013 10:31:29 PM	Jacksonville, FL
cardiosmash Downey, CA 31, joined Jun. 2012	F**k the rules if everything's right and both want to get it on its because the dude played his cards right but if she says no it's ok and understandable.
1/20/2013 10:36:07 PM	Jacksonville, FL
zmmm268 Bayville, NY 47, joined May. 2012	No one mentioned the millionaire match makers rule of "no sex before monogamy". I think if you are looking for a long term relationship it is good advice. I feel if you sleep with a guy on the 1st date he thinks less of you and he doesnt respect you and it wont work. However, it is very hard to follow that rule when there is a physical and mental connection... God knows I have had sex on the first date and sure enough it never works out. Maybe she has it right. Guys, do you lose respect and think someone is not good relationship material if she sleeps with you within the first few dates?
1/20/2013 11:08:31 PM	Jacksonville, FL
dnick227 Los Angeles, CA 34, joined Jan. 2013	3
1/20/2013 11:22:43 PM	Jacksonville, FL
ohdannyboy59 Arlington, TX 56, joined Sep. 2012 online now!	Quote from zmmm268: Guys, do you lose respect and think someone is not good relationship material if she sleeps with you within the first few dates? I can't say I have consciously. But like you, those "relationships" don't tend to go anywhere.
1/20/2013 11:24:34 PM	Jacksonville, FL
ashley123love Kansas City, MO 22, joined Jan. 2013	I mean when me n him started sex was our date n movies
1/20/2013 11:37:33 PM	Jacksonville, FL
summernights211 Patchogue, NY 33, joined Jul. 2012	At least 5.....,
1/20/2013 11:39:30 PM	Jacksonville, FL
zmmm268 Bayville, NY 47, joined May. 2012	Quote from usbdavinci: I had sex with my wife on our first date and we were married for 17 years, until she passed away a few years ago. Omg, that is so sweet. I am so sorry for your loss. It gives me hope for the next time I give in and have sex too soon. Thank you.
1/20/2013 11:41:05 PM	Jacksonville, FL
mjw_6230 Louisville, KY 38, joined Apr. 2009	Quote from zmmm268: Omg, that is so sweet. I am so sorry for your loss. It gives me hope for the next time I give in and have sex too soon. Thank you. it wont work for you. his wife wasnt online advertising her p*ssy.

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