Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?

3/14/2013 1:27:16 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Do you Skype with them first to see if they're really the person in the pictures? Talk on the phone? How quickly do you meet that person? What are your red flags that they're fake or not good people? Ive had a few really bad experiences with it. Part of it was my fault for giving these people my trust. I'm trying not to let myself be bitter or jaded, but online dating is crazy. Lol Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
3/14/2013 1:36:50 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	If you don't love yourself or see yourself as someone who's worthy of true love, then other people wont either. Pick yourself up, better yourself, take care of yourself inside and out, work on your self esteem, and work what you've got. Plenty of people will want you then.
3/14/2013 1:38:52 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
megpies San Antonio, TX 37, joined Jan. 2012	If you meet someone in person, they introduce themselves... You go out a few times, kiss maybe even get physical.... And all this time, you're taking for granted that they are not lying to you about anything.... But they could be. Same risks, just more suspicion online.
3/14/2013 1:45:04 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from megpies: If you meet someone in person, they introduce themselves... You go out a few times, kiss maybe even get physical.... And all this time, you're taking for granted that they are not lying to you about anything.... But they could be. Same risks, just more suspicion online. Hmm. Makes sense. And when they say they have feelings for you, talk about meeting, and then cut you off completely with no explanation? Lol. This happened to me recently. And I found out he was telling me a crazy mess of lies. I just feel a little stupid for believing him. He was just so good at lying.
3/14/2013 1:50:50 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
tnbadboy1965 Gallatin, TN 49, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from lacel91: Hmm. Makes sense. And when they say they have feelings for you, talk about meeting, and then cut you off completely with no explanation? Lol. This happened to me recently. And I found out he was telling me a crazy mess of lies. I just feel a little stupid for believing him. He was just so good at lying. he got tired of chasing you. Figured he has enough time into it and if he wasn't in your pants yet it was time to cut his losses and move on.
3/14/2013 1:51:06 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
bubblyblond4u Crestline, CA 56, joined Jan. 2013	I'm very suspicious if their English is messed up. First red flag. Or when they say they want to message me or email and want to know all about me, talk about "love"...really? I don't have any chat programs, and I'm not going to download ANY for anyone. I'm not sending incessant emails. I insist on a talk on the phone, just to make sure. They tend to disappear like the wind by then if their scammers.
3/14/2013 1:53:19 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
tnbadboy1965 Gallatin, TN 49, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from bubblyblond4u: I'm very suspicious if their English is messed up. First red flag. Or when they say they want to message me or email and want to know all about me, talk about "love"...really? I don't have any chat programs, and I'm not going to download ANY for anyone. I'm not sending incessant emails. I insist on a talk on the phone, just to make sure. They tend to disappear like the wind by then if their scammers. I agree. I do not have a chat programs, I do not have a web cam, I do not skype. If you want to talk to me after a couple emails I will give you my number. Oh and btw, when someone talks about having feelings for you and you have never met he just wants in your pants.
3/14/2013 2:02:22 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
vanir Victoria Australia 45, joined Mar. 2008	You could be retarded. Ask yourself this, when you hear hooves do you think unicorns? You do, don't you
3/14/2013 2:08:00 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
justrichardkung Seymour, WI 61, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from lacel91: Do you Skype with them first to see if they're really the person in the pictures? Talk on the phone? How quickly do you meet that person? What are your red flags that they're fake or not good people? Ive had a few really bad experiences with it. Part of it was my fault for giving these people my trust. I'm trying not to let myself be bitter or jaded, but online dating is crazy. Lol actually you have to stop the limits and expectations you set and really seek LTR and not just what you want
3/14/2013 2:09:02 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
thecorvetteking Austin, TX 48, joined Dec. 2010	If they look like a catfish they're not real
3/14/2013 2:12:04 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from tnbadboy1965: he got tired of chasing you. Figured he has enough time into it and if he wasn't in your pants yet it was time to cut his losses and move on. I'm not saying I would've slept with him if we met.. but how can he decide he invested to much time into me without getting laid if he hasn't even met me in person?
3/14/2013 2:13:46 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from justrichardkung: actually you have to stop the limits and expectations you set and really seek LTR and not just what you want I have standards.. but I don't expect anything serious in the beginning.
3/14/2013 2:15:46 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from vanir: You could be retarded. Ask yourself this, when you hear hooves do you think unicorns? You do, don't you I have no idea what you're talking about. If you're calling me gullible, I'm definitely not. Lol
3/14/2013 3:08:37 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
yajusneverkno Oxford, AL 49, joined Oct. 2008	Quote from lacel91: Hmm. Makes sense. And when they say they have feelings for you, talk about meeting, and then cut you off completely with no explanation? Lol. This happened to me recently. And I found out he was telling me a crazy mess of lies. I just feel a little stupid for believing him. He was just so good at lying. That right there is a HUGE red flag, have feelings for you and you've never met I usually examine their profile real close, (how long have they been on here, are their only face photos, do they have post in forums, etc) Call & if the conversation is good arrange to meet them first opportunity I have. (which isn't very often ) Set up something short (ice cream, coffee, dinner) and leave the rest of the day open so if we hit it off we can keep hanging out. If we don't, I can leave. [Edited 3/14/2013 3:11:20 AM ]
3/14/2013 7:47:07 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
justrichardkung Seymour, WI 61, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from lacel91: I have standards.. but I don't expect anything serious in the beginning. and the standards you speak of are based on what you want, and so are your limits. So you get exactly what you offer. A guy seeking what he wants from you so nothing to complain about
3/14/2013 8:03:44 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
charmsz_08 Houston, TX 30, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from lacel91: Hmm. Makes sense. And when they say they have feelings for you, talk about meeting, and then cut you off completely with no explanation? Lol. This happened to me recently. And I found out he was telling me a crazy mess of lies. I just feel a little stupid for believing him. He was just so good at lying. Been there... I guess guys love to play with girl's emotion and really don't care... I blame myself for believing things and kept my mouth shut... AND it's a dating site... So, not everyone is honest... That's why it makes it harder for the ones who are honest... Sad but true... [Edited 3/14/2013 8:03:58 AM ]
3/14/2013 8:34:41 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
fing_americans Houston, TX 48, joined Dec. 2012	Quote from lacel91: Do you Skype with them first to see if they're really the person in the pictures? Talk on the phone? How quickly do you meet that person? What are your red flags that they're fake or not good people? Ive had a few really bad experiences with it. Part of it was my fault for giving these people my trust. I'm trying not to let myself be bitter or jaded, but online dating is crazy. Lol Date in the real world only..seriously.
3/14/2013 8:43:49 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
jjay1970 Syracuse, NY 44, joined Oct. 2011	Do you Skype with them first to see if they're really the person in the pictures? Talk on the phone? How quickly do you meet that person? What are your red flags that they're fake or not good people? If she doesn't want to meet within the first two weeks I stop wasting my time with her. I'm too old for silly games.
3/14/2013 9:05:45 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
ladyeden Waynesville, MO 55, joined Apr. 2008	Do thier speech patterns and tenses go all out of whack? Scammer. Do they not answer your questions? Scammer. Do they ask for your regular email in the first 2 contacts? Scammer. Do they love you within 3 emails? Scammer. Do they only contact you during working hours? Attached. Do they only text or tend to text responses to your calls after delays? Possibly attached. They want to meet you and hang out at your place - or you at theirs. They have booty plans and/or broke azz. After you've met - they want to come to your place, never thier's. In fact, you don't know what their address is - Attached. Talk on the phone, skype or just meet in PUBLIC sooner rather than later - and don't get all invested til you've checked them out. Yes, people lie in RL but the net lets people get away with SOOOOOOOoooooooo much more if you don't CYA and use common sense. That's pretty much the basics. [Edited 3/14/2013 9:07:25 AM ]
3/14/2013 10:18:55 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
mzjuliem Moreno Valley, CA 51, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from thecorvetteking: If they look like a catfish they're not real Please explain, I've been called a catfish, but since I'm 100% woman, I'm assuming it's s term, lol.
3/14/2013 10:55:16 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
ohdannyboy59 Arlington, TX 56, joined Sep. 2012	Above all, OP, learn from your dealings with other people, especially the negative ones. If you do, you'll grow a wiser and happier woman.
3/14/2013 10:59:14 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from charmsz_08: Been there... I guess guys love to play with girl's emotion and really don't care... I blame myself for believing things and kept my mouth shut... AND it's a dating site... So, not everyone is honest... That's why it makes it harder for the ones who are honest... Sad but true... Ahh. There hasn't been anyone on this site that has faked feelings for me. Which I'm sure someone will try in the near future. I'm pretty new to this site. The bad situations I ran into with guys were on two other sites.
3/14/2013 11:04:52 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from ohdannyboy59: Above all, OP, learn from your dealings with other people, especially the negative ones. If you do, you'll grow a wiser and happier woman. I have definitely learned a lot from all the bad experiences I've had. I'm just surprised with myself for believing I had something real fixing to happen with someone I hadn't met.
3/14/2013 12:20:15 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
notebooksrule Wickenburg, AZ 27, joined Mar. 2013	Quote from vanir: You could be retarded. Ask yourself this, when you hear hooves do you think unicorns? You do, don't you when are we going to start that band Vanir? My dreams are forever crushed every time I hear hooves .. cuz I too think it's a unicorn OP the best thing to do is not waste all your time talking to them online. Meet up with them .. making sure they don't have unrealistic expectations about meeting. If you are looking for a relationship, dont allow it to be a one night stand.
3/14/2013 12:51:03 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
ohdannyboy59 Arlington, TX 56, joined Sep. 2012	Quote from lacel91: I have definitely learned a lot from all the bad experiences I've had. I'm just surprised with myself for believing I had something real fixing to happen with someone I hadn't met. A lot more people who admit to having that revelation have had it. There will no doubt be others, too, that you'll find yourself scratching your head over. I've certainly had my share. Live and learn, eh.
3/14/2013 1:02:40 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
cococharms1976 Intercourse, PA 39, joined May. 2012	I can sniff a fake because I am one
3/14/2013 1:06:32 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
sigiere41 Morganfield, KY 44, joined Feb. 2013	This is a question I think it best not to answer nor, should anyone else. There are alot of people here with dummy profiles to trick the ones they are talking to and others for whatever reasons. If we start letting it out how we know the profiles are fake then all we are doing is making it easier for these people to fool us and others by educatting them on how we know the profiles are fake.
3/14/2013 1:19:15 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
natgoat255 Knob Noster, MO 60, joined Jan. 2013	Written messages... ~Maybe even Y-msgr chats.... Phone conversation... Meet in person...At least Half-way... Evening dinner / drinks / dancing.... Then she can have me Meet The Parents!!!
3/14/2013 1:21:57 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from sigiere41: This is a question I think it best not to answer nor, should anyone else. There are alot of people here with dummy profiles to trick the ones they are talking to and others for whatever reasons. If we start letting it out how we know the profiles are fake then all we are doing is making it easier for these people to fool us and others by educatting them on how we know the profiles are fake. You make a damn good point. Lol
3/14/2013 1:29:33 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from almostimperfect: I think the most I portent piece of information I could offer is to never trust anyone who uses gang signs, or can't keep their shirt on for their profile picture. Btw, I read your post, and I think I'm in love with you OP, can you move to PA and help me with dying grandmother. She real old has problem moving by himself. I promise great life, only $19.99 / month! Huh? Lol
3/14/2013 7:49:03 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
stamina1975 Madison Heights, VA 39, joined Apr. 2012	Real is one thing, to see if they are the person in the picture, Skype is good. You'll have to get to know them in the real World for a bit to know if you're going to be completely satisfied with who they are. Nobody is perfect, to be real is something to be discovered through getting to know somebody well enough. Some folk fail to realize that you can't say somebody isn't real just because you didn't get what you wanted either. Sure there are plenty of fake profiles, there's usually somebody real behind that, maybe not what the profile portrays or the impression they give you. Now those folks are the true fakes, regardless of what they think of themselves, whether it's for fun or whatever ulterior motives drive them to do such things. Perhaps fear or some kind of insecurity on their part plays a role, but if it's really that bad they shouldn't be on a dating site at all. Not saying you need full disclosure to who you are, but you have to be smart about who you're communicating your level of transparency with. Honesty is a good policy, but it is suggested to proceed with caution. They're a lot of ugly people out there, not just talking superficially either.
3/14/2013 8:19:44 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
vida60 Norman, OK 54, joined Jul. 2012	First, I would have to see the guy on cam, Once I met a guy that had just a picture posted and low and behold found out when I met him that that picture was 10 years old, in the picture he had hair, but in person he was balding on top with long dirty hair, nothing like the picture had imposed.
3/14/2013 8:29:38 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
samantha89joy Montrose, PA 26, joined Mar. 2013	decent person: talk on the phone, willing to meet in a public place, tells u some of his/her flaws bad news bear: wont talk on the phone, wants to meet at their or your place without reason, says something that seems out of line for a stranger to say like wanted u to meet their kids immediately, talking about getting a place together, tell u they think they love you.....if something does feel right, then something ISNT right!!! trust ur gut and dont ignore the red flags, ur not being paranoid, ur instinct is kicking in!
3/14/2013 8:32:38 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
mysticalsag9 Clarksburg, WV 58, joined Jan. 2013	red flag ->I would say if they can not meet you in person, after you feel you are close enough too them and they keep putting that meeting off, they really don't want what you want in a relationship . I would make a time limit. long distance or not .
3/14/2013 8:42:40 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
dkp787 New York, NY 27, joined Feb. 2013	If pics have weird borders. Like why is that corner of the picture blacked out. That person is not real. If their photo is a pic of a pic they are not real. If you managed to talk to them on the phone ask them to send you a specific picture only for you. If they say no. Be suspicious. Then casually ask them to video chat. If they say no to that too they probably not real. Google is also your friend. Use it if you can.
3/14/2013 9:28:08 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
nogames7240 Harvest, AL 43, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from tnbadboy1965: I agree. I do not have a chat programs, I do not have a web cam, I do not skype. If you want to talk to me after a couple emails I will give you my number. Oh and btw, when someone talks about having feelings for you and you have never met he just wants in your pants. Or thinks you're dumb enough to send him money
3/14/2013 9:31:02 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
kurine Houston, TX 23, joined Feb. 2013	I've new and already have seen lady's saying they are 18 when its more like 58 lol
3/14/2013 9:38:54 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
chicameansgirl Blacklick, OH 23, joined Feb. 2013	I chat for like a month,and then text for another month. We also talk on the phone . Next we skype,and then we meet up in a public place. if they don't want to skype or even use yahoo messenger webcam service I assume they are fake.If they don't want to chat for a month than they are not worthy of me. Too many guys want someone to meet at their house and give a number out within the first 5 min .
3/14/2013 11:03:44 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
thecorvetteking Austin, TX 48, joined Dec. 2010
3/14/2013 11:12:14 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
missdragonme Barberton, OH 36, joined Mar. 2013	Skype is great, if you can skype. Chat for many months before meeting up. Test them. remember what they say about themselves.. and if they cant keep there story straight, when you ask them question, then that's a red flag. don't give them your info on where you live, Untill they give you there info. look them up on the maps and online yellow pages.. and see if they are who they say they are. that's a good one.
3/14/2013 11:48:25 PM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
luckylibragal Mesa, AZ 47, joined Oct. 2011	If they don't post a picture, most likely something is fishy.
3/15/2013 1:54:24 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
icanbwho2u Seneca, MO 54, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from bubblyblond4u: I'm very suspicious if their English is messed up. First red flag. Or when they say they want to message me or email and want to know all about me, talk about "love"...really? I don't have any chat programs, and I'm not going to download ANY for anyone. I'm not sending incessant emails. I insist on a talk on the phone, just to make sure. They tend to disappear like the wind by then if their scammers. oops I think people who don't attempt to correct their spelling or word usage and grammar are either lazy or a predator. [Edited 3/15/2013 1:56:02 AM ]
3/15/2013 2:30:26 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
bigdaddyishere Las Vegas, NV 35, joined Mar. 2011	Income: Less than $25,000 Job: Unemployed Im real, but dont contact me until you get a job
3/15/2013 3:24:43 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
thecorvetteking Austin, TX 48, joined Dec. 2010	Ask for a carfax
3/15/2013 3:25:52 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
megpies San Antonio, TX 37, joined Jan. 2012	If their FBI most wanted poster uses the same name they gave you.
3/15/2013 3:27:39 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
lacel91 Madill, OK 24, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from bigdaddyishere: Income: Less than $25,000 Job: Unemployed Im real, but dont contact me until you get a job This is directed at me?
3/15/2013 4:28:27 AM	Signs you look for to see if someone online is for real?
branthamanz Poplar Bluff, MO 32, joined Jul. 2012	i am an ultimate caller of bs. If i feel like shes awesome and doesnt break my four basic rules, while chatting, then im all for askin for numbers and shit. to me texting aint shit. Over tha phone talkin to me is much more real only because i can tell if someones dishonest, talkin to others and takes 20 minutes to type out k, y, wyd, and all that crap. text is annoying cause half tha time i wanna say, ILL BUY YOUR A A FKING VOWEL!!! now skype...im too good at tellin if im talkin to whom she claim she is

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