6/17/2013 1:00:08 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Soo i have ran into multi people where they message me.. Hey how r u doing i read ur profile and i think would are a match. And ur what im looking for...
1st off i have forums only, and im not looking for any type of relationship of ANY KIND!
How is that a match
2ndly and moral of story
I look at their profile and i see.
Just wanting to have fun. FWB, fun times.. Everything except relationship.
His responce: i have been on for years, (? Y didnt u just delete it then)
And i didnt relize that was on my profile still...
My responce: if u havent been on for year and u get back onto a during site wouldnt u want to update ur info. Or did u forget the last time u were on the site u were only looking for a f**k...
His responce: ok i fixed it for u..
So i looked and it was completely different im looking for a soul mate.. Im looking for a sweet loving caring girl to spend the rest of my life with.. Really dude... I blew u off and now u changed ur profile, cuz i pointed it out. Truth or not truth. 1st impression is a b*tch. But apparently to the guys im a b*tch cuz i wont let go of what i saw.. Sorry it makes me feel like ur a liar and dishonest. But i get this alot. And it bull shit!
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6/17/2013 1:04:34 AM |
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vanir
Victoria
Australia
46, joined Mar. 2008
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come to the dark side and just be really sarcastic with them
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6/17/2013 1:06:06 AM |
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galaxy_star
Chicago, IL
54, joined May. 2013
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He apparently got booted off the mailing list for the memo "How to Write an Essay Which Reflects Who You Really Are".
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6/17/2013 1:11:48 AM |
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fun2bchattin
Hedgesville, WV
49, joined Feb. 2011
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Phew........breathe..........it will be ok. Crap.......I don't know if she's going to make it. We're losing her........
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6/17/2013 1:13:20 AM |
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jusjimi
Gaylord, MI
54, joined Nov. 2010
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Damn...i,m so grateful that i,m too old to change me to suit anyone...and i,m definately too old to lie to get what i want...he,ll learn.Me i,m gonna walk out into my garden pick some mint,make a mojito and read the forums...gotta be me!
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6/17/2013 1:14:48 AM |
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galaxy_star
Chicago, IL
54, joined May. 2013
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Damn...i,m so grateful that i,m too old to change me to suit anyone...and i,m definately too old to lie to get what i want...he,ll learn.Me i,m gonna walk out into my garden pick some mint,make a mojito and read the forums...gotta be me!
you grow your mint for your mojitos???
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6/17/2013 1:16:15 AM |
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hiimjade
Kenosha, WI
26, joined Feb. 2013
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Okay but you said you werent here looking for a date so why bring that up to him at all? Why not just say "im here for forums" wouldve saved everyone a headache
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6/17/2013 1:17:48 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Its crazy cuz i get a lot that do that.. Biggest is on there relationship. Had one that said , no commitment/casual dating... And he changed it to long term, diff site! if ur mind changes of what u want. Wouldnt u just change ur profile..
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6/17/2013 1:21:24 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Okay but you said you werent here looking for a date so why bring that up to him at all? Why not just say "im here for forums" wouldve saved everyone a headache
I still look at peoples profile, im not opposed to the possibility of finding someone, just not my intentions.. I told him by what he said on his profile hes not what im looking for.. And it went from there. But that was just and example.. Ive had others do simular things.
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6/17/2013 1:22:57 AM |
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hiimjade
Kenosha, WI
26, joined Feb. 2013
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I still look at peoples profile, im not opposed to the possibility of finding someone, just not my intentions.. I told him by what he said on his profile hes not what im looking for.. And it went from there. But that was just and example.. Ive had others do simular things.
Your s/n is "lookin4umylove" :|
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6/17/2013 1:32:17 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Your s/n is "lookin4umylove" :|
Well if ur wanting to get into my personal life, I want a relationship, I want to find somebody, I'm just giving up and I don't care, I always have all this lovey dovey shit on my profile, so I'm trying to switch it around and hopefully I find what I'm looking for. but I'm also completely fine if I don't. I'm just not putting undivided effort into finding somebody. so I am here to chat on the forms and if something ends up happening then something happens. if it doesn't who cares.I can't change my name unless i delete my account. so I'm not pursuing on looking for my love, but if my love finds me I'm waiting, and im not opposed to it... So wtf does this have anything to do with guy being busted in lies so they change they profile info..
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6/17/2013 1:32:43 AM |
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jusjimi
Gaylord, MI
54, joined Nov. 2010
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you grow your mint for your mojitos???
Doesnt everyone??hell yeah i do..my buddy gave me like three lil sprigs...and now its everywhere and so is the party...i however do buy my limes...i got a beautiful garden friend me n i,ll send the pics.cheers!
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6/17/2013 1:33:27 AM |
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galaxy_star
Chicago, IL
54, joined May. 2013
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OP ---- nothing.
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6/17/2013 1:33:49 AM |
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septembersong72
Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2012
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im not looking for any type of relationship of ANY KIND!
im not opposed to the possibility of finding someone,
You really know what you want, don't you?
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6/17/2013 1:34:46 AM |
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galaxy_star
Chicago, IL
54, joined May. 2013
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Doesnt everyone??hell yeah i do..my buddy gave me like three lil sprigs...and now its everywhere and so is the party...i however do buy my limes...i got a beautiful garden friend me n i,ll send the pics.cheers!
well, crap, not growing your own limes in michigan is cheating
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6/17/2013 1:39:35 AM |
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jusjimi
Gaylord, MI
54, joined Nov. 2010
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You really know what you want, don't you?
character assassination is so is easy when your so vague
Location: Beverly Hills, California
Distance: 1906 miles away
Age: 41, Capricorn
Height: 5 ft. 5 in.
Hair, Eyes: Light Brown, Brown
Body: Average
Ethnicity: White
Religion: Didn't Say
Politics: Didn't Say
Education: Didn't Say
Income: Didn't Say
Job: Didn't Say
Smoke: Didn't Say
Has Kids: Didn't Say
Send Message No Winks Add Friend Add Favorite
About Me
Just here for the forums and sexy bald guys with bad attitudes.
I have to put 3 lines of text here
So that I can post on the forums etc
This is an extra line just for giggles.
Seeking: A man ages 18 to 90
Interests: Didn't Say
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6/17/2013 1:40:21 AM |
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statue__goddess
Virginia Beach, VA
43, joined Nov. 2012
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As people change. . So do thier wants and needs.
There are some people back in the day I wanted to just sleep with. Some I wanted friendship and others I would have settled down for
But this rant? My god woman. . Who in thier right mind would settle for this from you or ANY woman? ?
I hope you aren't always this awful. Hope it was just a bad day. If so. .I really hope tomorrow is better For you
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6/17/2013 1:41:26 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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You really know what you want, don't you?
Yes, i have tried may didnt ways of wording my profile best friend soul mate. Blah blah. I said thats whay my PROFILE says, NO WHAT I ACTUAL FEEL. And so far it working. Im actually having convo with people.. Ofcourse a few old balls here and there.. But i dont get remarks, ill be ur best friend, ill be ur love.. I be ur soul mate... So i said f**ked im not looking for anything. And now im am actually talking to person with no sexual content or intentions...
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6/17/2013 1:46:08 AM |
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septembersong72
Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2012
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Yes, i have tried may didnt ways of wording my profile best friend soul mate. Blah blah. I said thats whay my PROFILE says, NO WHAT I ACTUAL FEEL. And so far it working. Im actually having convo with people.. Ofcourse a few old balls here and there.. But i dont get remarks, ill be ur best friend, ill be ur love.. I be ur soul mate... So i said f**ked im not looking for anything. And now im am actually talking to person with no sexual content or intentions...
Are you drunk typing?
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6/17/2013 1:46:27 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Are you drunk typing?
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6/17/2013 1:47:59 AM |
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hiimjade
Kenosha, WI
26, joined Feb. 2013
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Well if ur wanting to get into my personal life, I want a relationship, I want to find somebody, I'm just giving up and I don't care, I always have all this lovey dovey shit on my profile, so I'm trying to switch it around and hopefully I find what I'm looking for. but I'm also completely fine if I don't. I'm just not putting undivided effort into finding somebody. so I am here to chat on the forms and if something ends up happening then something happens. if it doesn't who cares.I can't change my name unless i delete my account. so I'm not pursuing on looking for my love, but if my love finds me I'm waiting, and im not opposed to it... So wtf does this have anything to do with guy being busted in lies so they change they profile info..
Well its a bit misleading all im saying.
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6/17/2013 1:48:38 AM |
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galaxy_star
Chicago, IL
54, joined May. 2013
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Don't read profiles, then you won't know the difference. I rarely read profiles, have unread messages backed up to the three weeks since I joined. I can see the first line of the message, few are intriguing enough to open.
I doubt I meet anyone here to actually date, I really am just here for the forums. I have been on match, chemistry, etc for a few years. I believe it will only happen in person for me.
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6/17/2013 1:56:58 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Don't read profiles, then you won't know the difference. I rarely read profiles, have unread messages backed up to the three weeks since I joined. I can see the first line of the message, few are intriguing enough to open.
I doubt I meet anyone here to actually date, I really am just here for the forums. I have been on match, chemistry, etc for a few years. I believe it will only happen in person for me.
I always read profile, it show me there true intentions. U should too, u shouldnt judge someone one their looks.. U just message him randomly even it he said hookup only, or decrete. Something like that
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6/17/2013 2:01:27 AM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Well its a bit misleading all im saying.
Whats miss leading that i want to find my best friend. Someone that doesnt want to f**k my picture..But its working so far.. I think when they see love and soul mate they think im Desperate or something and will fall for anything to be in love. Well not and i wont. So i changed it up. And well see how it goes.
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6/17/2013 9:11:13 AM |
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krush987
Tiffin, OH
43, joined May. 2013
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Whats miss leading that i want to find my best friend. Someone that doesnt want to f**k my picture..But its working so far.. I think when they see love and soul mate they think im Desperate or something and will fall for anything to be in love. Well not and i wont. So i changed it up. And well see how it goes.
Lol:::: Sweety you just told them the secret though? ?
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6/17/2013 9:17:59 AM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Cliff Notes from Biology 101, Pscyhology 201...
"Soul Mates" and "Best Friends" want sex. They will play along with your "games" [for some period of time and that varies] to get IT, OP; but ultimately their interest in you is to "f**k your picture" [SIC]
The [rest of life together] happens after that.
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6/17/2013 9:43:00 AM |
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krush987
Tiffin, OH
43, joined May. 2013
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I think the best method for sifting through the crap is for a girl to talk with a guy couple months and keep notes. ....Liars forget their lies.... once dating she tells the guy sorry but no sex for few months until I am comfortable with our relationship. .
Most pimps wont stick around... some losers mite cause they working other girls....but at least she has time to realise the guy is a douche!! I think girls oughta spy on their new dude alittle or ask around to make sure he is honest. ..... at least verify employment. marital status. Criminal background. And that he doesn't livee in a crack house or under the river bridge. There are ways to find out if he's two timing.
A litte reverse psychology goes a long way
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6/17/2013 9:47:02 AM |
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krush987
Tiffin, OH
43, joined May. 2013
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Ladies::::::: advice on reverse psychology
Just ask me
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6/17/2013 9:50:00 AM |
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rollingtoofast
Grand Prairie, TX
39, joined Feb. 2013
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well its obvious you was dealing with a dumbass....... end of story
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6/17/2013 10:26:40 AM |
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dee_lynn
Houlton, ME
32, joined Apr. 2013
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Apparently he was hoping u would be a less observant girl. And apparently he really is a dumbass...u r way of thinking is pretty sound but some may view u as a challenge and attempt to get in ur pants to just say they did..good of u to be sticking to ur guns!
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6/17/2013 10:31:06 AM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Saw Man of Steel saturday.
The most excellent incredible "perfect man"character in fiction still kissed the pretty girl at the end...
and I assure you that once the Seven Dawrfs were put to bed Prince Charming had some kind of sex with Snow White!
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6/17/2013 10:33:52 AM |
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eyes_wideopen
Franklin, WI
55, joined Oct. 2012
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Saw Man of Steel saturday.
The most excellent incredible "perfect man"character in fiction still kissed the pretty girl at the end...
and I assure you that once the Seven Dawrfs were put to bed Prince Charming had some kind of sex with Snow White!
Barry hit it right on the head so to speak... Ha...
Eyes_wideopen
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6/17/2013 11:25:28 AM |
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krush987
Tiffin, OH
43, joined May. 2013
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Apparently he was hoping u would be a less observant girl. And apparently he really is a dumbass...u r way of thinking is pretty sound but some may view u as a challenge and attempt to get in ur pants to just say they did..good of u to be sticking to ur guns!
ANASTASIA........DEEBoo
I like a challenge. ...
Cant blame girls tired of guys shoving their hands down their pants..and pretending to be nice long term potential just to fawk and truck..........CHALLENGE ME. I dare ya..
I always win...good news is you get me if you win or lose???
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6/17/2013 12:01:11 PM |
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dee_lynn
Houlton, ME
32, joined Apr. 2013
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Um but maximus challenging u is like waving a red flag in front of a bull u get all tunnel vision until someone says uncle! Hmm could be interesting!
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6/17/2013 12:02:17 PM |
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xxxhunterxxx
New Orleans, LA
44, joined Apr. 2013
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I never trust profiles!
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6/17/2013 12:04:10 PM |
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mrchatnsplat
Litchfield Park, AZ
57, joined Feb. 2013
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Hey I only change mine to lesbian RIGHT AFTER I shave so it's ok
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6/17/2013 12:05:09 PM |
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dee_lynn
Houlton, ME
32, joined Apr. 2013
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6/17/2013 1:04:43 PM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
60, joined Jan. 2013
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Well if ur wanting to get into my personal life, I want a relationship, I want to find somebody, I'm just giving up and I don't care, I always have all this lovey dovey shit on my profile, so I'm trying to switch it around and hopefully I find what I'm looking for. but I'm also completely fine if I don't. I'm just not putting undivided effort into finding somebody. so I am here to chat on the forms and if something ends up happening then something happens. if it doesn't who cares.I can't change my name unless i delete my account. so I'm not pursuing on looking for my love, but if my love finds me I'm waiting, and im not opposed to it... So wtf does this have anything to do with guy being busted in lies so they change they profile info..
I had met a guy on here just before I had made myself "invisible" because I got tired of the "copy and paste" messages randomly sent to lots of women on here. So I hear you & empathize. To make a long story short, read my profile by "friending me". Also, my DH guy and I just went out on our 10th date...... So it's possible even after you've given up. Stopped looking and he contacted me right on time.
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6/17/2013 1:05:36 PM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
60, joined Jan. 2013
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I had met a guy on here just before I had made myself "invisible" because I got tired of the "copy and paste" messages randomly sent to lots of women on here. So I hear you & empathize. To make a long story short, read my profile by "friending me". Also, my DH guy and I just went out on our 10th date...... So it's possible even after you've given up. Stopped looking and he contacted me right on time.
Flagged for what?
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6/17/2013 2:29:26 PM |
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lookin4umylove
Dayton, OH
34, joined Jun. 2013
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Flagged for what?
Someone flagged that lol, maybe they did it in error.
But thats what im hoping that happens. But now that i blew my cover whos knows lol..
But good luck to u honey. Geeze is soo hard...
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6/17/2013 7:52:32 PM |
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amateurgyno
Devon
United Kingdom
48, joined May. 2013
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People think they know what they want sometimes, then they see someone who makes them think twice.
When I joined up a month ago, I had my max age set to 5 yrs older than me, even though two of my longest relationships were with people 8 yrs older (and the next two, 10 years younger).
This weekend, I switched my max back to 8 yrs older after seeing someone who changed my way of thinking again.
You've admitted yourself that all it takes is the right someone to come along who could change your mind too... doesn't make what your profile said before bullshit, does it?
PS. congrats again, Christina.
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6/17/2013 10:32:09 PM |
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looking_in_utah
Lehi, UT
44, joined May. 2013
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Ok.. I am here just for the forums..... Now that that is out in the open... who wants to go out with me tonight...? I need a soul mate (for one night at list)... And after we .. We can go back at being strangers her in the forums...call me.. 877 555-frms..
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6/17/2013 10:39:26 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
19, joined Apr. 2012
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if a person is obviously just all bullshit
you could just out right tell them
"i think your a piece of crap" and then block them
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