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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from rosesarered93:
I understand, but do they have to try everything to know it's not for them?
There's nothing wrong with discrimination GENERALLY. We ALL discriminate on SOME basis, RACISM, which is at the heart of this thread topic, IS WRONG because is the belief that one ethnic group is superior than others based on nothing but physical differences, particularly skin color.
When applied to dating/mating/procreation, it serves as a tool of genetic preservation , which can be DANGEROUS in a situation where one ethnic group outnumbers another by 50% or more.
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butterflybby4
Round Rock, TX
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The constant whining and basically calling us all racists.
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| 11/21/2013 11:05:37 PM |
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illinois16
Buffalo Grove, IL
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I understand, but do they have to try everything to know it's not for them?
No no. A preference is what one prefers. Not what one is completely limited to. My perfect preference is a half white half black boy, you know, but I've dated a Filipino before as well. The girl im mentioning In my post is some against anything but her own race.. That's not a preference, that's a limitation.
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| 11/21/2013 11:12:00 PM |
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cj8222
Toledo, OH
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cj8222, so you don't see all the threads from black folks (often black women) begging to date white folks? OK 
ajdptwm, let society work together to destroy such injustice. 
pinkythickums, hello. 
I've never seen a thread where a black woman begs to a date a white guy  you just get mad when a white girl turns you down 
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userx79
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Quote from illinois16:
No no. A preference is what one prefers. Not what one is completely limited to. My perfect preference is a half white half black boy, you know, but I've dated a Filipino before as well. The girl im mentioning In my post is some against anything but her own race.. That's not a preference, that's a limitation.
I don't think I could have said it better. 
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| 11/21/2013 11:30:00 PM |
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illinois16
Buffalo Grove, IL
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I really like reading your posts . You're obviously very intelligent and insightful.
Thank you so much! Made my night Have a good night
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| 11/21/2013 11:38:01 PM |
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kymberkyzz
Eugene, OR
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He's really like this all the time and if he isn't b*tching about racial issues he's whining about women not liking him. Or harassing people or begging to be unblocked. I have him blocked because of I got tired of it
lol did the same....it was driving me fkn nuts.always reading about his crying damn
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mcorleone
Hamilton, ON
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I just don't find black women attractive. They just don't do anything for me.
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| 11/22/2013 12:17:52 AM |
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youarenotsafe
Jacksonville, FL
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He's got a serious hard on for me because I didn't accept his Pervy feet
Comment concerning my feet. I don't mind guys with a slight foot fetish playing with my feet however there is a like and he crossed it which seriously pissed me off
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| 11/22/2013 12:08:23 PM |
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laprimera
Hudson, NY
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Idgaf if someone doesn't want to date me because I'm black, but if one more mofo says he doesn't date outside his race but is okay with f**king me, I'm taking off my earrings. 
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| 11/22/2013 12:10:33 PM |
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laprimera
Hudson, NY
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I know Plum has my back!
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| 11/22/2013 12:12:13 PM |
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scarredandtatto
Oral, SD
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Now you need someone to get your front and we could....eeerrrrrr you could make a sammich.
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| 11/22/2013 12:13:52 PM |
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laprimera
Hudson, NY
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Oh, you're making a sandwich? Make me one, too, and bring me a beer while you're at it. No mayo.
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| 11/22/2013 12:26:48 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Idgaf if someone doesn't want to date me because I'm black, but if one more mofo says he doesn't date outside his race but is okay with f**king me...
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| 11/22/2013 1:22:41 PM |
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nightstick6999
Hopewell, VA
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If it makes you feel better I am white and only date outside my race lol
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| 11/22/2013 1:36:21 PM |
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eriktistight
Dayton, OH
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Sounds like a race baiting thread.
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| 11/22/2013 1:37:01 PM |
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redsox322
Killeen, TX
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Physical attraction. Can not b e helped sorry.
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| 11/22/2013 2:13:23 PM |
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butterflybby4
Round Rock, TX
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Its racist... though not that "I hate other races/other races are beneath me" etc. kind of racism. Yet its still racism. It can fall under "PRIDE" or just feeling more comfortable with ones own. And I can understand it. In most cases Im sure people even RELATE better to ones own group. But that's MOST... not ALL.
Bottom line...
If RACE is a determinating factor, its RACIST... period.
But Im more curious to why youre looking at other WOMENS profile. Are you gay? Looking for a hookup?
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| 11/22/2013 2:42:52 PM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
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Then stay in your race then. Simple.
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| 11/22/2013 3:38:12 PM |
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illinois16
Buffalo Grove, IL
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I date whites and latinas only. Wont go near blacks but not because of their race. I f**king hate the ghetto attitude.
Well I for one can tell you I do not have a "ghetto" attitude. Raised in Buffalo Grove, IL. Northwest suburb of CHicago. About 48 black kids in my graduating class and 500+ white kids. Raised by two white parents. Does this make me an exception to your "not going near blacks" rule? Or your "not going near ghetto women rule"? Unless you're just one of many who just don't find black women attractive. But let's be honest here.
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raynbowsyns
Dalzell, SC
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I date whites and latinas only. Wont go near blacks but not because of their race. I f**king hate the ghetto attitude.
That's generalizing. My parents never raised ghetto children, I didn't raise my children to be ghetto. In fact slang speech and Ebonics are forbidden in my home. My son wears his clothes properly as do my daughters. School is still their focus as is holding jobs since they are now in their early 20's.
So please tell me how I am ghetto?
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Let me get this straight. JEWS that came from the GHETTO are ok, but Blacks and Latinos from the ghetto are SCUM?
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youarenotsafe
Jacksonville, FL
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Ghettos are places but acting ghetto is completely different. I know young people of all races who act "ghetto" my rule for my friends was if you are sagging around me and I tell you to pull your pants up and you don't. I will not ask again I will just walk up to you and do it for you. I would also ignore them if they spoke to me in slang because they were smart kids they just thought being "ghetto" was cool and to me that was just stupid. If you are not from a ghetto then why the hell would you want to pretend like you are?
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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They're just being posers. Each generation has them, they're usually insecure and willing to do anything to fit in with others. It's sad and pathetic.
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| 11/22/2013 5:08:15 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Does not the media share any of the responsibility for the "ghetto" mentality?
50 Cent and his BOSS, white JEW Jimmy Iovine
Cash Money Records has GREATLY contributed to the "ghetto" mentality. And look at who it's PARENT COMPANY is
Lil Wayne has been with Cash Money Records since he was a young teen
This white guy is Lil Wayne's boss as head of Cash Money Record's parent company, UNIVERSAL MUSIC GROUP
So I see a bunch of white men encouraging BLACK entertainers to SELL black people this "ghetto" garbage.
WHY do people NOT hold these WHITE men accountable?
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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It's all about the benjamins, duh!
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mustang_girly
Alegre
Brazil
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Wah wah wah
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| 11/22/2013 6:09:02 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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It's all about the benjamins, duh!
I take this VERY seriously, because white people like to blame black people for their conditions, but they don't want to address the fact that WHITE people are getting RICH promoting this "ghetto" garbage.
If black people in the ghetto are bad for emulating this crap, what does that make the white men who gives the green light for it?
I;'d say it makes them PURE EVIL.
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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White devils is this where your going?
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| 11/22/2013 6:14:51 PM |
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mustang_girly
Alegre
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| 11/22/2013 6:37:49 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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White devils is this where your going?
YOU said it, NOT me.
No, what I'm saying is, white people condemn the black people who are poor people who see black entertainers as role models because they are FINANCIALLY successful, so they emulate them hoping to achieve success as well, yet white people are silent about the fact that WHITE men are the ones directing these black entertainers to create this mental poison.
That's like blaming the drug addict and ignoring the drug DEALER.
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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I think your painting with a broad strokes xman. Not all white ppl think that way, I don't.
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from dave3677:
I think your painting with a broad strokes xman. Not all white ppl think that way, I don't.
I know and I didn't mean to imply all white people think that way, but the ones who have disdain for black people who act "ghetto" don't seem to think there's anything wrong with WHITE men getting RICH from entertainment that glorifies and encourages destructive behavior.
That makes those white people as evil as the white men who own and control these companies that distribute it.
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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Record producers are business men. They don't care what artist say as long as they sell records/ make money. Evil is a strong word, money hungry is what I would say.
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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WHY aren't entertainers, such as Saigon (seen below), whose music (EVERY SINGLE SONG) has a CONSTRUCTIVE message and CONDEMNS the glorification of violence, promiscuity, drug use and sale, and ignorance given the SAME publicity and radio play as f**king SCUM like Lil Wayne?
Saigon
Apparently, there's a CONCERTED effort by the WHITE corporate execs in the entertainment industry to PERPETUATE DESTRUCTIVE behavior in the black community. Then white people BLAME the POOR black people who are f**king DESPERATE and in many cases HOPELESS, and willing to do ANYTHING they think will improve their lives ASAP, which is often ILLEGAL activity, which is HEAVILY glorified and encouraged.
Here's the cover of a Lil Wayne mixtape, titled "I am Blood". Notice he is dressed as a Blood GANGSTER.
If his WHITE bosses aren't happy with his music, they wouldn't allow it to be distributed.
RIGHT?
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from dave3677:
Record producers are business men. They don't care what artist say as long as they sell records/ make money. Evil is a strong word, money hungry is what I would say.
It's PURE EVIL because they know FULL well the affect it has on POOR, DESPERATE people and it is an ALL OUT ASSAULT.
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from dave3677:
Record producers are business men. They don't care what artist say as long as they sell records/ make money. Evil is a strong word, money hungry is what I would say.
Drug dealers are business men too. Does that make it right?
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userx79
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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Xman as a white male I have no reference to your point of view or you mine. That being said I do enjoy your posts and talking with you. I'm not gonna keep talking on this subject with you. For one, as I stated I can't relate to how you see this. How could I? Second it's not something I feel strongly about at all. I wouldn't wanna say something that would insult you or your point of view. I learned along time ago, it a touchy subject to say the least
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Fair enough. I didn't even intend to go this far with it, but as I said, I take the subject VERY seriously.
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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It's all good man.
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| 11/22/2013 7:51:09 PM |
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kymberkyzz
Eugene, OR
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Blah blah blah piss shit rickety blah blah blah Smh
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| 11/22/2013 8:11:10 PM |
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mccirrus
Indianapolis, IN
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In reality there is a percentage of black, white (as well as other racial groups)people who are racists and are highly preoccupied with this silly topic. A the same time there is a group of people who do not view themselves as white, black (or anything else for that matter), but rather perceive themselves in an individualistic manner and for those people this subject is irrelevant on all levels.
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laprimera
Hudson, NY
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I wanna cuddle Cirrus so hard... ^^^
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| 11/22/2013 9:29:05 PM |
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kizmiaz
Los Angeles, CA
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This thread was brilliant! We should openly discuss matters of race and racism more often! I think its sobering and can bring about healing.
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butterflybby4
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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This thread was brilliant! We should openly discuss matters of race and racism more often! I think its sobering and can bring about healing.
Yeah that always works.
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from kizmiaz:
This thread was brilliant! We should openly discuss matters of race and racism more often! I think its sobering and can bring about healing.
I agree. IGNORING racism does NOT make it go away.
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from dave3677:
Yeah that always works.
There was a time when black men were actually KILLED for even LOOKING at white women the wrong way.
That didn't change by IGNORING racism.
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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I believe it's time. We're moving in right way. I really believe it's a matter of time. My son will grow up in a different world than I did.
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laprimera
Hudson, NY
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I don't date outside my species so stop messaging me!!
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| 11/22/2013 9:47:46 PM |
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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 Sam.
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| 11/22/2013 9:49:10 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from dave3677:
I believe it's time. We're moving in right way. I really believe it's a matter of time. My son will grow up in a different world than I did.
It wasn't JUST time. I recall learning about PROTESTS, MARCHES, and RIOTS.
OH, and this law called the Civil Rights act of 1964
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
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Like I said, we have different backgrounds I don't wanna say the wrong thing.
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| 11/22/2013 9:53:31 PM |
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userx79
Richmond, VA
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Quote from samrandi:
How about reverse racism? Which is just racism but put in terms people can understand.
There is no such thing as "reverse racism" Racism is racism period. And racism is the belief that one ethnic group is superior to another.
I'm sure the number of black people in America who believes black people are superior to any other ethnic group is LESS than 1%.
I challenge you to find just ONE black person on this site that has opnely expressed that black people are SUPERIOR to any other ethnic group.
In contrast, I can find half a dozen white posters in 10 minutes that has openly expressed not just that white people are superior to black and latino people, but HATRED for them.
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laprimera
Hudson, NY
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I'm better than everybody. Just ask me. 
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