| 3/24/2014 2:05:14 AM |
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lauryl
West Midlands
United Kingdom
27, joined Mar. 2014
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What is it like to cheat on your spouse?
What's the benefit when you cheat on your lover?
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| 3/24/2014 2:09:59 AM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
30, joined Nov. 2013
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What is it like to cheat on your spouse?
What's the benefit when you cheat on your lover?
Ever shop lifted and gotten away with it? It's like that. 
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| 3/24/2014 2:55:25 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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I have not a clue do to the fact I did not cheat on either of my spouses. However the same can not be said of them, both of them cheated on me.
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| 3/24/2014 3:31:34 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013
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There is no way I want the guilt trip that cheating would cause. If a person has the urge to cheat they need to seek therapy or get a divorce. Anything that hurts another person is not the thing to do.
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| 3/24/2014 3:45:43 AM |
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ohiocuddles
Salem, OH
57, joined May. 2012
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how can u cheat on someone who trusts you and takes vows and makes promises to you ... if not that one person in the whole wide world .... who can u trust and rely on ... i couldn't hurt my spouse by cheating ... i don't get why people do it
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| 3/24/2014 3:58:59 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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| 3/24/2014 4:18:14 AM |
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ltlwing
Williamsburg, OH
51, joined Oct. 2013
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What is it like to cheat on your spouse?
What's the benefit when you cheat on your lover?
I guess that would depend on why you are cheating....some do it because they are unhappy in a their relationship,while others do it for the thrill of....either way!....its not necessary when one can just walk away in getting out...for whatever reason! The grass isn't as green on the other side as some think??.. it still has the some baggage as the first relationship,maybe worse....you need not wonder anymore.
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| 3/24/2014 4:24:22 AM |
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jeffb1981
Mendocino, CA
34, joined Jul. 2013
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Its like getting out of bed in the morning... just any old thing. Why are you wanting to cheat?
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| 3/24/2014 5:51:33 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
40, joined Feb. 2014
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My wife cheated. I was almost ready to forgive and move on but she liked to remind me about every damn thing wrong I ever did in our marriage while I was supposed to just forget she f**ked another guy in our house in our bed in the room next to where our children slept and decided I wasn't going to put up with that attitude so I moved out.
This may will be a year that I left.
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| 3/24/2014 7:28:18 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
49, joined Apr. 2013
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It has to be hard ... People cheat because of who they are not.
The benefit ... Sex or false emotional connection with someone else.
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| 3/24/2014 8:58:27 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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I don't know.
Never did it.
and your the one who seems to advocate multible dating.....
So.
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| 3/24/2014 9:15:44 AM |
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blueeyesjamie
Mount Pleasant, PA
34, joined Feb. 2014
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I am guilty of cheating when I was like 16. The only reason I did it was because he was cheating on me also.
For me the sneaking was a rush and made the sex was amazing
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| 3/24/2014 9:51:31 AM |
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pk0357
Eastlake, OH
39, joined Jan. 2010
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wouldn't have clue .. never cheated .. Doubt there is any real benefits but there would be a lot to lose
This. 
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| 3/24/2014 1:03:06 PM |
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keyboardkat
Oklahoma City, OK
40, joined Feb. 2011
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What is it like to cheat on your spouse?
What's the benefit when you cheat on your lover?
From my experience, it usually means they are bored,or ignored.
Its not a good excuse,but its often the reason.
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| 3/24/2014 1:16:11 PM |
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youcan2b1
Devon
United Kingdom
38, joined Aug. 2013
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Not that I would cheat if married or in a long term relationship but I'm thinking if you did then it may be because the sex has become routine - no frills!
Someone new may bring that thrill back but I doubt that thrill would be worth your marriage!
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| 3/24/2014 1:46:50 PM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
55, joined Jan. 2013
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What is it like to cheat on your spouse?
What's the benefit when you cheat on your lover?
Selfish as hell.
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| 3/24/2014 1:59:05 PM |
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bubblyblond4u
Crestline, CA
56, joined Jan. 2013
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What benefits is there to destroying your family? If you have/had one.
Any "benefitsss" would be short lived, then the reality would set in and the thought of all the people you would be hurting.
Make better choices. If your unhappy you have an obligation to say something. Ask for counseling. Not take the chicken $hit way out. Cowardice.
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| 3/25/2014 9:45:20 AM |
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complt38
Bigfork, MT
41, joined Dec. 2012
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threesomes with your spouse instead, a lot more fun.
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| 3/25/2014 11:06:25 AM |
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joat111026
Port Saint Lucie, FL
52, joined Oct. 2011
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Ever shop lifted and gotten away with it? It's like that.
Does this mean you cheated on your spouse or lover?
OP, I don't have a clue! My gut feeling says I will be nervous as hell!
I feel there is no benefit cheating in a relationship, it will make a mess in a relationship! Confusion and chaos to begin with!
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| 3/25/2014 11:27:16 AM |
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tyakack
Euclid, OH
24, joined Nov. 2007
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Silly woman, don't you know nobody on DH has ever cheated, lied, or done anything even remotely wrong in their lives? 
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| 3/25/2014 11:31:23 AM |
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onelonewolfe
Garland, TX
55, joined Feb. 2014
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wouldn't have clue .. never cheated .. Doubt there is any real benefits but there would be a lot to lose
oh yes there is one benifit that is gaind by a man that does cheat on his spouse or lover.
He prooves to himself that he is and has the great ability to be a self serving bastard that cares about nothing but his selfe.
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| 3/25/2014 3:30:36 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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I've never cheated so I don't know...um...go ask my ex husband maybe he can tell you.
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| 3/25/2014 4:30:57 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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Never cheated on anyone, when u cheat everything change, nothing stay the same
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| 3/25/2014 5:10:41 PM |
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peachy1954
Sacramento, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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There is no challenge in cheating. For the people who do it there is virtually an opportunity everyday to make the choice to do it. And that is what it is because no is such a simple concept they do it because they choose to. Personally there is not anything desirable about a man who insults me by saying he wants me to be a part of his choice to cheat.
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| 3/25/2014 5:40:03 PM |
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sum12see
Alhambra, CA
31, joined May. 2013
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Shit this b*tch needs to get a life... Your spells don't work here son... Why do you think you are still single? B*tch is f**king up my vibe.
No cheating is unexceptable.
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| 3/25/2014 5:51:07 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Not a cheater, or a shoplifter.
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| 3/25/2014 9:10:23 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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You're 25 and haven't cheated on your spouse and you call yourself a MACHO FEMINIST??? 
When a man cheats it is unforgiveable and he's the most worthless explewtive deleted excrement excreted in world history and divorce is the only answer.
If a woman cheats she rubs it in the guy's face, doesn't even bother asking forgiveness and thinks it's just the guy's tough luck.
It's the old feminine double standard. GEEZ! 25 and she hasn't cheated on her spouse! What a worthless excuse for a MACHO FEMINIST!
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| 3/30/2014 1:28:15 PM |
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lauryl
West Midlands
United Kingdom
27, joined Mar. 2014
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This.
Seriously?
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| 3/30/2014 3:47:20 PM |
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mysticalsag9
Clarksburg, WV
58, joined Jan. 2013
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OP becouse I felt I did not
like that they where cheating on me ... lost the trust lost the closeness once felt an thought we had ... so seemed easy ... I don't know how many times i have said this before.. a wrong does not make a right ... two marriages went from 1 right to the other to marry & second for many yrs ...
what do you think ...just a newbie or troll ?
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| 3/30/2014 4:28:11 PM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
30, joined Nov. 2013
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Does this mean you cheated on your spouse or lover?
OP, I don't have a clue! My gut feeling says I will be nervous as hell!
I feel there is no benefit cheating in a relationship, it will make a mess in a relationship! Confusion and chaos to begin with!
When I was a lot younger; yes.
I'm well aware that I'm the ONLY one on these forums that's ever done so, and I'm perfectly fine with that.
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| 3/30/2014 4:54:54 PM |
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wildriceman
Pollock, LA
56, joined Sep. 2003
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Hard subject. When do we start to cheat; in our minds, our heart, lusting for another. When does cheating begin? Is it the act or the thought?
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| 3/30/2014 6:45:19 PM |
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singlelifesweet
Waterford, CT
58, joined May. 2012
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I wouldn't know because I have more class than being a cheater. My ex on the other hand should have the answer for you. He claimed it was the biggest mistake he made in his life and my biggest mistake was marrying him. 
The benefit for him was he became single as soon as I could pack the car.
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| 3/30/2014 7:37:44 PM |
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singlelifesweet
Waterford, CT
58, joined May. 2012
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You're 25 and haven't cheated on your spouse and you call yourself a MACHO FEMINIST???
When a man cheats it is unforgiveable and he's the most worthless explewtive deleted excrement excreted in world history and divorce is the only answer.
If a woman cheats she rubs it in the guy's face, doesn't even bother asking forgiveness and thinks it's just the guy's tough luck.
It's the old feminine double standard. GEEZ! 25 and she hasn't cheated on her spouse! What a worthless excuse for a MACHO FEMINIST!
Coming from a man who hasn't been married. 
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