| 5/18/2014 8:37:21 PM |
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dabossyqueen
Pickens, MS
40, joined Apr. 2014
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Is it only me or what? Should I be afraid to love again? I'm going though a devoice, been marry 15 years..to my first lover 
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| 5/18/2014 9:26:44 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 5/19/2014 1:22:16 AM |
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smiles00700
Sallis, MS
34, joined Mar. 2012
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Look at it as having a new self and life.
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| 5/19/2014 3:37:00 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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All you can do is get out there and try again. 
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| 5/19/2014 10:18:07 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Step out with courage.
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| 5/20/2014 5:04:16 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Join the club.
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| 5/20/2014 5:18:34 PM |
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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Don't expect an easy replacement out of the gate. You got some soul searching as you transition into an individual again.
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| 5/20/2014 7:06:12 PM |
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hakman77
Boynton Beach, FL
39, joined Feb. 2014
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Is it only me or what? Should I be afraid to love again? I'm going though a devoice, been marry 15 years..to my first lover
you have a choice when It comes to fear and love. its not love's fault that your past relationship didn't work but fear will say it is. let your heart heal then allow it to love. one thing I really would like to encourage u not to do is bring all the excess baggage, expectations, problems in ur next relationship. If you do ur doomed to blame love again.
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| 5/21/2014 1:56:45 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011
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Great advice^^^^  
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| 5/22/2014 1:05:51 AM |
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american_ghost
Chicago, IL
92, joined May. 2014
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it aint only you. and dont get married again, marriage is a FILTHY CON JOB.
at least you're still ALIVE (many are not so fortunate, but the police are either STUPID AND INCOMPETENT, or IN ON IT, so they're not gonna warn you about that.)
you're still alive and you can move on.
Marriage does NOT stop him from cheating, or BEATING.
or calling his COPPER FRIENDS to put YOU in prison on false charges.
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| 5/22/2014 12:15:44 PM |
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monkeydid
Thomaston, GA
35, joined Dec. 2013
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It's natural to be afraid of love when you have been hurt. If you are scared of love, that's ok. You are vulnerable right now. There are people who would take advantage of your current emotional state, so guard your heart closely for a while. Watch out for "rebound" relationships. Don't fall for someone new just because they make you feel special and wanted. Despite how you may feel now, you ARE special and wonderful and worthy of being loved. Don't let anyone make you think differently and don't change for anyone.
I truly hope you find someone who appreciates you for who you are. Good luck and take care.
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| 5/25/2014 10:09:31 PM |
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wilhardin
Elkland, MO
60, joined Apr. 2014
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I look forward to love again I just uh I'm kind of skeptical of what is going to cost meI don't like the harbor on the past but I can't forget how much love has cost me in the pastand I don't wanna do that again I don't want to be betrayed don't want a woman of integrity one that stands behind the word she says and then going to stab me in the backdon't have much to lose anymore so I guess that's a blessing you find out who your true friends are whenever you're on rock bottom you know and you find out if they really love you for you when you don't have nothing but yourself to offer what's your e.t.a your integrity your honesty and sincerity your passion for life and such and so
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| 5/26/2014 9:08:30 PM |
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just_khloe
Ashtabula, OH
48, joined Jul. 2013
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Just focus on you and what makes you happy
The love part will happen, once you give yourself time to heal
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| 5/26/2014 10:42:42 PM |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
37, joined Feb. 2014
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Its not the fear of love its the fear of the pain that comes with it when it ends and the idea of trying to survive that again. you r not the only one men and weman shy away from it if they r burnt bad enough
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| 5/26/2014 10:58:21 PM |
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patriciarn2012
Pensacola, FL
46, joined May. 2012
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You've gotten hurt. It stinks, but it happens. When you happen to meet that special someone, give them your full attention and do not look back into the past. Do not compare, and good luck, OP
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| 5/27/2014 5:06:03 PM |
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whitl42
Beaver Dam, KY
46, joined Feb. 2014
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Op.. I think everyone is somewhat afraid to love again.. Just don't jump to soon
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