| 7/21/2014 12:35:44 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      sincetta 
                        
                      Mobile, AL 
                      30, joined May. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      1. remove the anonymity of flaggers. 
                       
                      2. include a message box in which the flagger describes the reason for the flag. 
                       
                      3. the person who is flagged receives a message or email with the account of the person who flagged you, and the reason for the flag. 
                       
                      4. add an option to remove the flag for the flagger, and give 3 business days for the two people to take care of the problem before handing it over to customer service. 
                       
                      Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now! 
                       
                        
                       
                      
  | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 12:43:52 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                      cupocheer 
                        
                      Assumption, IL 
                      67, joined May. 2010 
                      
  | 
                      Sincetta ~~ This is a forum to make suggestions for "improvements" to DH -- not a forum to instigate 'flaming threads' and cause problems on the site.  
                       
                       
                      DH has already decided the issues of flagging/suspension/deletions when designing this site -- sorry you missed the brainstorming sessions.  
                       
                       
                       
                      [Edited 7/21/2014 12:44:57 AM ] 
                      
  | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 12:52:46 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      sincetta 
                        
                      Mobile, AL 
                      30, joined May. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      
                        
                        
                          Sincetta ~~ This is a forum to make suggestions for "improvements" to DH -- not a forum to instigate 'flaming threads' and cause problems on the site.  
                           
                           
                          DH has already decided the issues of flagging/suspension/deletions when designing this site -- sorry you missed the brainstorming sessions. 
                          
                         
                        this isn't meant to instigate flaming threads and cause problems for the site. 
                         
                        the main problem with flags is that they are anonymous, and the majority of those who flag are the ones doing the bullying. 
                         
                        people who flag righteously, do it without shame; without necessity of anonymity. 
                         
                       | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 12:56:18 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      sincetta 
                        
                      Mobile, AL 
                      30, joined May. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      people who are flagged at least deserve a reason for being flagged. 
                      
  | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 1:31:51 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      xi_r_i_s_hx 
                        
                      Chicago, IL 
                      96, joined Apr. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      Bump   
                      
  | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 1:32:15 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      sincetta 
                        
                      Mobile, AL 
                      30, joined May. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      
                        
                        Bump    
                         
                        thx T.T 
                         
                        also, if this is implemented, since all flags would be taken care of by the users themselves within private messages, it would remove the problem people are having with flags inside of the forum. People would take care of it privately. You could even implement "taking conversation on someone's flag to the forums" as justification for another flag. If it is not taken care of within the private messages and not revoked, the flag and conversation regarding it will be taken to customer service after 3 or so days. 
                         
                        I personally believe this would improve the quality of the forums, and people would not misuse the tool this way. I think people would prefer it if they could take care of it privately before customer service ever got involved. 
                         
                        There are WAY too many people on the site who get deleted without even knowing why. 
                        Do you think they would continue making the same mistake if they at least knew WHY they got deleted? 
                         
                       | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 1:53:19 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      fuknasshole_v3 
                        
                      Urbana, IL 
                      37, joined Apr. 2013 
                      
  | 
                        
                      
  | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 12:23:36 PM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      pike45 
                        
                      Omaha, NE 
                      63, joined Feb. 2009 
                      
  | 
                      Great idea     
                       
                       
                      But it will never happen. 
                      
  | 
                    
                    
                      | 7/21/2014 6:43:03 PM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      sincetta 
                        
                      Mobile, AL 
                      30, joined May. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      
                        
                        
                          Great idea     
                          
                          
                          But it will never happen.
                          
                         
                        probably not, but i think it would be good for the site to at least email people why they got suspended or deleted so that they do not continue making the same mistakes. 
                         
                       | 
                    
                    
                      | 9/3/2014 11:35:17 AM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                      tasgosa 
                        
                      Knob Noster, MO 
                      61, joined Jul. 2013 
                      
  | 
                      
                        
                         
                          ....... 
                           
                          2. Include a message box in which the flagger describes the reason for the flag. 
                          .
                          
                        It should be Obvious to the Admin 'Why something is being Flagged'..... 
                        But... 
                        'WE' would like them to ACT on the more _Obvious_ ones...!!! 
                        Whether it's posted in the wrong Topic....or any number of 
                         
                        Basic Rules Violations . . !!! 
                         
                       | 
                    
                    
                      | 10/20/2014 8:09:40 PM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                      starr_so_happy 
                        
                      Perry, IA 
                      32, joined Jun. 2014 
                      
  | 
                      
                        
                        Bump    
                         
                       | 
                    
                    
                      | 10/20/2014 11:10:32 PM | 
                      Suggestion for flagging/suspension/deletion | 
                        | 
                    
                    
                        
                      pickygirl72 
                        
                      Barrow, AK 
                      45, joined Sep. 2011 
                      
  | 
                      I could see 1-3 happening. Not to sure 4 is a good idea. 
                       
                      Yes i agree the flagging situation has to be fixed. 
                      
  |