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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                Many ppl will mention what tthey want in a companion but almost always choose the opposite. Why? 
                 
                So list up to 10 "must haves" that would make a good companion. Once your able to see what your requirements are can you see the mistakes AND see how many others make the same mistakes you do. 
                 
                How can you want a real commitment if you don't knkw what a real one is? 
                 
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                soulflight 
                  
                Baltimore, MD 
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                I think my time is better spent on just being comfortable with who I am. That will attract like minded companions. I prefer to accept people as they are rather than compare them to a rigid list. 
                
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                cawkasian 
                  
                Houston, TX 
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                2 legs 
                2 arms 
                a head 
                2 ears 
                2 eyes 
                a mouth 
                 
                ..damn that's 10 already and I didn't even get to tits and ass.   
                 
                 
                 
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                tasgosa 
                  
                Knob Noster, MO 
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                ...^^^...N/C...for now... 
                ***** 
                6' 6" tall 
                Hip-length hair... 
                Liz Hurleys face.... 
                Carmen Electras frame... 
                Kathleen Turners speaking voice... 
                Caren Carpenters singing voice... 
                Jane Fondas Libido.... 
                MY Wedding Ring...!!!! 
                 
                        
                
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                tweetyttweet 
                Raleigh, NC 
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                happy 
                supportive 
                compassionate 
                secure 
                motivated 
                sexual 
                witty 
                loving 
                tall 
                single 
                 
                ^ should just about cover it.   
                
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                ladybugruth58 
                  
                Patton, PA 
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                taller than me. works and fresh n clean. has his own place. is a leader and stronger than me. stamina and all body parts work. great kisser and cuddler. treats me with respect and understanding. smart and has humor. likes to dance and enjoys music. works with me and dosent mind a honey do list. 
                
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                cajlg 
                  
                Callao, VA 
                54, joined Nov. 2009 
                
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                    taller than me. works and fresh n clean. has his own place. is a leader and stronger than me. stamina and all body parts work. great kisser and cuddler. treats me with respect and understanding. smart and has humor. likes to dance and enjoys music. works with me and dosent mind a honey do list.
                   . Sounds great..I will take one, too!  
                   
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                packersbabe920 
                  
                Green Bay, WI 
                50, joined Jul. 2013 
                
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                    I think my time is better spent on just being comfortable with who I am. That will attract like minded companions. I prefer to accept people as they are rather than compare them to a rigid list.
                    
                   
                   
                  I agree soul. I can't create a man when I know, no one is perfect 
                   
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                jenly 
                  
                Chaska, MN 
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                I don't have an ideal... I just try to get to know each man on their own merit. 
                
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                latinasm 
                  
                Amarillo, TX 
                46, joined May. 2014 
                online now! 
                
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                You can't ... No one is perfect!  
                
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                joat111026 
                  
                Port Saint Lucie, FL 
                51, joined Oct. 2011 
                
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                I can list all the things I want in a guy but all will be just a dream! 
                
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                stregaleonora 
                  
                Atlanta, GA 
                39, joined Jun. 2014 
                
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                Nice body 
                Beautiful mind 
                Good heart 
                Balls 
                Respect for others and integrity 
                Talented lover 
                Imagination 
                Down to earth 
                Class 
                Education 
                
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                larena40 
                  
                Lemon Grove, CA 
                42, joined Jan. 2014 
                
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                If I could I would have a problem. Now would I. 
                
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                mei_bankai 
                Middletown, OH 
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                no such thing   
                
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                testsignup 
                  
                Springfield, VA 
                61, joined Sep. 2009 
                
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                I don't need a long list. 
                 
                1. I find her attractive, and I care about her, and enjoy her company because of who she actually is. 
                 
                2. She is attracted to me, and cares about me, and enjoys being with me because of who I actually am. 
                 
                Other details vary. 
                
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                ladiebugg55 
                  
                Redding, CA 
                59, joined Jun. 2012 
                
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                the perfect man for me is tall dark and handsome. 
                he should have a great sense of humor he should keep me laughing every day as i will for him.. 
                Secure, compassionate, open minded, kind and friendly to all, show respect to me and anyone, chivalrous, generous, able to compromise, a good listner..honest to a fault..let me know he loves me in actions not just words..high libido is a must..loves animals..even tempered..no hot heads..put me first above all others as will do for him..he should care about his appearence.looking neat and clean and dressing nice has nothing to do with keeping up with the Jones..it's about pride and self respect and pleasing your mate..loves to play all sorts of games and the travel... the list goes on and on...  
                
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                allseeme2 
                Manassas, VA 
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                    I don't need a long list. 
                    
                    1. I find her attractive, and I care about her, and enjoy her company because of who she actually is.
                     
                    2. She is attracted to me, and cares about me, and enjoys being with me because of who I actually am.
                     
                    Other 
                    details vary
                     
                    This man has it so right,no body is perfect,just respect the one your with,when you find that person,it takes two to make love last,.an working together.don't take love for granted.::rose   
                    
                   
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                pickygirl72 
                  
                Phelan, CA 
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                    I think my time is better spent on just being comfortable with who I am. That will attract like minded companions. I prefer to accept people as they are rather than compare them to a rigid list.
                    
                  I was totally going to say this above statement. 
                   
                  You have to except people and not change them or make them into something you would like, that is a selfish and unrealistic act. Too many people get disappointed because they want things their way, but sometimes you have to give in a little and hey you might get more than you were expecting. 
                   
                  Be yourself. And let others be themselves too. 
                   
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                maniacmassager 
                  
                Lawrence, MA 
                49, joined Mar. 2008 
                
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                Under 5'6 
                non smoker 
                great sense of humor 
                attractive 
                fit 
                large love globes 
                nice feet 
                no short hair 
                not overly talkative 
                not bossy and demanding 
                
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                brownsugg93 
                  
                Milwaukee, WI 
                20, joined Jul. 2012 
                
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                    Many ppl will mention what tthey want in a companion but almost always choose the opposite. Why? 
                     
                    So list up to 10 "must haves" that would make a good companion. Once your able to see what your requirements are can you see the mistakes AND see how many others make the same mistakes you do. 
                     
                    How can you want a real commitment if you don't knkw what a real one is?
                    
                   
                  1. Talkative 
                  2. Sweet 
                  3. Funny 
                  4. Physically attractive 
                  5. Plans for the long run 
                  6. Close with family 
                  7. Dominant (SEXY!!!! ) 
                  8. Able to control his temper 
                  9. Doesnt drink or do drugs 
                  10. Good work ethic 
                   
                  Hmm I think my list is decent   
                   
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                brownsugg93 
                  
                Milwaukee, WI 
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                    Under 5'6 
                    non smoker 
                    great sense of humor 
                    attractive 
                    fit 
                    large love globes 
                    nice feet 
                    no short hair 
                    not overly talkative 
                    not bossy and demanding
                   Someones easily satisfied   
                   
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                extortionegos 
                  
                Hayward, CA 
                38, joined Apr. 2014 
                
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                As of this time I can't say what I want  so much disappointments in my life right now  
                
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                judahdunlap 
                Riverside, CA 
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                Sexy 
                Honest 
                Loyal 
                Sassy 
                Dark eyes 
                Dark hair 
                Large boobs 
                Speaks Spanish as well as english. 
                 
                 
                 
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                brownsugg93 
                  
                Milwaukee, WI 
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                Omg men your lists suck   can we eliminate atleast an inch of shallowness? 
                
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                brownsugg93 
                  
                Milwaukee, WI 
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                  As of this time I can't say what I want   so much disappointments in my life right now   Awww u poor thing   
                   
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                extortionegos 
                  
                Hayward, CA 
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                Well a hot beer poster chick in a skimpy outfit with a ice cold beer will do for now. I'm thirsty 
                
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                judahdunlap 
                Riverside, CA 
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                . 
                 
                 
                 
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                judahdunlap 
                Riverside, CA 
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                    Sexy 
                    Honest 
                    Loyal 
                    Sassy 
                    Dark eyes 
                    Dark hair 
                    Large boobs 
                    Speaks Spanish as well as english.
                    
                  As well as very talkative 
                   
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                24milkduds 
                  
                San Francisco, CA 
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                The only perfection I believe in is the heavens 
                 
                 
                 
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                baileybug32 
                  
                Sacramento, CA 
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                At least 6 foot, job, nice to me, oh yeah 10 inch d!ck.. the end.  
                
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                tasgosa 
                  
                Knob Noster, MO 
                60, joined Jul. 2013 
                
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                    I don't need a long list. 
                     
                    1. I find her attractive, and I care about her, and enjoy her company because of who she actually is. 
                     
                    2. She is attracted to me, and cares about me, and enjoys being with me because of who I actually am. 
                     
                    Other details vary.
                    
                  Yeah....That pretty much covers it.... 
                  Options can vary...but it's Really . . Just . . The Chemistry..!! 
                   
                      
                   
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                new2this63 
                Bowie, MD 
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                Only need one characteristic and that is a woman that truly loves herself.   
                
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                bsweet2caroline 
                Salt Lake City, UT 
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                Single 
                Can be myself with him 
                Has a Job 
                Dependable 
                Fun 
                Conversational ( easy 2 talk 2) 
                Has a car 
                Believes in himself 
                Manners 
                Handsome 
                 
                I think all of those qualities would make him handsome to be honest   
                This was something I needed to re-evaluate. Thank you! 
                
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                extortionegos 
                  
                Hayward, CA 
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                Mary was her name 
                
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                bumblebee7 
                  
                Fort Payne, AL 
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                I don't think I'd want a perfect woman....it could get boring after a while. 
                 
                Always saying and doing the right thing...I think it could get dull at some point. 
                 
                 
                 
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                firey_green1 
                Austin, TX 
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                Wouldn't want a perfect man... i can handle the flaws he comes with... it's all compromises on changes with valid support from me... works both ways... 
                 
                If I wanted a perfect man that doesn't say nothing I'd go buy me the Ken doll...  
                
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                stregaleonora 
                  
                Atlanta, GA 
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                    Single 
                    Can be myself with him 
                    Has a Job 
                    Dependable 
                    Fun 
                    Conversational ( easy 2 talk 2) 
                    Has a car 
                    Believes in himself 
                    Manners 
                    Handsome 
                     
                    
                   
                  Hey but #1, #3 and #7 shouldn't be obvious??  
                   
                  Wow!! Nowadays a woman has to spell out that he has to be single?   
                   
                  And she has to spell out that he has to have a car and a job?????    
                   
                   
                   
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                audyssey 
                  
                Khanabad 
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                Lol these days, they're a must have. 
                
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                The reason why I started this thread was to try and show ppl just how shallow theyve become and why so many relationsbips fail. Almost all the things ppl mentioned was superficial, surface and vain. 
                 
                Of course we want good looks, nice body, cars and money. But does all these things form a good foundation for a serious, successful relationship? I asked ppl of other cultures the same and their answers had more substance. 
                 
                Spiritually grounded, family orientated, loyal, faithful, respect for parents AND grand parents, good mental and physical health history in the family, ambition and good cultural teaching and knowledge there of. SOLID FOUNDATKON MATERIAL. 
                 
                Compare that to what you all been listing. And thats why other cultures have many more zuccessful marriages, much fewer divorces, stronger families and happier lives. 
                 
                Think about it seriously. 
                
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                  Only need one characteristic and that is a woman that truly loves herself.    
                   
                  And what does that have to do wigh her loving and respecting you? And explain why herloving herself is a good foundation for a good relationship?????? 
                   
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                stephisicated 
                  
                Teaneck, NJ 
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                Easy going, good humor, intelligent, educated, attractive, good hygiene, compassionate, respectful, loyal, athletic. 
                 
                That's what would be perfect for me 
                 
                 
                 
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                mylegsarecold 
                  
                Gainesville, FL 
                53, joined May. 2011 
                
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                    The reason why I started this thread was to try and show ppl just how shallow theyve become and why so many relationsbips fail. Almost all the things ppl mentioned was superficial, surface and vain. 
                     
                    Of course we want good looks, nice body, cars and money. But does all these things form a good foundation for a serious, successful relationship? I asked ppl of other cultures the same and their answers had more substance. 
                     
                    Spiritually grounded, family orientated, loyal, faithful, respect for parents AND grand parents, good mental and physical health history in the family, ambition and good cultural teaching and knowledge there of. SOLID FOUNDATKON MATERIAL. 
                     
                    Compare that to what you all been listing. And thats why other cultures have many more zuccessful marriages, much fewer divorces, stronger families and happier lives. 
                     
                    Think about it seriously.
                    
                  The perfect woman is on who would tell you to shut the hell up. 
                   
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                jester0011 
                  
                Lake Waccamaw, NC 
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                I'm going to find me a reckless woman.with razor blades and dice in her eyes.just a touch of sadness in her fingers.thunder and lightning in her thighs.and will ride like a one eyed Jack of diamonds with the devil close behind. 
                
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                diana29615 
                  
                Greenville, SC 
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                mind of a mad scientist 
                 
                heart of a poet 
                 
                spirit of an adventurer 
                
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                testsignup 
                  
                Springfield, VA 
                61, joined Sep. 2009 
                
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                    The reason why I started this thread was to try and show ppl just how shallow theyve become and why so many relationsbips fail. Almost all the things ppl mentioned was superficial, surface and vain. 
                     
                    Of course we want good looks, nice body, cars and money. But does all these things form a good foundation for a serious, successful relationship? I asked ppl of other cultures the same and their answers had more substance. 
                     
                    Spiritually grounded, family orientated, loyal, faithful, respect for parents AND grand parents, good mental and physical health history in the family, ambition and good cultural teaching and knowledge there of. SOLID FOUNDATKON MATERIAL. 
                     
                    Compare that to what you all been listing. And thats why other cultures have many more zuccessful marriages, much fewer divorces, stronger families and happier lives. 
                     
                    Think about it seriously.
                    
                   
                  Too bad you did this to yourself. 
                   
                  Let me tell you what you ACTUALLY did: 
                   
                  You had existing prejudices about what peoples' likes and dislikes were all about, and your prejudices made you feel superior and comfortable, and you wanted to shove them in other peoples' faces in order to feel even MORE superior. 
                   
                  So you wrote up a trick post, written specifically to encourage people to joke around and talk about surface issues, so that you could come back as you have, and applaud yourself in public. 
                   
                  Had you wanted to conduct a GENUINE and HONEST discussion, you would have explained that from the beginning. 
                   
                  And your snotty conclusions might have actually had some validity. As it is, they amount to nothing more than common, unsubstantiated fantasies, which display nothing more than the usual, rather pathetic, "noble savage" worship. 
                   
                         
                   
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                  Too bad you did this to yourself. 
                  
                  Let me tell you what you ACTUALLY did:
                   
                  You had existing prejudices about what peoples' likes and dislikes were all about, and your prejudices made you feel superior and comfortable, and you wanted to shove them in other peoples' faces in order to feel even MORE superior.
                   
                  So you wrote up a trick post, written specifically to encourage people to joke around and talk about surface issues, so that you could come back as you have, and applaud yourself in public.
                   
                  Had you wanted to conduct a GENUINE and HONEST discussion, you would have explained that from the beginning.
                   
                  And your snotty conclusions might have actually had some validity. As it is, they amount to nothing more than common, unsubstantiated fantasies, which display nothing more than the usual, rather pathetic, "noble savage" worship.
                  
                          
                   
                  WRONG ALL WRONG. I dont have the power to control ppls thoughts and words. I flattered that you think I can, thank you. I asked this question to others and got serilusness. There will always be young minded idiots in this forum that will NEVER take anything serious. Not responsible for their behavior either. 
                   
                  I'll ask and you answer however you wish. But be an adult about it, be responsible for the answers you give. Grow up please. 
                   
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                  happy 
                  supportive 
                  compassionate 
                  secure 
                  motivated 
                  sexual 
                  witty 
                  loving 
                  tall 
                  single
                   
                  ^ should just about cover it.    
                   
                  Take this list here. All this is fine but its all surface. These are not "foundation" type material. 
                   
                  They could be all that and a lousy parent, alcohol wit or addicted to drugs. Things that would destroy the relationship. 
                   
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                triedandtestedt 
                Las Vegas, NV 
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                I'm very open to accepting people for who they are,but my ideal mate must have one quality....[Honesty] I believe honesty takes care of everything!  
                
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                judahdunlap 
                Riverside, CA 
                28, joined Sep. 2012 
                
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                  I'm very open to accepting people for who they are,but my ideal mate must have one quality....[Honesty] I believe honesty takes care of everything!      
                  I feel the exact same way, I am always open to excepting people for who they are, but they MUST be honest. 
                   
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                diana29615 
                  
                Greenville, SC 
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                Mind of a mad scientist 
                 
                Heart of a poet 
                 
                Spirit of an adventurer 
                 
                *stirred not shaken* 
                
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                wedontgiveaf 
                  
                Vancouver, WA 
                27, joined Dec. 2013 
                
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                | 8/27/2014 7:46:01 PM | 
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                  I'm very open to accepting people for who they are,but my ideal mate must have one quality....[Honesty] I believe honesty takes care of everything!   
                   
                  Ok. Would you date a crackhead alcoholic who had a child by her own brother and sells herself for drug and alcohol money AS LONG AS shes honest and open about what she do? 
                   
                  I dont think you would. So when listing and/or looki.g for a mate shojld DRUG FREE be a must? 
                   
                  You see whereI'm going wit this? 
                   
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                | 8/27/2014 7:57:23 PM | 
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                barrydalmi 
                  
                Baltimore, MD 
                52, joined Dec. 2007 
                
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                Just 7... 
                 
                1. Great hair, red, strawberry blonde, auburn, deep brown with hints of auburn...you get the theme. 
                 
                2. Healthy, athletic and interested in sex [with me], sports (tennis/cycling/hiking). 
                 
                3. Bachelor's degree or equivalent (I have a Masters-so I think that's fair) 
                 
                4. Own career that she likes (I don't like a woman who hates her job and won't do anything about it). I love my career. 
                 
                5. Wears modern, sexy, adult, middle class clothing (heels, skirts, dresses, lingerie). 
                 
                6. Eats actual food and isn't on some weird diet all the time. 
                 
                7. Has a spiritual base (doesn't have to be devout anything)- just grounded. 
                
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                    Mind of a mad scientist. (Which means he'll have you tie up on a table for some crazy experiment) lol 
                     
                    Heart of a poet. (He used sweet angelic words to lure you there) lol 
                     
                    Spirit of an adventurer. (He's seeing other woman while you're tied up) lol 
                     
                    *stirred not shaken* (He's been crazy since he was a kid)lol
                    
                   
                  There! I made the interpreted corrections.    
                   
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                | 8/28/2014 10:25:59 PM | 
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                miss_sharonda 
                Glenshaw, PA 
                38, joined Dec. 2013 
                
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                I'm at my computer and I'm creating the perfect man like in the Movie Weird Science. 
                 
                1. Denzel Washington (Swag and Style) I love a man that has a confident walk and knows how to dress 
                 
                2. Bill Cosby (Education) I have my Bachelor's Degree and I'm currently working on my Masters. Therefore, I would want a man that is educated 
                 
                3. Ryan Gosling (Face) He has a boyish charm and he is so hot 
                 
                4. The Roc (Body) I want to feel his big strong arms around me  
                
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                | 8/29/2014 1:47:29 AM | 
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                new2this63 
                Bowie, MD 
                51, joined Apr. 2014 
                
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                A woman that loves herself unconditionally. 
                
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                | 8/29/2014 11:20:52 AM | 
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                larena40 
                  
                Lemon Grove, CA 
                42, joined Jan. 2014 
                
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                If I could create my perfect man. I wouldn't be on here.  
                
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                | 8/29/2014 11:24:52 AM | 
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                italianroyalty 
                  
                London 
                United Kingdom 
                21, joined Jul. 2014 
                online now! 
                
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                Sad to see 75% of these comments only describe what they want in in the physical department.. 
                
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                | 8/29/2014 11:11:23 PM | 
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
                48, joined Jun. 2014 
                
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                    Sad to see 75% of these comments only describe what they want in in the physical department..
                    
                   
                  THANK YOU VERY MUCH. It took someone from ANOTHER CULTURE to see what I was saying. 
                   
                  BENEFITS and RESPONSIBILITY, relationships are comprised of both. And when you go into it ONLY looking for the benedits then its the lack of responsibility that ends it. 
                   
                  Most time in drama, sometimes in death. You waste yrs of ur life, money, cars, jobs, houses and drag innocent kids through hell using them as ponds in this game. 
                   
                  And all bcuz you couldnt handle your business PROPERLY from the start. 
                   
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                dr_i_got_answer 
                  
                Gwynn Oak, MD 
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                    I agree soul.  I can't create a man when I know, no one is perfect
                    
                   
                  This is interesting. None of us are perfect....so does that mean we have to except anything or anyone bcuz we arent? 
                   
                  Should a woman be with a man who beats her bcuz shes not perfect herself? 
                   
                  Should a man be with a woman who slept with ALL his friends and most of his family bcuz hes not perfect? 
                   
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