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Sudden lost of affection from her |
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mr_bad_robot
Cincinnati, OH
41, joined Jul. 2014
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Time to have that talk about the future.
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| 8/9/2014 6:59:01 AM |
Sudden lost of affection from her |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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I have talked to her about it , she says that's not how she is but was at first. And i am a very affectionate person.
Give her some space. If she is tired of you or the relationship getting over anxious and being constantly around her, will only push her away more.
You even did a forum about that!
Leave her alone for a while and see what happens.
If she doesn't miss you and come looking for you, it means that your relationship is over and you need to behave like an adult and accept it.
(Unless you want to kidnap her and keep her in your basement).
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| 8/9/2014 7:06:38 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Time to have that talk about the future.
The talk about the future is for when the relatipnship is going well, it is not a talk to do out of fear or anxiety. 
Op is a guy, if he was a woman he would have used the pregnancy trick, so we would had had another future single mother or another shitty marriage with lots of lies and cheating. 
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| 8/9/2014 7:16:46 AM |
Sudden lost of affection from her |
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mr_bad_robot
Cincinnati, OH
41, joined Jul. 2014
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The talk about the future is for when the relatipnship is going well, it is not a talk to do out of fear or anxiety.
Op is a guy, if he was a woman he would have used the pregnancy trick, so we would had had another future single mother or another shitty marriage with lots of lies and cheating.
Really? So then you think when there is doubt in a relationship its best to stay quiet and let it play out on its own?
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| 8/9/2014 10:24:26 AM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Really? So then you think when there is doubt in a relationship its best to stay quiet and let it play out on its own?
I didn't say that you don't have to talk.
You said you want to talk about the future?
(Read the post I quoted again)
Eventually you should talk about your problems, no the future!!
You talk about the future when your relationship is working great, so a future together make sense!
Instead do you want to tal about the future??? Really??
And you want to talk about the future with whom? Someone who is withdrawing from the relationship?
This is no-sense.
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| 8/9/2014 8:01:34 PM |
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indianadave1951
Elkhart, IN
65, joined Dec. 2010
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If she has lost interest in you be upfront and ask her about her feelings about the present. If she has fallen out of love it's time for you to leave and find someone else.
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| 8/9/2014 8:04:58 PM |
Sudden lost of affection from her |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
48, joined Sep. 2010
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If it's lost...maybe it's under the couch..my cat loses her toys under there all the time...
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| 8/13/2014 6:03:25 PM |
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mtrctylady
Canton, MI
68, joined Sep. 2013
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It's a possibility that someone else has captured her interest. Has she been spending less time with you to "go out with a friend or friends", has there been a new family member that she has been speaking about that she never mentioned? If that is not the case it may be a possibility that she is getting bored. Do you do the same routine with her all the time? I'm not referring to sex but outside the bedroom as well. Remember women love to be mind f**ked as well.
Such good advice from one so young. Here, here!!
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| 8/13/2014 8:08:51 PM |
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thatchic82
Lansing, MI
33, joined Feb. 2013
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How long did it take for her to back off on the affection? To be honest she may be telling the truth because we are all guilty of being on our best behavior when we first meet someone then become our true selves once we become comfortable.
Quite true. I had a potential interest most recently...the first date was very memorable...he was kind, courteous...then, the following visit a week later was disastrous. He revealed a cut-throat side of himself and that ruined everything. Yea, he showed me a very nasty attitude. When I addressed it to him the following morning..he disregarded my feelings as if nothing happened...and ended the convo by saying he had a great time. I was thinking.."really..ok..I get it."
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| 8/13/2014 8:10:30 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
43, joined Jan. 2014
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Your not doing something right.
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| 8/13/2014 8:11:18 PM |
Sudden lost of affection from her |
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
40, joined Jun. 2013
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If she only wants you in the bed n could care a less outside of it. You're a POA! Deal with it n move on.
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| 8/13/2014 10:32:22 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009
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She's showing her "power".
She's cheating, got a boyfriend!
She's putting you in the "friend zone".
DUMP HER if she's an iceberg.
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| 8/14/2014 2:24:15 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated.
She has moved on emotionally, and is just using you for sex. More than likely she already has another man lined up.
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| 8/14/2014 6:08:50 AM |
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gamerman17
New York, NY
28, joined Apr. 2010
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My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated.
Shes sexually attracted you meaning physical attraction, but doesn't hold that initial attraction that leads to physical attraction. In other words, she doesn't see you as nothing more than than passionate sexual encounters. This is a problem due to the fact that a foundation isn't established and you have to base your relationship on other than sex. For the sake of mind, I would sit down and talk things out to see where it goes. If its still the same, I would cut your losses......gamer
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