Sudden lost of affection from her

8/7/2014 8:20:36 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ron35pa Lehighton, PA 37, joined May. 2014	My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/7/2014 8:21:32 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
brownsugg93 Milwaukee, WI 21, joined Jul. 2012	1st
8/7/2014 8:22:14 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
soulfullaussie Victoria Australia 50, joined May. 2014	She is starting to dislike you except when she is horny
8/7/2014 8:23:11 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
tardsmasher2 Douglasville, GA 53, joined Jun. 2010	Try forced buttsex...take charge man
8/7/2014 8:23:14 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
brownsugg93 Milwaukee, WI 21, joined Jul. 2012	Quote from ron35pa: My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Your profile says youre looking for a relationship...do u guys communicate about this?
8/7/2014 8:24:12 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
uncawked Houston, TX 49, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from ron35pa: My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Have lots of sex seems to be the obvious solution.
8/7/2014 8:38:29 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ron35pa Lehighton, PA 37, joined May. 2014	my profile is old . just looking for advise on this
8/7/2014 8:40:10 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ron35pa Lehighton, PA 37, joined May. 2014	she says otherwise
8/7/2014 8:43:05 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
soulfullaussie Victoria Australia 50, joined May. 2014	Quote from ron35pa: she says otherwise You can not make her be affectionate if she does not like or want Have you asked her why ? Try being a little more affectionate yourself toward her it might entice her to give some back
8/7/2014 8:47:26 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
stephisicated Teaneck, NJ 33, joined Jan. 2013	It's a possibility that someone else has captured her interest. Has she been spending less time with you to "go out with a friend or friends", has there been a new family member that she has been speaking about that she never mentioned? If that is not the case it may be a possibility that she is getting bored. Do you do the same routine with her all the time? I'm not referring to sex but outside the bedroom as well. Remember women love to be mind f**ked as well.
8/7/2014 8:57:25 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ron35pa Lehighton, PA 37, joined May. 2014	I have talked to her about it , she says that's not how she is but was at first. And i am a very affectionate person.
8/7/2014 9:14:23 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
stephisicated Teaneck, NJ 33, joined Jan. 2013	How long did it take for her to back off on the affection? To be honest she may be telling the truth because we are all guilty of being on our best behavior when we first meet someone then become our true selves once we become comfortable.
8/7/2014 9:30:28 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
pickygirl72 Barrow, AK 45, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from ron35pa: my profile is old . just looking for advise on this My advice to you is change the information in your profile to read "not looking" or " I have a gal and I am just here for the forums." Because some of us read profiles and than make our comment. My advise is go talk to your gf and get to the heart of the problem. You said "new" than hey no big lose if you breakup and move on. Who wants to be ignored?...I sure wouldn't.
8/7/2014 9:54:15 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
cosmicgem Springfield, MO 60, joined Jun. 2011	How long have you known her or been in a relationship with her? Does she know you are still on this site? Or others? When did the change happen and what may have happened or been said prior to the change? Has she perhaps found out something you do not Think she knows? Have you been Comepletely Honest and Open with her? Perhaps it is something going on with her that she is working through. Perhaps she is falling and is scared and trying to pull back out of fear of being hurt. Many are afraid to be vulnerable. Or she could be talking to an ex she had feelings for in the past . Or something else from her past. I don't know her nor you. So I really couldn't say except for possibilities. Sorry.
8/7/2014 10:05:43 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
amusicluvr Salem, OR 63, joined Nov. 2013	She heard about me, from your Mama, and can't wait to have me again. She doesn't know how to tell you that prefers threesomes with me, and your mama, to having sex with you. Don't worry, though, she will figure it out soon, and then dump you so you will be free to find someone new.
8/7/2014 11:14:44 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
mortara Pittsburgh, PA 62, joined Feb. 2014	Woman are crazy. I had a woman who was all over me in front of her friends. She really didn't like me but rather liked her FWB better. He had a longer and harder d*ck. Her words not mine. Found out the reason was, she did not want any of her friends to date me.
8/7/2014 1:26:23 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
sweetmama117 Bronx, NY 56, joined Aug. 2013	WOW role reversal, normally it's the women complaining about this. You wrote new gf, and that you ask her about it and she said she wasn't the affectionate type. To me you're getting to know each other. Now ask yourself how important affection is to you in a relationship, if she has other qualities you like and can put off affection? If affection plays a big role then move on, now that you haven't gotten attach to her. Maybe FWB work better here or boody call.
8/7/2014 1:32:11 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
xray6 Jacksonville, FL 28, joined Mar. 2012	smack her before she brakes up with you then she will never leave
8/7/2014 2:02:07 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
norwegianwood64 Fort Payne, AL 52, joined Jul. 2014	sayanora...adios...ciao...see ya
8/7/2014 3:31:41 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
playing_dirty Vida, OR 28, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from tardsmasher2: Try forced buttsex...take charge man
8/7/2014 3:33:01 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
photoartistguy Minneapolis, MN 27, joined Dec. 2007	Quote from xray6: smack her before she brakes up with you then she will never leave this might work
8/7/2014 3:39:03 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
inni_dreamz Pasadena, CA 52, joined Nov. 2012	The only real advice someone can give you is - talk to her. You and your girl friend have to work thru this --- none of us KNOW your gf... do we? We can say, Maybe it's this, Maybe it's that.... wth to do we know? I agree with others who have said - you should update your profile with "not looking" or something...
8/7/2014 3:43:23 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 54, joined May. 2011	Isn't this similar to your girlfriend having a car problem and you bring yours instead to the repair shop?
8/7/2014 3:50:48 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
babyjo138 Summersville, WV 41, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from ron35pa: My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Then Y the hell are u on a dating site if u have a girlfriend? Sounds like u are wanting your cake and eat it too. but she is distant because she is just using you for sex.
8/7/2014 3:53:24 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
babyjo138 Summersville, WV 41, joined Mar. 2014	Quote from xray6: smack her before she brakes up with you then she will never leave That is stupid advice.
8/7/2014 3:53:33 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
uncawked Houston, TX 49, joined Jun. 2014	Babyjo, I lost the boob pics when I deleted my old profile, can you send them again please.
8/7/2014 4:00:53 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
tweetyttweet Raleigh, NC 49, joined Jul. 2014	^^ I'm, seriously, wondering if you ever look at a woman's face without envisioning her looking like one big nippled titty?
8/7/2014 4:33:42 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 54, joined May. 2011	Quote from tweetyttweet: ^^ I'm, seriously, wondering if you ever look at a woman's face without envisioning her looking like one big nippled titty? He's not looking at her face.
8/7/2014 5:04:31 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
wrenchspinner45 Waynesville, NC 47, joined Sep. 2013	Quote from cosmicgem: How long have you known her or been in a relationship with her? Does she know you are still on this site? Or others? When did the change happen and what may have happened or been said prior to the change? Has she perhaps found out something you do not Think she knows? Have you been Comepletely Honest and Open with her? Perhaps it is something going on with her that she is working through. Perhaps she is falling and is scared and trying to pull back out of fear of being hurt. Many are afraid to be vulnerable. Or she could be talking to an ex she had feelings for in the past . Or something else from her past. I don't know her nor you. So I really couldn't say except for possibilities. Sorry. wrench
8/7/2014 5:05:42 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 48, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from ron35pa: My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Seems like you're both unhappy if you are on here looking to hookup. Just saying. Deal with the chick you already have and then go looking after you two break it off. Stop cheating on her.
8/7/2014 5:14:00 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
journeyman327 New Orleans, LA 40, joined Nov. 2010	If I were you, I'd keep my eyes and ears open because affection is an odd thing to begin holding back . Best of Luck to you . What does your GUT tell you ? (very important) don't go against it , you will more than likely regret it if you do .
8/7/2014 5:15:23 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 51, joined Jul. 2013	I need to hear both sides, until then I can't conclude my answer op.
8/7/2014 5:15:40 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ms_holland Danville, AL 52, joined Mar. 2014	Here is a novel ideal op, Ask her? You know communication is the way we talk to each other and go about solving problems.
8/7/2014 8:47:10 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ladybugruth58 Patton, PA 57, joined Feb. 2014	are you too clingy, she needs space> are you or her having fwb outside of your relationship? I can tell you my experiences but they probably wont help you. talk, initiate sex, cuddle her, make her feel wanted, not just gropped. she and you are the answer. lol, when I lost my ex's affection, he was having an affair.
8/7/2014 10:44:43 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 64, joined Oct. 2009	She has a stud on the side. She's losing interest, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She's hoping you'll pick up the hint. Dump her, though she'll say you're a bastard and it's all your fault. Goddess knows she's perfect!
8/8/2014 12:43:15 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ron35pa Lehighton, PA 37, joined May. 2014	thanks
8/8/2014 1:01:20 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
blue3rose Saint Louis, MO 40, joined Jun. 2013	What does your gut tell you? Whatever it is don't ignore it.
8/8/2014 1:07:14 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
poohbear2580 Memphis, TN 27, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from blue3rose: What does your gut tell you? Whatever it is don't ignore it. I agree whatever your intuition is about the situation follow it 9 times out of 10 it never steers you wrong
8/8/2014 1:07:33 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
naturebiy Bangkok Thailand 40, joined Jul. 2011	Quote from ron35pa: My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Perhaps this is a sign that she is not the one for you. We can not always expect to recieve back what we give from every person we are with. If you keep on with the subject with her... you will push her farther away..as well as make her feel that she is not good enough for you. [Edited 8/8/2014 1:08:10 AM ]
8/8/2014 1:12:19 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 54, joined May. 2011	You said she only shows affection when having sex. You said you desire more affection. Solution: Have more sex. Your welcome
8/8/2014 1:16:49 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
blue3rose Saint Louis, MO 40, joined Jun. 2013	Sex doesn't necessarily mean affection will be given.
8/8/2014 2:07:20 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
therock1963 Holly, MI 53, joined Mar. 2013	The big question is how long have you known each other, they say things change after about 18 months. I went thru a similar situation and in the end she walked we are still friends but wasn't what she was after.
8/8/2014 3:16:26 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
mylegsarecold Gainesville, FL 54, joined May. 2011	Quote from blue3rose: Sex doesn't necessarily mean affection will be given. Maybe not from you but the OP's girlfriend will because that is what he implied she does but only during sex.
8/8/2014 3:29:17 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
twining Anderson, SC 24, joined Jun. 2014	Sudden loss of affection from her. Anyway, she could be just using you for your c*ck. Since you're a guy, she probably doesn't think you'll mind it. Tell you what, order gates of hell chastity belt for yourself and see how that plays out.
8/8/2014 5:12:33 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
josfsd06 Sioux Falls, SD 57, joined Mar. 2014	You're better than BOB, opie. But, just barely.
8/8/2014 5:42:32 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from ron35pa: My new gf has had a sudden lost of affection. She says she loves me but doesn't show it except while having sex. Any help is appreciated. Sounds typical to me. your a commodity and the newness wore off. Obviously she doesn't really love you. or, your needy and just imagining this. Who knows.??? But its not uncommon for a woman just to want a relation....and the man becomes a commodity for this and her feelings were not real, but when they get horny.....of course all the attention suddenly comes out. When a man does this, he is deemed a player. however some women justify this action as normal....if its them doing it. Why? because when one does this enough...its normal to them. [Edited 8/8/2014 5:43:25 AM ]
8/8/2014 5:45:22 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 61, joined Apr. 2011	Dude....none of the reasons or explanations here matters. What matters is....your not happy in this um....relation( being used) just move on and find a woman who you feel happy with, and who shows she cares, not just when wanting sex. and thanks for showing...women can be players too.
8/8/2014 8:37:12 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ron35pa Lehighton, PA 37, joined May. 2014	I ended it.
8/8/2014 10:35:43 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
audyssey Khanabad Afghanistan 23, joined Dec. 2011	Eh this happened to me once, turned around and cheated on me.
8/8/2014 1:01:21 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ladybugruth58 Patton, PA 57, joined Feb. 2014	so was she cheating or why did you listen to us drama club? tell us op
8/8/2014 1:35:05 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
twining Anderson, SC 24, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from ron35pa: I ended it. Aww. That sucks. Oh well, there were probably more details to it.
8/8/2014 1:35:08 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
maywilcox Pontiac, MI 57, joined May. 2014	Y r u on a dating site? Y r u looking 4 help here?
8/8/2014 2:02:49 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
nswers2no1 Midlothian, VA 64, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from mylegsarecold: Isn't this similar to your girlfriend having a car problem and you bring yours instead to the repair shop?
8/8/2014 11:35:23 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
peachy1954 Sacramento, CA 62, joined Oct. 2010	Someone is running her mouth in her ear. Maybe one of your "online " buddies or one of your pals. You need to have a conversation or your sex life will go to hell too. My guess is she has caught something she thinks is justification to get her duckies in a row and get gone. If this person means something to you then communicating with her rather than trolling here for luck of the draw advice is your only shot.
8/8/2014 11:41:53 PM	Sudden lost of affection from her
extortionegos Hayward, CA 39, joined Apr. 2014	I have lost all love for everything because I now realize
8/9/2014 1:05:01 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
ltlwing Winchester, OH 52, joined Oct. 2013	Some women are not very affectionate...I don't like men hanging on me,or rubbing on me all the time,in lots of display of affection..Find out how she was raised op,her home life in growing up could be why??? I was in a family where this wasn't done much when growing up.I attribute this to why I am this way.Some people like it,while others don't...simple.
8/9/2014 3:18:14 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
redvelvetsky Boscobel, WI 49, joined Jun. 2014	You may have different attachment styles.She could just need more space than you do. Don't become clingy, demanding or possessive.Just give it a little time.You may find that you need someone who has an attachment style more like your own. People with a dismissive avoidant attachment have the tendency to emotionally distance themselves from their partner.(pseudo-independent)...lol Give her some space and see what happens.That seems really hard ,but if you can just act like you're busy or go out with friends..she may meet you halfway ,so you won't need to work so hard in the relationship. [Edited 8/9/2014 3:21:51 AM ]
8/9/2014 3:28:38 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
b2cold Elk Grove Village, IL 35, joined Mar. 2014	Drop her like a bad habit
8/9/2014 4:54:30 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
iluvurflaws Las Vegas, NV 46, joined Jun. 2014	She is suffering from unfulfilled expectations about you. Tell you don't love her anymore and you are interested in someone more affectionate.
8/9/2014 5:00:14 AM	Sudden lost of affection from her
rainydaze26 Columbus, OH 51, joined Nov. 2013	OP, I hope you didn't end things based on advise given here. Normally girls pull away because they are feeling unmet needs themselves & giving a little more might draw her back.

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