8/17/2014 9:51:59 PM |
I miss her.. |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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We met on here, we talked and texted almost daily. We never actually met in person but I thought of her as a friend. I loved to hear her laugh and we made each other laugh often. We talked about the insanity of DH and laughed about that too. I think we know each other well. Then all of a sudden she kicked me to the curb. That is fine although it hurts just a little. I just want to know why…
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8/17/2014 10:16:39 PM |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
36, joined Dec. 2012
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Are you hoping she reads this or did she block your ass. You sent her a c*ck pic, huh you dirty dog. You done f**ked up somehow. You should get her back, tell her that you think about her all the time and even post threads about how much you miss her. I think you should forget about her and meet some women in real life, f**k electronic relationships.
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8/17/2014 10:59:32 PM |
I miss her.. |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Some things are better left than unsaid op
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8/17/2014 11:14:59 PM |
I miss her.. |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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Everyone always wants to know why??? This will drive a sane person mad...don't get caught up in it.Just chalk this one up as it was not meant to be.She is not the right one for you.
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8/17/2014 11:48:54 PM |
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falpeter
Sao Paulo
Brazil
27, joined Jul. 2014
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Not simple!
I am going through this as well....I ended up my relationship of 2 years, well, she did.
it has been 3 weeks since then...i keep thinking, a lot about her....no matter what i do, it is always there, and whatever i am doing....it always come to my mind.
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8/18/2014 12:16:50 AM |
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sweetmama117
Bronx, NY
56, joined Aug. 2013
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Met a guy on here and the same as you, we spoke twice
every day for weeks and we even met. We had fun, but
then if I was not home when he called he would accuse
me of being on a date. I would try to reassure him
that I was just talking to him. Twice he screamed
at me he would not let me put a word in. So I ended it.
I missed him the first week but got over it.
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8/18/2014 2:26:06 AM |
I miss her.. |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Everyone always wants to know why??? This will drive a sane person mad...don't get caught up in it.Just chalk this one up as it was not meant to be.She is not the right one for you.
Totally agree. I am working on not overthinking things. I just have to let things go and move on.
OP stop with the fantasy thinking of "what it could of been", she probably had another person in her life and you were her fill in guy for awhile.
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8/18/2014 6:36:24 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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We met on here, we talked and texted almost daily. We never actually met in person but I thought of her as a friend. I loved to hear her laugh and we made each other laugh often. We talked about the insanity of DH and laughed about that too. I think we know each other well. Then all of a sudden she kicked me to the curb. That is fine although it hurts just a little. I just want to know why…
"Closure" is often overrated. I know that most of the time, when I got the reason for why I was dumped FROM the person dumping me, that it wasn't the truth anyway. Often, if you ask, they'll tell you something designed to make you go away without acting out, and not the truth, and other times they really don't know the truth themselves.
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8/18/2014 6:42:14 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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It wasn't a relationship!! It was a friendship! And that was clear to both at the start.
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8/18/2014 7:59:20 PM |
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nurset05
Tempe, AZ
29, joined Jul. 2014
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It wasn't a relationship!! It was a friendship! And that was clear to both at the start.
Maybe she met somebody, and felt she couldn't have you both... who knows.
I was talking to a guy from here for awhile, and out of the blue, without explanation, he quit talking to me, and deleted me as a friend. I could have texted him, dwelled on it, freaked out, etc....but I didn't. I don't need to know why. I know that he had reasons, or he wouldn't have done what he did. Either way, life goes on, on to the next. I'm sorry it's hurting you though, I feel for you.
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8/18/2014 11:56:29 PM |
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_cottonwood_
Jacksonville, FL
48, joined Jul. 2014
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My turtle died. Must've been that milk.
That's ok. A little body paint and you can hardly tell.
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8/19/2014 10:05:18 AM |
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josiemae
District Heights, MD
59, joined Jan. 2008
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Win some, lose some...it's all in the game of love.
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8/19/2014 1:40:32 PM |
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_cottonwood_
Jacksonville, FL
48, joined Jul. 2014
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What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.
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8/19/2014 5:00:34 PM |
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dontgivafuk999
Clwyd, Wales
United Kingdom
97, joined Mar. 2012
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Unfortunately it happens. Be sad, then just move on, it's all you can do.
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8/19/2014 6:02:39 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Poor turtle!
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8/19/2014 6:03:11 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Unfortunately it happens. Be sad, then just move on, it's all you can do.
Why is it you don't read a thread before you post?
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8/19/2014 8:57:00 PM |
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dontgivafuk999
Clwyd, Wales
United Kingdom
97, joined Mar. 2012
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I read your original post, skimmed the rest....you have a problem with me just looking at YOUR post? I do have other things to do. Feel free to block me if my empathy is unappreciated.
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8/19/2014 9:06:33 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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WOW! Let me help you out, she was a FRIEND! Not a lover.. but carry on!
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8/19/2014 9:11:58 PM |
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dontgivafuk999
Clwyd, Wales
United Kingdom
97, joined Mar. 2012
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Yeah, I got that. Loss of a friend is more painful than loss of a lover.
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8/19/2014 10:55:29 PM |
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_cottonwood_
Jacksonville, FL
48, joined Jul. 2014
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hurry - it was a hard find let me tell ya! But I found this little gem to cheer you up.
The Turtle "I've been dumped" Truck
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8/20/2014 6:36:57 AM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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8/20/2014 8:59:27 AM |
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cruisin427
Venice, CA
48, joined May. 2012
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She found some new d*ck..very simple
Deal with it...move on
Anymore stoopid questions..?
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8/20/2014 11:38:45 AM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Maybe she found you, your a d*ck! Read idiot!
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8/20/2014 11:39:22 AM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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hurry - it was a hard find let me tell ya! But I found this little gem to cheer you up.
The Turtle "I've been dumped" Truck
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8/20/2014 12:51:33 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
57, joined Feb. 2014
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I still have numbers in my phone of friends I use to talk with and laugh with. sometimes I want to call them. some I do call, othertimes they call me or message me here. distance and schedules are the problem. and we move on. but friends are always welcome.
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8/22/2014 1:47:49 AM |
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_cottonwood_
Jacksonville, FL
48, joined Jul. 2014
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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8/22/2014 1:50:03 AM |
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_cottonwood_
Jacksonville, FL
48, joined Jul. 2014
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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8/23/2014 11:02:50 AM |
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_cottonwood_
Jacksonville, FL
48, joined Jul. 2014
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Bye hurry! Friends forever.
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8/23/2014 10:37:29 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
56, joined Jul. 2007
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Did you every actually try to ask her why?
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8/23/2014 10:57:35 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Did you every actually try to ask her why?
She told me why, I only wanted to say I miss her, she knows..
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8/24/2014 1:41:56 PM |
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danicalifornia8
Northridge, CA
36, joined Jul. 2014
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I'm sorry.....
It's hard to lose someone that can make you laugh and feel special even if it's just a friendship..........
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8/24/2014 9:33:16 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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I'm sorry.....
It's hard to lose someone that can make you laugh and feel special even if it's just a friendship..........
Did you get the shakes this morning?
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8/25/2014 1:58:07 AM |
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danicalifornia8
Northridge, CA
36, joined Jul. 2014
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Earthquake? It was in northern cali. I'm in southern.......
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8/31/2014 8:04:20 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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She might be coming around..
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11/16/2014 12:32:44 AM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
54, joined Sep. 2014
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She found someone else she likes better than you.
Shit happens. Its a dating site, not let's get married site.
Sorry OP...get over it
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11/17/2014 6:53:08 AM |
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dejavugirl
Miami, FL
41, joined Feb. 2013
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* Let it go...
*Frozen music soundtrack in the background...
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11/17/2014 1:22:44 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Did you happen to look how old this thread is?
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11/17/2014 3:11:23 PM |
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dejavugirl
Miami, FL
41, joined Feb. 2013
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Oops
Did you forget her...how are you OP?
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11/17/2014 3:18:15 PM |
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dejavugirl
Miami, FL
41, joined Feb. 2013
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Oops...
OP btw what happened? Are you better now?
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11/17/2014 5:58:10 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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I am good. She was just a friend. How are you?
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11/18/2014 8:48:47 PM |
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dejavugirl
Miami, FL
41, joined Feb. 2013
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Good.
It's good to have friends you can talk to anything to help you go throughout the day...vent about our everyday frustrations...someone who cares...a good, clean friendship.
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11/18/2014 8:59:23 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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And it was, you interested in being a friend?
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11/19/2014 5:44:45 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from hurryme:
It wasn't a relationship!! It was a friendship! And that was clear to both at the start.
maybe she wanted more and knew you didn't?
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11/19/2014 6:23:19 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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No, she made it clear in the beginning, young kids. It was just friendship.
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11/23/2014 8:00:33 PM |
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tomeck112
Troy, OH
24, joined Dec. 2013
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one of my exes left me and I've been hurt for years wanting her back... the saying "pain changes people", it sure did change me. I'm not who I used to be, I've been depressed sad over misery,I used to be cheerful, now memories of her are stained into my brain. I really miss her a lot...
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11/23/2014 8:14:27 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Sorry to hear of your pain, my post was not of a loved one, just a friend, one I considered dear but not the same as you. Life is short, don't dwell on it too long, you have to move on..
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11/23/2014 9:12:45 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
online now!
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easy to say ,,hard to do,i would have to know what i done wrong, or she went with someone else outta the blue,somecan do that an no conscience at all, he deserves to know,
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11/23/2014 10:34:45 PM |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
36, joined Mar. 2014
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Maybe she got bored
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11/26/2014 4:45:32 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I hope u can find another good friend.
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11/26/2014 5:28:28 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Thank you, I am sure I will.
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11/29/2014 9:04:17 PM |
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tomeck112
Troy, OH
24, joined Dec. 2013
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I know how you feel, literally I do know how you feel, the pain hurts you think about her and how the pain changed you...
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12/17/2014 8:42:46 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from hurryme:
We met on here, we talked and texted almost daily. We never actually met in person but I thought of her as a friend. I loved to hear her laugh and we made each other laugh often. We talked about the insanity of DH and laughed about that too. I think we know each other well. Then all of a sudden she kicked me to the curb. That is fine although it hurts just a little. I just want to know why…
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You never met but you thought you knew each other well? If you never met then she obviously knew there was nothing between you yet. You must wear your heart on your sleeve. I feel for you. Women will hurt a man quick and you sound like you definitely didn't deserve that.
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12/17/2014 8:59:38 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Quote from hurryme:
We met on here, we talked and texted almost daily. We never actually met in person but I thought of her as a friend. I loved to hear her laugh and we made each other laugh often. We talked about the insanity of DH and laughed about that too. I think we know each other well. Then all of a sudden she kicked me to the curb. That is fine although it hurts just a little. I just want to know why…
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You never met but you thought you knew each other well? If you never met then she obviously knew there was nothing between you yet. You must wear your heart on your sleeve. I feel for you. Women will hurt a man quick and you sound like you definitely didn't deserve that.
I can't believe this thread is still going. But to answer your question, I failed to post that we talked on the phone daily, sometimes more than once, so yea, I think I knew her pretty well. We both knew intimate details of our lives.
I don't picture myself wearing my heart on my sleeve but if I do, not a bad thing really.
That being said I have seen your posts in other threads and have to say, sorry to hear how your marriage ended. It sux I KNOW.
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12/23/2014 8:40:45 AM |
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chitowngirl78
Oak Lawn, IL
38, joined May. 2014
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We met on here, we talked and texted almost daily. We never actually met in person but I thought of her as a friend. I loved to hear her laugh and we made each other laugh often. We talked about the insanity of DH and laughed about that too. I think we know each other well. Then all of a sudden she kicked me to the curb. That is fine although it hurts just a little. I just want to know why…
You didnt ask her on a date.
He who hesitates is lost...
I've passed up on many a wonderful guy I would have said yes to if they had simply asked me on a date. (and believe me these guys knew I liked them...)
Maybe next time youll jump at the chance for someone nice instead of waiting around.
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12/24/2014 3:06:06 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
online now!
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all women have the devil in there heart,never forget it,i lost a prety friend ,, or 3 on here lately, but they dont have to have evil hearts,an they al have men by the balls,an p*ssy rules men,,an all know thats the truth, they hurt,an go merrily on there way cause theres a hard d*ck,,with money an drugs,,just around the bend,its true..im sorry, i could name names but i wont,,,,shannon,, cum eater,,etc etc....................sperm banks....
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1/5/2015 9:29:01 AM |
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ahleah4mriris
Fort Worth, TX
45, joined Jul. 2014
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all women have the devil in there heart,
No, they DO NOT!!! Psychologically speaking, you've obviously been hurt by a very special woman (or several)and you therefore associate all women to be like them, which is not only untrue...it is an unfair way of thinking. My advice to you is to get out there more and get to know all the different kinds of personalities in all different kinds of women, and not judge all of them from one that hurt you so deeply.
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1/5/2015 10:14:16 AM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
59, joined Jan. 2013
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Maybe she found you, your a d*ck! Read idiot!
had to read this again
Oh, he's not a d*ck "you're a d*ck" there's your answer OP she didn't want to teach you the difference between "your" and "you're"
Problem solved...... NEXT
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1/5/2015 11:24:17 AM |
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toxictears1970
Marrero, LA
45, joined Dec. 2014
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Awww sorry
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1/13/2015 9:53:53 PM |
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2hot2eat
Desert Hot Springs, CA
42, joined Jun. 2014
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We met on here, we talked and texted almost daily. We never actually met in person but I thought of her as a friend. I loved to hear her laugh and we made each other laugh often. We talked about the insanity of DH and laughed about that too. I think we know each other well. Then all of a sudden she kicked me to the curb. That is fine although it hurts just a little. I just want to know why…
it happen to me also but I traveled to vegas twice it was great then things started going wrong and it was blamed on me! It took me three months but I'm cool now! Ppl play games to much and have no patiences
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1/14/2015 3:33:08 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
54, joined May. 2013
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My guess?
She went back to an X.
Sorry Op.
Life is a series of learning emotionally painful lessons.
It's not you.
No looking back. Hold that chin up, be brave, and keep moving forward.
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