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you're not going to like the truth but here it is: Everything about you is perfect except you don't turn her on. When women get horny they call it chemistry, and you don't do it for her. Nothing you do will change that, so unless you want to watch her get used by a bunch of dirt bags and then let her cry on your shoulder after they dump her, RUN AND DON'T TURN BACK

I agree with the general response being given here but one thing bothers me. You can be a friend but I would advise a distant, very casual friend.

However, just because she doesn't see you that way doesn't doom her to dating "dirtbags" and crying on your shoulder over a series of bad relationships.

You may very well be a great guy but she isn't feeling it and the fact that she has not chosen you does not automatically make her incapable of making good choices. People supporting that idea are are feeding into the sour grapes attitude. She will likely have failed relationships, we all do. but those men aren't bad just because she didn't choose you.

I know this is stupid. but I asked if she had feelings for me? she said she cares for me as a friend. before i asked what kinda guy would be ideal or could catch her eye she said me! i asked why she said the way i think, way i am etc but now I'm confused. If you not gonna be mature about this don't comment please.

These are signs that based of expierences by others that could indicate that a girl is POSSIBLY not interested in you.

There is always obvious ways to tell whether a woman is interetsed in you or not, but sometimes it is not always to tell for men who dont always understand the opposite sex, so i provided some warning signs you should look out for when your starting to want to get to know a woman you like.

1. She doesn't answer your calls, or takes long to reply to your texts. when a woman likes a man she will always check her phone frequently to reply to you ALWAYS unless she is busy at work or school, she awlays squeeze in a short break to get back to you. If she takes hours or even a day or so to respond, this could be a major sign she is not interested.

2. She tells you shes busy Although this could be true,, a woman will always make time to spend time with the man she likes, when she is always busy and seems to fail on trying to meet with you this is a good sign that tells you shes obviously not interested.

3. Body languag! Body Language will always give us away, and just by reading a persons body language, you will be able to get an idea on how they feel about you, here are some body poses that could possibly mean shes not interested. ?Amrs crossed: Arms crossed or even legs crossed can mean she is shut off, if her legs or arms are crossed its her subconsious way of revealing tbat she is not open to you. ?No direct eye contact. when a womam likes a man she will have no problem prolonging eye contact with him. When she never looks at you in your eyes, stares at something else while talking to you, or looks away immediatley when you look her direction, this could be a sign that she doesn't want to develope anemotional bond with you, thus isn't physically attracted to you. ?Leaning away from you. When she is leaning the opposite direction from you, she is trying to avoid physical contact with you (touch). these signs could also be beacuse she is bashful as well.

4. Never laughs at your jokes. even when a guy has a bad sense of humor if she likes him, she will laugh atball his jokes, even when they arn't very funny jokes.

5. Brings up other guys When a woman starts talking about other guys comfortably around you, this sis a definite sign that she isn't careful of your feelings.

6. Doesn't tell her friends about you Although this could be hard to know, when a woman is really into a guy she will bring you up to her friends, try talking to her friends, if they dont know you or havn't heard of you, this could mean she didnt mention you to her friends, which could mean she just isn't that into you.

7. She makes it clear that you're just a friend. she may not be bold or blunt when trying to signal this to you, but she will, in some way make sure she you understand that you will only ever be a friend to her.

8. She doesn't dress up for you Women like to dress nice for the men they like, when you see her and she is almost never dressed up sexy or nice, this could mean shea not into you.

9. She doesn't do flirty things. Subconsiously women will do flirty little gestures when they like a man, like flipping her hair, laughing and smiling alot. If she doesn't do flirty cute things while your around (and trust me it is obvious tell when she is) this could mean shes not worried about your attraction towards her.

I know this is stupid. but I asked if she had feelings for me? she said she cares for me as a friend. before i asked what kinda guy would be ideal or could catch her eye she said me! i asked why she said the way i think, way i am etc but now I'm confused. If you not gonna be mature about this don't comment please.

lots of comments here are not accurate.
When a woman of any age says she just wants to be friends, that is a huge sign that she's not interested in investing in a more romantic relationship with you.

If she wanted to start off as friends, tand then see where it goes, i promise you she would tell you that.