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11/29/2014 8:54:35 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
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Quote from ladiebugg55:
[uoyommeheader]Quote from ronleeseberg:
Too often the guy is good enough until they are married and then she expects him to change. Too many get the man to the alter and then try to alter the man. If you did not love me the way I am, then why did you love me?


I'm sorry but I have a difficult time trying to understand why anyone expects to change their s/o..you should have discovered if you're compatible before going further into the relationship..if not then why not move on to finding the right one for you..trying to change anyone just sets the relationship up for failure..it doesn't work trying to change anyone..my Mr right should fit me like a glove (metaphorically speaking)..
11/29/2014 9:52:45 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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I've found plenty that want to do that. Or want to push the boundaries.

11/29/2014 10:39:10 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from lynyrd80:
Except both of my Ex-wives never showed their true "colors" until after we were married.

Very true. Sometimes that is the case.

12/2/2014 12:40:38 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
lookin4him2012
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,801)
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012


No. I'm usually myself on dates. Most men like me. I don't like them, that's usually the problem. I've grown very picky in the last 5 years after dating some horrible men. At this point a man will have to be fascinating in a lot of ways in order to gain a first date and especially a second date with me.

12/3/2014 9:44:41 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from lookin4him2012:
No. I'm usually myself on dates. Most men like me. I don't like them, that's usually the problem. I've grown very picky in the last 5 years after dating some horrible men. At this point a man will have to be fascinating in a lot of ways in order to gain a first date and especially a second date with me.


Well I guess that leaves me out, explains a lot, I'm pretty average.

12/5/2014 12:30:13 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from lynyrd80:
Well I guess that leaves me out, explains a lot, I'm pretty average.

Average is good...a**holes are not.

12/5/2014 9:09:01 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
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Quote from pickygirl72:
Average is good...a**holes are not.


Really????

12/5/2014 12:43:42 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from lynyrd80:
Really????

Yes. Some women like myself like average. Why is that hard to believe? I think the men who jump right in and tell a women how awesome and wonderful he is are the ones who in real life are a-hole conceited bastards.

Average is good. Go to work, have some hobbies and is loyal to friends, lovers and family.

12/6/2014 8:51:45 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
Yes. Some women like myself like average. Why is that hard to believe? I think the men who jump right in and tell a women how awesome and wonderful he is are the ones who in real life are a-hole conceited bastards.

Average is good. Go to work, have some hobbies and is loyal to friends, lovers and family.


Some how I wish the women in my area read this.

12/6/2014 3:15:40 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
mboots31
Albion, NE
35, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from lynyrd80:
Some how I wish the women in my area read this.



That seems to be the going rate in this state.

12/7/2014 1:03:09 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Tell me about it.

12/7/2014 10:55:09 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
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The ones that will accept average, I think are all taken. Like the good guys that women look for.

12/7/2014 4:03:17 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

areyoumyking
Madison Heights, VA
44, joined Jun. 2014


I myself prefer the average man,they are not stuck on themselves.They are the ones that long for a relationship with unconditional love, respect and honesty. The above average guy is stuck on himself and thinks he is God's gift to women.

12/7/2014 5:08:52 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

jr6908
Columbia, MO
48, joined Sep. 2011


I just try to be myself n go with the flow

12/9/2014 2:01:21 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
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Pinon Hills, CA
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Quote from areyoumyking:
I myself prefer the average man,they are not stuck on themselves.They are the ones that long for a relationship with unconditional love, respect and honesty. The above average guy is stuck on himself and thinks he is God's gift to women.



12/10/2014 1:43:02 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
cavie59
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,132)
Enid, OK
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Apparently not far enough, I am still single and dateless.

12/10/2014 9:45:41 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Yeah, me too. I feel like the white crayon most of the time.

Back on track now. I figure if she likes me as I am...great, in not....oh well.
At my age I will adapt, but change....not so much. So I guess if I ever impress another woman again......maybe this time it will be forever.

12/10/2014 3:38:39 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
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Pinon Hills, CA
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Quote from lynyrd80:
I figure if she likes me as I am...great, in not....oh well.
At my age I will adapt, but change....not so much. So I guess if I ever impress another woman again......maybe this time it will be forever.


Good attitude!

12/10/2014 10:30:17 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


I'm much better in person. I can use both hands, terrible typer.

12/12/2014 12:33:12 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
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Quote from cavie59:
Apparently not far enough, I am still single and dateless.

Hang in there



[Edited 12/12/2014 12:33:40 AM ]

12/14/2014 8:30:18 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

john052
Langley, BC
57, joined Sep. 2012


Every Woman, I meet, always end up attached...

Been Single & dateless since Dec 1999

Impress..?

Flowers & poetry

I'm a Romantic

12/15/2014 7:13:43 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
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I can do without the poetry on a date. Its ok if the guy is artistic and writes, but I just want to read his stuff and not have it read to me at a candlelight dinner.



[Edited 12/15/2014 7:14:13 PM ]

12/15/2014 7:50:24 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

luckylouie42
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,992)
Cedar Grove, WV
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poetry , GET REAL.

12/16/2014 8:52:31 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Ok, I'm going to be serious now. First date would be a movie, or a meal, or both.
Good night kiss would be ok. If there could be a solid connection, might take a couple of months, then see where it could go. We're all adults here. We should all agree what the ultimate goal is, so why rush. If it turns into long term, you have the rest of your lives for the fun stuff.

12/16/2014 1:22:46 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
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Quote from lynyrd80:
If it turns into long term, you have the rest of your lives for the fun stuff.

Heck i want compatibility And fun (and i do not mean sex) from day one. Why wait?
I only want to impress someone with my personality and show them who i am and what i want out of life, let's hope he does the same.

12/16/2014 1:39:51 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

up2youandme
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As far as the moon and back ...that is to say I have no limit ..if my insides tell me I can't survive the day without thinking of her then I put all the resources at my disposal to get her on a coffee date or at the very least a word , then the sky is the limit. ..

12/17/2014 9:34:26 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
Heck i want compatibility And fun (and i do not mean sex) from day one. Why wait?
I only want to impress someone with my personality and show them who i am and what i want out of life, let's hope he does the same.


Damn it, I'm still in the wrong state.

12/19/2014 1:11:32 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
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Quote from lynyrd80:
Damn it, I'm still in the wrong state.

I am finding a lot of guys i want to meet...unfortunately they all live thousands of miles away.

I am stuck with the bad boy 'pants around their lower a** cheek' thugs.

12/20/2014 12:29:47 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
dodge_ram_it04
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,679)
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12/20/2014 10:14:05 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
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Quote from pickygirl72:
I am finding a lot of guys i want to meet...unfortunately they all live thousands of miles away.

I am stuck with the bad boy 'pants around their lower a** cheek' thugs.



Yeah they're here too, their problem is obvious.

12/22/2014 12:45:08 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
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Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Hell I got nothing to brag about.

12/22/2014 9:02:48 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
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Quote from pickygirl72:
Hell I got nothing to brag about.


I would argue that. You have a sense of humor, and appear to be above average intelligence.

12/23/2014 3:05:11 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from lynyrd80:
I would argue that. You have a sense of humor, and appear to be above average intelligence.

I'll agree

But I have nothing in life. I have crappy job and a car. Like i said nothing to brag about

12/23/2014 8:16:03 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
lookin4him2012
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,801)
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012


I haven't done anything to impress anyone. I guess that's why none of my dating relationships have worked out.

12/24/2014 5:45:20 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
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If your car moves, and you have a job that pays some money, then you are ahead of those who don't have that. That's something, even if you don't like it.



[Edited 12/24/2014 5:46:33 AM ]

12/24/2014 9:55:43 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
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Quote from purplerider1200:
If your car moves, and you have a job that pays some money, then you are ahead of those who don't have that. That's something, even if you don't like it.


Absolutely. last GF was on disability, food stamps, had lazy kids. I'll never do that again. Even crappy cars can be made better, even Fords.

12/24/2014 10:12:45 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
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Pinon Hills, CA
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Quote from lynyrd80:
Even crappy cars can be made better, even Fords.

I am lucky at least I have a Toyota.

12/25/2014 3:55:30 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
upina_tree
Crestwood, KY
49, joined Dec. 2014


I am guilty here. I am not even looking for a relationship right now. I just go to lunch or church with a couple of female friends for basic socialization away from work. But I find myself trying to boast and impress. I find myself feeling like I want to be of significance, or a little special. It is like I want them to see me higher than I feel about myself.


This is not who I want to be. If I ever have a special loving bond again, I don't want these charactoristics. I want to be able to treat her as an equal partner on all levels. I don't want to be center stage and let her ever feel insignificant.

12/25/2014 10:35:34 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


@utree^^^

When I talk to others I feel a bit sad, especially when talking to a date.

I feel I am nowhere in life. For 44 and have nothing to brag about. I haven't traveled much, my job sucks, divorced, I have no kids to talk about, I rent a room and my car has reached 304,000 miles.

Not that I would brag anyway about myself to impress someone. I just feel I can not bring "it" to the table. What can I offer someone?

I do volunteer my time for the forest department. That's all
I got to brag about.

12/26/2014 2:06:23 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Bragging is another form of lying. I just tell it like it is. If I impress someone...great, if not....oh well. Love me/hate me, it doesn't matter. Because at the end of the day....the only human I have to answer to.....IS ME.

12/26/2014 3:15:55 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
upina_tree
Crestwood, KY
49, joined Dec. 2014


You have everything pink! Life is living. Living is everything. You have your own unique history. You have a heart that knows how to give through volunteerism. That is a unique class in itself. You bring smiles to a community of people by sharing in these posts. Girl, you have so, so, so much.

Men are different beings. We bring different things to the relationship. Ours tends to be a more mechanical mind. We feel accomplished by bringing a smile to your face and by providing for those we love.

Your tools are much different and very much appreciated. Women tend to be the nurturer. You bring a tender heart and patience to the relationship. I don't really want a lady who doesn't need me, or who can fix the car better than me.

You have much more than you are giving yourself credit for.

12/26/2014 3:40:10 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  
upina_tree
Crestwood, KY
49, joined Dec. 2014


Sorry...I just realized you are PICKY and not pink.

12/26/2014 5:38:03 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
online now!


Life is who you are. Not what you have. Very few manage to build a legacy that everyone remembers forever. Some try, and fail miserably. What's important is that you be you. Be someone that others can count on. The most piddly job may not seem like much, but if you do it correctly, and no one had to watch over you while you did it, You have true value.

12/29/2014 8:21:22 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from purplerider1200:
Life is who you are. Not what you have. Very few manage to build a legacy that everyone remembers forever. Some try, and fail miserably. What's important is that you be you. Be someone that others can count on. The most piddly job may not seem like much, but if you do it correctly, and no one had to watch over you while you did it, You have true value.





1/1/2015 11:34:52 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from lynyrd80:
Bragging is another form of lying

You are right. I guess bragging isn't the word I'am looking for. And again I am who I am like me or not. My problem is I compare my life with others and get sad when i am not at their level. I am learning (slowly) that my life is MY life and my reality should be accepted as is. And its definitely up to me to change things. I feel a little lost sometimes.

1/1/2015 12:13:01 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

digitaldog
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,703)
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from pickygirl72:
You are right. I guess bragging isn't the word I'am looking for. And again I am who I am like me or not. My problem is I compare my life with others and get sad when i am not at their level. I am learning (slowly) that my life is MY life and my reality should be accepted as is. And its definitely up to me to change things. I feel a little lost sometimes.






My Dear Sweet Ms. pickygirl72 ,
Listen up Baby-Cakes, no need to ever feel lost about ANYthing...
Were I about 15 years younger ...
I'd already be at your place,
stretched out on your sofa asking:
" Hey Honey-Bunny what's for supper..?? "...
With me you life might be a LOT of things..
.
BUT " lost "...
is NOT one of em..!!!....
.
.
.
And the TRUTH be told..:
i is a lover not a fighter...

So if sex, food, or marriage is out of the question..
Then just send me money
and

-XoXoXoX-


1/1/2015 1:31:13 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
You are right. I guess bragging isn't the word I'am looking for. And again I am who I am like me or not. My problem is I compare my life with others and get sad when i am not at their level. I am learning (slowly) that my life is MY life and my reality should be accepted as is. And its definitely up to me to change things. I feel a little lost sometimes.


OK, honestly stating things about yourself (honestly) is not bragging. I have found that listening to another person's story usually helps me learn something, and find common ground. You know things in common. I am trying to be serious here, not judgmental.
So, if we were sitting across a table, I would listen to learn about you. Not judge, but try to figure out if we had enough things in common to make a good go of it. Then maybe go further.

1/2/2015 3:47:56 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


No, average talking and learning about someone is no a bad thing. And if someone shows passion in what they do or proud of something they have accomplished well thats not bragging or being conceited.



[Edited 1/2/2015 3:48:30 AM ]

1/2/2015 4:20:50 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

imlookin4sum1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (22,866)
El Cajon, CA
54, joined Mar. 2012


Depends on who it is Right??

1/2/2015 8:59:13 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
No, average talking and learning about someone is no a bad thing. And if someone shows passion in what they do or proud of something they have accomplished well thats not bragging or being conceited.


Exactly, this is what I was trying, and failed, to say earlier.

1/3/2015 4:44:52 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


^^^sorry for confusion

1/3/2015 7:16:27 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
^^^sorry for confusion


All good, sometimes I get tongue-tied. I try to say nice things, and it comes out wrong.

1/4/2015 7:58:33 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from lynyrd80:
All good, sometimes I get tongue-tied. I try to say nice things, and it comes out wrong.

happens to all of us. We get caught up in the moment and sometimes things are said and then afterwards we say "oh f**k"



[Edited 1/4/2015 7:59:13 PM ]

1/5/2015 8:38:49 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

jrbogie1949
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,851)
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009


i'd go as far as being myself to impress someone. the first priority for any kind of personal relationship with me is ya gotta like who i am.

1/5/2015 8:45:25 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
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Quote from jrbogie1949:
i'd go as far as being myself to impress someone. the first priority for any kind of personal relationship with me is ya gotta like who i am.


In agree love me/hate me, doesn't matter to me. I'm going to be me.

1/6/2015 2:13:03 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
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1/6/2015 5:10:43 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

stargazzer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,864)
Creighton, NE
68, joined Feb. 2007


Quote from jrbogie1949:
i'd go as far as being myself to impress someone. the first priority for any kind of personal relationship with me is ya gotta like who i am.

Oh man you make it tough for the Ladys

1/6/2015 6:47:41 PM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


We are all imperfect. Deal with it

1/7/2015 9:38:53 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

lynyrd80
Over 2,000 Posts (2,926)
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014


Except me.....

OK seriously....my flaws make me interesting, some even call me "special".

1/8/2015 11:45:51 AM How far did you go to impress someone? | Page 2  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,556)
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011


^^^yes you are "special"...