| 4/13/2015 12:29:39 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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So I'm starting to think that maybe...just maybe I am petty. But isn't that my perogative?!?! Ex. 1. Went out with a guy and he was clearly 40 lbs heavier than his pics but on top of that he had a bleach stain on his shirt...I CAN'T Ex. 2. Went out with a guy and he had at least 25 keys on his key chain so the whole night he's jingling around....I CAN'T. May not be deal breakers for some but for me I just CAN'T LMBO.
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| 4/13/2015 12:33:22 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Never settle if something really ticks you off about a man it is your red flags of compatability go with your instincts.
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| 4/13/2015 12:41:08 AM |
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dream445
Cottonport, LA
39, joined Oct. 2014
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Maybe date #3 will be the one 
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| 4/13/2015 12:42:33 AM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
60, joined Dec. 2012
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| 4/13/2015 12:43:17 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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I agree kandykayn. I will not settle. I do, however, completely understand the whole idea of compromise and accepting flaws but to me a man who shows up to a first date with a bleach stain (after I have went and bought an outfit)is someone I am just not compatible with because that means he just doesn't give AF.
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| 4/13/2015 12:43:37 AM |
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bigdinv
Houston, TX
37, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm petty.
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| 4/13/2015 12:45:58 AM |
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shinyhappi
Albany, NY
43, joined Oct. 2014
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It's probably safe to say that you weren't feeling any attraction twords either man because if you were you wouldn't have noticed the bleach stain and jingling keys. The real deal is that you just weren't into them 
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| 4/13/2015 12:49:48 AM |
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dream445
Cottonport, LA
39, joined Oct. 2014
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I agree kandykayn. I will not settle. I do, however, completely understand the whole idea of compromise and accepting flaws but to me a man who shows up to a first date with a bleach stain (after I have went and bought an outfit)is someone I am just not compatible with because that means he just doesn't give AF.
You're beautiful...you deserve better than a bleach shirt and jingling keys....you deserve a dream....
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| 4/13/2015 12:54:21 AM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
53, joined Jul. 2014
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chain jiggling all night??? lol
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| 4/13/2015 12:54:44 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
51, joined Nov. 2014
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Me me me me me me me me. Meme.
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| 4/13/2015 12:55:26 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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It's probably safe to say that you weren't feeling any attraction twords either man because if you were you wouldn't have noticed the bleach stain and jingling keys. The real deal is that you just weren't into them
I guess u r right. When u view someone's pics and u have these great phone conversations u create this idea of who they are. Then when u see them though and the pics were 15 years old or 50 pounds old all of the connection we had is lost on my part because u gave me false info.
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| 4/13/2015 1:01:32 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
66, joined Jul. 2010
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Sounds like a nagger waiting to happen! 
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| 4/13/2015 1:07:45 AM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
65, joined Oct. 2010
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There is one thing about meeting people out in the real world, and that is "What you see, is what you get out there"!
Where do you think people are gonna run, when they don't have what it takes to meet people out in the real world to date?
They are gonna run to the online dating sites.
I still meet people to date out in the real world. That works best for me for this very reason.
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| 4/13/2015 1:08:14 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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Sounds like a nagger waiting to happen!
No I'm not a nagger at all. I would never let the relationship progress if I had to constantly nag and complain. I like peace in my life and especially in my home.
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| 4/13/2015 4:20:43 AM |
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ltlwing
Williamsburg, OH
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Me me me me me me me me. Meme.
I get this!....maybe the me me me...will be a pet peeve of someone saying....I can't!
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| 4/13/2015 4:23:14 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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too picky..good grief even...good luck,,you will need it.adam was..perfect,,before he sinned..are you perfect..never......
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| 4/13/2015 4:25:38 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
53, joined Jan. 2013
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Hun I was just a few years older than you when I first divorced and started dating..you're going to go on a LOT of first dates...get used to it..that's the nature of the beast.
and I'll agree with Kandy..NEVER settle if they don't float your boat and curl your toes..NEXT!!
someday you'll find one that you just want the first date to never end and it won't.
good luck!!
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| 4/13/2015 4:25:51 AM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
France
45, joined Jan. 2015
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Where is your bayby daddy?
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| 4/13/2015 4:27:14 AM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
34, joined Aug. 2014
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Or maybe it's Maybeline.
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| 4/13/2015 4:28:31 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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So I'm starting to think that maybe...just maybe I am petty. But isn't that my perogative?!?! Ex. 1. Went out with a guy and he was clearly 40 lbs heavier than his pics but on top of that he had a bleach stain on his shirt...I CAN'T Ex. 2. Went out with a guy and he had at least 25 keys on his key chain so the whole night he's jingling around....I CAN'T. May not be deal breakers for some but for me I just CAN'T LMBO.
just to let you know.
Exes are not someone you dated once with and never went out with again.
Exes are those you had a relation with and it failed.
the other thing is when someone described themselves as pretty or handsome....that can be a red flag depending....especially when it may or may not be true.
you know it sounds like you meet way before you should.....try chatting longer before you meet.
By the way...I weighed a picture of myself and it only weighed .o25 of an ounce....So I weigh 172 pounds more than my picture.
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| 4/13/2015 4:36:27 AM |
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happysmiley1
Las Vegas, NV
54, joined Feb. 2014
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Or maybe it's Maybeline.
I think she meant EXAMPLE not EXE.
 wrong post quoted
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| 4/13/2015 4:42:32 AM |
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happysmiley1
Las Vegas, NV
54, joined Feb. 2014
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I have met guys who were way more than 40 lbs heavier than their picture. And at least 20 yrs older!
I know I'm not Miss America but I am comfortable enough with myself to post dates with my pictures. I think the profiles that mislead just don't feel they can get a date based on their current looks. I just don't understand why they don't realize the jig will be up if they actually meet someone!
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| 4/13/2015 5:00:29 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Or maybe it's Maybeline.
I think your correct.
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| 4/13/2015 5:33:43 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
20, joined Apr. 2012
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But isn't that my perogative?!?!
everyone has them
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| 4/13/2015 5:36:33 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Well....I've run into a few fakes and losers too.
however I never felt the need to post about them.
Except for in responses where it applies to the question.
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| 4/13/2015 6:00:41 AM |
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max811
Palmetto, FL
36, joined Aug. 2010
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Sounds to me like you did thoes guys a favour.
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| 4/13/2015 6:05:36 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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So I'm starting to think that maybe...just maybe I am petty. But isn't that my perogative?!?! Ex. 1. Went out with a guy and he was clearly 40 lbs heavier than his pics but on top of that he had a bleach stain on his shirt...I CAN'T Ex. 2. Went out with a guy and he had at least 25 keys on his key chain so the whole night he's jingling around....I CAN'T. May not be deal breakers for some but for me I just CAN'T LMBO.
Well, at least you know that you want the PERFECT man. Good luck.
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| 4/13/2015 6:10:37 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
22, joined Jul. 2012
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I agree kandykayn. I will not settle. I do, however, completely understand the whole idea of compromise and accepting flaws but to me a man who shows up to a first date with a bleach stain (after I have went and bought an outfit)is someone I am just not compatible with because that means he just doesn't give AF.
pretty much i had a guy show up to a date with wrinkled mismatched clothes never saw him again  so op dont feel bad or dont let anyone make u feel like you were wrong if someones interested in you they should make an effort to be presentable but the keys well that wouldnt be a deal breaker for me the bleach stain guy is a definite no no he misled you with his profile and old pictures you cant trust those people.
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| 4/13/2015 6:13:32 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
22, joined Jul. 2012
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just to let you know.
Exes are not someone you dated once with and never went out with again.
Exes are those you had a relation with and it failed.
the other thing is when someone described themselves as pretty or handsome....that can be a red flag depending....especially when it may or may not be true.
you know it sounds like you meet way before you should.....try chatting longer before you meet.
By the way...I weighed a picture of myself and it only weighed .o25 of an ounce....So I weigh 172 pounds more than my picture.
she means EXAMPLE u idiot always want to start something shut up
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| 4/13/2015 6:15:55 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
22, joined Jul. 2012
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the only people offended are the ones doing this crap. if you dont look like your pictures im running for the door acceptance my arse if you cant be honest with yourself and others you dont deserve to be with someone CAN I GET AN AMEN!
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| 4/13/2015 6:56:49 AM |
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hippo65
Albuquerque, NM
51, joined Apr. 2013
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It is not you.
Showing up a lot heavier than what a picture of him makes him a liar, and with a bleach stained shirt makes him a slob.
Jingling keys, well don't know what to say about that, it would annoy me as well.
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| 4/13/2015 8:39:50 AM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
29, joined Dec. 2014
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Or maybe it's Maybeline.
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| 4/13/2015 8:40:21 AM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
29, joined Dec. 2014
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It is not you.
Showing up a lot heavier than what a picture of him makes him a liar, and with a bleach stained shirt makes him a slob.
Jingling keys, well don't know what to say about that, it would annoy me as well.
I agree 
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| 4/13/2015 10:43:27 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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too picky..good grief even...good luck,,you will need it.ada m was..perfect,,before he sinned..are you perfect..never......
Well unless Jesus decides to come back to Earth in the form of man I will never find the perfect guy. Im not stupid sir. Nobody is perfect and I don't expect them to be. And I am no beauty queen. What I failed to post about the key guy is the dental work that needed to be done. No my teeth are not perfect either but I don't have to hide them as he did in all the pics he sent me. I go out to sing a lot and the person in with has to be presentable. PERIOD!!! I wont apologize for wanting that.
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| 4/13/2015 10:47:25 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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I suspect that if you dated the perfect guy he would just be too damn perfect
that it would bug you.
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| 4/13/2015 10:49:32 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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the only people offended are the ones doing this crap. if you dont look like your pictures im running for the door acceptance my arse if you cant be honest with yourself and others you dont deserve to be with someone CAN I GET AN AMEN!
Amen Amen and Amen again. Lol.
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| 4/13/2015 10:51:17 AM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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All of those jangling keys were to all of his various properties he owns.
You lose!
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| 4/13/2015 10:51:58 AM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
52, joined Apr. 2008
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i would take you out for dinner then hitin them honky tonk hardwood floors for some dancin
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| 4/13/2015 10:57:07 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
42, joined Feb. 2014
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she means EXAMPLE u idiot always want to start something shut up
E.g. is the acceptable short version of example, not "ex".
Who's the idiot now?
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| 4/13/2015 10:57:57 AM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
50, joined Oct. 2013
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All of those jangling keys were to all of his various properties he owns.
You lose!
No it means he's a maintenance man. Nuttin wrong with that
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| 4/13/2015 10:58:54 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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Well unless Jesus decides to come back to Earth in the form of man I will never find the perfect guy.
Jesus wasn't perfect either, he turned the water into wine instead of beer for example
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| 4/13/2015 11:01:08 AM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
50, joined Jul. 2012
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Went out with a guy and he had at least 25 keys on his key chain so the whole night he's jingling around....I CAN'T. May not be deal breakers for some but for me I just CAN'T LMBO.
I dont know but if he's able to unlock your p*ssy its a win win
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| 4/13/2015 11:02:56 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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I suspect that if you dated the perfect guy he would just be too damn perfect
that it would bug you.
Again...I don't expect to have a perfect man. I will not however settle as I did in my marriage and literally be disgusted looking at his unkempt body. I got tired of looking at my fat a** too so I got my black a** up off the couch and lost 39 lbs and counting. They say accept and learn to love. I say f**k that...again my perogative.
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| 4/13/2015 11:04:11 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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I got tired of looking at my fat a** too so I got my black a** up off the couch and lost 39 lbs and counting.
did it's color change?
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| 4/13/2015 11:04:32 AM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
32, joined Feb. 2015
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Just do you girl! I've been told I'm petty because excessive profanity is a big turn off. Don't get me wrong, during sex I can let roll, but daily conversation I'm not a fan.
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| 4/13/2015 11:05:34 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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E.g. is the acceptable short version of example, not "ex".
Who's the idiot now?
Whatever the f**k I wrote is acceptable form on MY thread.
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| 4/13/2015 11:11:26 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Again...I don't expect to have a perfect man. I will not however settle as I did in my marriage and literally be disgusted looking at his unkempt body. I got tired of looking at my fat a** too so I got my black a** up off the couch and lost 39 lbs and counting. They say accept and learn to love. I say f**k that...again my perogative.
But you are comparing annoying jiggling keys to your unkempt ex.
You will do that for any imperfections you find in a guy.
I think that subliminally you don't want to be in a relationship and you are
going to make excuses and magnify faults in the men you date so you don't feel
so guilty being single.
There is nothing wrong with being single.
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| 4/13/2015 11:18:00 AM |
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olderthandirt20
Waldron, AR
70, joined Jul. 2014
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You have every right to be picky about who you choose to date and be in a relationship with.
Now the down side is are you prepared to be patient until you find mr right for you?
The more disqualifiers you have the less options will have to choose from.
We all have choices in life but there are consequences for those choices.
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| 4/13/2015 11:26:31 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
63, joined Feb. 2014
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Well unless Jesus decides to come back to Earth in the form of man I will never find the perfect guy. Im not stupid sir. Nobody is perfect and I don't expect them to be. And I am no beauty queen. What I failed to post about the key guy is the dental work that needed to be done. No my teeth are not perfect either but I don't have to hide them as he did in all the pics he sent me. I go out to sing a lot and the person in with has to be presentable. PERIOD!!! I wont apologize for wanting that.
The Mormons think this is going to happen soon out in Montana or so they say.
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| 4/13/2015 11:28:05 AM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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Just do you girl! I've been told I'm petty because excessive profanity is a big turn off. Don't get me wrong, during sex I can let roll, but daily conversation I'm not a fan.
Really, no shit?
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| 4/13/2015 11:29:37 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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stl1, no need for the f**king profanity man...
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| 4/13/2015 11:30:49 AM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
32, joined Feb. 2015
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Stop picking on me 
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| 4/13/2015 11:31:01 AM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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Beanz, I'm sorry, you sorry assed c*ck-sucking mo-fo.
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| 4/13/2015 11:33:12 AM |
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blondie855
Chicago, IL
61, joined Aug. 2014
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Op.... Settle for no less than you deserve.
And if jiggling keys or anything else about these guys irritate you, then keep on looking as who knows what the next one might bring? Roses and wine?
We ALL have our preferences and our dislikes... And YES... Even you men do as well...
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| 4/13/2015 11:35:30 AM |
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stellamarie82
Gadsden, AL
35, joined Nov. 2014
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But you are comparing annoying jiggling keys to your unkempt ex.
You will do that for any imperfections you find in a guy.
I think that subliminally you don't want to be in a relationship and you are
going to make excuses and magnify faults in the men you date so you don't feel
so guilty being single.
There is nothing wrong with being single.
Jingling keys was also busted grill (teeth) guy. Anywoo...I don't mind being single. After my last relationship though I just got used to having a man around and it was nice to have a partner. I believe that the right one will come along eventually. Until then.
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| 4/13/2015 11:36:25 AM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
50, joined Jul. 2012
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Stop picking on me
Sounds like a match like pulling on a lil girls hair in grade school
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| 4/13/2015 11:37:19 AM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
32, joined Feb. 2015
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Darn potty mouths
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| 4/13/2015 11:40:05 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013
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So I'm starting to think that maybe...just maybe I am petty. But isn't that my perogative?!?! Ex. 1. Went out with a guy and he was clearly 40 lbs heavier than his pics but on top of that he had a bleach stain on his shirt...I CAN'T Ex. 2. Went out with a guy and he had at least 25 keys on his key chain so the whole night he's jingling around....I CAN'T. May not be deal breakers for some but for me I just CAN'T LMBO.
There is a clearance sale on cats at Petco. 
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| 4/13/2015 11:40:46 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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50% off the black cats.
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| 4/13/2015 11:51:38 AM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013
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Stop picking on me
If they don't, they'll have to answer to me! 
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