So...

he took note of something that she's obviously invested in

then, he told her they had something in common because of this thing that is important to her (laced with a light, not overdone, compliment)

Yeah, that's a really stupid way to meet someone.

I do it all the time. Only I don't say anything besides get ur sexy a** in the truck.
U should try it...u would be surprised.


Of course u may wanna have a truck

It's not creepy at all, it was charming.

You're approaching a random stranger and asking them if they're working out for something.

That's awkward as all hell, what reason do you have to be asking a random stranger that?

Your logic skills suck.

One possible scenario does not automatically rule out all others.

Just so you know, the question your friend asked IS casual and not too personal. The fact that you find such a natural bit of conversation to be awkward and inappropriate on a level that it would bring the police reveals a lot, and definitely doesn't indicate that looks are the problem.

For the four thousandth time (roughly)--since you're so certain that nothing but looks matters

So you keep saying.

So, how did those hundreds of thousands of men who are not physically attractive get a foot in the door?

IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT THE F**K YOU SAY WHEN SHE'S PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU


THE MALE IN QUESTION SAYS SOME OF THE MOST CRINGE WORTHY, IDIOTIC GARBAGE I'VE EVER SEEN AND GETS WOMEN LEFT AND RIGHT BECAUSE THEY'RE ATTRACTED TO HIM

In my case, the entire world swears that I'm very handsome, very stylish and fit yet I can't even find a woman who is slightly above average who is attracted to me.

Troll, Troll, Troll your boat gently thru the forums.

Merrily, Merrily, Merrily, Merrily.

Trying to cure your boredom.

Will you please AT LEAST make up interesting/puzzling/creativestories. Geez.

Let's just say your totally fabricated story is true...
You don't know what went through that nor any persons mind. Maybe SHE thought the guy is crazy hot. Maybe SHE saw his d*ck print through his shorts and she's a closet nymph. Maybe SHE thought the line was so corny, it was cute.

I don't know what she thought in your likely made-up scene. But I do know you have little to no experience with women. Otherwise you'd know there's no telling how a woman will respond... BECAUSE THEY ALL HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO REACT DIFFERENTLY... even though often times the react the same. And not even going to try explaining that. I'm sure it's beyond your comprehension.

And here's something that will make YOUR puny brain explode...
A lot of times really hot/attractive women fly solo because weak-ass men are intimidated. In your story, maybe she just was happy the guy was scared to approach her... even if the line was corny. HE took a shot. YOU just stood there perving and drooling. Now your imaginary bud has a date and you're here whining.

This thread really opened my eyes as to why that might be. Your strong reaction to the harmless, inoffensive and clearly effective conversation you describes here reveals a lot about how constricted you must be when encountering women. Tension, extreme reservation, etc. is very unattractive.

Bull to the shit. It's always about attraction first. Women are visual. Remember that.

That's astoundingly creepy

"laid back" and "super calculated" are inconsistent. If everything you do is super calculated, then you are not laid back--you have calculated to falsely present yourself as a laid back person.

you need a DUFF.

You are your friend's DUFF believe it or not.

Have you seen your avatar? looks like a pig. oink oink oink