You should further upon what I wrote before you judge...or jump to conclusions.

Awaiting your apology

Wow

This is not feminism, this is idiotism. Those people are harmful.

If this is your idea of feminism, I was right, you don't know what feminism is.
Don't listen to those extremists, read the UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women.

I don't work in a DV center. I work in a prison. I don't run the centers near me. I happen to know that the center he mentioned is a women's center. They refer men to other placements as it's not set up for men.

You should apologize as I stated that women should be given the same sentences as men.

I have never stated that a man should get life for domestic violence. Do NOT put words in my mouth.

You like to twist my words to fit your agenda. You fail miserably everytime. You would think that you would learn to stop...

I happen to know that the center he mentioned is a women's center. They refer men to other placements as it's not set up for men.

Broken people...clearly someone dates them and they should bear some responsibility if they keep choosing to date them.

Not at all, but then I don't relate dating to rape...do you?

My point was that THERE IS NO OTHER PLACE to refer men to. Not within a 100, no, make that 250 miles.

The closest thing resembling a DV center that will take men, is a homeless shelter in Latrobe. And they won't take your kids if you have them, AND they require to attend AA and or drug group sessions. So apparently, if you won't stand up for yourself when the crazy b*tch comes after you, you must be either drunk or high.?

I agree with what you are saying .



Now if I'd said all that some guys and women in here would claim I have a problem and I am whiner with trust issues .

And it's that woman's fault she got raped. She knew she had nice legs, and wearing that short skirt was nothing but an invitation. She should have known her tits would catch some man's eye, she had no business wearing that tight top. It's really all her fault, she should go to jail for inciting it.

Hi shoe, meet other foot.

What about the women who don't dress provocative? The ones who dress as frumpy and homely as possible?

What compels men to try and f**k them?

I avoid guns because I don't trust myself to not be a clumsy a** and shoot myself. I'm afraid of doing something dumb and blowing myself to kingdom come.

I've taken several forms of martial arts classes growing up. I would quit them when the teachers would try to promote/skip me up levels.

No beginner is that good or gets that good in matter of 2 weeks.

I even took wushu. I trust and know my body.

My biggest fear is being the victim. I often wonder would a rapist be able to sue me if I got the better of them and decided to torture them...

Anyway as for women raping I don't understand it but I think it's an ego thing.

As a woman you are raised to believe that one thing ALL men want from you is ass. So when you decide that you wouldn't mind handing some over to a guy you like and he rejects it, it throws you for a complete loop.

I remember when I had a crush on a guy that was so physical I just wanted to f**k him once and be done with it. Just get him out of my system by putting it DOWN ON HIM. Anyway when I threw it out there he recoiled from me like a scared little kitten. Every time we saw each other he'd flinch like I slapped him and try to avoid me like I said I had a d*ck and wanted to anally rape him.

I felt so low. All the guys who pursued me did so only for sex and I can even get a guy that I want to use me to even want me in that way? Well f**k what worth did I even have as a woman if THAT couldn't work. I felt bad and apologized to him for being so forward but I thought he was interested in that only as well from the banter we had.

One of his friends told me he's used to dealing with little girls who play games and that's the first time anyone has ever stepped to him like a woman and it made him feel like a little b*tch.

In these situations I guess some women would have just forced themselves on him.

I'm still coming to terms with the fact that men can be raped. I only believe that men can be raped by other men unless they are little boys then they are open to rape from both genders.

So maybe these women think if they can get him hard and to cum it's not rape because not all rape victims orgasm from their rape unless the rapist is hell bent on getting that from them for whatever sick purpose.

In my case I accepted that rejection and that blow to warped self-worth. I just never imagined I could be rejected for something that men made it clear was the only thing I would ever be good enough for. I think a lot of women are having issues coming to terms with that.

Maybe those girls are used to having whatever they want they don't know how to deal.

I'm used to failure so my first instinct wasn't to force him it was take that loss and keep it moving.

It might be a seed planted by feminist but every young girl has doubts about the bullshit they are told about men because when you're young you want to believe in hope and the fairytale.

However when you get out there and do field testing you come to realize that perhaps in your particular case the rumors are true.

Do I think all men only care about sex? If they're talking to me then yes. In that past 11 years the first one was and all the ones after him have been and if I were stupid enough to open myself to men again all the next ones would be interested in only that aspect.

No matter how frumpy, professional, classy, sexy, average, plain, whatever I dress.

Men have decided for me what my role is as a woman in their world.

Feminist ain't got shit to do with that.

They have proven to me that they have a better chance at commitment than I do. Men are willing to date the exact same girls they claim to hate before they'll date something different.



You balking is something I would pay to see.

I would looooooooooove to be a brat and babble on about how the internet is different especially when both parties are long distance but fine.

HOWEVER, I talked to you first if I recall. I wanted to see what you looked like.

So technically you didn't approach me. I came to you.

But you win this argument.

However, if I was in Ohio and within a simple distance of meeting you can't tell me that your interest wouldn't be in seeing what I looked like and seeing if I was open to sex-only.

You, yourself said that's the only relationship you're interested in, in women which means that if circumstances were different despite my zodiac traits I'd be right up your alley.

NEVER EVER would the thought of me being a girlfriend or wife pop into your head.

I probably wouldn't eve try to sleep with you, with your personality. There would be no point..And we are both speculating, now.

So, if I met you in person, you assume I would only want sex.

Unlike a woman, that loves to violate boundaries, surprisingly I am pretty mindful of them. I would know you aren't looking for sex or a relationship from me, so no I would not pursue that.

And the wife title is moot to the discussion. I would not marry any woman. PERIOD!.

Kung Fu....your only seeing things from your perspective and assuming too many men are like you say.


There is another side to this....the legit guys who did or do want something real.

If you could do a quick walk thru their shoes and experience their life, you'd see, they have had it just as bad....worse actually, because men have to initiate, and do all these things, women don't have to do.

Plus...women try to portray they are the better ones and its the guys who are so many wrong or bad.

Yet...from the perspective of men and what they want from her and a relation...that's not how it comes out.

So when the finger is pointed and those who point do enough wrong too....then it hits harder.

Well then you'd be someone I could trust, thus a friend. And in that sense I would have respect for you.

If we were to meet in person I think it would be purely to sate your curiosity and my purpose would be to meet the gamer behind the scorpion sting.

I'm not saying you would try to step beyond your boundaries or anything like that. But if you ever thought of me beyond "That crazy man-hating Libra" (my words not yours) you'd probably only see p*ssy. Now whether or not it's p*ssy you want is a different story but that would be the limits of what I represent to you. Perhaps I'd be p*ssy you'd rather game with than poke. But that's pretty much it, the way I see it and feel about it. I'm not speaking down on you for being a man, I'm merely saying that I flip a coin 1,000 times and continuous get heads. Don't expect me to believe or hope the 1,001 time will be different.

I have faith in men when it comes to other women, just none whatsoever when it comes to me.

I DID read that Libra women's problem with Scorpio men is we feel like we're not being told everything and the Scorpio isn't opening up.

So FUNNY that you mention everything out in the open.

Why if you'd said it?