| 3/25/2016 11:07:20 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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I have many friends who are insecure about alot of things. When you are dating or in a relationship with someone and you really care or love the person, do you work through it as a couple?? It is an interesting topic
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| 3/25/2016 11:08:26 AM |
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javajunkiejr
Auburndale, FL
41, joined Jan. 2013
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Yes I think a person or both persons should.. Helps them grow as a couple..
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| 3/25/2016 11:10:09 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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I think so too Java....to help eachother though it!
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| 3/25/2016 11:23:41 AM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
31, joined Jun. 2014
online now!
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I don't have any. I'm too much of an a**hole.
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| 3/25/2016 11:24:37 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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I'm too insecure to post in here. 
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| 3/25/2016 11:27:55 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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^^^^
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| 3/25/2016 11:33:29 AM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
90, joined May. 2014
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You should try to work everything thru as a couple, insecurities or otherwise.
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| 3/25/2016 12:38:33 PM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
45, joined Feb. 2013
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Hit him over the head with a frying pan.
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| 3/25/2016 12:54:46 PM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012
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Of course you work through it. My friend gave me a really nice boost the other day. Here I was insecure about my floppy hooters and he said they are firm and beautiful.
You want to feel desired. Even in your flawed skin. A person who cares doesn't even see those flaws you see.
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| 3/25/2016 1:05:22 PM |
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javajunkiejr
Auburndale, FL
41, joined Jan. 2013
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A blow-job a day keeps the insecurities away...
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| 3/25/2016 1:23:18 PM |
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skaterstyle619
Las Vegas, NV
50, joined Apr. 2014
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Of course you work through it. My friend gave me a really nice boost the other day. Here I was insecure about my floppy hooters and he said they are firm and beautiful.
You want to feel desired. Even in your flawed skin. A person who cares doesn't even see those flaws you see.
I inbox you those same words everyday. You just never open them.
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| 3/25/2016 1:26:18 PM |
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istillrock
Winter Park, FL
34, joined Jan. 2015
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Yes, work through them. Unless they are constantly putting themselves not matter what you say. That gets annoying af.
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| 3/25/2016 1:30:43 PM |
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quit_lukin
West Hollywood, CA
39, joined Feb. 2014
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If you aren't willing to work any and everything out together as a couple, then it isn't worth being together.
Without communication you are doomed to fail.
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| 3/25/2016 1:36:41 PM |
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russmann11
Pasadena, TX
39, joined Jan. 2016
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You have to embrace the insecurities as much as you embrace everything else. It's not about perfection.
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| 3/25/2016 2:21:16 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
54, joined May. 2011
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^^^^ 
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| 3/25/2016 2:24:26 PM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012
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I inbox you those same words everyday. You just never open them.
Oh stop. I answer all your msgs, Kevin.
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| 3/25/2016 2:35:18 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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Relationships are hard work an well worth it when you love someone.. You take the good with the bad an work through it if it means a lot to ya!
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| 3/25/2016 3:03:33 PM |
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javajunkiejr
Auburndale, FL
41, joined Jan. 2013
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You have to embrace the insecurities as much as you embrace everything else. It's not about perfection.
This..^^...
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| 3/25/2016 4:18:40 PM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
90, joined May. 2014
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I'm perfect in every way.
oh just lie to me and agree. 
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| 3/25/2016 4:20:37 PM |
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tardsmasher2
Douglasville, GA
53, joined Jun. 2010
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If they got crooked teeth its ok cause I gotta crooked d*ck
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| 3/25/2016 4:56:58 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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Omg!!
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| 3/25/2016 5:01:31 PM |
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flatheadone
Greenwood, FL
53, joined Jul. 2012
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I don't have any. I'm too much of an a**hole.
This ^^^ or at least that's what my wife tells me
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| 3/25/2016 6:33:03 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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Well heck flat
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| 3/25/2016 6:45:02 PM |
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cherisays
Lancaster, CA
32, joined Dec. 2014
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An interesting topic indeed!!!
When her insecurities cause me to lose a friend...
When her insecurities cause her to stalk me daily..
When her insecurities cause me to walk on eggshells...
When she posts the same as I do but it's "different"
All from 1800 miles away...
Yea, F**K "working it out together"...
Happy Easter! 
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| 3/25/2016 6:46:07 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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An interesting topic indeed!!!
When her insecurities cause me to lose a friend...
When her insecurities cause her to stalk me daily..
When her insecurities cause me to walk on eggshells...
When she posts the same as I do but it's "different"
All from 1800 miles away...
Yea, F**K "working it out together"...
Happy Easter!
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| 3/25/2016 7:17:08 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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My friends really struggles with insecurities... It's hard !
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| 3/25/2016 7:24:14 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
58, joined Feb. 2014
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I tell him if he should be insecure. Fix it or ... Lol.. I'm never that way with my man. Lmao, we talk about everything.
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| 3/25/2016 7:28:27 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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I'm glad y'all talk Ruth!!
I think all of us have some kind of insecurity....
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| 3/25/2016 7:29:56 PM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
90, joined May. 2014
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My issue isn't insecurity, it's trust.
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| 3/25/2016 7:30:39 PM |
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flatheadone
Greenwood, FL
53, joined Jul. 2012
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Well heck flat
Its funny when I am in the right mood and I get a call from a telemarketer I'll answer and ask them to put me on hole and when the ask why I tell them I am feeling very insecure and sometimes they do and I'll put the phone on speaker and when they come back and ask me if I am better I tell the yes but now I am very lonely and still a little insecure
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| 3/25/2016 7:31:52 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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^^^ that's funny
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| 3/25/2016 7:41:53 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
58, joined Feb. 2014
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I was insecure when two men were throwing punches and I in between them. Scared shitless is more the feeling.
I'm insecure when another man brushes up against my ass. Don't want to piss off my man. Lol, it has happened before.
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| 3/25/2016 9:26:43 PM |
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flatheadone
Greenwood, FL
53, joined Jul. 2012
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^^^ that's funny
Oh dam am I still on hold 
One time the lady asked if was OK if she called me back after she got off from work she said she was lonely to
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| 3/25/2016 9:32:21 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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^^^thanks for the laugh!!
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| 3/25/2016 9:51:36 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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i have learned to love anyway,whether its returned or not,and never to hate or try an get even, to run from things that drag me down or those who i feel i may hate,i wont be over done with anger and all that ,or let anyone elses get me down again. real love and care wants the other person to allways to do well,an be secure warm an happy,whether in our life any more or not.
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| 3/25/2016 9:55:29 PM |
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enduringsoul23
Lancaster, OH
26, joined Sep. 2013
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I will not share my physical insecurities with a partner. Why point out flaws which they don't see/aren't bothered by?
Emotional insecurities must be worked through together.
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| 3/25/2016 10:01:56 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
45, joined Sep. 2012
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I eat a ton of Taco Bell about 8 hours beforehand. That way she knows what she's in for the remainder of the time.
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| 3/25/2016 10:35:02 PM |
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freckleyez
Perrysburg, OH
36, joined Oct. 2014
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I try to keep my physical insecurities to myself. My ex all but destroyed my self confident because I would talk to him about how I felt. And he would use that to make me feel worse about myself..I've been rid of him for almost 2 years now and while I'm still not where I want to be... I'm faking it till I make it
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| 3/25/2016 10:50:00 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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Freckles ... I understand more than you think in what you said!!! My ex use to do the same to me.. I never talked about it, that's why im insecure...sometimes others don't understand .. Instead they tear u down an make you look like it's all your fault ..
Freckles I admire you , thanks!
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| 3/25/2016 10:55:57 PM |
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forum_rose
Killeen, TX
39, joined Feb. 2016
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It truly depends on the insecurity. If it is about a physical feature, it isn't 'ours' to work on.
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| 3/25/2016 11:45:31 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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T... My ex was a good father an husband at one time . Then he started working more an more , promotions after promotions... I had gained a little weight , an he put me down , made me feel I wasn't pretty but fat... I lost weight an still nothing , same shit... Until other guys looked at...
It was hard an it takes time to get over, some don't understand that! And that's is why my new relationship didn't work -my insecurity..
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| 3/25/2016 11:52:36 PM |
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forum_rose
Killeen, TX
39, joined Feb. 2016
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I fully understand that. More than you know.
Emotional insecurities are what I'm willing to work on with a partner.
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| 3/25/2016 11:55:25 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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I so respect you for saying that... Most are willing to work through it an some don't bother cause they don't understand...
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| 3/25/2016 11:58:33 PM |
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kdog7539
East Thetford, VT
41, joined Jan. 2015
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A couple should work on there insecurities together. Or at least be willing to listen to the other persons insecurities with out being harsh. Specially if it's a physical insecurity of themselves. Be compassionate and have empathy towards them
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| 3/26/2016 12:01:49 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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My mistake was that I let my insecurities get in the way of my relationships .. An it cost me .. Some people don't want to work with it an work it out.. Instead the y put you down an call you names. I guess they really didn't love you if they don't want to work it out...,
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| 3/26/2016 12:10:50 AM |
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kdog7539
East Thetford, VT
41, joined Jan. 2015
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Of course they didn't love. They're miserable on the inside
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| 3/26/2016 12:15:20 AM |
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russmann11
Pasadena, TX
39, joined Jan. 2016
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With physical insecurities, all you can do is reassure the the person that it's ok/they don't see you any different. If that person still cannot get past that insecurity...there isn't much you can do about that.
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| 3/26/2016 12:17:42 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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I would never down anyone in public.. It's just not me..its been done to me an it's hurtful.. It's cool though.
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| 3/26/2016 12:22:30 AM |
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russmann11
Pasadena, TX
39, joined Jan. 2016
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Well that certainly isn't good to do to someone
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| 3/26/2016 12:25:04 AM |
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kdog7539
East Thetford, VT
41, joined Jan. 2015
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No it's not good to do to someone
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| 3/26/2016 12:32:57 AM |
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cork_
Naples, FL
40, joined Aug. 2014
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i have a small d*ck
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| 3/26/2016 12:34:36 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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^^^^::laughing
Cork!!
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| 3/26/2016 12:38:53 AM |
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cork_
Naples, FL
40, joined Aug. 2014
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^^^^::laughing
Cork!!
it's true, allah made me smaller 
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| 3/26/2016 12:40:14 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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I'm sorry for you!
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| 3/26/2016 12:48:02 AM |
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cork_
Naples, FL
40, joined Aug. 2014
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I'm sorry for you! 
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| 3/26/2016 6:14:15 AM |
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Mercedes_02
AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
101, joined Dec. 2014
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I don't have any insecurities..Take me as I am or piss off.
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| 3/26/2016 6:41:22 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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I have many friends who are insecure about alot of things. When you are dating or in a relationship with someone and you really care or love the person, do you work through it as a couple?? It is an interesting topic
I work thru it as a couple....if, she is capable of doing that too.
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| 3/26/2016 7:07:32 AM |
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lvgrlslgs
Pittsburgh, PA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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Latina
If you don't work through them as a couple you are just 2 individuals putting in time together.
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| 3/26/2016 9:42:43 AM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
48, joined May. 2014
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Good morning!!
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| 3/26/2016 9:58:55 AM |
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cherilani43
New Port Richey, FL
45, joined Feb. 2013
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Morning
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