6/6/2016 8:55:12 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
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I've never labeled anyone.
I don't expect any man to be in a relationship and exclusive with me until he communicates that and I agree. Never breach the subject myself. But then again I've never had a man break up with me either...I seem to be the one that gets labeled after I'Ve decided it is viable.
I know what you are talking about though Bee...I've had some friends that appear money when having sex with men!
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6/6/2016 11:30:04 PM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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How long do u wait before sleeping with someone?
How long do you want to wait.
i would like to wait only as long as it takes women to realize whether or she and her girl friends will want to be the ones doing me every day.
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6/6/2016 11:32:23 PM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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That's the problem, after one date they want to have sex. I want to get to know the person before I sleep with them. Am I a prude?
practice safe sex and consider it a "try before you buy opportunity"
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6/6/2016 11:34:05 PM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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10-15 minutes
good for you. some guys hate to have to lie to women and tell them what they want to hear.
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6/6/2016 11:34:50 PM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
53, joined Nov. 2014
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Blink of an eye.
modern times, huh.
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6/6/2016 11:37:10 PM |
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Mercedes_02
AñatuyaAñatuya
Australia
100, joined Dec. 2014
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Yeah why not
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6/7/2016 1:01:43 AM |
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dantana77
Frederick, MD
38, joined Oct. 2010
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Its a game of chess sometimes. I've held out purpose twice. Once worked fabulously, ok once backfired epically. My advice now, treat it like money found on the street; snatch it up quick, don't share, a d never look back
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6/7/2016 4:59:57 AM |
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kymberkyzz
Eugene, OR
46, joined Apr. 2012
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I usually wait until he gets in the house.
By that time I'm halfway to the bedroom half naked.
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6/7/2016 6:54:42 AM |
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flatheadone
Greenwood, FL
52, joined Jul. 2012
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Quote from kymberkyzz:I usually wait until he gets in the house.
By that time I'm halfway to the bedroom half naked.
So my stopping by the lake on the way home and putting your sexy a** on the hood of my truck would be considered jumping the gun
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6/7/2016 6:56:22 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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I've never labeled anyone.
I don't expect any man to be in a relationship and exclusive with me until he communicates that and I agree. Never breach the subject myself. But then again I've never had a man break up with me either...I seem to be the one that gets labeled after I'Ve decided it is viable.
I know what you are talking about though Bee...I've had some friends that appear money when having sex with men!
it wasn't money they were after. its just that's the way things always seemed to turn out....and some use sex to get a man, but I don't think that was the case with me, most of the time.
But for the women who were more sexually free with themselves....I will say it was different, but because they could accept that's its sex without putting strings on it then, or rushing into a relation to justify the having of sex.
I think since being on dating sites....its a matter of them being lonely, wanting love, then chatting with someone that's different, they get overwhelmed, then meeting and that continues, and that I don't press for sex....then we have it, and with the intimacy and it being great....they think they have fallen in love.
but who knows for sure?
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6/7/2016 7:03:53 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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So with the above.
I'm fine with sex early on.
but would rather wait, if that early sex causes them to think they have fallen already and wants it to be a relation before I even really know them well enough for that.
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6/7/2016 3:14:54 PM |
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frecklefarmer
Lebanon, MO
44, joined Oct. 2014
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As soon as you decide to date you need to have sex
Let's face it
It's way too much work and effort to date,hang out
And then find out you are sexually incompatible
Trust me
It happens
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6/7/2016 4:34:15 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
50, joined Jul. 2014
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cheri,dont tell them about us,or mention my name an spill the beans.
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6/7/2016 7:14:03 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Okay op....we admitted what we do.
now its your turn....and be truthful, this section of the forums has a built in lie detector devise.
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6/7/2016 7:16:52 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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Op do it when you want to and think it is a good idea
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6/7/2016 7:19:17 PM |
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dave3677
Wethersfield, CT
39, joined Mar. 2013
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It depends if I paid for dinner then she owes me!
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6/7/2016 7:25:34 PM |
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steamyviolet
Beaverville, IL
46, joined Jun. 2009
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68?
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6/7/2016 7:28:08 PM |
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the_israelite
Rio de JaneiroRio de Janeiro
Brazil
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Do women get mad at guys who want to wait until they are actually comfortable with a woman, which might take one to three months?
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6/7/2016 7:38:05 PM |
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steamyviolet
Beaverville, IL
46, joined Jun. 2009
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Yes
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6/7/2016 7:54:23 PM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
90, joined May. 2014
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One to three months? You're joking, right.
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6/7/2016 7:59:53 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
44, joined Oct. 2015
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Depends does he smell like bacon ?
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6/7/2016 8:01:26 PM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012
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Depends.
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6/7/2016 8:10:56 PM |
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masterofbacon2
Kirkjubæjarklaustur
Iceland
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Depends does he smell like bacon ?
What do you think?
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6/7/2016 8:11:36 PM |
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queennawty
Middlesex
United Kingdom
44, joined Oct. 2015
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Then boink !
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6/7/2016 8:11:37 PM |
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steamyviolet
Beaverville, IL
46, joined Jun. 2009
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Salty
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6/7/2016 8:19:05 PM |
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thebigugly0
Kent, OH
45, joined Sep. 2012
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At least 23 years.
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6/7/2016 8:45:27 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
49, joined Apr. 2013
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But for the women who were more sexually free with themselves....I will say it was different, but because they could accept that's its sex without putting strings on it then, or rushing into a relation to justify the having of sex.
I think since being on dating sites....its a matter of them being lonely, wanting love, then chatting with someone that's different, they get overwhelmed, then meeting and that continues, and that I don't press for sex....then we have it, and with the intimacy and it being great....they think they have fallen in love.
but who knows for sure?
So many different forms of love...a word so loosely used.
I would like all the men in my life past, present and future to feel that I loved them in one way or another. That I have gratitude for the moments we shared.
Only one who actually understood me enough to have me for his lifetime!
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6/8/2016 1:34:16 AM |
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youtubejunkie
Medford, OR
59, joined Dec. 2013
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Live only by your own rules. Just like in the movies, if the chemistry is right and you want to jump each others bones the first date, go for it. Other peoples rules may not always be right for everyone. Strike when the iron is hot. Better to be glad you had than sad that you didnt. Sex can be a good thing that binds people together. Should we ask the same question of animals?
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6/8/2016 4:49:11 AM |
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the_israelite
Rio de JaneiroRio de Janeiro
Brazil
34, joined Apr. 2016
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One to three months? You're joking, right.
It takes some people a while to get comfortable enough with another person to do that.
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6/8/2016 5:36:45 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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So many different forms of love...a word so loosely used.
I would like all the men in my life past, present and future to feel that I loved them in one way or another. That I have gratitude for the moments we shared.
Only one who actually understood me enough to have me for his lifetime!
Maybe that's my problem....who can understand me, if I can't???.....
Once you get inside this head....your lost forever...
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