| 11/15/2016 6:58:06 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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I looked on my Girlfriends Facebook wall and seen that she shared one of her guy friends photos on Facebook.I went to his page and noticed he lives in another state.Im kind of confused and angry trying to blow it off.Am I overacting? or is that just how people on Facebook build their friends confidence up and nothing more?
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| 11/15/2016 7:04:02 AM |
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Orchid73
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016
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I think the question is why do you feel confused and angry. What didn't you like about it and why?
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| 11/15/2016 7:11:42 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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I think the question is why do you feel confused and angry. What didn't you like about it and why?
Im trying to figure out did she ever know this guy or does she have a crush on him. And also I noticed he had wrote a comment that said"why you shared my pic" and she never replied unless she wrote something on his inbox that I don't know about.
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| 11/15/2016 7:28:04 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Op...it depends on the context that she used this picture for.
Also..everyone's different in how they view things. Some people can be in a relation, and flirt and carry on with others.
Others don't see that as right....depending on how far it goes.
To be honest you do seem on the clingy or needy side.
but, I can't answer you without seeing the context and knowing everything else.
Some people really get into face book and on line friends....I'd say off hand, that's likely all it is.
you have to have trust, unless something really to wonder about pops up.
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| 11/15/2016 7:30:17 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Op...it depends on the context that she used this picture for.
Also..everyone's different in how they view things. Some people can be in a relation, and flirt and carry on with others.
Others don't see that as right....depending on how far it goes.
To be honest you do seem on the clingy or needy side.
but, I can't answer you without seeing the context and knowing everything else.
Some people really get into face book and on line friends....I'd say off hand, that's likely all it is.
you have to have trust, unless something really to wonder about pops up.
I agree thanks man.
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| 11/15/2016 7:31:27 AM |
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hotinfla
Jacksonville Beach, FL
63, joined Aug. 2016
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I looked on my Girlfriends Facebook wall and seen that she shared one of her guy friends photos on Facebook.I went to his page and noticed he lives in another state.Im kind of confused and angry trying to blow it off.Am I overacting? or is that just how people on Facebook build their friends confidence up and nothing more?
what is the status of the relationship? are you both on the same page? ask her, her responses or lack of will tell you all that you need to know
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| 11/15/2016 7:32:05 AM |
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crumpet_dreams
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016
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Ask her and see what she says.
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| 11/15/2016 7:32:19 AM |
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Orchid73
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016
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Im trying to figure out did she ever know this guy or does she have a crush on him. And also I noticed he had wrote a comment that said"why you shared my pic" and she never replied unless she wrote something on his inbox that I don't know about.
Has she done that before? Sharing friend's pic on her page? Was it a particular nice pic? Maybe she was just bored.
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| 11/15/2016 7:33:32 AM |
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crumpet_dreams
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016
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I'd say it's pretty disrespectful to you...sharing another mans photos, there really is no good reason to do that..especially as he apparently questioned it too.
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| 11/15/2016 7:35:39 AM |
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Orchid73
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016
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Which makes me think there is nothing between them. Otherwise the guy wouldn't have asked her in public.
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| 11/15/2016 7:37:08 AM |
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crumpet_dreams
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016
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Sure but being disrespectful to your S/O is in itself...not good.
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| 11/15/2016 7:39:51 AM |
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Orchid73
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016
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That's true. Not a nice thing to do, and pretty silly. She might also be really young though. How old is she OP?
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| 11/15/2016 7:57:48 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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It could be a harmless sharing. What if he just asked to friend her, as he could be a friend of someone else? She didn't know him, so she was showing/sharing his picture? or perhaps, the same scenario as above happened and she thought he was cute/goodlooking or whatever and shared a pic of a nice looking person. Don't men share pics of nice looking ladies they find attractive?
If you want to really know the answer, OP. Why not try 'communicating' with her?? Don't drive yourself nuts with your mind's speculation. Then after doing so-- you will know for sure if being 'upset' is truly warranted or NOT.
good luck.
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| 11/15/2016 7:58:09 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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what is the status of the relationship? are you both on the same page? ask her, her responses or lack of will tell you all that you need to know
Yes I believe were on the same page but sometimes it seems like im not enough but not sure.
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| 11/15/2016 8:00:49 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Has she done that before? Sharing friend's pic on her page? Was it a particular nice pic? Maybe she was just bored.
The thing is she had to search in his photo album for it as oppose to seeing it on her wall because it was a pic from june.
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| 11/15/2016 8:02:59 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
New South Wales
Australia
25, joined Jan. 2016
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Just sounds like you are being insecure tbh
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| 11/15/2016 8:03:40 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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That's true. Not a nice thing to do, and pretty silly. She might also be really young though. How old is she OP?
Actually heres the thing im much younger but very mature to be my age....im 28 and she is 46 I always liked older women.
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| 11/15/2016 8:09:44 AM |
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Orchid73
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016
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The thing is she had to search in his photo album for it as oppose to seeing it on her wall because it was a pic from june.
Which still suggest she might've been just bored at that moment.
Actually heres the thing im much younger but very mature to be my age....im 28 and she is 46 I always liked older women.
Ouch. Ask her, then.
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| 11/15/2016 8:17:07 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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... Yes, kind of what I told him to do. but he ignored my post.  
Orchid 
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| 11/15/2016 8:17:55 AM |
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crumpet_dreams
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016
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Well obviously if he's concerned about it it wasn't "harmless" 
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| 11/15/2016 8:46:00 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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Exactly,
and as to why, he should be/have really first gone to her and talked with her of his concerns instead of driving himself dang nuts in speculation-- or asking US for input. no?
nothing is better than "straight" from the honey's(horses) mouth, yes?
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| 11/15/2016 8:49:15 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Exactly,
and as to why, he should be/have really first gone to her and talked with her of his concerns instead of driving himself dang nuts in speculation-- or asking US for input. no?
nothing is better than "straight" from the honey's(horses) mouth, yes? 
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| 11/15/2016 8:56:16 AM |
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crumpet_dreams
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016
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Exactly,
and as to why, he should be/have really first gone to her and talked with her of his concerns instead of driving himself dang nuts in speculation-- or asking US for input. no?
Yes and No, his girlfriend should have been aware of what he would and wouldn't find respectful and so avoid doing anything that would be disrespectful to him.
simple.
OP, let us know her reason for doing it when you ask her.
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| 11/15/2016 9:09:13 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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Being "aware" doesn't mean that misunderstandings still can't happen.
My whole point is: GO to HER, First... and ask! don't drive yourself "crazy" with speculation/mistrust/anger.
Any relationship, any GOOD relationship- your partner should/wouldn't be upset for their s/o having concerns, nor; just expressing how something has made them/him/her uncomfortable/upset/angry. It is why it is called having good/healthy communication.
without it-- is how all kinds of 'f**ked-up' can happen in the relationship. anyhooo- this is just solely my opinion.
OP, regardless if it's "harmless" or "intentional" you will feel better knowing from her. 
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| 11/15/2016 9:10:17 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes and No, his girlfriend should have been aware of what he would and wouldn't find respectful and so avoid doing anything that would be disrespectful to him.
simple.
OP, let us know her reason for doing it when you ask her.
The thing is I don't think she remember me saying I had a Facebook a long time ago when she asked but I only go on there to spy on her page to test her integrity.
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| 11/15/2016 9:12:31 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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goodness. OP. You've never trusted her from the beginning of your relationship? why-so?
has there been other reasons/causes for suspicion?
or are you naturally suspecting?
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| 11/15/2016 9:21:03 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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goodness. OP. You've never trusted her from the beginning of your relationship? why-so?
has there been other reasons/causes for suspicion?
or are you naturally suspecting?
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| 11/15/2016 9:29:34 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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Flirting or being bubbly with others other than your s/o-- by many is considered harmless.
If it is her personality-- then it could be your 'own' issues of insecurity. You need to express them and discuss why it makes you a bit suspicious with her, so, she's aware of the affect it has on you. If you don't-- She's just being "herself" and has no idea why you're acting all jealous or possessive.
Again, a lack of Communication... and see the direction your relationship is going without it? Suspicion, covert spying on her, suspicion of her actions.
I think you need to work on your communication skills and be honest with your "own" emotions of insecurity. Once you do that-- you will be comfortable in telling your s/o your needs for feeling secure. Untill then- you will question/doubt yourself and for sure doubt any relationship you are in. I wish you well.
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| 11/15/2016 10:09:23 AM |
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easttowest72
Bremen, GA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Facebook is a cheaters paradise. I was back on Facebook for less than a week when a married guy contacted me. Atleast you know the guy isn't too happy about it. Sounds like she is trying to get his attention
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| 11/15/2016 10:52:50 AM |
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docy22
Stone Mountain, GA
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Facebook is a cheaters paradise. I was back on Facebook for less than a week when a married guy contacted me. Atleast you know the guy isn't too happy about it. Sounds like she is trying to get his attention
Right,I got a little lessed worried knowing that she stays in Georgia and he stays in Alabama and also that he didn't like it.
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| 11/15/2016 11:48:07 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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Yes, only be worried if he is going to suddenly move to Georgia.
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| 11/16/2016 12:58:18 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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hey hunny..whoever you are..im near jackson ga..i,ll allways say..if your taken..you should not beon here,but i dont make the rules,if i had a steady girlfriend a real physical one i seen an dated in person,no way in hell id be on here,,an she shouldnt either,its plyin with fire,an sure........opinions vary........ 
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| 11/16/2016 7:49:46 AM |
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crumpet_dreams
Beverly Hills, CA
39, joined Sep. 2016
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if i had a steady girlfriend a real physical one i seen an dated in person,no way in hell id be on here
I guess we'll be seeing you around for quite a few years yet then.
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| 11/16/2016 8:28:51 AM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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Did you just call the OP, hunny?
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| 11/16/2016 9:55:15 AM |
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nyjamiaca
Baldwin, NY
40, joined Jul. 2016
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Did anyone say be a man and ask her. Tell her u dont like that shit.
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| 11/16/2016 6:27:37 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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I would worry about this ONLY if she isn't sharing pictures of you and her out and about doing things together or she hasn't declared that she is in a relationship or there are other things within your relationship that make you feel that things are not solid between the two of you.
I think a lot of people change their profile picture to a couple picture when they are in a relationship... but not people who are prone to cheating.
My girl friend (who is not on Facebook) found out that her last boyfriend was cheating on her when she visited a page of a woman who was Facebook friends with her boyfriend. That is when she saw the "couple" arrangement on this other woman's page. HER boyfriend was in the background section holding this other woman's grandchild during Christmas.
It was like they were a family already. 
Hopefully your situation isn't that bad.
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| 11/17/2016 10:16:55 AM |
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helena036
Sanford, FL
42, joined Aug. 2012
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Im kind of confused and angry trying to blow it off.Am I overacting?"
little things should not bring such feelings into your life. Not good for you or your relationship. Based on your post, it seems pretty small at the time. Unless there lot more going on. My suggestion, let go and just relax. Enjoy your relationship. Nothing wrong with keeping your eyes open, but don't let little things ruin a good relationship. If it really does bother you and you just cant let it go, perhaps when you are calm just ask her nicely. Make it your goal not to get into an argument about it, and if your answer reasonable....let it go and move on.
Hope that helps.
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| 11/17/2016 11:05:44 AM |
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Orchid73
Abano TermeMilan
Italy
44, joined Sep. 2016
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I guess we'll be seeing you around for quite a few years yet then.
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| 11/17/2016 12:55:25 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
52, joined Jul. 2014
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no....i called you..hunny now whats those initials mean you said..at fish,im david,not fish,some call me flyfish which i also hate..but i aint deleting,an coming back with a diifferent user name hunny........
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| 11/21/2016 4:18:27 PM |
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keekeekeek2
Moriguchi
Japan
34, joined Oct. 2016
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what ever happened with all this?
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