| 12/13/2016 3:37:15 AM |
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Cheebajonez
Lake Charles, LA
35, joined Nov. 2016
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Where do I bein to meet someone. On one hand I'm looking for a new life partner on the other hand I need the sex that's absent from my life?
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| 12/13/2016 4:37:11 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Where do I bein to meet someone. On one hand I'm looking for a new life partner on the other hand I need the sex that's absent from my life?
When you find out, let me know. I do know that you will not find a date off this site. As for sex, do not EVER let a woman that that is your goal, because when you do that, they want NOTHING to do with you.
By the way after a few years of no sex, you actually stop missing it.
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| 12/13/2016 9:58:09 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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When you find out, let me know. I do know that you will not find a date off this site. As for sex, do not EVER let a woman that that is your goal, because when you do that, they want NOTHING to do with you.
By the way after a few years of no sex, you actually stop missing it.
OP, you may take Cavie's advice. He certainly seems to know what he's talking about, I think. 
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| 12/13/2016 10:54:36 AM |
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hersh1flame
Norristown, PA
40, joined Jun. 2012
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Really? After a few years without it I actually miss it more. lol
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| 12/13/2016 10:20:45 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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If nothing else leave the house and meet people for real.
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| 12/29/2016 10:49:22 PM |
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davenocean
Oceanside, CA
63, joined Jan. 2013
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It is just like riding a bike. You don't need to overthink it. You will know what to do. Girls/women just want to have fun as the song goes.
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| 12/30/2016 6:56:45 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Seriously?
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| 1/6/2017 11:02:52 PM |
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aussiechill
AngastacoVictoria
Australia
97, joined Jan. 2014
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It's tough to know where to begin.
l was with ex 19yrs , but we'd only been in this district 5yrs and moved 3 times.
So although she met heaps of people through her job l worked at home and met none.
Then this . wtf ?
l actually thought before we split , man it'd be smorgasbord out there now with the
internet and singles clubs and date sites and forums.
But it seems worse than it ever. Although even at 20 it was hard to find someone and
l was a good lookin kid but still hard, without say having a heap of friends and
parties to go to and stuff.
At one stage in my 20s l had heaps of friends and parties and the girls were just laid on
l had dozens and l think that's the key even now.
the internet and date sites , although over there in the US , l've got friends with
heaps of girls friends and nice ones, good looking , good bodies , and not all crazy.
Some , but not all.
Here in Australia though , on my date sites anyway they're all over weight, lost
their looks , 1/2 crazy.
l dunno l must have met 30 girls on date sites here in a few mths and not one did
l even feel like sleeping with.
One was a fair way away so when l went to meet her l slept on her couch. Never once
felt like creeping into her bedroom. She was actually quite a nice girl but her looks
were gone completely. l need to be attracted to my women, big time attracted.
But l do see girls out and about that l am attracted to but it's hard to just meet
someone your just passing somewhere or in a shop or something and then 3/4 of them
are married anyway.
So the date sites here , looking at girls say in their 40s, just f**king sad.
Full stop.
But out and about isn't bad , it's just hard to meet them that way.
But , 12 mths ago l stumbled onto someone in a forum and we had an instant everything
andddd , she was gorgeous and an incredible person. Long distance thing though and
she was willing to move over. But , she also turned out a little crazy too, or maybe
a lot crazy , so that's hit the dirt too now and it's back to the drawing board.
l just wanna try getting out more , meeting people, don't know tbh. l know no one
here but although l did meet some nice chicks on the date sites before, they weren't
all mad. But the problem was meeting someone you'd actually go for in RL.
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| 1/11/2017 12:08:22 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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First try a different dating website. Secondly start a interest/hobby that involves people liking the same.
Car/motorcycle clubs
Airplanes hobby
Gardening clubs
But do not go into these things just with the intent to meet someone, go to have fun and try new things. When you are happy about life love will follow.
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| 1/11/2017 7:37:20 AM |
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tame_tiger
Radford, VA
70, joined Apr. 2011
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Patience, patience, patience..
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| 1/19/2017 7:28:06 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I have no idea. 
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| 1/23/2017 1:11:37 PM |
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illan615
Holland, MI
55, joined Oct. 2012
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I was told when you stop looking you'll find someone.. (yeah, that hasn't happened! It's been 7 years).
Getting out there is the only way.. but my family and friends are all married with children, and grandchildren at this point.. so they are not able to go out.. What can I and You do to socialize and be comfortable at the same time?
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| 1/23/2017 1:15:38 PM |
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illan615
Holland, MI
55, joined Oct. 2012
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I was told when you stop looking you'll find someone.. (yeah, that hasn't happened! It's been 7 years).
Getting out there is the only way.. but my family and friends are all married with children, and grandchildren at this point.. so they are not able to go out.. What can I and You do to socialize and be comfortable at the same time?
Shameless request for cool people in the SW MI area.
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| 2/26/2017 8:40:57 PM |
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winkwink2u
Alpharetta, GA
52, joined Jun. 2015
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I know , right!!!
Looking for a nice companion in the Atlanta area.. just looking to get out and enjoy music, eats and spring fun. 
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| 3/6/2017 12:04:29 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Where do I bein to meet someone. On one hand I'm looking for a new life partner on the other hand I need the sex that's absent from my life?
If you think like that you are heading for trouble. Sex is not the only thing important in a relationship. How do you start over? Get yourself back on track with goals and hobbies. When your life is happy and you are content good things will follow.
Stay away from bars, clubs and gyms.
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| 3/6/2017 5:09:28 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Ask a woman you like out on a date. When she says "NO" do not cry about it, just walk away.
There is no sure fire answer.
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| 3/6/2017 8:01:57 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I was never asked.
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| 3/7/2017 9:55:06 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 3/12/2017 4:21:46 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I was never asked.
Something called distance makes it not practical. Besides you would more than likely tell me to "Get Lost",any way.
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| 3/12/2017 9:16:20 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Disregarding distance -- I've been to Oklahoma. The last time I went they still had paved interstates.
Your "lack of self-esteem" May be an issue.
If that is 'workable' then perhaps you being a swami is a turnoff.
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| 3/13/2017 9:34:29 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
55, joined Jan. 2014
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Something called distance makes it not practical. Besides you would more than likely tell me to "Get Lost",any way.
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| 3/13/2017 9:58:53 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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With common sense. 
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| 3/17/2017 6:16:05 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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| 3/21/2017 5:30:24 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I listen to experienced daters who are also members on DH.
Take Cavie, for instance.... somebody....please.
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| 3/21/2017 11:51:55 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I listen to experienced daters who are also members on DH.
Take Cavie, for instance.... somebody....please.
Like that would ever happen.
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| 3/25/2017 5:32:05 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Right?
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| 3/26/2017 3:43:42 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Take Cavie, for instance.... somebody....please.
No one wants me , so I will stick around and run amok.
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| 3/27/2017 5:01:22 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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No one wants me , so I will stick around and run amok.
Which world is Amok on, lLord Cavie? Can you give us a tourist "brochure" rendition in a nutshell?
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| 3/27/2017 11:41:19 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Meet
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| 3/28/2017 9:47:52 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I see you, JR.
My perpetual friend.
Surprised that I can't post in answer to your post, but then would I? Your question seems out-of-character for you.
Nice to see you back posting, however.
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| 4/7/2017 5:58:36 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Which world is Amok on, lLord Cavie? Can you give us a tourist "brochure" rendition in a nutshell?
Amok is not a world, it is a state of mind. Oh, by the way, I am not nobility of any kind, just a commoner.
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| 4/7/2017 8:40:27 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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You said "stay here and run amok" ... Just playing on your words.
I a
wouldn't be looking for a knight in shining armor, a superstar, a Midas -- if I were seeking a companion, Cavie.
I am no princess. No silver screen pin-up. No gigolo's easy street. I am a real woman. Who can be strong when it's needed. Feminine because it's appropriate. I can use the correct fork at a formal dinner or eat with my fingers at a picnic.
I am not fearful of cleaning up shit, nor getting my hands dirty. I don't worry about missing my manicure or my hair. I don't look at the person without, I look at the character within.
All this ^ and more can never fully explain the real person I am. But it has no bearing, at any rate; I am no longer "seeking" so I don't care what anyone thinks or whether anyone approves of disapproves of "personality". I am whom I am and whom I shall always be.
Hope you are successful in finding what you are seeking by being a member of this site.
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| 5/23/2017 3:57:40 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Has any one found the answer to the O.P. query??
I know that I do not have an answer for him.
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| 5/23/2017 8:37:34 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Yes. You find an acceptable target  and chase them around the forums on an internet site until they collapse from fatigue and allow you to catch them or wait for them to die and start searching again.
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| 5/31/2017 5:15:21 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Yes. You find an acceptable target and chase them around the forums on an internet site until they collapse from fatigue and allow you to catch them or wait for them to die and start searching again.
I gave up chasing as it is too hard on my knees.
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| 5/31/2017 8:55:18 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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ahhhh... Should I stand on a chair?  
Oops, my apologies -- I assumed you were addressing me.
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