hookupwithme35
Longmont, CO
42, joined Jun. 2014
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I have been a member for awhile now but have never really used the site much. I am a white male father of 3 that is trying to learn how to get back into dating after being married for 10 yrs and then living together for an additional 10 yrs after being divorced and trying to raise our children. Just over a year ago she up and move out of state and now i'm finding myself alone with 3 kids and wondering how i can move on and be happy too. Having children of any age makes dating harder since you try to do everything for the kids and therefore neglect yourself by avoiding anything that will affect them. How does someone get out there and date these days without affecting them???
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devil_z
The Rock, GA
98, joined Sep. 2016
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Your username is going to go over real good here man.
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Sep. 2014
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Dude you sound so desperate..
..yet understand how you feel.
Lifes circumstances just arnt working in your favor at the moment.
Unless you wish to toss your children from a 300 foot bridge into some icey cold water below.
Feed them and all who are your enemy , Doses of antifreeze.
Lock them in a car for 24 hours and hope they cook till well done.
Sounds harsh ..but a lot of people do this type of shit.
..because thier selfish and dont give a damn about anyone other than themselves.
Lonelyness can be a cruel world if one lets it become that way....
However many learn after years of repeated drama...that sometimes being alone , is the most peacful thing in life , so they embrace it.
Rushing life only makes one grow oldeofquicker.. those who give off signals of desperation..often scare away they potential prospects, by exibiting their mental weakness.
If this post were made by a woman ..i wouldve stopped reading and lost intrest as soon as you begain explaining how parenting made it a problem for you to acheive a romance life.
In most cases iv experienced with women who made this same type excuse ..i have always reconized it were the lifestyles those chose that prevented them from dating the kind of man they felt they truly wanted.
A lot of people say they want some one to care for or have someone to care about them..and yet.
Spend time searching bars , , night clubs , sports events etc..
They later hookup take advantage of the sex ...then burn down after realizing that they iether have nothing in common with each other , other than they both enjoy drinking enviroments and organizations that support adrenaline junkies type causes.
These type people will always resort to quick grab gimmicks..such as using dating sites, singles adds , flashing money , anything that grabs fast atention.
Its like playing scratch off lottery tickets....you never know what your gonna find behind that black rub off sticker.
These type of people rarely find fortune in these methods..they never consider to attend a church function, go join a gym and actually make it a real routine to work out. Teach a 4H club , get envolved with comminty services.
Youl find much better fortunate people.
Youl create real freindsloveeventually this is what leads one to finding a real love.
If children are you hold ups, then you must find a woman who will have something in common with them...like having children of her own.
So she understands the routines of your own responsibilities.
Youl just find dispair in enviroments like this.
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Amantide
BadraoMilan
Italy
44, joined Feb. 2017
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How does someone get out there and date these days without affecting them???
What do you mean?
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Blackstarangel
Bay Bulls, NL
37, joined Jan. 2017
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inde_5
Bonaire, GA
43, joined Sep. 2014
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...so Who's 35 ?
Why not 25 or 45 ..those are cool numbers too..arnt they?
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