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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Hanging around with their ex and their ex's family members?
Why or why not?
I'm bored and thinking about Stuff
what about if that ex is one of their best friends? or does that make it worse?
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4/17/2017 10:13:29 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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For what purpose? I would think that would matter greatly.
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4/17/2017 10:18:09 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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For what purpose? I would think that would matter greatly.
To do random stuff aka shopping, visiting plant stores, swimming maybe
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4/17/2017 10:24:33 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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I would have a issue if my man was a culture vulture.
Praising Asian anime and using the slang lingo of those he claims to hate.
I would prefer to know more about where he from not who he wishes to be.
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4/17/2017 10:27:45 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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I would be a little concerned if they went shopping together for condoms.
Shopping for African violets together would be more acceptable.
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4/17/2017 10:27:49 AM |
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burt_hurt
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Jan. 2017
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It's a bit disrespectful and thoughtless to hang out with your ex and exes family.
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4/17/2017 10:35:46 AM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014
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It's a bit disrespectful and thoughtless to hang out with your ex and exes family.
This.
Unless you have a big talk with your current partner about it and they're totally accepting of it, it's extremely disrespectful and inconsiderate. If the why needs to be explained to you then there's no hope. It's highly likely that you're just a kind yet inconsiderate person and if so that won't change.
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4/17/2017 10:56:21 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I would have a issue if my man was a culture vulture.
Praising Asian anime and using the slang lingo of those he claims to hate.
I would prefer to know more about where he from not who he wishes to be.
Japanese dumbazz Lol. Can't even get that right oh dear.
Go back to school
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4/17/2017 11:05:42 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Is Japan not in Asia????
What are they teaching you fools in Australia that Japan is separate from Asia
No wonder you stick to the cartoon life.
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4/17/2017 11:10:22 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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What continent is Japan on retarded one????
How can you adopt a culture and not even know where it is from.
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4/17/2017 11:21:11 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Hanging around with their ex and their ex's family members?
Why or why not?
I'm bored and thinking about Stuff
what about if that ex is one of their best friends? or does that make it worse?
Nope, they could do that all they wanted, because they would not have me.
An ex implies that they were once in a relationship with you, yet if you are still hanging with them, that implies you are not over them.
I would not play second fiddle to an ex.
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4/17/2017 11:21:44 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Well I wouldn't refer to it as Asian it just sounds wrong. Japanese
Also get the fuk on topic
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4/17/2017 11:40:32 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Are you "Jelly?" or something...
Don't be mad at me because you didn't know Japan is in Asia.
More books less cartoons
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4/17/2017 11:43:01 AM |
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burt_hurt
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Jan. 2017
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What continent is Japan on retarded one????
Well it's not 'ON' a continent...It's an island.
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4/17/2017 11:43:23 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I know Japan is in Asia. No one refers to anime as Asian. They refer to it as Japanese mostly. Stop being a retard.
Anime (Japanese: ???, [anime] ( listen)) is Japanese hand-drawn or computer animation. The word is the abbreviated pronunciation of "animation" in Japanese, where this term references all animation.
Fuxking owned
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4/17/2017 11:45:48 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Island??
Yet Asian territory so it doesn't matter.
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4/17/2017 11:48:45 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Do you have a problem with Asians over Japanese?
Is Japanese a higher class to you??
Is it all ASIA why are you being so specific.
Rhetorical question
You are a wanna be Asian who speaks black American slang
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4/17/2017 11:49:23 AM |
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burt_hurt
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Jan. 2017
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Island??
Yet Asian territory so it doesn't matter.
Yes Island.
Yes part of Asian territory, but not on the Asian continent.
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4/17/2017 11:52:24 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Japan is in Asia
Where do you think the native inhabitants of that island came from.
They are Asians
Your type of thinking is how apartheid starts.
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4/17/2017 12:10:49 PM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Well I wouldn't refer to it as Asian it just sounds wrong. Japanese
Also get the fuk on topic Google "Asian anime"
Guess what shows up JAPANESE anime along a few others.
#Fail
Adults call it ASIAN maybe they say Japanese on the nickelodeon web browser
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4/17/2017 12:12:18 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Its made in Japan not China so yes. Just admit defeat already
Yaoi also Japanese
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4/17/2017 12:13:04 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I know Japan is in Asia. No one refers to anime as Asian. They refer to it as Japanese mostly. Stop being a retard.
Anime (Japanese: ???, [anime] ( listen)) is Japanese hand-drawn or computer animation. The word is the abbreviated pronunciation of "animation" in Japanese, where this term references all animation.
Fuxking owned
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4/17/2017 12:14:39 PM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Google
"Asian Anime"
Asian culture is fun.
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4/17/2017 12:44:18 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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This is sooo gud
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Uw_ip59O7ww
My first kiss went a little like this
Mwah mwah and twist
Mwah mwah and twist
Well my first kiss went a little like this
And twist
And twist
I said no more teachers
And no more books
I got a kiss under the bleachers
Hoping that nobody looked
Lips like licorice
Tongue like candy
Excuse me miss but can I get you out your panties
In the back of the car,
on the way to the bar
I got you on my lips
(I got you on my lips)
At the foot of the stairs
With my fingers in your hair
Baby, this is it
She won't ever get enough
Once she gets a little touch
If I had it my way
You know that I'd make her say
Ooh, ooh
She won't ever get enough
Once she gets a little touch
If I had it my way
You know that I'd make her say
Ooh, ooh
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4/17/2017 12:50:22 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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What's the poem/song got to do with your thread?
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4/17/2017 12:52:35 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Uhmm nothing but its related to what I was just talking about recently
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4/17/2017 12:57:34 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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You let Kandy sidetrack you, you need to focus better.
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4/17/2017 1:03:59 PM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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This.
Unless you have a big talk with your current partner about it and they're totally accepting of it, it's extremely disrespectful and inconsiderate. If the why needs to be explained to you then there's no hope. It's highly likely that you're just a kind yet inconsiderate person and if so that won't change.
Isnt it kinda fuked up that you'd expect them to ditch their friends for you? Lol.
Isn't that inconsiderate?
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4/17/2017 3:15:24 PM |
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Light_bringer
Bay Bulls, NL
37, joined Feb. 2017
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Hanging around with their ex and their ex's family members?
Why or why not?
I'm bored and thinking about Stuff
what about if that ex is one of their best friends? or does that make it worse?
I don't know what I can say about your boyfriend/girlfriend hanging out with their exes, ex's family members, ex's friends, but as long there's nothing sexual is happening behind your back.
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4/17/2017 3:24:02 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013
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I would have a issue if my man was a culture vulture.
Praising Asian anime and using the slang lingo of those he claims to hate.
I would prefer to know more about where he from not who he wishes to be. Husband ain't allowed to have exes around, despite the fact you bang your neighbor's husband when yours isn't around.
Well, we know why your husband hasn't divorced you.
Cheaper to keep her.....
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4/17/2017 3:47:20 PM |
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burt_hurt
Beverly Hills, CA
37, joined Jan. 2017
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Japan is in Asia
..not ON Asia though..
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4/17/2017 5:08:01 PM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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Husband ain't allowed to have exes around, despite the fact you bang your neighbor's husband when yours isn't around.
Well, we know why your husband hasn't divorced you.
Cheaper to keep her.....
What????
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4/17/2017 5:13:41 PM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Japan is in Asia
..not ON Asia though..
Actually you just lost.
Asia is a continent so Japan is ON the Asian continent.
If you were IN the continent then you would have Asian dirt over your head.
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4/17/2017 5:36:35 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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Japan is in Asia
So, is India, Russia and Iraq.
The friends I have from China give you a look when you confuse Japanese art from Chinese art because you think they are the same just because they look similar.
It's like lumping Canada and the USA together.
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4/17/2017 5:40:14 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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I think the more serious a relationship is the less you want your boyfriend or girlfriend hanging out with their ex.
In the early stages of getting to know someone, it's not a big deal to me.
I expect people to need some time to get their ducks in a row before they can be in an actual relationship.
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4/17/2017 8:26:56 PM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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They are all Asian. Not sure what China has to do with Japan in Asia.
Asian culture is cool.
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4/18/2017 3:19:52 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I don't know what I can say about your boyfriend/girlfriend hanging out with their exes, ex's family members, ex's friends, but as long there's nothing sexual is happening behind your back. Thank you precious xD
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4/18/2017 3:25:36 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I would have a issue if my man was a culture vulture.
Praising Asian anime and using the slang lingo of those he claims to hate.
I would prefer to know more about where he from not who he wishes to be.
Atleast if you're gonna call me a weeaboo get the terms right
'culture vulture' never heard anything so retarded in my life LOL
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4/18/2017 5:33:47 AM |
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sddnly_snoozin
Staffordshire
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Depends on how they act around each other for me.
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4/18/2017 6:52:52 AM |
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kandykayn
Clarksville, TN
30, joined Dec. 2013
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So, is India, Russia and Iraq.
The friends I have from China give you a look when you confuse Japanese art from Chinese art because you think they are the same just because they look similar.
It's like lumping Canada and the USA together.
I am a military brat and wife of a army vet. I have been around Asians my entire life and no they are not offended when spoken of as Asian they are proud to be Asian.
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4/18/2017 7:53:13 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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So, is India, Russia and Iraq.
The friends I have from China give you a look when you confuse Japanese art from Chinese art because you think they are the same just because they look similar.
It's like lumping Canada and the USA together.
Exactly
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4/18/2017 6:42:41 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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they are not offended when spoken of as Asian they are proud to be Asian.
I think when you are talking about African art, nobody gets offended when you lump everything together and call it African art. However, there are many style differences between various art produced by people from the continent of Asia.
People are not ashamed of their heritage, they just when you can't appreciate their unique differences.
My family is originally from Russia, so it would seem odd of you to call me Asian.
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4/18/2017 7:05:08 PM |
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M4mischief
Grand Prairie, TX
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He can go for it...then he would be my new ex.......
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4/19/2017 1:06:31 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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I'm German
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4/19/2017 2:53:41 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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This thread is not even about your original post any longer.
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4/19/2017 5:18:42 AM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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To do random stuff aka shopping, visiting plant stores, swimming maybe
No. There shouldn't be any reason anymore for him to be spending so much time with an ex & the family of the ex.
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4/19/2017 5:19:57 AM |
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__h_
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Nov. 2016
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I think the more serious a relationship is the less you want your boyfriend or girlfriend hanging out with their ex.
In the early stages of getting to know someone, it's not a big deal to me.
I expect people to need some time to get their ducks in a row before they can be in an actual relationship.
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4/19/2017 1:25:21 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Yes. Now if the ex had a mate and we all went out because we all got along thats a diffetent story.
Its an immature move when the other person clearly cannot let go of their ex and wants to constantly hang out with them.
But on the other hand having a friendship with an ex is fine as long as there is distance between my mate and them and there are limits to what they may do together.
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4/19/2017 7:46:29 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
36, joined Mar. 2013
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Yes. Now if the ex had a mate and we all went out because we all got along thats a diffetent story.
Its an immature move when the other person clearly cannot let go of their ex and wants to constantly hang out with them.
But on the other hand having a friendship with an ex is fine as long as there is distance between my mate and them and there are limits to what they may do together.
Gotta make sure he never meets you "backup plan", or finds put too much about your bad side, eh?
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4/19/2017 10:24:14 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
50, joined Jun. 2013
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I think when you meet the right person for you, you totally forget about your EX... and... they become a thing of your past not your present. Your attention focuses on this new person who intrigues you. You live for the moment. That's usually when you stop being friends with your ex and your other opposite sex friends.
When you meet the right person, your eyes are usually all on them and not anyone else.
When you are half-hearted about a person you are dating, you usually appreciate your friends more than your lover.
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4/20/2017 3:41:03 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Well you know people usually have friends, it's not like they abandon all their friends to date someone lol wtf
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4/20/2017 7:51:16 AM |
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Saudate
BadraoRome
Italy
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All men and all women have exes. In the list of exes there will always be women who are more special to him than others. Many women fall into the trap of being jealous about the one that he still sees or talks about.
You're right to believe when you start the relationship that she has an advantage over you. She might still be special to him but it's not because she is prettier or better than you. It is becacuse they have a history together. The more experience you have shared with another person the stronger the bond gets. They have memories together. They have stories, vacations, good and bad moments together. These things create a very strong bond.
That is perfectly normal and there is nothing you can do to take that bond away. The only thing you can do is to start build your own bond with him. By badmouthing her, by asking him not to talk to her, by becoming jealous you will only hurt your relationship with him and make it worse.
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4/20/2017 8:04:45 AM |
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purdi_birdi
Paris, VA
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All men and all women have exes. In the list of exes there will always be women who are more special to him than others. Many women fall into the trap of being jealous about the one that he still sees or talks about.
You're right to believe when you start the relationship that she has an advantage over you. She might still be special to him but it's not because she is prettier or better than you. It is becacuse they have a history together. The more experience you have shared with another person the stronger the bond gets. They have memories together. They have stories, vacations, good and bad moments together. These things create a very strong bond.
That is perfectly normal and there is nothing you can do to take that bond away. The only thing you can do is to start build your own bond with him. By badmouthing her, by asking him not to talk to her, by becoming jealous you will only hurt your relationship with him and make it worse.
qft
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4/20/2017 10:49:45 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Oh I don't have an issue with their ex's. They always have an issue with mine though
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4/20/2017 11:03:01 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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Oh I don't have an issue with their ex's. They always have an issue with mine though
Why is it that everything is always other people's issue?
If you are dating men and then break up with them and then trying to keep
them around as friends then you are doing it wrong.
Wasn't this covered already?
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4/20/2017 11:05:42 AM |
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Saudate
BadraoRome
Italy
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Oh I don't have an issue with their ex's. They always have an issue with mine though
Either they are not confident enough or you give them reason not to.
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4/20/2017 11:07:56 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
24, joined Jan. 2016
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Why is it that everything is always other people's issue?
If you are dating men and then break up with them and then trying to keep
them around as friends then you are doing it wrong.
Wasn't this covered already?
It is their issue. Also that's off topic because there were several reasons why I break up in each case.
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4/20/2017 11:08:48 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
81, joined Aug. 2013
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Oh I don't have an issue with their ex's. They always have an issue with mine though
How many times have they walked in on you having dinner with an "ex"?
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4/20/2017 11:20:36 AM |
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mylegsarecold
Gainesville, FL
55, joined May. 2011
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It is their issue. Also that's off topic because there were several reasons why I break up in each case.
Well let them ask the questions then while you argue on topic about where Japan is located.
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4/20/2017 11:24:52 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
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Their jealousy and insecurity over my ex always ends up pushing me away
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