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5/3/2017 3:16:21 PM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Today, after month of not visiting Man's Land, I took a pick and "landed" on a topic I find quite interesting:

"""Dating women 50+ y/o who have kids at home / care for their grand kids few days each week.""

The answers posted were, at least to me, very interesting.

Would you date a gent who has children at home or takes cares of his gkids?

I won't .

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5/4/2017 5:13:20 PM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (82,358)
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013


I'm not sure, i would have to ask questions first, My daughter been move out with her two kids and my son is 16 with autism, only one stay with me, I'm not tryna raised anybody else kids, kids these days like to talk back and I'm not the one

5/5/2017 6:51:38 AM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from packersbabe920:
I'm not sure, i would have to ask questions first, My daughter been move out with her two kids and my son is 16 with autism, only one stay with me, I'm not tryna raised anybody else kids, kids these days like to talk back and I'm not the one


Well, what you say is pretty much the same I read in Man's Land.
In my case is quite different; I don't have kids and I am not about to put up with another person's kids living in his home. Grandkids could be OK...as long as I am not invited to their birthday parties and the likes. No babysitting.

5/5/2017 1:21:36 PM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

packersbabe920
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Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013


Right, I understand your part that's alot to deal with and i give the menfor not abandoned their kids

5/6/2017 11:20:38 AM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from packersbabe920:
Right, I understand your part that's alot to deal with and i give the menfor not abandoned their kids


Well, I don't see it as "a lot to deal with" but as I don't bring kids to a relationship and I chose no to date guys who do.

BTW, I wasn't even thinking about "men who see their kids on weekends"...How about the widowers?

5/6/2017 1:21:56 PM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

packersbabe920
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (82,358)
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013


Yup, U got some that don't want the kids after the mom has passed, and u got some that do take on the responsibility, same as with the moms

5/6/2017 6:10:51 PM Dating 40+ y/o men with kids or grandkids  

duchessa
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (40,398)
Yonkers, NY
63, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from packersbabe920:
Yup, U got some that don't want the kids after the mom has passed, and u got some that do take on the responsibility, same as with the moms


My point is, and that of many men as well, why should I want to start a relationship with the person who doesn't bring to the plate the same I do?