| 4/15/2009 9:32:46 PM |
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chris1122
Hartsville, SC
37, joined Mar. 2009
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to anyone who wants to comment...how many of you have been in a "relationship" but was just called a friend? and how long should you be called just a friend, even though you do everything together (vacations, family time,and of course sex?) just wondering.
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| 4/15/2009 9:35:09 PM |
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darbie1959
Oshawa, ON
57, joined Nov. 2008
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In my opion you need to have a chat with "your Friend". If I am seeing a gentleman on a regular basis and sleeping with him. We are not just friends. JMO
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| 4/15/2009 9:36:27 PM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
47, joined Oct. 2008
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what she said!
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| 4/15/2009 9:39:42 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
58, joined Sep. 2008
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until you realize that is all you are
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| 4/15/2009 9:41:15 PM |
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milas83
Philadelphia, PA
34, joined Jan. 2009
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It safe to assume that if a woman calls me just a friend now, she will call me that forever.
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| 4/15/2009 9:41:26 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
60, joined Jul. 2008
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sometimes you will always just be a friend
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| 4/15/2009 10:48:47 PM |
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1proudusafmom
Olive Branch, MS
49, joined Mar. 2009
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to anyone who wants to comment...how many of you have been in a "relationship" but was just called a friend? and how long should you be called just a friend, even though you do everything together (vacations, family time,and of course sex?) just wondering.
Sounds like your more friends with benefits then in a relationship. If the guy your with isn't introducing you as your girlfriend sounds to me it isn't a relationship for him. This is my opinion. He may not be thinking the same thing as your thinking you should ask him what he considers your relationship if he says a friend then honey that is all you will get.
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| 4/15/2009 10:55:20 PM |
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moraldk325
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008
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I always just found it was easier to introduce her as "My Friend" than "My current piece of ass."
It's kinda like being a "Fiance"...which is French for "The girl I'm bangin' now."
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| 4/15/2009 10:58:34 PM |
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rcpilgrim
Gulf Shores, AL
44, joined Feb. 2009
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You should be asking your friend/boyfriend that question?
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| 4/15/2009 11:07:04 PM |
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sweetredrose76
Fort Wayne, IN
40, joined Jan. 2009
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I just read some of Steve Harey new book "Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man" in it he talks about how if a guy is into you he will let everyone know specially other men. He will let others know that you are his special lady by the way he introduces you. If he introduces you as his friend thats how he thinks of you. If he calls you "my lady" " my girl" or "my girlfriend" thats how he see you. Sounds like you are in the "friend zone". 
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| 4/15/2009 11:20:27 PM |
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sweetpea266
Saint Joseph, MO
51, joined Jan. 2008
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Since I've been dating recently, I'm just as confused as you are. But I would say if you are doing all that he should at least being calling you his gal or something besides friend. Maybe a pet nick name or something.
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| 4/15/2009 11:53:50 PM |
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crgzero
Tulsa, OK
42, joined Jan. 2009
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to anyone who wants to comment...how many of you have been in a "relationship" but was just called a friend? and how long should you be called just a friend, even though you do everything together (vacations, family time,and of course sex?) just wondering.
You're a "friends with benefits", all the good shit of a relationship, with none of the drama and BS.
Hmm, that doesn't sound like a bad thing really.
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| 4/15/2009 11:54:57 PM |
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ladyog
Erlanger, KY
61, joined Feb. 2009
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Treat him like a friend.....and friend only....not a FWB....and if things change...
then you will have your answer...
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| 4/15/2009 11:56:02 PM |
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torisdad
Louisville, KY
49, joined Nov. 2008
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Treat him like a friend.....and friend only....not a FWB....and if things change...
then you will have your answer...
What she said.
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| 4/15/2009 11:59:03 PM |
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beu24
Virginia Beach, VA
58, joined May. 2008
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It safe to assume that if a woman calls me just a friend now, she will call me that forever.
AWESOME ANSWER!!!!!
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| 4/16/2009 12:05:43 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
42, joined Oct. 2008
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Um if your just friends having sex he is using you until he finds something else. Stop being used and break it off. ZHe has no respect for you. Unless of course you both openly agreed to FWB
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| 4/16/2009 12:15:17 AM |
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chris1122
Hartsville, SC
37, joined Mar. 2009
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i appreciate all that have commented, but just to be clear i'm not having this problem now, but yes it has happened in the past. single now.....i made the right call you guys!!!
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| 4/16/2009 12:32:51 AM |
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grumpeolmn
Rochester, MN
66, joined Oct. 2008
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I just read some of Steve Harey new book "Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man" in it he talks about how if a guy is into you he will let everyone know specially other men. He will let others know that you are his special lady by the way he introduces you. If he introduces you as his friend thats how he thinks of you. If he calls you "my lady" " my girl" or "my girlfriend" thats how he see you. Sounds like you are in the "friend zone".  ya take a woman out just for a date, and she gets weird on ya, thinks ya want to bed her, and whats this FWB shit, your either into a relationship or just friends! K so whats wrong with just being friends and dating? Seems you women either have to have something to b*tch about, or you're hornier than us men are Just plant me on Mars, and I'll sit back and see if normalcy ever happens in relationships between men and women. (lost in the sixties
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| 4/16/2009 5:31:11 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
52, joined Feb. 2009
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"Friend" is more than fine with me. I don't want a LTR, I'm enjoying single life a lot!! 
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| 4/16/2009 6:00:54 AM |
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caribedahlia
Lompoc, CA
43, joined Mar. 2009
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Sounds like FWB to me as well.......dump him.
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| 4/16/2009 6:22:30 AM |
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northphxhiker
Phoenix, AZ
55, joined Apr. 2009
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you remain friends until he decides to have your name tattooed on his ass
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| 4/16/2009 10:20:44 AM |
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mdd3rd
Miamisburg, OH
45, joined Mar. 2009
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I dont have sex with friends, when you get right down to it you are being used by this man for sex, period. i hope that wasnt too blunt. you deserve better than this, we all do.
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| 4/16/2009 10:35:23 AM |
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oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
55, joined Nov. 2007
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I introduce all those that are close to me as "friend". How we act determines if our relationship has a romantic nature to it.
Seeing how some treat their significant others, girl/boy-friends, FWBs, etc., I think introducing someone as "friend" is actually a high complement to them.
I may preface it with "dear", as in "dear friend" if they are very close to me.
I would not introduce someone as a "girlfriend" unless she wanted me to.
In your case, though, perhaps your are viewed as "just" a friend (or FWB), despite your desire for a more romantic, sexual, or committed relationship.
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| 4/16/2009 11:41:51 AM |
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countrycharmer
Litchfield, OH
52, joined Sep. 2008
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Sometimes that is all you will ever be (sex or no sex). If you want more, you could move on although don't look back in the would-a--could-a club.
mtc
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| 4/16/2009 12:02:36 PM |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
46, joined Mar. 2009
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WOW deja vu... Found out "Just Friends" is a form of friends with benefits but is worse because they will use you....
<---------Leary of the words Just Friends....
 
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| 4/16/2009 12:59:09 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
66, joined Dec. 2008
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Ah, nerve hit on this one. My Ex SO never, I repeat Never, referred to me as His GF or SO Even tho we lived together for 6 years  I always introduced him as my BF, Mate,SO His way of introducing me should have been a clue to me to leave HIS Lady Friend  Hello  Love there  Might as well as called me Hired Help
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| 4/16/2009 2:55:04 PM |
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sweetiepieslove
Orange Park, FL
40, joined Apr. 2009
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Treat him like a friend.....and friend only....not a FWB....and if things change...
then you will have your answer...
Good answer!
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| 4/16/2009 3:30:34 PM |
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wizmom_00
Galatia, IL
66, joined Feb. 2009
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 Ah heck...just introduce them as your "Teddy Bear", "Sugar Bear"...slide your arm around their waist, and just keep em all guessing!!
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| 4/16/2009 4:35:05 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
44, joined Mar. 2008
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Steve Harvey's book makes a lot of sense. I read a few chapters but
the price tag of $28.00 was a little too high for me.
I'll wait for the paper back version.
Look at on the flip side...when you really care about a man
you introduce him as..My guy so and so, or my man so and so,
or my beau, my Mr. Right...if I'm telling MY friends that he's
just a friend then we know I'm not knockin his boots and have
no love interest in him.
Really no one honestly has sex with a "friend".
FWB is just a trick label to make it sound better than calling it
what it really is...a piece of A** till I find a real lover.
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| 4/16/2009 4:41:54 PM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
62, joined Nov. 2007
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Until you progress to mortal enemy?
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| 4/16/2009 7:18:34 PM |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
46, joined Mar. 2009
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Quote from kinkycapitalist: Until you progress to mortal enemy?
<----- This girls no one's enemy... But a Hell of a Lot smarter...
Just Friends......WTF...
 
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