7/25/2009 2:21:47 AM |
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greig_jacobs
San Jose, CA
37, joined Jul. 2009
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1. maybe it makes them feel young |
2. crazy sex? |
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7/25/2009 1:13:12 PM |
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nanleetwo
San Marcos, CA
69, joined Mar. 2008
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Right on
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7/25/2009 1:44:57 PM |
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alicekathleen
Sacramento, CA
70, joined May. 2008
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Neither. I am in good shape, very physically active still with biking, swimming, travel, hiking, and few men my
age are as active. That's it, pure and simple!
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7/25/2009 4:35:28 PM |
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musicnbrew
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Jun. 2009
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Neither. I am in good shape, very physically active still with biking, swimming, travel, hiking, and few men my
age are as active. That's it, pure and simple!
, dont take this the wrong way but you are indeed in great shape not just for your age, in general
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7/25/2009 4:42:08 PM |
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alicekathleen
Sacramento, CA
70, joined May. 2008
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What a nice thing to say! I work out daily, have for many years, and have practiced yoga since I was 15. However,
time and gravity have me in their grip, now have arthritis and notice I get winded on those steep beach hikes!
Oh well, we can always just lie on a beach towel and read a good book, right?
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7/26/2009 3:46:15 AM |
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musicnbrew
Sacramento, CA
31, joined Jun. 2009
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See thats hot sometimes thats fun... Actually alot of the time
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7/26/2009 12:27:06 PM |
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harbinger0d
Riverside, CA
43, joined Jul. 2009
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When they're young they're eager to please and follow directions.
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7/26/2009 3:49:40 PM |
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hcb12
Redding, CA
50, joined May. 2009
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have dated a man 7 yrs younger than me....never again.....dont want to be his mommie
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7/26/2009 4:45:05 PM |
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mix28
Los Angeles, CA
34, joined Jul. 2009
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its all because the sex trust me..
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7/26/2009 5:39:57 PM |
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gloriajune
Waterford, CA
80, joined Nov. 2008
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Neither of the above suggestions.It is because we old ones are not ready to give up and pack it in as yet. Most are you know. a lot of us still enjoy having fun and life in general. Not sitting in a rocking chair and rocking life away. Sorry not all young men are responsible. I have found a very few ( friends only) and have a great time. But as far as sex goes. A few old guys cam still function in a top notch way. It is always the individual.
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7/26/2009 5:54:56 PM |
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haliey25
San Diego, CA
31, joined Jul. 2009
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lol i wanna know that to because i would rather date men my own age
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7/26/2009 5:57:59 PM |
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haliey25
San Diego, CA
31, joined Jul. 2009
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good point gloria
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7/27/2009 1:58:51 PM |
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qualityfirst
Sebastian, FL
60, joined Feb. 2009
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I now prefer younger men (44-50). It has nothing to do with either of your two suggestions. I find younger men are not as jaded by the world as men in my age bracket. They still have a positive outlook on life plus the initiative and drive to live it.
In my case I had younger men pursue me for over a year before I gave in and started dating them. I have learned that younger men like older women because of our maturity and lack of mental/emotional games. Older women also have an attitude towards life that younger men appreciate and younger women have not yet learned.
Of course I am sure there are plenty of exceptions to all of the above. I am just speaking from my own experiences.
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7/27/2009 6:43:02 PM |
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gtrman28
Salida, CA
35, joined Jul. 2009
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I'm 28 and my last couple of girlfriends have been in their 40. They were horny all the time and they say men there age just can't keep up. Probably just for my benefit but I'll buy it anyway
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7/28/2009 1:15:16 AM |
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aroselver
Kent, WA
65, joined Sep. 2008
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Neither of your answers: It's younger men going after older women. Older women know what they want, go after it and don't play games.
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8/2/2009 5:18:37 PM |
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jraye
Woodbridge, CA
62, joined Aug. 2008
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because the younger guys can keep up with us
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8/2/2009 9:06:47 PM |
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tallblondebbw
Anaheim, CA
70, joined Dec. 2007
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Because most men over the age of 50-60 can no longer "get it up" or "sustain" an erection - so women who are really into "penile sex - rather than just oral" choose to be with a man who still gets it up.
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8/3/2009 7:38:18 PM |
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jbloedorn
Riverside, CA
32, joined Apr. 2009
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thats true really i never thought about that that way
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8/4/2009 12:23:21 PM |
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qualityfirst
Sebastian, FL
60, joined Feb. 2009
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I see that for some women it may be about sex. This is not true for all women. I am of the belief, with most of us women it is so MUCH more. The younger men I have had the wonderful opportunity of knowing, have a zest for life that most older men have lost. The mental attitude & behavior of younger men is more youthful and vibrant, this is very appealing to us women who are not "mentally old". The zest for life and living is one of the most attractive assets any man or woman can bring to the table.
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8/5/2009 2:13:57 AM |
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maxdown
Hesperia, CA
38, joined Mar. 2009
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neither, it's a matter of libido and maturity
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8/5/2009 4:08:19 PM |
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specialm02
Escondido, CA
61, joined Aug. 2009
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I have found younger men to be more open sexually. They enjoy toy shopping as well. They're able to go hours on end. Seems older guys are tired before you every get started. Sadly with most older guys you get one chance at a time.
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8/6/2009 2:01:10 AM |
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psych80
Ridgecrest, CA
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Personally...as a woman getting closer to 30...I do not like younger men that much. Maturity and experience go a long way
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8/11/2009 3:57:37 AM |
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hineni
Simi Valley, CA
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Neither of the above. As a single-never-married woman, I would prefer to find a man who is also single-never-married. Most guys my age are divorced. Many already have children and don't want any more. I still want to have children, if I can. A never-married man who wants children, usually means a younger man.
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8/11/2009 1:28:58 PM |
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ponyboy9512000
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
39, joined Aug. 2009
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Well my two best friends are younger like me and they both are haveing sex with my mom all the time and she loves it. So I guess its the sex.
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8/11/2009 5:40:23 PM |
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eugune72
Lemon Grove, CA
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Neither of your answers: It's younger men going after older women. Older women know what they want, go after it and don't play games.
coulndt have put it better older women are tired of drama
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8/11/2009 7:06:20 PM |
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sassy3557
Castro Valley, CA
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I think most women who like younger men is cause as men get older they get lazy and dont care of there body as well as when there younger.
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8/11/2009 7:08:48 PM |
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sassy3557
Castro Valley, CA
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yeah you said that right they cant keep up with us. Many men think as women who get older and they start to go through menopause that there sex life is over. No so. I got better as I got older lol
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8/11/2009 7:11:25 PM |
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beautylibra90
Palmdale, CA
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GUYS GO LIMP AFTER THAT PEAK AN WOMEN RELY ON HEAD AN TOYS AN WOMEN SUMTIMES HAVE A HIGHER SEX DRIVE THAN MEN AN NEED AN ANIMAL IN THE SHEETS AN GIVE THEM THAT SPUNK AN SPICE JUST LIKE YOUNG GIRLS WHO LIKE OLDER MEN TO LEARN
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8/11/2009 11:57:05 PM |
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dreamcatcher211
Milton Freewater, OR
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It could be a little bit of both, but men do the same thing--in fact more so than women. Yet men often have to "buy" younger women.
For me, it depends on how much younger they are than me, and their level of maturity. If I'm looking for a relationship, I want a mature guy, and believe me, some of the older guys aren't all that mature either.
I just want to make sure we have the same level of interests so we at least know what we're talking about. A much younger guy comes from an almost different culture, and neither of us might appreciate each other's interests. A much younger guy might be interested in a lot of partying, which I'm not.
A much younger guy would be a risk in a relationship, as he would compare me to younger women, and sooner or later he would be gone--or else cheating.
Unless I had a lot of money.
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8/13/2009 11:53:09 PM |
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ocknight09
San Marcos, CA
40, joined Apr. 2009
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I think its a little of both......
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8/14/2009 2:18:37 AM |
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doofball500
Burbank, CA
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Well my two best friends are younger like me and they both are haveing sex with my mom all the time and she loves it. So I guess its the sex.
Dude Your Cool With that?
Two questions...
Is your mom Hot?
Wanna Be friends...???
LOL
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8/14/2009 5:28:07 AM |
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sassy3557
Castro Valley, CA
59, joined Aug. 2009
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that is not always so true. Not all younger men have it going on.
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8/16/2009 1:33:12 AM |
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doofball500
Burbank, CA
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that is not always so true. Not all younger men have it going on.
I think there might be a minute few....
like this guy
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8/17/2009 10:22:04 AM |
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ponyboy9512000
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
39, joined Aug. 2009
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Yea im cool with it and yes she is hot. I guess we could be friends.
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8/18/2009 8:45:40 PM |
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darklady09
Crest Hill, IL
59, joined Jan. 2009
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Many years ago I dated a man 10 yrs younger, I would never do it again, never. I like a man say around 45 up to my age.
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8/23/2009 12:56:46 AM |
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treemancox
Buckhead, GA
49, joined Aug. 2009
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what the ladies said...
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8/25/2009 4:47:27 AM |
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foxylady001
Modesto, CA
68, joined Sep. 2008
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Neither of your answers: It's younger men going after older women. Older women know what they want, go after it and don't play games.
I have to agree with Aroselver. I've gotten hit on by younger guys..... much younger guys.
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8/27/2009 8:39:53 AM |
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torrielores
Apple Valley, CA
52, joined Aug. 2009
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Younger men, good times
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8/27/2009 4:37:30 PM |
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gtrman28
Salida, CA
35, joined Jul. 2009
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older women=good times
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8/27/2009 5:17:08 PM |
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wordwes
Oakland, CA
34, joined May. 2008
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I prefer to only date older women. It seems their is a better connection through communication. Maybe it has to do with maturity for guys my age, in their 20's? Still looking for that older lady...
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9/25/2009 3:56:44 PM |
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xsimplythebestx
Beverly Hills, CA
31, joined Sep. 2009
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For the same reason older guys like younger girls
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9/28/2009 11:04:55 PM |
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coachers
Rocklin, CA
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I think it is the other way around. Younger men like older women. I have a 38 year old with a very sexy accent after me. lol I like older men, ones that are settled and know how to treat a woman ( such as showing you are interested in her in gentle ways,like the late night call just to say I love you,I miss you, you are beautiful etd) . It is very flattering, older women know there needs and youner men are happy to assist. lol
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9/29/2009 12:43:50 AM |
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mrwiseguyrs
Canyon Country, CA
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Speaking of the accent..... I have the east coast accent and since I've been in cali I actually get hit on more by the 35 to 45 crowd than I do by women in their 20s.... that never happened back home... but the older wmen here in valencia are by far more attractive to the older women in boston.... sometimes its hard to say no....but I could never mess with a married woman... its bad karma
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10/1/2009 1:02:01 AM |
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newtonhollywood
North Hollywood, CA
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God please send me the wife/ex wife of a lawyer, or doctor who doesnt pay attention to her anymore.
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10/1/2009 1:16:08 AM |
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tymeisright
San Marino, CA
49, joined Sep. 2009
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For me I just like a tight body, good breathe and not alot of hair....the bigger plus is younger guys are just more flexible and definitely dont get caught up in the small sh--!!
Correction, its the younger guys sprung on the mature ladies thats how it goes down..right girls???
I have never approached younger guys they are ALWAYS approching me.
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10/2/2009 10:25:59 AM |
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poison_sin
Los Angeles, CA
25, joined Sep. 2009
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i like guys just a bit older or guys my age but not younger nope
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10/5/2009 4:42:04 PM |
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gtrman28
Salida, CA
35, joined Jul. 2009
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yeah duh, if you go for guys much younger you'll go to prison
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10/6/2009 4:15:21 PM |
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javis831
Salinas, CA
25, joined Oct. 2009
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ill go 4 both..i like to have sex with an older women or mayb go out with her.....iam free ladys so hit me up..
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10/24/2009 4:46:48 AM |
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ladyatplay
San Luis Obispo, CA
56, joined Sep. 2008
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Let me use my last four dates as examples: The two older guys both showed up with alcohol on their breath. Very obnoxious. One talked about how he hated to spend more than $40 on a date. The other one told me was tan all over except his "junk". (TMI,Dude. First date.) Then he lifted my shift when we left the resturaunt to check out my ass. Not nice.
The two younger guys were both war vets. Very gentlemanly and sweet. Made overtures but I can't consider them as anything more then friends. They're just too young for me. Drat the moral dilemma.For a nickle, I would take them home to my ginger bread house and fatten them up for dinner. Oh, well, ladies, we must behave and keep our youngsters safe. Really...we will...
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10/24/2009 4:26:32 PM |
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breezy1
Fresno, CA
64, joined Oct. 2007
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It is exactly as Alice said. Women like us still have a lot of life within us and we want the same in a man. For some reason, the men our age seem to age more quickly, are just plain tired and no longer have much spark and desire - for much of anything. Active women still have so much more to offer than just having a tidy home and a good TV.
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10/24/2009 9:41:49 PM |
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keepmelaffn
Orange, CA
67, joined Oct. 2009
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Well my two best friends are younger like me and they both are haveing sex with my mom all the time and she loves it. So I guess its the sex.
ssshhhh...maybe that was supposed to be a secret...if not, you go girl!
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10/26/2009 2:13:31 AM |
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ringoblue
Cerritos, CA
56, joined Oct. 2009
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I see that for some women it may be about sex. This is not true for all women. I am of the belief, with most of us women it is so MUCH more. The younger men I have had the wonderful opportunity of knowing, have a zest for life that most older men have lost. The mental attitude & behavior of younger men is more youthful and vibrant, this is very appealing to us women who are not "mentally old". The zest for life and living is one of the most attractive assets any man or woman can bring to the table.
Now Emily, ain't u the ONE!!!>>>>
Ringo
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10/26/2009 2:25:08 AM |
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ringoblue
Cerritos, CA
56, joined Oct. 2009
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Well my two best friends are younger like me and they both are haveing sex with my mom all the time and she loves it. So I guess its the sex.
I bet your Mom is proud of U!!!!:::
O. T..............NOT
Ringo
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10/26/2009 10:17:49 AM |
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prayerdisturbed
Bonsall, CA
54, joined Oct. 2009
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yeah thay are good
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10/26/2009 10:19:07 AM |
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prayerdisturbed
Bonsall, CA
54, joined Oct. 2009
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thay just no how to get there groove on and last longer.
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10/26/2009 6:05:55 PM |
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gtrman28
Salida, CA
35, joined Jul. 2009
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It's because of me, I'm younger and they all want me. what can I say, I'm HOT
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10/26/2009 7:40:03 PM |
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yungd03
San Diego, CA
30, joined Oct. 2009
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depends on who you talk to.
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10/26/2009 8:59:36 PM |
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lady_first
Tulare, CA
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10/29/2009 2:07:37 PM |
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a9inchride4her
Riverside, CA
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Because they can teach them to do things they way they like it done instead of having to ask someone there own age to do what they like. If you dont let us know what you like then we are going to just do what we enjoy ...
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10/29/2009 7:31:23 PM |
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uniqueasyou
Canoga Park, CA
56, joined Sep. 2009
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Perhaps a mention should be made as to an age difference rather than simply being 'younger'. It would help understand the responses.
When I was in my early 20s I came into a phase where I met and dated women 20-30 years older than me. It was enlightening, fun and 'educational'. After that phase I had improved my skills and understanding with women closer to my own age. Also I think deep down each of us knew the relationship was temporary and that made it even nicer compared to the pressures of dating someone in my own age group with our social dilemmas. In those days they weren't called cougars. Most were simply divorced women that had the means to get what they wanted and the times (perhaps like now) were understanding in that it was unconventional but accepted.
Now I am back into dating and I have dated some women a couple of years older to about 5 years older (their 50s) and there might be some diffs in our musical tastes and such but still it can be fun. To some degree each of us has seen a lot of life and remember the freer times when sex was fun. To them I'm younger and function much better than guys 5-10 years their senior. To them I feel very appreciated for my enthusiasm and I am not looked upon as the provider I lived for so long as the husband - and we don't look mismatched when we go out in public (I won't date 20-somethings like some guys I know) - so it is the best of all worlds. Just as it has always been - it's mostly about attitude and appearance not about some calendar age.
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