| 9/17/2009 10:23:20 AM |
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kittypurrr
Winnipeg, MB
62, joined Jul. 2009
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I do hope that a few people actually read this...especially those who say they are clean.
Cold sores on your face are HERPES. (most often HSV1) It can be transferred to the genitalia during oral sex. (that's how I got mine) 80% of the general population has this form of HERPES. That 80% is the KNOWN number of people. It might be closer to 90%. That means likely everyone on this thread has the potential to give someone else genital Herpes via oral sex (and of course kissing anywhere)... and you do not have to have visible sores to pass it on. The virus sheds and can infect without your knowledge.
A standard STD workup does not include testing for HIV, HPV or HSV. For those of you stating how clean you are and how unclean we are, best have had ALL of these tests and more before you make that statement. Calling us unclean shows such ignorance, as we got it from the supposed 'clean ' people we had sex with...you know, people like YOU. Mine was in a long term realtionship.
Being HSV1 and HSV2 can both be transmitted during oral sex, those who say they are having safe(r) sex, then you must be using a latex barriers and condoms for oral sex as well, right?
And remember lab tests are not perfect and some, like a Herpes serology, may take months for a build up of antibodies to show the infection. An IG specific PCR will tell you with great accuracy if you have HSV1 or HSV2. It has to be specifically requested for and is not available in Canada. The reason being, because 90% of the population has one of these forms of Herpes (HSV 1 or 2) Doctors don't want the "OMG I am one of the unclean" souls to go jumping off a bridge. As a matter of fact Docotrs are inclined to call your mouth Herpes cold sores, because they know people cannot deal with its real name. HERPES!
Transmission of Herpes can also occur outside of breakouts via asymptomatic shedding of the virus. The people who have Herpes (either type) and do not have breakouts are called asymptomatic, and thse people can also transer the virus via asymptomatic shedding.
Babies were dying from encephalitis and getting occular Herpes because they were being kissed and Herpes was being passed on by unsuspecting (and again no doubt 'clean') relatives who were passing the 'cold sore' virus even without symptoms. Fortunately, most parents are now warned about this by their Doctors and pregnancy guides, and refuse to allow nonchalant kissing of their infants.
It is those who do not know or those who do not tell, that you have to worry about... It is the absolute ignorance and denial of the general population that you have to worry about. It is those who profess to be clean and who would have all of us who are aware we have Herpes tattooed that you have to worry about, because those people will not be educated about it, will deny they have it, and deny they gave it to you.
As I said, I doubt anyone who SHOULD have read this has gotten this far, judging from the replies I have read here and on other threads.
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| 9/17/2009 11:48:40 AM |
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handle111
Reno, NV
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wow, u people are sick. Thank god I havent hooked up with anyone from one of these sites.
Being in the medical field, I can say, that you lie about coldsores. Coldsores and herpes are completely different. Dont try to lie to pretend like your herpes are ok.
Thats just stupid and noone believes you.
If you do have herpes, its your fault and u probably deserved it. Your the ones slumming with gutter trash arent you?
Look at the last womans pic, you can tell shes a winner with morals and great virtues, she even takes care of herself. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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| 9/17/2009 12:34:33 PM |
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turtledove_53
Veguita, NM
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I would surely hope that someone that was infected would do the honorable thing and inform any prospective partners of their condition. Luckily I've never known or came in contact with anyone that was afflicted with this ailment.
Not anyone that told you about it anyway. If a person knows they have it, then they have a moral obligation to tell there partner before they have sex with them. The hard part is knowing when to tell. You don't exactly want to where a sign around your neck!
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| 9/17/2009 12:37:45 PM |
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turtledove_53
Veguita, NM
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SIMPLE AS THIS.
Dont be on a dating site if you have an std. What r u fkn stupid?
Noone wants your unadvertised sickness.
Grow some morals!"
How insensitive! I have never said this before, but I hope someday you are inflicted with something that makes your d*ck fall off!
Say what??!! Herpes suffers deserve to find love too! But they do need to be upfront about it before things get intimate. Maybe you think those that have cold sores shouldn't be on a dating site either.
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| 9/17/2009 12:40:20 PM |
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turtledove_53
Veguita, NM
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Having Herpes feels like being a leper. It is only an occasional and slight irritation yet it sends women running. I do not blame them when they back away and I feel bad for those who anguish over the decision to continue our relationship. It is a social stigma. People have cold sores and think nothing of it but tell them it is herpes and they deny it to avoid even thinking of the shame.
I am handsome by most standards and many friends ask why I am still single. I just tell them because I am cranky in the morning but the truth is I could not bear the thought of giving this to another person so I do not let them get close if they do not already have this. That does slim the dating odds a bit.
I do not tell every woman I date what I have but if there is the slightest bit of chemistry I bring up the subject right away. Yes, before they get to know me enough to struggle with the choice. I had one woman who said she had it too just to stay in the relationship. Luckily she did not catch it in the next few months of our relationship. She now sees how foolish that choice was to lie. When she started reading post of woman who had Herpes on the H sights she began to get scared of getting it and had herself checked twice while we were having sex but kept on anyway.
This is not something fun to have.
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| 9/17/2009 1:40:29 PM |
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1devine1
North Billerica, MA
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wow, u people are sick. Thank god I havent hooked up with anyone from one of these sites.
Being in the medical field, I can say, that you lie about coldsores. Coldsores and herpes are completely different. Dont try to lie to pretend like your herpes are ok.
Thats just stupid and noone believes you.
If you do have herpes, its your fault and u probably deserved it. Your the ones slumming with gutter trash arent you?
Look at the last womans pic, you can tell shes a winner with morals and great virtues, she even takes care of herself. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??????? I got mine from an insensitive cheating husband! Not everyone who contract herpes is promiscuous. You a quite a piece of work. Who raised you?
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| 9/17/2009 7:19:18 PM |
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rinnz
Brattleboro, VT
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*Looks around and slowly backs out of the room.*  I think most people don't fess up because they're afraid, and don't know how to come to the topic....
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| 9/17/2009 7:21:57 PM |
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kittypurrr
Winnipeg, MB
62, joined Jul. 2009
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handle111, cold sores on the face are HSV1 (can be HSV2 ) and are HERPES! (see his post below) You are either a liar in denial or an ignoramus in the Health care field Or both. You are also a rude S.O.B, given your remarks about another poster.
Feel free to look up cold sores and Herpes in any medical site. Methinks you are probably just someone with cold sores who is in denial. I will repeat, I got genital herpes from my ex husband who had oral Herpes (hsv1 or cold sores as those who deny their Herpes likes to call them)
You can deny all you wish, but it is true. Google is an ignoramus's friend and here are a couple from the 10 pages with reference to cold sores/herpes
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000606.htm
http://www.medicinenet.com/herpes_simplex_infections_non-genital/article.htm
Being 90% of the North American population has Herpes, isn't it time the ignorance stopped?
wow, u people are sick. Thank god I havent hooked up with anyone from one of these sites.
Being in the medical field, I can say, that you lie about coldsores. Coldsores and herpes are completely different. Dont try to lie to pretend like your herpes are ok.
Thats just stupid and noone believes you.
If you do have herpes, its your fault and u probably deserved it. Your the ones slumming with gutter trash arent you?
Look at the last womans pic, you can tell shes a winner with morals and great virtues, she even takes care of herself. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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| 9/17/2009 7:24:28 PM |
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1devine1
North Billerica, MA
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Thank you kittypurr, you are awesome!
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| 9/17/2009 8:47:13 PM |
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tallangel64
Lincolnton, NC
52, joined Nov. 2008
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Thank you kittypurr, you are awesome!
Awesome; maybe. 100 percent accurate; absolutely. Others seem foolish for refusing to educate themselves.
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| 9/18/2009 12:58:30 AM |
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neuroflux
San Marcos, CA
34, joined May. 2009
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I will repeat, I got genital herpes from my ex husband who had oral Herpes (hsv1 or cold sores as those who deny their Herpes likes to call them)
As an aside, the girl who writes that blog I posted about a while back, Love in the Time of Herpes, got genital HSV-1 from oral sex. Genital HSV-1 infections are on the rise because of the mistaken perception that oral sex is safer than actual penetrative intercourse, when the reality is that most STDs - including herpes and HPV - can be acquired and passed on just as easily by oral contact.
You can deny all you wish, but it is true. [...] Being 90% of the North American population has Herpes, isn't it time the ignorance stopped?
The worst part is that a lot of it is denial. Herpes is such a scary word it's no wonder people would rather stick their head in the sand and call them cold sores or fever blisters. But playing ostrich is the very reason herpes is so widespread in the first place.
It's good to see more people who are passionate about the truth. 
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| 9/18/2009 1:05:51 AM |
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oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
55, joined Nov. 2007
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Quote from neuroflux:" The worst part is that a lot of it is denial. Herpes is such a scary word it's no wonder people would rather stick their head in the sand and call them cold sores or fever blisters. But playing ostrich is the very reason herpes is so widespread in the first place.
It's good to see more people who are passionate about the truth. "
Ironically, genital HSV1 is more prevalent in Japan than HSV2, precisely because kissing is culturally rare. Oral HSV1 infection (which 90% of Americans over 50 have) offers some immunity over genital HSV1.
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| 9/18/2009 1:27:10 AM |
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neuroflux
San Marcos, CA
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Hmm, makes perfect sense. That's a shame about Japan's traditional reservedness about kissing and public displays of affection in general. I love a nice kiss, no matter when or where! 
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| 9/18/2009 7:31:35 AM |
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raen
Sunman, IN
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 i respect myself and my life 
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| 9/18/2009 8:41:06 AM |
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vashtie
Brooklyn, NY
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when you are going to date someone, i think the right think is to ask questions first,and if they have herpes or any other stds its a no no for me, but we can be just friends 
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| 9/18/2009 9:39:19 AM |
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wiseguy2009
Brooklyn, NY
37, joined Apr. 2009
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Im happy to say i am 100% STD free,it is tho possiable to have the gift
that re-gives herpes without ever knowing it this is why i say don't be insane
wrap up your membrane, or don't be funky wrap your monkey ok seriously
pratice safe sex and you can avoid 98% of all STDS
Word me to!! am not dating nobody with am STD and there no Cure for it  
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| 9/18/2009 10:43:17 AM |
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kittypurrr
Winnipeg, MB
62, joined Jul. 2009
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Sigh.
You probably already have, wiseguy2009 . I will reiterate that most standard STD workups do not have HSV, HIV, HPV, HEP C them and these are the fastest rising STD rates in North America. Each of the tests must be requested. In Canada, because aprroximately 90% of the population in North America has Herpes (HSV1 or 2) they will not do a Herpes test.
Besides doing a full and complete STD workup every 3 to 6 months minimum, I suggest you read about oral sex and my Herpes in my last post before you say you never dated anyone with an STD and feel that you are 'clean' and unable to pass one on.
And yes, wear a condom, as it does protect to a high degree if you use the right ones, store and use them properly. I would say being knowledgeable is an even better defense, but far too many people think ignorance is bliss.
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| 9/18/2009 9:18:14 PM |
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1devine1
North Billerica, MA
55, joined Jun. 2009
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Amen sista!!! Sometimes you could hit somebody over the head, and they still would not get the point.
I want to know why it is called herpes and not hispes?
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| 9/18/2009 10:37:24 PM |
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ctgearhead
Wallingford, CT
48, joined Jun. 2009
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SIMPLE AS THIS.
Dont be on a dating site if you have an std. What r u fkn stupid?
Noone wants your unadvertised sickness.
Grow some morals!
How insensitive! I have never said this before, but I hope someday you are inflicted with something that makes your d*ck fall off!
roflmfao.... not at your situation.. at the insensitive moron that handle111 is...
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| 9/18/2009 10:48:44 PM |
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ctgearhead
Wallingford, CT
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there may be no cure for either of the HSV strains or HPV, but there is a cure for ignorance. its called education and i think there are a large sum of people on here who could use a good dose of education... handle111 and wiseguy2009 also alphalover..
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| 10/11/2009 5:12:48 PM |
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risky56
La Harpe, IL
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I cant believe Handle111 claims to be in the medical field and yet is the dammed ingnorant. You know you stand a great chance of getting this before you turn 40 and when you do, dont come crying to us!
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| 10/13/2009 6:04:57 AM |
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ladygonewild
Campbellsville, KY
67, joined Oct. 2009
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actually dated a woman who had herpes. Within the first week of our dating, I discussed with her whether or not she had ANY sexually transmitted diseases. And she told me NO! So after about a month of dating, I decided not to use condoms because she could not have any more children, because she had her tubes tied. Well, one day she stated that there was something she needed to tell me. And that something was that she had herpes. I was devastated! I couldn't believe that after our discussion of sexually transmitted diseases that she lied. Fortunately I did not contract the disease, because as my doctor informed me that the disease is not always transmittable. And that it lies dormant until the person becomes stressed, or they have an outbreak. My ex girl did not reveal the fact that she had the disease because she did not think that I would date her. So from my experiences, I know that women (people in general) will not always tell you the truth. It's best to use protection until youv'e gained a level of trust with your significant other, and even still you can't always be certain that they're honest.
To answer : I have read alot about this ,People have HPV and dont know it .. it is the most widely spread of the sts out there , you can have it for years and be spreading it and dont know it ..
For men there is no telling unless you have warts ,foe womwn you know only if you have a PAP then it is to late !
And waring a condom does not protect you !
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| 10/13/2009 6:31:33 AM |
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noob_online
San Diego, CA
59, joined Jan. 2009
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15-20% of the population has it.
Tell the truth early and move on or maybe your new friedn has it too.
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| 10/13/2009 11:38:57 AM |
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luvexpressions
Rutledge, GA
43, joined Oct. 2009
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i understand all about the heat of the moment but i strongly feel to always practice safe sex it only takes a few seconds to put it on, and compared to a life time of not knowing who r how u got a std. it aint worth it ! take the time out for ur self and ur future
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| 10/13/2009 2:37:19 PM |
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kyhorseracer
Molena, GA
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| 10/13/2009 4:36:53 PM |
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dkdeckmann
Taylorsville, KY
57, joined May. 2009
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This is a good reason to "go down" before "taking the plunge", it gives one the opportunity to see things up-close and personal. Knowing what to be on the lookout for the various diseases would be handy too... Any ex-spurts?
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| 10/14/2009 12:00:28 AM |
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ferious1
Billings, MT
43, joined Aug. 2009
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lol..go girl!! That guy must be a big jerk!!!
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| 10/14/2009 12:10:47 AM |
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ferious1
Billings, MT
43, joined Aug. 2009
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You must have a lot of nerve to suggest that if someone gets hsv then that person shouldn't be on a dating site.No wonder you are single ...and with such an unappealing personality.I pity you and your simple mind. Maybe you should get tested. Anyone that has sex can get a std.
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| 10/14/2009 2:01:35 AM |
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crewzer
Saint Cloud, MN
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Well anyone who knows they have an std should disclose it for the good of anyone they might date. To my knowledge I have no std's but if I start dating someone I will be honest about who Ive been with and if I ever thought I might have a std I would be honest about it. Just because you have a std doesnt mean you wont find anyone. Some people are very understanding and if they fall in love with you they will probably accept it.
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| 10/14/2009 8:16:08 PM |
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starboyz636
Dallas, GA
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I can tell by looking at the chic if she has it or not..lol
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| 10/15/2009 2:23:17 PM |
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ghkaa1234
Plano, TX
59, joined Sep. 2009
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I was given herpes by a woman from this site and she told me 2 weeks after she new because she was afraid to loose me, what a scank
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| 10/15/2009 2:54:45 PM |
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jusztwntlove
Highland, CA
28, joined Aug. 2009
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becausze they scared they will never get any EVER agn if they start spilling the beansz of whatsz in between theyre jeansz..if yu got that BLOCK itsz basically overy for yur booty life .
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| 10/15/2009 10:58:27 PM |
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epnynydate
Queens Village, NY
52, joined Jul. 2009
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This is one of the risks of being sexually active and engaging in sexual actions without a condom. I remember contracting gonorrhea when I was 21. It was an unpleasant experience. When I tried to pee, a couple days after that, it was excruciating. I guess she forgot to tell me she had it and back then we did not use condoms.
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| 10/19/2009 1:55:26 AM |
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food949
Newport Beach, CA
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I thought for sure I got HSV1 or HIV. I was completely devastated and thought my life was over. I cried myself to sleep every night. I was sick as a dog, had pain in my groin, testicles, lower back, and abdomen. Turned out it was prostatis and I was sooo relieved. I just happened to get a fever during all of that. My whole life I took my health for granted and when that happened I've had my guard up. My health is the only thing I got.
Anyway, I've never been with anyone that has had herpes before and I don't know how I would react if someone I was talking to had it. All depends on what STD they had. I was beat by another poster but there is dating sites out there for people that have STDs. I would recommend DHers to check out those sites.
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| 10/19/2009 4:35:43 AM |
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gypsysays
Westbank, BC
51, joined Oct. 2009
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Why don't people fess upi they have it?
I have a friend who got it from her longtime boyfriend. I guess he was hanging with the strippers??? Anyhow she got it....and infected so many guys it was pathetic. I told her to tell them but she was too embarrassed. She instead, gave it to many many many guys.....
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| 10/19/2009 8:08:22 AM |
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alphalover
Elkhart, IN
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If maybe you truly loved the person.
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| 10/19/2009 5:01:04 PM |
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epnynydate
Queens Village, NY
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Most people will agreed with me that the beginning of love should not be a slap in the face. I heard most of the people who have herpes don’t even know they have it. And that most hospitals don’t even bother testing for it when screening for STDs, except when you are feeling the symptoms. One other problem is if you proceed to have sex with someone with the genital version (ghsv1 or hsv2), condoms will not necessarily protect you from contracting it. It’s a shame that women are at disadvantage here again because of the shape of their sexual organ. Women bear an unfair burden when it comes to STDs: If a male has an outbreak and his genitals touch the female vagina, she is prone to getting it. I have seen the skin shedding and I think most of you have too. I’ll tell you, it is awful. None of the STDs: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HIV/AIDS, Herpes... is fun to contract anyway. And where there's one such diseases, there can be many more. In other word, it’s hard to judge the intensity of the fire by the smoke.
The world is full of people who don’t have STDs. I will try my luck with one of the disease free females.
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| 10/20/2009 5:55:24 PM |
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10_2ur_biz
Highland, CA
50, joined Jan. 2009
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Thank God I have not had to deal with that.
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| 10/20/2009 6:10:34 PM |
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autumnrose55
Linden, MI
60, joined Oct. 2009
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miwolv70- nice reply.
unexpected things happen to good people who don't deserve trouble
I get tested for EVERYTHING between long term relationships (because you never really KNOW if that person has been faithful)-or-every year-or- both. I also insist on condoms. I am amazed at the number of guys I encounter who have never been tested, and refuse to wear condoms because they "can tell" by how the woman looks, or she isn't someone who is "promiscuous." What bullshit. Anyone can have anything. No glove, no love.
At least I know what I do or don't have for sure.
Also- this past summer I was raped by a man I met on Tagged. As he held me down and forced himself on me, I BEGGED him to use a condom. I knew he was going to screw me regardless of what I did, and I was willing to "cooperate" if only he would use a rubber. He finally did, but he isn't the only kind of guy who will force the issue in one way or another so as not to have to use a condom.
All you smug haters and judgers out there probably fall somewhere in that catagory and talk defensive as a way to cover up how sick you really are. You are probably HIV positive and don't even know it.
I have been tested for HIV twice since June, and will do it again this week. I have been tested for STDs twice this summer as well. If you haven't been tested, then keep your big ignorant mouth shut.
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| 10/21/2009 8:13:33 AM |
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toolfreak
Lafayette, IN
35, joined May. 2008
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if someone has herpes and doesn't tell their partners they're just ruthless, AND nasty as f**k. 
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| 10/21/2009 10:56:05 AM |
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canon55
Port Huron, MI
62, joined Apr. 2008
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just dump some beer on it before sex and you wont get herpes also works as a contraseptive
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| 10/22/2009 7:46:11 AM |
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funtime63
Holyoke, MA
71, joined Feb. 2008
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That you know of.
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| 10/22/2009 8:05:39 AM |
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funtime63
Holyoke, MA
71, joined Feb. 2008
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There are many web sites to read about herpes but the best place may be at your doctors office. Next pap ask. They will tell you and probably have materials you can take home and read.
http://www.herpes.org/about/statements.shtml
I have met a woman recently who I have been chatting with online for a little more than 2 years. Met her for the first time in Sept on a bike trip to Tn. She is awesome and told me before I saw her that she has herpes. Now I have a big decision. I will still see her. Just no sex I guess until we comitt if that ever does happen.
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| 10/22/2009 8:14:06 AM |
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funtime63
Holyoke, MA
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I hope he was prosecuted and had his c*ck cut off. That should be the punishment. Men the way they are about theirs d*cks would definitely not want that to happen. Would be a great deterent. But that is for another forum.
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| 10/22/2009 8:26:04 AM |
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travelinman2
Cape Coral, FL
46, joined Mar. 2009
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I'd say stick with the married women...less chance of getting it
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| 10/22/2009 7:29:52 PM |
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hard83838
Saint Cloud, MN
45, joined Oct. 2009
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I will and do fess up....I tell everyone woman that I am going to have any potential sexual contact with. Like was said in another post, it is more of an inconvenience than anything. The woman that gave it to me never knew she had it.
I typically have maybe 2-3 outbreaks a year and are very mild and not really uncomfortable at all. I dont know if my case is rare or not, but I am surely not gonna let it ruin my sex life and no one else should either. Be honest, upfront and sex is pretty much normal. From what I have heard also is that a person can tell when an outbreak is about to happen, for me I get the body aches in my legs about 2 days before an outbreak.
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| 11/1/2009 1:51:26 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
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I think that people can actually be prosecuted for giving someone herpes or any other serious STD without their knowledge. There's a case along these lines going on in MN right now. 
That's very interesting however, if they are promiscuous how do they know who gave it to them?
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| 11/1/2009 2:00:49 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
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That's very true! I'm a medical professional myself and their are people who have been infected with the disease and use condoms but during "the act" the virus often spills on to the genital hairs of the genitalia. Parts in which the condom cannot cover.
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| 11/1/2009 2:15:42 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
52, joined Oct. 2009
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A guy on DH gave me HSV2.I know it was eddie2151971 because at that time I had not been on a date for two years...I was waiting for my divorce to finalize.We dated for about 3 months. It has been a year since I found out that I have herpes. He didn't tell me that he had it. We used condoms. I haven't been on a date since. Are there respectable guys out there that would accept this? I am a respectable woman. I don't sleep around. I hate the idea of being a lone forever. This condition is tormenting me. I am so embarrased. Does anyone have any advice for me?
OOOOHHHH, you just called him out
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| 11/1/2009 2:31:58 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
52, joined Oct. 2009
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SIMPLE AS THIS.
Dont be on a dating site if you have an std. What r u fkn stupid?
Noone wants your unadvertised sickness.
Grow some morals!
How insensitive! I have never said this before, but I hope someday you are inflicted with something that makes your d*ck fall off!
Don't worry about him Divine. He probably has it himself. People with phobias are often victims themselves. God will send someone for you when it's your season.
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| 11/1/2009 2:40:53 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
52, joined Oct. 2009
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wow, u people are sick. Thank god I havent hooked up with anyone from one of these sites.
Being in the medical field, I can say, that you lie about coldsores. Coldsores and herpes are completely different. Dont try to lie to pretend like your herpes are ok.
Thats just stupid and noone believes you.
If you do have herpes, its your fault and u probably deserved it. Your the ones slumming with gutter trash arent you?
Look at the last womans pic, you can tell shes a winner with morals and great virtues, she even takes care of herself. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Coming from a Medical Professional: You CAN'T be in the medical field effectively and not have empathy for patients/people. If you are you need to have your license or certificates or whatever proof of medical professionalism provoked. You're in the wrong career.
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| 11/1/2009 3:00:34 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
52, joined Oct. 2009
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when you are going to date someone, i think the right think is to ask questions first,and if they have herpes or any other stds its a no no for me, but we can be just friends
Personally I feel that if two people make the decision to become intimate they both should go to a clinic or Dr's office TOGETHER and get tested for everything. Blood tests are less likely to lie and they should be allowed to view each others results TOGETHER.
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| 11/1/2009 3:04:52 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
52, joined Oct. 2009
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I cant believe Handle111 claims to be in the medical field and yet is the dammed ingnorant. You know you stand a great chance of getting this before you turn 40 and when you do, dont come crying to us!
The magic word is CLAIMS to be in the medical field.
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| 11/1/2009 3:23:28 AM |
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epiphany2
Houston, TX
52, joined Oct. 2009
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I'd say stick with the married women...less chance of getting it
Yeah, your right. Less chance of getting it more of a chance of getting your brains blown out of your head by her husband. Smart remark
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| 11/1/2009 4:10:54 AM |
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nfl_sdchargers1
Klamath Falls, OR
46, joined Sep. 2008
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This beautiful woman one day walks into a doctors office and the doctor is bowled over by how stunningly awesome she is. All his professionallism goes right out the window...
He tells her to take her pants, she does, and he starts rubbing her thighs.
"Do you know what I am doing?" asks the doctor?
"Yes, checking for abnormalities." she replies.
He tells her to take off her shirt and bra, she takes them off. The doctor begins rubbing her breasts and asks, "Do you know what I am doing now?", she replies, "Yes, checking for cancer."
Finally, he tells her to take off her panties, lays her on the table, gets on top of her and starts having sex with her. He says to her, "Do you know what I am doing now?"
She replies, "Yes, getting herpies - thats why I am here!"
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| 11/1/2009 4:25:01 AM |
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absolutxkatie
Saginaw, MI
26, joined Feb. 2009
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| 11/7/2009 6:12:01 PM |
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windinthewillow
Surrey, BC
59, joined Oct. 2009
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I dated a woman with herpes once. I didn't know it until I told a joke about STDs. She felt offended and told me. I would have seen her again but she felt too hurt and angry.
I don't think the relationship would have lasted because I'm health conscious.
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| 11/7/2009 11:39:43 PM |
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hotgentleman
Staunton, VA
65, joined May. 2009
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 There is a CURE for Herpes. Check out Sharry Edwards (online), I think she is based somewhere in Ohio. Heading: BIO Acoustic Alchemy. Amazing! A device that you speak into. It analizes your voice and comes up with a voice print pattern "Picture", which shows the chords which are missing in the voice. These missing chods seem to correspond to the identifiable pathology (Example; Herpes. Or others). Next step; sit in front of this machine while it plays back to you (through speakers) a serries of waffeling type sounds which contain the missing cords. I got a healing in three sessions. NO SHIT. Check it out if you like.
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| 11/11/2009 6:43:37 PM |
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jennyann71
Clarksville, AR
74, joined Apr. 2009
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If one practices safe sex? or is this caught through other means? and what about oral ?
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