12/2/2009 10:27:57 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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12/2/2009 10:38:20 AM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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I personally think physical attraction should be AT ALL TIMES on a date. Wouldn't you agree? Now, if you're at home and feel like dressing in your pj's and hair in your ponytails with face cream..........that's YOUR right/pregorative. That's how I DO it. lol
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12/2/2009 10:46:17 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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Oh, I think it is VERY important. I have tried dating someone who the attraction was not all there, just because he was a great guy. In the end I couldn't sustain it.
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12/2/2009 10:49:26 AM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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Then you have absolutely NOTHING to apologise for. Physical attraction is VERY important but it will also lead to other attractions *inner* as well. Take your time, Pam, it'll work out for you sooner than you realize.
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12/2/2009 10:56:50 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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One can wish huh? ![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/2/2009 11:13:48 AM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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Always! May I suggest something. Desperation will attract wrong kinds of people.......and, NO, you haven't displayed that so I'm saying *don't do it*. ![](/s/Smile.gif)
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12/2/2009 11:19:19 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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Oh trust me. If anything I am a little TOO cautious right now. ![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/2/2009 11:24:50 AM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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Atta girl!
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12/2/2009 11:29:15 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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What really sucks is when there seems to be so much chemistery before you meet in person. And then nothing! LOL
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12/2/2009 11:36:23 AM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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Well, is it because of your *pros and cons* after your first date? Phone calls and internet chattings are very popular to be fooled BEFORE meeting a person of your interest. Hon.......you May go through hundreds before you find that ONE JUST for you. Younger generation, ahem, are more impatient to find that special one with everything on their *pros* list.........just remember you're young and absolutely gorgeous.......you will find someone sooner than you realize..........now, an ol' fart like, ahem, it'll take me a LONG while because I expect ALOT from a man. Long story, lol. Hang in there.....
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12/2/2009 11:43:39 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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I want that "feeling" You know the one I am talking about? Where you feel almost breathless the first time you meet. I had that once. And I want it again. But I want it with someone who is healthy enough to be in a lasting relationship. And I am not Gorgeous....you are....but thankx. ![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/2/2009 11:52:16 AM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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Oh, let me tell you about that *feeling*.........everytime I met a guy I thought it was it, that *feeling* but I was wrong everytime. It happened twice in my life time and I sincerely hope to find it just once more. If you rush, Pam.....it'll confuse you what's real or not.......so don't, for heaven's forbid......don't go down the same road as I did. It's so much heartaches and disappointments. Take your time......re evaluate that *feeling* each time........and, YOU'LL know. ![](/s/Smile.gif)
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12/2/2009 11:56:29 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
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I was never one for patience in my life. LOL One of my biggest faults. Always has been. I have rushed thru my entire life without much thought before the fact. And only leave a second for regret later. But I do hope if there is another chance at happiness for me....I will be wiser, slower, and use my gut a bit more.
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12/2/2009 12:14:59 PM |
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barrydean
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Springville, UT
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I want that "feeling" You know the one I am talking about? Where you feel almost breathless the first time you meet. I had that once. And I want it again. But I want it with someone who is healthy enough to be in a lasting relationship. And I am not Gorgeous....you are....but thankx. ![](/s/laughing.gif)
oh come on you know your a very beautiful woman
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12/2/2009 12:17:03 PM |
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barrydean
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Springville, UT
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ur pretty frickin cute to utahgal
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12/2/2009 12:41:55 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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oh come on you know your a very beautiful woman
Thankx Barry. But what is attractive to one person, is hideous to another. ![](/s/lol-034.gif)
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12/2/2009 1:47:31 PM |
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utahgal1
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Ogden, UT
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Thankx Barry. But what is attractive to one person, is hideous to another. ![](/s/lol-034.gif)
Ah, it's called *shallow* behavior. Who cares what others think.........you worry about YOU because you're entitled just like everyone elses when it comes to happiness. I think if you join up with the gang's activities on Tuesdays......you'll have a blast and not worry so much about other things. Go on..........join in the fun with them.
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12/2/2009 2:14:46 PM |
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surrealone
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Overland Park, KS
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Physical attraction is just as important to me in going on a second date as it is in going on a first date. And it's important.
At the risk of sounding crass, I can't imagine being with a woman who I didn't spend all day at work thinking about ... wishing the day away so that I could get home to some one-on-one adult time with her. And I don't exactly long for one-on-one adult time with those I find unattractive, you know?
-- SR1
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12/2/2009 2:24:13 PM |
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salmouse
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Salt Lake City, UT
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Physical attraction is very important, but, remember that what I may see as attractive, someone else may not. It's an individual thing.
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12/2/2009 2:47:09 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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Physical attraction is just as important to me in going on a second date as it is in going on a first date. And it's important.
At the risk of sounding crass, I can't imagine being with a woman who I didn't spend all day at work thinking about ... wishing the day away so that I could get home to some one-on-one adult time with her. And I don't exactly long for one-on-one adult time with those I find unattractive, you know?
-- SR1
So you think about me all day? Awwwwwww.... ![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/2/2009 2:48:54 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Ah, it's called *shallow* behavior. Who cares what others think.........you worry about YOU because you're entitled just like everyone elses when it comes to happiness. I think if you join up with the gang's activities on Tuesdays......you'll have a blast and not worry so much about other things. Go on..........join in the fun with them.
I am trying.....![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/2/2009 6:26:11 PM |
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nowwhat9
Ogden, UT
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I find the more I care about the person, the more I find pleasure in talking to the person, the more friends we become...... he just is sexier each time to me. He becomes more and more attractive each day to me.
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12/2/2009 7:24:22 PM |
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mada01
Layton, UT
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With out physical attraction I don't think I would go on a second date. Don't get me wrong or any thing time is valubale. If there is no physical attraction how can there be any other kind of attraction to date someone?
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12/2/2009 9:55:53 PM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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Both nowwhat and mada are right. There has to be some physical attraction, but it doesn't need to be the blow-you-socks-off panties-wet-right-out-the-door sort in the beginning. If there's something there to start a fire, it will grow the more you get to know a person- and then it will be the panties-wet-right-out-the-door sort of attraction.
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12/2/2009 11:50:21 PM |
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pablo_cruz
Chicago, IL
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Pam I agree with you. The second date seems like it would be a waste of both party's time if there was no physical attraction. Needless to say, it is important to me.
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12/3/2009 4:14:01 AM |
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just_ct
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I don't think i've ever been on a date with anyone I didn't find physically attractive.
What would the point be?
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12/3/2009 4:22:00 AM |
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salmouse
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Salt Lake City, UT
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LOL...I think you just made a very important point. However, they may be physically attractive and you ask them out for the first date and something in the way the night goes, makes that physical appearance seem not so appealing. For example...a beautiful smile becomes a venom spewing scowl...Or those twinkling eyes suddenly become hard and glassy because of some comment you made that meant nothing at all, but that person took it wrong.
I'm just reaching here...but, seems that the person that started out attractive wouldn't be so attractive anymore.....
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12/3/2009 8:39:05 AM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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How about if it's meeting someone online? They look OK in their pictures, and you meet them, yeah, they're kinda cute... but the night goes on and you realize there's a dimple that peeks out every time she smiles. Or, she tilts her head in the most adorable way when she's listening wholly to you...
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12/3/2009 4:45:49 PM |
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just_ct
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Rome, GA
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How about if it's meeting someone online? They look OK in their pictures, and you meet them, yeah, they're kinda cute... but the night goes on and you realize there's a dimple that peeks out every time she smiles. Or, she tilts her head in the most adorable way when she's listening wholly to you...
You make an excellent point. I've met a couple of people from online and their photos definately didn't do them justice. It was truly a nice surprise to find how wonderfullly special and attractive they were in person.
I guess there is only so much magic you can capture in the bathroom mirror with a cellphone.
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12/3/2009 7:25:30 PM |
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older_wiser
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Orem, UT
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It all depends on whether I'm just dating for fun with friends or I'm dating seriously as in looking for the one.![](/s/lol-034.gif)
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12/3/2009 8:32:43 PM |
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topendstuff
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Eden, UT
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For fun? in a way that is like going out by yourself. Or more so "trolling"?
At the age I am at I tend to look at things a little more seriously. I have mentioned multiple times that the total package. Some of this and some of that... All mixed together that makes us both happy. Only thing is that I don't think that there is anyone that can step ove past troubles to see something like that.
So ifn I die single I die single. Won't be the first person in history to do so!
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12/3/2009 9:38:51 PM |
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older_wiser
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Orem, UT
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Nor the last!![](/s/lol-034.gif)
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12/3/2009 10:01:49 PM |
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safetyglrl
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Syracuse, UT
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Tippety top, we all die alone....
Well, except for the couple in The Notebook!
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12/3/2009 10:35:48 PM |
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older_wiser
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Orem, UT
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That was a great movie and I'm going to get another copy, even if I have to ask Santa for it. Just so you know there are some couples that die the same day or within days of each other. I believe it was all about their love for each other.
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12/3/2009 10:37:47 PM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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Or, they died in the same auto accident.
Just saying...
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12/3/2009 10:53:34 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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Am I the ONLY woman on the planet that HATED the Notebook?![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/3/2009 10:55:24 PM |
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salmouse
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Salt Lake City, UT
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Even I liked that movie. I don't usually watch chick flicks but...that one I really enjoyed.
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12/3/2009 11:00:03 PM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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Am I the ONLY woman on the planet that HATED the Notebook? ![](/s/laughing.gif)
I think I saw it once, but it must not have been very good to not leave an impression on me?
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12/3/2009 11:02:22 PM |
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older_wiser
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Orem, UT
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Pam and Celtic you must be heartless to not have love that movie!![](/s/lol-034.gif)
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12/3/2009 11:03:50 PM |
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gypsiegirly
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Provo, UT
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I saw it too, was ok didn't love it or hate it not one i would watch over again though
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12/3/2009 11:06:24 PM |
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older_wiser
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Orem, UT
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I'm shocked Gypsie. lol Never would have guessed this about you.![](/s/lol-034.gif)
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12/3/2009 11:06:41 PM |
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salmouse
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Salt Lake City, UT
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How about..."Somewhere in Time"?
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12/3/2009 11:06:46 PM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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Maybe I didn't see it then? There are a number of blockbuster movies I've never seen
Titanic
Bejamin Button
Twilight (nor have I read the books)
The third of the pirates of the Caribbean trilogy
That dating coach one, with what's his name from Dr. Doolittle
Dr. Doolittle
What women want
That recent one about the real reason why guys don't call back, with whats-her-name from ET
The recent one with Katherine Heigl where we saw the vibrator panties video clip
Up
I'm certain there are lots more, but since I don't see movies...
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12/3/2009 11:10:38 PM |
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safetyglrl
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Syracuse, UT
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May I just say I love my playlist?
Thank you.
Come again.
Carry on.
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12/3/2009 11:13:23 PM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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Back on topic, Pam had a short comment somewhere about the attraction built up online doesn't happen when you meet in person.
THAT's always a bummer. ![](/s/Frown.gif)
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12/3/2009 11:14:35 PM |
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salmouse
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Salt Lake City, UT
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Can also be the other way around. More attractive in person! ![](/s/love0081.gif)
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12/3/2009 11:52:11 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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Yes....yes it is a bummer! ![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/4/2009 6:22:09 PM |
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secretagentman0
Jackson, WY
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absolute numero uno silly.![](/s/surprised-040.gif)
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12/4/2009 6:25:57 PM |
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secretagentman0
Jackson, WY
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How about..."Somewhere in Time"?
possiby the best movie i have ever seen. jane is an absolute lady.![](/s/surprised-040.gif)
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12/4/2009 6:26:38 PM |
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salmouse
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Salt Lake City, UT
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I totally AGREE!!!!!!!!! Glad someone else appreciated it!
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12/4/2009 6:32:07 PM |
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current_swell
Layton, UT
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How important is Physical attraction to you in going on a second date?
Is that a trick question? ![](/s/laughing.gif)
Because it makes no sense at all! Most wouldn't go on a first date if they weren't attracted. ![](/s/laughing.gif)
Seriously. Look how this is typed...![](/s/laughing.gif)
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12/4/2009 6:36:27 PM |
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celticdelight
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South Jordan, UT
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How important is Physical attraction to you in going on a second date?
Is that a trick question? ![](/s/laughing.gif)
Because it makes no sense at all! Most wouldn't go on a first date if they weren't attracted. ![](/s/laughing.gif)
Seriously. Look how this is typed...
Actually, I have met blind dates where I had no idea how they looked in person, or someone who I had only seen in pictures.
You get there, you have something planned, you enjoy each others company, but there's no spark. You've just had a first date with someone you're not attracted to. Go on the second date? Well, how much fun did you have, and how important are those looks? The question made sense to me...
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12/4/2009 7:47:48 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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How important is Physical attraction to you in going on a second date?
Is that a trick question? ![](/s/laughing.gif)
Because it makes no sense at all! Most wouldn't go on a first date if they weren't attracted. ![](/s/laughing.gif)
Seriously. Look how this is typed...
Oh boy. I think reading and understanding the text is not his strong suit.
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12/4/2009 7:50:27 PM |
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current_swell
Layton, UT
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Whatever! What you typed is just stupid! ![](/s/crazy.gif)
Wow, you actually think you're pissing me off Pam, but you're really making yourself look stupid...![](/s/laughing.gif)
OK maybe a blind date, but non blind dates? ![](/s/confused-37.gif)
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12/4/2009 7:52:00 PM |
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xpamela_leighx
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Springville, UT
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Not trying to do anything. You piss yourself off all on your own darlin'
Going out to actually live my life.....have fun debating with yourself.
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