I think that we have become too tied up in what other people think, and that has taken its toll on bbw's self esteem. But I had to realize one thing, a lot of guys weren't even worth my time, and I was getting worked up over nothing. I'm a bbw and so many boys think I'm easy because I'm bigger. They walk away sadly dissappointed because that's not what I'm about. I've lost count of how many boys I've turned away on here because I'm not one of those girls who are looking for sex. I may be bigger but I'm sexy, beautiful, intelligent and much too smart to waste time on guys who aren't worth my time of day. Why should we have to work hard to gain men attention? We don't, treat yourself with respect and act like a woman and they will come to you, because REAL MEN know a good WOMAN and she comes in all colors shapes and sizes.
This remind me of fiji and how their culture was before hollywood had such a huge influence on them. Big women got all the men, because it was seen as healthy and it showed their wealth. Skinny women were seen as sick. (Not trying to offend you skinny women, and my apologies if I did) but that was how their culture was. And because we're big doesn't mean that we are unhappy. Lol we just enjoy food and no woman can refute that sentence. But we are happy people we enjoy life just as much as the next person honestly I don't need a man to justify or validate or define who I am. I can do that by myself. I'm a woman. I'm a big beautiful, sexy, smart, intelligent, fun loving independent woman... see? Wasn't that easy.