southernmainguy
Wells, ME
27, joined Sep. 2010
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I am wondering if its wrong to have a relationship that is only sexual. Where your friends but the only things that you do together are sexual and you only use each other to fulfill and explore your sexual desires and needs.
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dougiem
Tucson, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2009
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It's not "wrong," per se... but in the end it's not as fulfilling as a relationship that's both sexual and mental. It's nice to be able to have a conversation with the person you're boning, you know?
I've been in many purely sexual relationships over the years. In the end, it's just far more rewarding to be with somebody you care about on a deeper level. Sex isn't everything.
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graywar
Topsham, ME
31, joined Nov. 2010
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It's not "wrong," per se... but in the end it's not as fulfilling as a relationship that's both sexual and mental. It's nice to be able to have a conversation with the person you're boning, you know?
I've been in many purely sexual relationships over the years. In the end, it's just far more rewarding to be with somebody you care about on a deeper level. Sex isn't everything.
Completely agree, good words Doug.
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jemstar322
Augusta, ME
39, joined Jan. 2011
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It's not wrong, unless you suck in bed... then you got nothing 
Ok really? I don't think it's wrong and I hate being the girl in here commenting on this because ya'll are expecting me to say it's wrong anyway.
HOWEVER having a purely sexual relationship won't be fulfilling to someone who relies on trust to really explore their fantasies.
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omniseed
Portland, ME
31, joined Apr. 2011
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Not at all, if the relationship is fulfilling and healthy, absolutely not.
I swear these forums seem to be loaded with prudes who I'm shocked are even interested in dating, every thread I see is full of negative and hate.
Just a bunch of threads of people picking on the OP.
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panda4321
Raymond, ME
53, joined May. 2010
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A purely sexual relationship is not wrong in my eyes. It can sometimes blossom into something much deeper. If you are exploring different sexual things with this person there has to be communication, trust and respect. Aren't those things that we all want in any relationship? These 2 people are being honest with themselves and each other in that they enjoy sex and want it to be a healthy part of their lives. Yes maybe it is an unconventional way to start a relationship but the potential is there for a strong one. As long as both parties know the boundaries and go into it with eyes wide open then I say go for it.
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