1/12/2011 9:15:44 PM |
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funbobby1
Greensboro, NC
73, joined Nov. 2009
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A lot of women say they want a friend first and i want to know about how many times you should date someone without so much as a hug are kiss before feeling like the relationship isn't going anywhere and i should end it. I feel like if a friend is what someone wants than pay your on way until it gets serious because i feel like i'm being used as a meal ticket after a while. I will pay 3 are 4 times depending on how much i like the person and if by than if we haven't had any physical contact i will end it..
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1/12/2011 9:40:20 PM |
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funbobby1
Greensboro, NC
73, joined Nov. 2009
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That's the way i feel. I'm not the agressive type and want make the first move but waiting on a sign from the woman..
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1/12/2011 10:04:57 PM |
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cjcinraleigh
Raleigh, NC
46, joined Aug. 2010
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3 or 5 dates?! Dating is a mutual thing these days, there is no way you should be required to pay for every date, or feel obligated. Exception is if you really want to do that.
As far as a hug or kiss, it really depends on the situation, I've hugged and or kissed on a first date, but I never see it as a requirement
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1/13/2011 1:08:19 AM |
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aarmanii
Charlotte, NC
48, joined Oct. 2010
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Why do we have to go on dates that require money at all?
There are so any tings to do that money can't buy!
First of all I am going to hug the man that came to see me regardless if I am completely out out by his appearance or think he is the cat's meow. The object is to establish friendship off the top and almost everyone likes a HUG. At least they should if they are on a date.
A kiss, well sometimes I might not yet be too sure about the man and if I don't let him kiss me it's because I don't want to lead him on. If the date was pleasant and even if one or both don't think we are a good match I see nothing wrong in a friendly peck on the face.
If there was a connection of course there will be a little overly friendly kiss on the lips. This is the "HEY Dummy! I like ya!" kiss
I know things are screwed up in these days and times, but I think the kissing game is still pretty much as it was. This woman pretty much knows if there will be any hanky panky by the second encounter / date if you like. No kisses, no action, no future romantically.
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1/13/2011 5:39:52 AM |
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zoocitykitty
Greensboro, NC
43, joined Sep. 2010
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The first date! I do not see a thing wrong with a kiss, especially if you get a good vibe about the person.
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1/13/2011 2:22:34 PM |
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dimitri1983
Charlotte, NC
33, joined Jan. 2011
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I personally take it slow to an extent... I usually go for a kiss on the second date hardly ever on the first
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1/13/2011 2:30:36 PM |
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robtest
Norcross, GA
55, joined Sep. 2008
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If the chemistry is there, it will be there immediately, if it is not, don't fight it, just accept it and go on...
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1/13/2011 3:18:35 PM |
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butterflydiva52
Salisbury, NC
60, joined Jun. 2010
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I don't think there's a "set" number ... I think you probably know by the end of the first date if you want another one -- I don't think there's anything wrong with a little goodnight kiss if you're feeling a connection.
It should feel kind of natural ... not a forced gesture.
As far as paying for everything ... if you don't want to, don't do it. Just let your date know that you want to go "dutch", so she's not caught by surprise.
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1/13/2011 3:27:21 PM |
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gentlmn60
Wilson, NC
66, joined Sep. 2010
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No kiss on after a couple of dates? No Way! Obviously...she doesn't feel any connection. I would try one more time and go for a kiss BEFORE you head out for the evening.IF it isn't there..then I wouldn't be either. Can't lead a mule to the barn if they don't wanna go. Good Luck
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1/13/2011 4:05:33 PM |
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funbobby1
Greensboro, NC
73, joined Nov. 2009
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Thanks for all the advice and comments......
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1/13/2011 4:17:52 PM |
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moosette920
Merritt, NC
62, joined Jul. 2010
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Hey....I want a kiss on the first date ! if ya cant kiss dont waste each others time.
Dont go no futher...now ! A kiss...
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1/14/2011 9:20:58 AM |
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springer1911
Winston Salem, NC
70, joined Nov. 2010
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Hey....I want a kiss on the first date ! if ya cant kiss dont waste each others time.
Dont go no futher...now ! A kiss...
This is the truth
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1/14/2011 10:02:03 AM |
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ajrocket1
Hope Mills, NC
47, joined Sep. 2010
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WELL !! I totally agree. wanna kiss??
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1/14/2011 12:00:26 PM |
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nchillbilly
Grimesland, NC
49, joined Dec. 2010
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It just depends, certainly by date 4 or 5 I would expect at least a good night kiss. As far as who pays for the date, if I ask a woman out I'm paying...it's just that simple.
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1/14/2011 2:01:11 PM |
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robtest
Norcross, GA
55, joined Sep. 2008
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I hate when they kiss you GoodNight like a relative...
Guess that is a sure sign to move on to "NEXT" ...
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1/15/2011 3:40:00 PM |
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ladyviciousnc
Mount Airy, NC
40, joined Jan. 2011
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I agree with another poster on many points. There are several things you can do on a "date" that do not require money and dinner and a movie is a bit unoriginal. You can't talk in a movie theater and how are you to get to know each other without conversation?
A hug is really more of a hello in my opinion and if someone were to come see me or take me out, that man would get a hug regardless. A kiss, most likely on the first date, depending on chemistry. The date would have had to go very badly for there to not be a kiss.
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1/15/2011 4:13:44 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
77, joined Apr. 2008
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I for one dont think my date should have to pay for everything as stated for 3/ 4 dates. in my humble opinion thats just using a man..and totally uncalled for ..
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Now *smile* as for the type of kiss/ hug when that would be between us two...
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1/15/2011 6:18:12 PM |
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2shacks
Concord, NC
53, joined Jun. 2010
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If you've been talking and are comfortable with each other, attraction already there..I think the first date is ok to kiss if you both want. May even have some good smoochin', leave them wanting more.
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