1/19/2011 10:04:56 AM |
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saylor1351
Oklahoma City, OK
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But I just remembered this happened when I got dressed this morning.
While back, was hanging with some friends, decided I'd go for this guy friend I had my eye on for sometime.
Long story short, we were getting at it and he dramatically pulls my bra apart in the back because he couldn't immediately get it unsnapped, breaking the hooks..
Freeze frame. I learned something about myself in that moment. There's few material things in this life I value, one of them is my expensive Victoria Secret panties and bras.
And with my auditing/accounting brain subconsciously at work...I immediately sat up, and blurted out "Are you f**king crazy? This bra is like, $65 and you just broke that shit! Got Dammit!"
and I got up, got dressed and left.
Wow saylor. I got issues with this, and have no immediate plans to fix that either. Expensive bra. No sex is worth money to me. This guy blew it trying to overdramatic like Fabio or something.
So yeah, this wouldn't be the first time I've abruptly stopped sex, been like, WTF! for a variety of reasons, and left. Ladies? You got stories?
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1/19/2011 11:02:08 AM |
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andria11
Visalia, CA
30, joined Jan. 2011
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yes, guy asked me can i keep your panties, and then looked super serious. it was too weird to continue!
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1/19/2011 11:39:19 AM |
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jaydelriotx
Odessa, TX
35, joined Dec. 2010
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But I just remembered this happened when I got dressed this morning.
While back, was hanging with some friends, decided I'd go for this guy friend I had my eye on for sometime.
Long story short, we were getting at it and he dramatically pulls my bra apart in the back because he couldn't immediately get it unsnapped, breaking the hooks..
Freeze frame. I learned something about myself in that moment. There's few material things in this life I value, one of them is my expensive Victoria Secret panties and bras.
And with my auditing/accounting brain subconsciously at work...I immediately sat up, and blurted out "Are you f**king crazy? This bra is like, $65 and you just broke that shit! Got Dammit!"
and I got up, got dressed and left.
Wow saylor. I got issues with this, and have no immediate plans to fix that either. Expensive bra. No sex is worth money to me. This guy blew it trying to overdramatic like Fabio or something.
So yeah, this wouldn't be the first time I've abruptly stopped sex, been like, WTF! for a variety of reasons, and left. Ladies? You got stories?
so a used bra means more to you than the persons you have sex with?
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1/19/2011 11:46:21 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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"This bra is like, $65 and you just broke that shit!"
I'd have pulled out a C-note, bought it used, for quite the mark-up, and went about my rat killin', um-humm...
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1/19/2011 12:44:24 PM |
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saylor1351
Oklahoma City, OK
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so a used bra means more to you than the persons you have sex with?
you completely missed the point. Which is to be expected.
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1/19/2011 1:33:52 PM |
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bmoore40525
Yukon, OK
33, joined Jan. 2011
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lol that is hilarious petty but hilarious
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1/19/2011 1:37:16 PM |
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jaydelriotx
Odessa, TX
35, joined Dec. 2010
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you completely missed the point. Which is to be expected.
you must be pretty promiscuous..to end sex due to breaking a used bra.....
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1/19/2011 1:39:32 PM |
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saylor1351
Oklahoma City, OK
98, joined Dec. 2010
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you must be pretty promiscuous..to end sex due to breaking a used bra.....
nuuuuuuuurrrrrr
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1/19/2011 1:41:32 PM |
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saylor1351
Oklahoma City, OK
98, joined Dec. 2010
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lol that is hilarious petty but hilarious
Petty because he didn't take two seconds to do it correctly so now I have to buy another expensive vic sec bra?
Please. You prob wear dollar general underwear and wouldn't understand. I had just bought it for christmas. I don't have nice things like that all the time, and this idiot sure as f**k wasn't going to buy me a new one? or should I have asked him?
whatever. no sex is worth money to me, maybe to you. I wasn't too happy that he just cost me $65
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1/19/2011 2:08:39 PM |
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jaydelriotx
Odessa, TX
35, joined Dec. 2010
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Petty because he didn't take two seconds to do it correctly so now I have to buy another expensive vic sec bra?
Please. You prob wear dollar general underwear and wouldn't understand. I had just bought it for christmas. I don't have nice things like that all the time, and this idiot sure as f**k wasn't going to buy me a new one? or should I have asked him?
whatever. no sex is worth money to me, maybe to you. I wasn't too happy that he just cost me $65
damn..u must work at dollar general..to be crying about a 65$ bra..maybe you should step your game up!
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1/19/2011 2:24:12 PM |
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saylor1351
Oklahoma City, OK
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damn..u must work at dollar general..to be crying about a 65$ bra..maybe you should step your game up!
sigh. eye rolllllllll
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1/19/2011 2:30:58 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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If I may be so bold.
It's not about the cost so much as it's about a klutz that ruined the moment...
Here's the key phrase: "...I'd go for this guy friend I had my eye on for sometime."
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1/19/2011 8:17:12 PM |
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armednfaithful
Mustang, OK
32, joined Nov. 2010
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Things happen in the moment per say, to make atleast some kind of nice gesture he could have said hey sorry about that is something I can do to make it right? Especially if this was a friend that you have known for a while but i guess class dies with each generation. Just sayin.
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1/19/2011 8:52:20 PM |
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tony5592
Hulbert, OK
32, joined Sep. 2009
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I was high and drunk once and I remember going down on this cute girl i liked a lot. And during the moment I must have temporarily blacked out for a few minutes and when i came to, she was gone and i was still on my knees half undressed, sticky and confused.
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1/19/2011 10:02:42 PM |
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purplerain001
Monroe, MI
31, joined May. 2010
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Giiiiirl i would have done the SAME THING! That was pretty much bullshit, & pretty disrespectful...knowing well enough youd be going home without "support".
Thats all i buy, but i do make a point to shop& stock up during semi-annual sale! January& july and always use the$ 10/$15 off cards they send out. I dont think ive ever bought full price there.
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1/19/2011 10:58:18 PM |
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youngpoet99
Oklahoma City, OK
39, joined Jun. 2010
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I have to agree with the ladies here. if a chick broke my shit i'd be pissed. Of course, i'd still have sex with her first...but there's the difference between genders in a nutshell. Honestly, dudes get your game right...learn to take off a bra. Girls value their under garments, show'em you have nimble fingers and that'll go a long way
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1/20/2011 1:55:02 AM |
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trock9977
Oklahoma City, OK
98, joined Jan. 2011
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Let's get together and chat a bit more about it. Should we?!!
IO
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1/20/2011 5:59:29 AM |
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purplerain001
Monroe, MI
31, joined May. 2010
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I hope you're not one of those that uses restaurant coupons when you ask a man out ...
No no..lol thats not classy. And i dont ask men out.
they just hook up their most loyal shoppers. I get discounts every month.
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1/20/2011 11:16:53 AM |
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jaydelriotx
Odessa, TX
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I was high and drunk once and I remember going down on this cute girl i liked a lot. And during the moment I must have temporarily blacked out for a few minutes and when i came to, she was gone and i was still on my knees half undressed, sticky and confused.
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1/20/2011 12:59:04 PM |
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bigdude253
Vantage, WA
41, joined Oct. 2010
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Well, the reason why it happened and his reaction would play into it. If he had an uncontrollable muscle tremor due to a medical condition and offered to pay for it, I'd assume the OP would have been like "ok, no harm, no foul" It sonds like the guy basically did that, then said "what? Why are you pissed b*tch?".
If the latter is the case, then she has every right to be pissed, cause if some chick threw my cell phone in water and was dismissive about it like that, I would kick her a** out and tell her not to let the door hit her on the way out.
So, it has everything to do about the circumstances.
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1/20/2011 2:14:24 PM |
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medic1558
Noble, OK
42, joined Oct. 2010
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I understand that things happen in the moment, but come on its not that hard to undo a bra. I had that mastered in middle school. Generally only takes one hand to undo up to four clasps.
You have every right to be upset.
I have stopped in the middle before I finihsed and gotten dressed before. There is more to it than just doing the deed. I take my time and enjoy the moment. Its all for fun and pleasure.
Sorry that you had that expeirence.
Medic
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1/21/2011 1:06:14 AM |
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jaydelriotx
Odessa, TX
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its just a bra,,, stopping sex for a broken bra,, shows shallowness and lack of character,,, not to mention she could have probably got the guy to buy her a few new bra's if she would have not been such a b*tch, and just gone thru with the sex and pleased the man.... just my opinion,, (dont get all offended ladies cus i used the dreaded ''b'' word)
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1/21/2011 8:24:26 AM |
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saylor1351
Oklahoma City, OK
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its just a bra,,, stopping sex for a broken bra,, shows shallowness and lack of character,,, not to mention she could have probably got the guy to buy her a few new bra's if she would have not been such a b*tch, and just gone thru with the sex and pleased the man.... just my opinion,, (dont get all offended ladies cus i used the dreaded ''b'' word)
dude. you're ghetto. Go shave that chode tickler you look like like you're fresh out of prison.
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1/21/2011 2:37:09 PM |
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rondag
Williamsburg, OH
53, joined Mar. 2009
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You guys are cracking me up.
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1/21/2011 6:23:38 PM |
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msmaggiemia2
Jacksonville, FL
60, joined Jan. 2011
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Hell yea! Weird!
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1/21/2011 6:24:45 PM |
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msmaggiemia2
Jacksonville, FL
60, joined Jan. 2011
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Maybe a little personal there???? If he offered to pay for the bra then he's a keeper if he says "no big deal" go slash his tires! LOL
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1/21/2011 6:25:47 PM |
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msmaggiemia2
Jacksonville, FL
60, joined Jan. 2011
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And you wonder why??
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1/21/2011 6:41:37 PM |
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niecefly
Riverdale, IL
41, joined Jan. 2011
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this guy and i had been datin a month when we decided to have sex were all into it when he says ride him cool right? NO he can only get off if your like punchin him in the the face and body how am i supposed to ride you and beat you at the same time i got my butt up and started puttin on my clothes all the while hes sayin just hit him once with my heel freaked me out
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1/22/2011 12:17:20 AM |
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wolfgard_h
Saint Paul, MN
53, joined Oct. 2010
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this guy and i had been datin a month when we decided to have sex were all into it when he says ride him cool right? NO he can only get off if your like punchin him in the the face and body how am i supposed to ride you and beat you at the same time i got my butt up and started puttin on my clothes all the while hes sayin just hit him once with my heel freaked me out
Reminds me of the Sopranos.
Tony's sister tells him the dude wanted her to use a Cheese Grater on his D*ck.
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1/22/2011 12:21:21 AM |
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wolfgard_h
Saint Paul, MN
53, joined Oct. 2010
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Less learned Ladies.Wear cheap Undies when you're having cheap sex.
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1/22/2011 12:29:13 AM |
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2wheelpilot
Beatty, NV
49, joined Oct. 2010
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amateurs, gotta love em
never had a problem with this myself, but if i did i would just ask "can you get that for me honey?" with age comes patience.
since i have taken a girl on a shopping spree at vs i can relate.
-chip
p.s. semi annual sale rocks
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1/25/2011 7:07:08 AM |
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txcowgirl08
Lufkin, TX
52, joined Jan. 2011
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Take the bra back to store, and tell them it couldn't stand up to your satisfactions!!! Heat of the moments!!
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1/26/2011 7:41:29 AM |
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gamenoir
Philadelphia, PA
29, joined Dec. 2010
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so a used bra means more to you than the persons you have sex with?
Question if he busted her bra... what is she supposed to wear when she leaves? Considering I'm a lady with a giant chest ALL my bras run from 40-60 and I'd be pissed if a man messed it up. I mean i understand it was a mistake but bills are tight right now and losing a $60 bra is a crushing blow since I can't afford to get a new one. Stop trying to needle her, if you have nothing nice to say, shut your mouth.
Back on topic. There was a friend of mine who I had a casual thing with and he knew my ex and I were talking again. So pre-sex he starts asking me questions about my ex-bf... and then during sex he KEEPS talking about him. So I just asked him to stop. Him talking about the guy I wanted to be with not only ruined the mood but made me feel SO guilty for sleeping around.
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1/26/2011 3:18:01 PM |
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morninwoodchuck
Hayward, CA
38, joined Aug. 2009
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Things happen in the moment per say, to make atleast some kind of nice gesture he could have said hey sorry about that is something I can do to make it right? Especially if this was a friend that you have known for a while but i guess class dies with each generation. Just sayin.
Amen brother!
Oh...and how old was this dude? I say....if he was over 18...and can't undo a bra efficiently...with one hand...then it was probably a good thing you walked out anyways....Clearly, he wasn't even good enough with his hands...I say good choice!
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1/26/2011 3:47:00 PM |
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blackdiva88
Cleveland, OH
29, joined Jan. 2010
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yes im a big fan of my panties and bras and would really be upset if some lame ruined it talk about a crazy story wat about you go for a booty call n da 2nd plan showed up at da same time lol stupid guys
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1/26/2011 4:30:46 PM |
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cat120
Clear Lake, IA
39, joined Jan. 2011
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I say she should have gotten more bang for her buck,tied him to the bed and worked him over real good. That will teach him.lol
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1/26/2011 7:07:24 PM |
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altar_boy
Fort Lauderdale, FL
72, joined Jan. 2011
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Thanks for buying Victoria's secret. That stock (LTD) has made me a lot of money in 2010.
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1/27/2011 10:29:44 AM |
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mistaslickrick
Miami, FL
35, joined Jan. 2011
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Make him buy you a new one?
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1/27/2011 4:57:16 PM |
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steelwood
Hollywood, FL
50, joined Jan. 2011
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I understand the bra thing. My ex-wife had such a crazy sized chest (no, not abnormal)that she always had a hard time finding bras that fit properly and the ones she found were usually more expensive.
Now on to this guy, He must have been young or drunk or just thought that was macho. He probably saw it in a movie once and thought that was cool. Not knowing that the director has a budget for stuff like that. Any hetrosexual man over the age of 18 should know how to remove a bra with one hand. If not, he should politely ask for help. It's called respect.
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2/1/2011 1:25:26 AM |
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suchawoman
Dallas, TX
31, joined Dec. 2010
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For the first time I got up during sex which is very unlikely for me. So it was this gent I was dating for a while. One night after watching a movie,drinking some wine and snacking on some chocolate covered strawberries I finally decide to "give it up." I was always amazed about how much of a great kisser he was just perfect. Here comes the foreplay, squeezing my ass, cupping breasts, massaging my back, running his fingers through my hair and here comes the "oral."Now one would think a great kisser would be a damn good clit eater...WRONG! No big deal I was still horny...lol. Red flag number 2...Mr eye candy had a super small wee wee. I was super pissed at this point and he had the nerve to be screwing me and asking stupid questions like , "Is this the best d*ck you've had,""Does this feel good,""I'm gonna tear this p*ssy up!" You know stupid sh*t. I got my a** up and left...This really was an eye opener for me Now the bra situation I can understand that...he was way too excited...In so many ways that would be a compliment coming from a guy I would think?
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2/5/2011 2:14:49 PM |
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luke2210
Oklahoma City, OK
30, joined Nov. 2010
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You really told captain bean man good for you
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2/5/2011 2:43:14 PM |
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beg4merci
Detroit, MI
28, joined Jan. 2011
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no one has ever broken a bra of mine, but i've stopped and walked out before it jus sucked
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2/5/2011 10:16:20 PM |
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atma6969
Bridgewater, NJ
47, joined Dec. 2010
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You should have gone 60's ...braless!
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2/6/2011 4:29:11 AM |
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v3quiet
Hamptonville, NC
46, joined Oct. 2010
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I never like to take a woman's bra off. Its more enjoyable to what them take it off, just because it feels like unwrapping a present( hint ladies, that's how a Verile man feels when removing your bra) dose not mean we men have to unwrap it ourselves
And girlfriend, if you were getting things going to an heated rush, then sorry, you are partly responsible for the destruction of your appreciated bra. Be happy you have it like that, and buy yourself a nicer bra, and just remove it yourself next time around.
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2/6/2011 4:01:28 PM |
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elizabeth1314
Toledo, OH
58, joined Jan. 2011
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I am laughing so hard good for you!!! and they are very expensive i get mine from fredricks so yeah i know what you mean you like the way it looks guy but yet you break it
i think we should have signs on us that say you break it you bought it lol
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2/7/2011 2:10:42 PM |
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cschaeffer
Evansville, IN
41, joined Apr. 2009
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Passion is dead....
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2/9/2011 10:26:52 PM |
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countryboy73160
Depauw, IN
57, joined Jan. 2011
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You were in the right completely! If he wouldn't take the time to undo your bra patiently, then what about patiently getting to the "spot" that makes you quiver?
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2/10/2011 3:27:01 AM |
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socalhottie24
Ventura, CA
31, joined Dec. 2010
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Haha yeah this guy and I were just barly having sex and he was so damn small I was like I cant do this .....so I told him this sop a** story about how I was still n love w my ex and he had to leave. Lol never called him again lol he didnt have a penis.
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2/10/2011 12:43:33 PM |
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mechele01
Aurora, CO
57, joined May. 2010
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sigh. eye rolllllllll
Finding a good bra is like finding a good purse. They gotta be pretty, hold alot and keep their shape. Now, I have never paid $65 for a Victoria Secret Bra, only because I can't fit into a VS bra. BUT... losing a good bra sucks! Especially if you have a hard to fit size. It's like losing an old friend... LOL...
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2/10/2011 2:16:03 PM |
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wellfitguy
Garland, TX
32, joined Feb. 2011
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dawn..that dude needs to learn the 2seconds skills to take that off..lol..but maybe he was going to pay for it..you didnt let him talk thats the problem..i dkn..just my opinion..
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2/10/2011 4:33:47 PM |
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txnursekathy
Mineral Wells, TX
63, joined May. 2010
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You were in the right completely! If he wouldn't take the time to undo your bra patiently, then what about patiently getting to the "spot" that makes you quiver?
YES>>>>YES>>YES .........What ^^^^^^^^^^he said
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2/10/2011 6:33:39 PM |
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wiliamtel
Walnut Creek, CA
60, joined Dec. 2010
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come to me Sailor
Ile break your bra and bye you 10 new ones
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2/21/2011 10:02:22 AM |
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turbo_lover44
Lawton, OK
32, joined Jan. 2011
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he tore it off because he wanted a war trophy!!
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2/21/2011 1:07:31 PM |
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bigdaddyforyou
Henderson, NV
37, joined Apr. 2010
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easy fix hon, I would have swiped my visa thru your crack, and paid for it
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2/23/2011 7:43:41 PM |
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jayj24
Reading, PA
31, joined Nov. 2010
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I would have been mad as well. Learn how to take off a bra the right way or ask for help. Sounds like he is a caveman.
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2/24/2011 11:20:28 AM |
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spankee06
Saint Croix Falls, WI
55, joined Feb. 2011
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A guy did that to me ripping off my expensive undies just for the drama of it all. We still had so-so sex and damnned was I pissed afterwords looking at my undies in smitherings.
Men are clueless how expensive the cute, little things they like us to wear ( or rip off) are.
I bet they don't have a clue how much *Trojan MAGNUM XL's cost...
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2/24/2011 3:03:24 PM |
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jstwndrn
Lubbock, TX
41, joined Jul. 2010
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I have to agree with the ladies here. if a chick broke my shit i'd be pissed. Of course, i'd still have sex with her first...but there's the difference between genders in a nutshell. Honestly, dudes get your game right...learn to take off a bra. Girls value their under garments, show'em you have nimble fingers and that'll go a long way
WOW! That's so funny! NIMBLE FINGERS! - how do you know this will go a long way? Just interested in knowing what your thought/answer may be.
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2/26/2011 11:29:24 PM |
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veedee1219
Oceanside, CA
27, joined Feb. 2011
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Haha yeah this guy and I were just barly having sex and he was so damn small I was like I cant do this .....so I told him this sop a** story about how I was still n love w my ex and he had to leave. Lol never called him again lol he didnt have a penis.
Hahaha you should put "No Small D*cks" at the top of ur profile
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2/27/2011 12:00:48 AM |
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mikec6384
Philadelphia, PA
33, joined Feb. 2011
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BOING!
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2/27/2011 8:58:57 AM |
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dawnieannie
Richmond, MO
45, joined Feb. 2011
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lol YOU go girl!! the word CREEP comes to mind!! and besides aggressive is ok...sometimes but I know its the soft sensual things that get us girls going!! and bras are crazy expensive! I would of been SOOOO mad! good for you!
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