No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date

7/23/2011 8:07:30 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	I am so sick of atracting guys that don't have a job, a license/ car or any ambition to fix their own situation. I am a single parent of a 3 year old, I am the sole provider of my child and myslef. It really frustrates me when I get an email or a wink from a guy that has nothing to offer. I'm already taking care of one child, I'm not looking to take care of my potential boyfriend as well. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
7/23/2011 2:12:27 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
1maineguy Thomaston, ME 33, joined Dec. 2010	Ya unfortunatly theres alot of those out there And most of it is because people are too picky and dont comprihend the fact that a job is a job. I dropped out of highschool and ive had at least one job ever since and have been fine. I dont get how some people can go off to college and come back and not have work when i see people looking for help everyday. STOP being picky people it does not get you anywere with work
7/23/2011 3:32:35 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
jlizzotte2004 Fairfield, ME 31, joined Jul. 2011	trust me im finding it equally difficult finding women that way. i have 2 jobs, 2 cars, a 17 month old daughter, and im in the same boat, i dont wanna have to drive my girlfriend everywhere
7/24/2011 7:54:32 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
errolwi Clinton, ME 45, joined Jun. 2008	I dont have a job..... I am a self employed carpenter and for almost 3 years work has been very very slow for me, but I get by. Alot of people are out of work.... however I do get the no ambition no date part.
7/24/2011 12:43:59 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
jcmaine Farmington, ME 37, joined May. 2011	Quote from sweetkissme_81: I am so sick of atracting guys that don't have a job, a license/ car or any ambition to fix their own situation. I am a single parent of a 3 year old, I am the sole provider of my child and myslef. It really frustrates me when I get an email or a wink from a guy that has nothing to offer. I'm already taking care of one child, I'm not looking to take care of my potential boyfriend as well. welcome to maine, where 90 percent of the dudes are bums and 90 percent of the woman are single mothers.
7/24/2011 8:55:31 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from errolwi: I dont have a job..... I am a self employed carpenter and for almost 3 years work has been very very slow for me, but I get by. Alot of people are out of work.... however I do get the no ambition no date part. i hope that my comment did not offend you, it was not directed to the anyone that has been unemployed or work has slowed down due to the economy. My commment was directed to the guys, or girls in a vice vera situation, who have nothing to offer going into a relationship. The people who are looking to sponge off of somone esle becuase they have no ambition to hold down a job, keep a license or a car on the road. Call me bitter, from past relatioships, but I am not looking to take care of somone, I'm looking for somone who is willing to pull their own weight in a relationship. I seriously hope that work picks up for you, my comment was in no way directed at somone like yourslef.
7/24/2011 8:59:06 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from jcmaine: welcome to maine, where 90 percent of the dudes are bums and 90 percent of the woman are single mothers. is this your new id?.....I'm pretty sure we have had a few debates on these blogs before.....
7/25/2011 12:27:23 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
jcmaine Farmington, ME 37, joined May. 2011	this is my id that i generally try to not chat on the forums with because i dont want to be associated with the forum rats that live here 24/7
7/25/2011 1:53:03 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
errolwi Clinton, ME 45, joined Jun. 2008	Quote from sweetkissme_81: i hope that my comment did not offend you, it was not directed to the anyone that has been unemployed or work has slowed down due to the economy. My commment was directed to the guys, or girls in a vice vera situation, who have nothing to offer going into a relationship. The people who are looking to sponge off of somone esle becuase they have no ambition to hold down a job, keep a license or a car on the road. Call me bitter, from past relatioships, but I am not looking to take care of somone, I'm looking for somone who is willing to pull their own weight in a relationship. I seriously hope that work picks up for you, my comment was in no way directed at somone like yourslef. noproblem... I was actually supporting your no ambition statement
7/25/2011 6:33:38 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from errolwi: noproblem... I was actually supporting your no ambition statement yes, I got that, and Thank you.
7/25/2011 6:34:46 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from jcmaine: this is my id that i generally try to not chat on the forums with because i dont want to be associated with the forum rats that live here 24/7 Ummm ok....???..........
7/27/2011 5:13:46 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
jerseyguy39 Ocala, FL 46, joined Apr. 2011	I've known guys with no job and no wheels who just go from woman to woman all the time. Their looks let them pull it off, and they draw women like flies. If you're goony lookin' and lose your license, like me, it's the kiss of death! For these other guys, there's another one around the next corner. Them's the breaks.
8/28/2011 12:32:35 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
gardenblueaug22 Augusta, ME 39, joined Aug. 2011	The worst is when you haven't been a bum and you have a suprise pregnancy late in your career just as you were getting promoted at work to 13hr and because the work is physical and there arent benifits your out of work when you show to big! And if there's chemicals around. And if you have multiples,which is more commone in older aged women. Then you have to use savings but who has more then 6mo. To live off of. The system,nobody cares about you or your safety unless you give them up..and hide at an adoption house. So you have to move states away to your mothers take her shit,because this may be the only pregancy you ever have and your last chance to have kids. And feel like not dating when you have to be on welfare while you have to wait for openings at a daycare. Who knew there were year long waits!try finding an opening for multiples!so your vertually stuck not being aloud to go to work. So many druggies and muchers you can't leave them with anybody. So you spent years alone..just in the expectation of the freedom to be able to work again and get a car. And the stock market started going down in '04 when I empty'd my roth ira because it was falling below what I put in. So the recession everyone now admits hit me a long time ago.
8/28/2011 1:04:54 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
gardenblueaug22 Augusta, ME 39, joined Aug. 2011	And with how jobs pay women less then men and if there's 90 percent men bums why do any girls live in maine(unless grew up here and never left) don't they all know they can move outside any base and look like anything and be married with a house in 6mo. And be treated like gold the whole time and forever? Because most don't do drugs or they get tried by two courts if there even caught with it in their car,civilian and military court,which usually means military jail for not staying clean for your promised contracted years. But we get no credit from maine men for obveously not being gold diggers and staying here!? I disagree in that,i don't care if a guy has a job or a car or anything..as long as he tries and does moving jobs once inawhile or labor ready and he says he's trying.then we can work on it together to make our life great.it can bring you closer. Where as guys with stuff can loose their money,possessions someday and you won't know how they'll react.At least the poor guy you can already see how he's hanging tough in there and hasn't given up or isn't flipping out on you everyday it's your fault. Rich guys get mad at the end of their lives if they lose anything because their whole identity is in it,or if they lose their job. Also most women know men hit midlife crisis at 40.what do we want to look forward to a guy that takes it out on us when he hasn't reached his dreams by that age,how will he react? So guys too goal oriented are bad too.
8/28/2011 1:07:46 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
mainelyhere Lisbon Falls, ME 30, joined Feb. 2011	oh god you type far too much for anyone to want to read. learn to use paragraphs a....
8/28/2011 1:31:40 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	trying to comprehend your rambling rant, some it of sounds more personal than anything else. Paragraphs would definatly be nice.
9/7/2011 11:18:39 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
max04456 Waterville, ME 34, joined Dec. 2010	yeah, waterville is proving to be a breeding ground of people with little to no drive and ambition to work towards bettering there situation. I'm just coming back to Maine really, from the military but so far its not been easy just finding women that are well balanced and would make both a good friend and something more. i don't give up though and neither should anyone here, life isn't easy, as gardenblue22 reminds us, but have faith, stay positive and move forward. though she def has my sympathy, there is always tomorrow. stay happy my friends.
9/7/2011 11:57:51 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
dougiem Tucson, AZ 37, joined Aug. 2009	Waterville is the worst. That place is a total shithole.
9/8/2011 4:31:03 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
max04456 Waterville, ME 34, joined Dec. 2010	a getto with colleges! thats why i'm here!
9/8/2011 9:19:04 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: Well hey, if you didnt get knocked up with some ahole..... it wouldnt be so hard. Honestly, i have no problems about kids. But if she puts the kid on a pedestal then i shouldnt be wasting my time. There are some guys out there who do have a all of the qualities you're looking for. You just need to find them. They may not be online but you never know! and yes watervile is like.... a ghetto! Last time I checked, it took two to tango......SO before you got making judgments realize you could be the ahole who gets a girl knocked up ! As far as kids being put a pedestal, my child will always be my number one priority, and any mother, who puts her "boyfriend" first on that priority list really needs to evaulate her choices. I do beleive that for every individual there is a compatible match out there, people need to stay true to who they are, and not contort to be something they are not in order to obtain relationship status.
9/9/2011 4:41:37 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from bvet4dog: it's about having a good set of morals for yourself. I wasnt implying that "boyfriends" should be the first thing on the list. I was simply saying that some parents take it to the extream level, higher than normal. But yes guys should be just as important to her as much as she is to him. duhhh By the way, you're right i could be the next a**hole. Perhaps i should, since all you do is whine. All I do is whine?....ummm ya okay, I am a realist, I comment on posts and voice my opinion on things that catch my interest. Insn't that what a chat forum is all about? whining.....mmm I think not, you have me sadly mistaken.....
9/9/2011 8:10:53 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
mainelyhere Lisbon Falls, ME 30, joined Feb. 2011	Lol "realist"
9/9/2011 8:12:23 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
mainelyhere Lisbon Falls, ME 30, joined Feb. 2011	Quote from sweetkissme_81: Last time I checked, it took two to tango......SO before you got making judgments realize you could be the a**hole who gets a girl knocked up ! yes it does, it also takes one to decide to keep the kids instead of aborting them. it takes one to decide to date some jerkoff in the first place it takes one to decide "i trust him to pull out " when all is said and done, the women is more responsible because shes stuck with the kids, he isn't
9/10/2011 6:43:58 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from mainelyhere: yes it does, it also takes one to decide to keep the kids instead of aborting them. it takes one to decide to date some jerkoff in the first place it takes one to decide "i trust him to pull out " when all is said and done, the women is more responsible because shes stuck with the kids, he isn't Off all the rude and ignorant comments that have made, you seriosly crossed a line here, how dare you say something like that. yOU SERIOSLY NEED HELP.
9/10/2011 2:57:24 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
9/10/2011 5:58:19 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
mainelyhere Lisbon Falls, ME 30, joined Feb. 2011	Quote from sweetkissme_81: Off all the rude and ignorant comments that have made, you seriosly crossed a line here, how dare you say something like that. yOU SERIOSLY NEED HELP. its F**KING true, kids are a liability when trying to meet a mate. Nothing i said was untrue. When all is said and done it's a lot easier for some douchbag to ditch a mother than vice versa.
9/10/2011 8:36:06 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from mainelyhere: yes it does, it also takes one to decide to keep the kids instead of aborting them. it takes one to decide to date some jerkoff in the first place it takes one to decide "i trust him to pull out " when all is said and done, the women is more responsible because shes stuck with the kids, he isn't Is what I want to know is, are these the things that you think about before or during sex with a women? What you are implying here is that, the man has no consequences as to the outcome of a sexual encounter. The situations that you depicted here, might be true to an exent. There are also instances where a man and women have a sexual relationship, and yes they are in love, and so does that mean that it's the solely the women's responsibillity if she gets pregnant. I do believe in birth control, I am pro- choice about abortions, that being said I don't beleive it should be used as a birth control method time after time. I must also point out, there are times when the condom breaks, who's fault is that?.......Yes, when it is all said and done, no matter what brought about the situation, the women is solely responsible for how she chooses to deal with the situation. I just get really frustrated when guys act like they are foot loose and fancy free.
9/10/2011 9:13:14 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
mainelyhere Lisbon Falls, ME 30, joined Feb. 2011	Quote from sweetkissme_81: Is what I want to know is, are these the things that you think about before or during sex with a women? What things? Should I do everything in my power to not get her preggo? Yes. What you are implying here is that, the man has no consequences as to the outcome of a sexual encounter. In the most technical sense YES! The man has far more freedom to disappear than the woman carrying the child. and so does that mean that it's the solely the women's responsibillity if she gets pregnant. Well if a woman can choose to or not to have an abortion and the man has absolutely no say on the matter and in fact may have to pay child support purely because the sanctimonious btch chose to keep it? Then YES. I do believe in birth control, I am pro- choice about abortions, that being said I don't beleive it should be used as a birth control method time after time. Thats a lovely sentiment, but meaningless. Taking a stand like that ends up with one more bastard in this welfare state of maine. Frankly the world would be a better place is poor people were given free abortions, and used them. I must also point out, there are times when the condom breaks, who's fault is that?....... The womans if SHE CHOOSES to keep it. Shit happens that doesn't mean there aren't intelligent options. Yes, when it is all said and done, no matter what brought about the situation, the women is solely responsible for how she chooses to deal with the situation. I just get really frustrated when guys act like they are foot loose and fancy free. Because in essence they are!!! Have you lived in this state? It's nothing but barely literate slut single mothers and barely literate douchbag guys running away from their responsibilities. I don;t believe guys should ditch and i find those men to be garbage, but on the other hand, I have to wonder how many were stuck with a kid because the btch took it upon herself to not get an abortion?
9/11/2011 4:05:06 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
dougiem Tucson, AZ 37, joined Aug. 2009	Women need to make better decisions when it comes to who they have a child with. I'm so sick of hearing broads complain about their deadbeat ex who got them pregnant and then hit the road. Fking get to know a dude for a long, long, long time before having his baby, idiot. So many chicks (especially in this state) are like, "OMG, I know I've only known you for a few months but I'll totally have your baby." Then when the guy turns out to be a fknut they complain about it and act like it's all his fault. F**k, I hate people so much.
9/11/2011 6:30:41 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from dougiem: Women need to make better decisions when it comes to who they have a child with. I'm so sick of hearing broads complain about their deadbeat ex who got them pregnant and then hit the road. Fking get to know a dude for a long, long, long time before having his baby, idiot. So many chicks (especially in this state) are like, "OMG, I know I've only known you for a few months but I'll totally have your baby." Then when the guy turns out to be a fknut they complain about it and act like it's all his fault. F**k, I hate people so much. All i'm sayin is, life doesn't come with a handbook, nor does it come with a crystal ball predicting our futures. Guys are just as responsible in preventing an unplanned pregnancy as a women is. Not every situation is a young girl, or a the outcome of a one night stand, that led up to a pregnancy. I was with my bf for almost 4 years when I was unexpectly pregnant, did I think that almost 4 years later I would be a single parent? NO, but when life hands you lemons you make lemonade.
9/11/2011 6:49:28 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
dougiem Tucson, AZ 37, joined Aug. 2009	Yeah, I wasn't really talking about you. I just know a ton of retarded chicks who pop out a kid with a guy who's obviously a douchebag and then pull the whole "pity me" routine. It's hard to feel any sympathy for them since they did it to themselves. Get to know a guy extremely well before having a baby with him. Common sense... something a lot of people lack these days. People need to be way more sexually responsible. Our planet's already too populated as it is.
9/11/2011 7:32:51 AM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
sweetkissme_81 Southwest Harbor, ME 36, joined Mar. 2011	Quote from dougiem: Yeah, I wasn't really talking about you. I just know a ton of retarded chicks who pop out a kid with a guy who's obviously a douchebag and then pull the whole "pity me" routine. It's hard to feel any sympathy for them since they did it to themselves. Get to know a guy extremely well before having a baby with him. Common sense... something a lot of people lack these days. People need to be way more sexually responsible. Our planet's already too populated as it is. I am aware that your commment wasn't completely directed at me, I just have a hard time with some of the other people who post comments on here. The comments that they make are ignorant and close minded.
9/11/2011 1:16:52 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
dougiem Tucson, AZ 37, joined Aug. 2009	Ignorant, close-minded people here in Maine? Nawww!
11/23/2011 3:37:08 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
manta106 Lowell, MA 30, joined Jun. 2011	And as men, We are so sick of women who are shallow, conceited, and spoiled,,, Women who specifically look for guys who have $$$ to support there lazy ass. Its a two way street!
11/23/2011 8:20:37 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
jadamia Westbrook, ME 47, joined Dec. 2010	to the op...this isn't to be rude...just something I do observe...I live in Westbrook, not originally from here,from Boston, up here to do a couple of films with a film company and it's rough...but to answer somethings, from what I seen around here.... I seen very, young girls, having kids and it is like that is all they know... I'm my 20's I thought all about traveling and yes I went out and did that, and plan to do it...I'm not saying a child is a mistake...no one should ever call a child a mistake, but why on earth are so many women around here 20 and younger having kids...they should be thinking about going out and exploring the world and seeing things. Not that you can't...but in my 20's I want to go out and see so many things and see the world and I did....now I'm the first one to say...I am so far from perfect..I'm imperfect...but there's a whole world out there and everytime I turn around more girls in their 20's or younger having kids...it's like kids having kids and I see the grandmothers having to take care of the kids... Not that you can't make something of your life....but you know I do like a man that is ambitious and such, and look for compatiability.....I like working out, so I do expect a guy to workout....and if he is in the same field as me...then that's great. I care what anybody says....no guy I ever date is going to stop me from my dreams...is it rough doing things by myself....yes...but then in the future I can turn around and say...I don't anybody a damn thing.....just keep that in mind......you may have a child...but you still have a long way to go and just make the time you have on earth as valuable as you can
2/10/2012 1:38:10 PM	No job, no car/ license, no ambition = no date
pete8267 New York, NY 98, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from mainelyhere: Well if a woman can choose to or not to have an abortion and the man has absolutely no say on the matter and in fact may have to pay child support purely because the sanctimonious b*tch chose to keep it? Then YES. As a man with morals, an unplanned father, child support paying, and divorced from the baby momma, this statement here has got the be the most moronic statement i've seen in a very long time. Seriously, its so absurd that i'm sitting here still lol'ing at my desk in pure awe. An unplanned pregnancy is NOT the sole responsibilty of the female. COMMON SENSE laws force a deadbeat to pony up and be responsible. Are we still living in the medieval times where women are a possession and belong under your heel? If a man can have a say on whether a woman can be forced to abort the child they both irresponsibly made, the woman should have a say on forcing a man to have a vasectomy. Seriously, that mindset of not manning up to your responsibilities with ridiculous justifications is so extreme i still burst in laughter at to how big of a failure your parents were at not instilling a sense of responsibility into you. I bet your parents were hippies, or you probably have no idea who your dad is.

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