| 9/6/2011 12:36:42 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
Seriously....I really try to be honest and open no lies no secrets I am willing to treat my man like my king .... All I ask is for the same in return but I always get shoved to the side ...
Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
|
| 9/6/2011 12:57:16 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
franny3131
Lemoore, CA
56, joined Oct. 2010
|
I think some men, just want to be a fool Don't want to take the time, because Good girl's/Women mean responsibility & honesty. Some would rather go after the 1st who put's Out then cry when She find's someone new ??? Hang in there you only get What You Think You Deserve..some smart guy will snatch you up !!
|
| 9/6/2011 1:09:30 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
gregsj
San Jose, CA
43, joined Aug. 2011
|
Some recent experience with me is that some women are just way too difficult to deal with.
Turning down 5 different date ideas because they don't want to drive too far to an interesting date location, don't like playing pool, aren't hungry ect. Come on, the idea is to get to know the person and hang out. The activity should not be as important as the person you are with.
After they veto 5 date ideas and you don't talk to them for a day or two they say: Are you not interested? WTF
Guess it is an easy way to cull out some of the nutzo ones.
|
| 9/6/2011 1:17:47 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
I have to say that men and women of all ages on this site have been complaining about the other sex. All women are rude, men lie and only want sex, good girls go on the back burner. Come on. There are players and jerks on both sides. I personally know a lot of crappy women and a lot of great guys. In fact, I don't know any male jerks because that's not who I associate with. There are many women who want to get burned. There are plenty of them on this site. But for those nice women who want a nice guy? There seem to be quite a few of them here. Myself included. To be honest I really don't want to meet anyone right now. I'm enjoying the chatting. If anyone does want to me a nice guy? Maybe I'll change my mind. In the mean time, stop complaining and pick one of the nice guys.
|
| 9/6/2011 1:22:25 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
Some recent experience with me is that some women are just way too difficult to deal with.
Turning down 5 different date ideas because they don't want to drive too far to an interesting date location, don't like playing pool, aren't hungry ect. Come on, the idea is to get to know the person and hang out. The activity should not be as important as the person you are with.
After they veto 5 date ideas and you don't talk to them for a day or two they say: Are you not interested? WTF
Guess it is an easy way to cull out some of the nutzo ones.
yeah well I been trying to meet this guy who at first seemed really interested then he just seems to respond to me when its convenient for him...
|
| 9/6/2011 1:24:50 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
Been there.
|
| 9/6/2011 1:25:41 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
gregsj
San Jose, CA
43, joined Aug. 2011
|
Yeah, we probably all have our horror stories. Sigh... Maybe the best thing is to just laugh about them.
|
| 9/6/2011 1:32:27 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
No no I have horror stories.....but this one just seemed like everything I wanted and now I am confused and at a loss....I am usually very strong and normally would have just stopped and moved on at the first sign of anything that didn't feel right but ...
|
| 9/6/2011 1:35:34 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
You sound like you are in pain. I am sorry.
|
| 9/6/2011 1:38:13 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
I don't like being confused I know what I want...but this one has me stuck on stupid!
|
| 9/6/2011 1:40:06 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
Would you like to talk a little?
|
| 9/6/2011 1:42:42 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
U know what ... I think I better go to sleep....I am tired now but thank u maybe tomorrow I will be back online
|
| 9/6/2011 1:43:32 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
Have a good night's sleep.
|
| 9/6/2011 12:27:57 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
mikehancho84
Victorville, CA
32, joined Nov. 2010
|
If you fall for what the guy tells you without ever meeting him then not much to tell ya. Most guys here are being nice I'll be honest he probably found something he thought was a better option for him. Not saying it is but that's more then likely what it is
|
| 9/6/2011 2:05:59 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
palifornia562
Long Beach, CA
38, joined Dec. 2010
|
Do you really think you being nice is the reason you're put on the back burner, and not your weight?
I guarantee you'll see a huge change in how men treat you if you slimmed down
|
| 9/6/2011 8:11:27 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
Lol shy yes I slept well thanx for asking....and for the guy who said I probably didn't put out....ur right I never got the chance and I am not a hoe anyways if the chemistry is there then ooohhh better believe it will happen I would be a sex fiend so ur wrong buddy!
|
| 9/6/2011 8:30:56 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
Lmao u aren't seeing the.pics we exchanged on our phones lmao and wanted more n more hun...
|
| 9/6/2011 8:31:39 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
Lol shy yes I slept well thanx for asking....and for the guy who said I probably didn't put out....ur right I never got the chance and I am not a hoe anyways if the chemistry is there then ooohhh better believe it will happen I would be a sex fiend so ur wrong buddy!
Never "put out" that means you are giving in to him and lowering yourself. If it's something you want? That's something else. The emotional connection is there? Something else again. But "putting out" so that he won't leave? He'll leave. As soon as he's done. I have spoken 
|
| 9/6/2011 8:35:04 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
lonelyfellah
Ontario, CA
36, joined Aug. 2011
|
Because us dudes are like ur mascara;any sign of emotion u show we run
..just sayin
|
| 9/6/2011 9:04:32 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
I know ur right but to clarify I am not easy though lol
|
| 9/6/2011 9:46:47 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
mafioso_padrino
San Diego, CA
37, joined Sep. 2011
|
Same reason good guys get put on the back burner. Woman say the like nice honest guys, but they are attracted to the jerks, cheaters, and bad boys.
|
| 9/12/2011 9:21:38 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
Nope no sleeping on first date fro boy....but good news though I finally met the guy I was previously talking bout and it went great!
|
| 9/13/2011 12:14:20 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
shybutreadyb
Valley Village, CA
58, joined Jul. 2010
|
I'm jelous!
|
| 9/13/2011 12:22:06 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
das74
Santa Maria, CA
43, joined Jul. 2010
|
No no I have horror stories.....but this one just seemed like everything I wanted and now I am confused and at a loss....I am usually very strong and normally would have just stopped and moved on at the first sign of anything that didn't feel right but ...
DO not beat yourself up over it nor try and understand it since there will likely be no closure for you...
What I usually tell friends and follow myself is that the guy who is most interested will pursue..the ones that don't? Eh...I am not going to lose sleep over them..
I.E....
A man whom you have been emailing back and forth here and there whether it is because like myself have busy lives, jobs and so forth asks for your number?
You think about it and decide to give it to them..then they text you that night non stop and then slowly taper off? Oh well..
I usually do not give a second thought to it..I take it as I had a great convo and it was fun..I have no expectations period..
I had this on really nice guy ask for my number and we had exchanged emails back and forth for two weeks, so I gave him my number...He texted that whole weekend and then slid off the slopes...2 weeks later he sends me an email of how he has been busy and how how his past was catching up with him and how he was reminded of it..he stated that he decided to take a step back from technology...
I replied with the fact that he owed me nothing and I really had not stressed over it and neither should he..I wished him luck and that was the end of what I needed to say...
|
| 9/13/2011 10:46:01 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
utickleme
Los Angeles, CA
61, joined Mar. 2007
|
I'm chasing 3 from another site. And I've gotten no replies from this site. But that's how it goes. Like water off a ducks back. I'm bein put  off, games played. But because I am a nice guy, I'll; 1. keep looking, 2. touch base with them, 3. not have a tizzy fit  Life works is mysterious ways. It's not my plan. But I will complain  once I get inside, past the gate. I might be living my 'hell on earth' . 
Boys have no respect, so don't expect any. Fat or skinny, it's a game to them
How rude of those who don't know that u might be 'big boned'. God's work 
 
|
| 9/14/2011 11:12:11 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
flody263
Fresno, CA
54, joined Aug. 2011
|
Well jamie, the same goes for good guys. People have a hard time being themselves I believe these day, most are not okay in their own skin so when some get at them on the real (truthful) they don't know how to handle it because they're not real with themselves most of the time. keep your head up dear, he's out there you just keep looking. Ever want to chat you know where I am. Good Guy to a Good Girl
|
| 9/14/2011 12:00:54 PM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
peteycal
Santa Rosa, CA
32, joined Sep. 2011
|
Most guy's just don't want/need a "good girl" as a "girlfriend". That's what friends are for. If I'm going to deal with another person always being around me, it would be for alternative reasons. The "good girl" types basically want the same benefits of a friendship, but also want to be treated extra special. Most guys simply don't want to put that much effort into something they aren't truly interested in, and can get easily from other women.
|
| 9/15/2011 1:53:27 AM |
Why do good girls get put on the back burner? |
|
jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
|
Well guys so FYI being a good girl also means u know when its time to be a bad girl as well...and we know when we need to behave but at all times we obey lol
|