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| Location: |
Orange Park Florida |
| Zip Code: |
32065 |
| Age: |
37, Gemini |
| Height: |
6 ft. 0 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: |
Light Brown, Blue |
| Body: |
Athletic |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Didn't Say |
| Politics: |
Didn't Say |
| Education: |
Bachelor's Degree |
| Income: |
$50,000 - $75,000 |
| Job: |
Education |
| Smoke: |
Smoke Cigars |
| Has Kids: |
Yes, living with me |
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| About Me |
When I chose "NO" for smoking or drinking, I was merely implying an occasional/moderate use of alcohol and tobacco. I do NOT drink to get drunk, nor do I reach for a cigarette every time I get stressed out. In other words, while I'm not a chain smoker or a raging alcoholic per se, I do from time to time enjoy a drink or two with friends in the comfort, safety and security of a private party where I know and trust everyone to be relaxed, funny and overall enjoyable people when they drink ---NOT arrogant, obnoxious, rude, violent or even outright psychotic. Strangers + Alcohol = Trouble. This is why I tend to stay away from the bar scene at all costs. Though I must admit, I love dance clubs with a passion, but I tend not to drink when I go out clubbing. T I guess you could call me a reformed atheist. I am inclined to believe that there is "something" out there. I could be wrong, and realize how naive this sounds, but it is simply my own personal prospective, nothing more, nothing less. . Other than that, I'm known to be a very fun and friendly, adventurous, humorous and outgoing kind of guy, who enjoys good company and great times. In general, I tend to be a very likeable person who strives for being on good terms with everyone at all times. I equally respect all people, regardless of sex, age, race, religion, creed, sexual orientation, marital status, political party affiliation, social status, income level, what neighborhood you grew up in, what your SAT score was, what your college major is or was, what kind of car you may drive, or whatever. Judging and placing labels on those whom you don't know based on these shallow merits alone has consistently proven itself to be a colossal waste of time, and an utterly foolish practice for which I have absolutely no use for. I take great pride in my personal sense of serenity, peace of mind, confidence, inner calm and the ability to laugh at myself at the end of the day. I consider myself to be a very emotionally grounded and mentally balanced person who has no need to arrogantly brag about his accomplishments in front of others. It is utterly pointless and just plain old retarded to be constantly "comparing" and/or "competing" with others just to see who's got the better paying job, nicer car, hotter girlfriend, bigger biceps, etc. There's a time and place for legitimate competitions (such as an organized athletic or sporting event), but in terms of the overall grand scheme of things, the stage of life is not some personal commodity to be selfishly had just by one person alone, nor is it is something to be viciously fought over through the means of unnecessary competitions, pointless debates, or outright violence....rather, it is a precious gift to be equally shared by ALL through the worthwhile pursuits of dignity, respect, civility, compassion and understanding for our fellow man. On that note, as you could already probably deduce, I have no use for jealousy or envy. We are ALL equally blessed with extraordinary gifts that makes each and everyone of us unique in our own special ways. So clearly, there's no point in bragging about oneself...everyone has the capability to shine like a star in their own unique ways, and sooner or later, everyone's time will come. And when I speak of jealousy and envy, I also mean that in terms of an intimate relationship as well. Personally, if I ever caught my girlfriend cheating with a another man ( in the past, I have, [with a PAST girlfriend]) do I get angry at the guy? NO WAY! He's merely doing what any other average single guy would do (hey, you can't expect everyone to be some kind of celibate and saintly figure. It's MY GIRLFRIEND whom I would get angry with for betraying my trust, for trust is the very foundation upon which ALL strong and prosperous relationships are built. Anyone who dates me will see that when I'm with my girlfriend, she is all that matters to me, nobody else. I can only expect the same from her in return, because, quite frankly, being some kind of nosy, paranoid, over-protective 24 hour detetective monitoring my girlfriend's every move is emotionally draining and physically exhausting...not to mention, I have WAYYY better things to do with my time and energy! To tell you the truth, I've become such a serene individual, that something like that doesn't even bother me anymore. How, might you ask, do I then handle the situation? I simply tell her: "It seems like the guy you were with last night is more handsome, has more money, drives a nicer car, or whatever, and out shines me. Clearly, any more time spent with me would be a complete and utter waste of time for you, so best of luck with him!" That's all there is to it. No need to get all angry and upset; this isn't rocket science! There's somebody out there for everyone, and deep within my heart I know that it will only bring me closer to the person who will love me for who I truly am.
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| Want To Find: |
A woman ages 22 to 34 to date |
Interests:
I Like: |
adventurous, athletic, Clubbing, clubs, college, compassion, dance, dates, drives, funny, good company, heart, humorous, intimate, laugh, outgoing, peace, relationships, religion, social |
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