| 6/4/2008 4:47:33 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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sightceir
Springfield, MO
age: 50
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well i'm only 50 and I don't plan on being alone for the next 30-40 yrs, and i would like to be married... i've only done it once...
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| 6/4/2008 4:48:21 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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epiphany4me
Mohave Valley, AZ
age: 47
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I'm looking for one more marriage in my life!!
seven is a lucky number, right?
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| 6/4/2008 4:51:15 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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jmelyn
Manville, NJ
age: 29
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It may be old-fashioned of me as a woman of the 2000s, but I would definitely like to get married someday. This isn't to say I'm in any huge hurry. I'm pushing 30 but that's not really old, so even if I could meet someone great to spend a few months to a few years with but they don't end up being the one I marry someday, that's fine. I've got time. But yeah, ultimately I hope to get married someday -- I love that idea of a promise to be each other's only and always, even though it obviously doesn't always work out that way.
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| 6/4/2008 4:51:20 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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osoroho
Mesquite, TX
age: 57
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Yes to both questions each sounds like fun...
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| 6/4/2008 6:34:48 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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hrtan2
Oak Park, MI
age: 39
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I am debating this as well. I am trying to keep an open mind, but at my age I see not point. I do not want children. I make decent money and my career is on the upswing. I am trying to decide what the actual point is at our age. Nothing is guranteed. I never thought I would at this point with my ex. I saw us as old people together with our walkers. I wanted to be with him forever. People change and it is unavoidable. We both used to say nothing was so bad we could not work it out. That is not true as I found out. I was devastated. Do I want to go through this again? Probably not. I have no religious restraints that make it something I need to do. I do not have a financial need. I love sex and can get that with a steady relationship or even not.
I am trying to stay open, but am finding it more and more difficult.
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| 6/6/2008 8:43:17 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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mayb4you
Farmington, MO
age: 45
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I would have never thought I would be on a site having to answer a question of any sort, let alone this one. Divorced for 23yrs, never did I rule out marriage. I love being in a committed relationship with someone that would care so much about one another.BUT you have to find that person and that seems to be the problem. I have been engaged to someone that I thought to be the one. Only to realize that it wasn't meant to be. I had to walk away. Yes, it freakin hurt! It took a very long time to ever think about looking for someone else after that. I can understand the bitterness when talking to these guys. Even though it's totally different. I have since been in a long term relationship which also ended and now here I am. again. Yes, that's all I want is something that definitely will eventually end in marriage. So I want the I do's. I don't care about how when or where. Prenumps. or not.
Sum it up. I want the marriage.
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| 6/6/2008 9:06:13 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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kissable123
Lufkin, TX
age: 32
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If it works out, get married, I want to grow old with the one I love.
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| 6/6/2008 10:19:34 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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dancinglynx
Reedsburg, WI
age: 44
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I won't ever get married again, I'm not marriage material. I would be content just to live with someone long term though.
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| 6/6/2008 10:20:39 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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crow8
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I have no clue what if I will ever get married again, right now i am confused about someone and can't figure things out
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| 6/6/2008 10:35:18 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
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I've been married once and that was enough. Round 2 will be a happy living together arrangement thanks.
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| 6/6/2008 10:53:40 PM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
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I'm begining to think Groucho Marx was right, HE SAID: I wouldn't marry anyone who would associate with a guy like me!
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| 6/7/2008 4:05:20 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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dedicatedtolife
Pascoag, RI
age: 51
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I don't see any upside to getting married
If you want to share a home together get a good lawyer to make sure when the split comes each gets their fair share
Know that's kinda cruel but most relationships just don't last, better yet rent
isn't it the emotional commitment we are all looking for anyway?
Someone we can count on for the good times and the bad.
Been married once and I would not do it again.
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| 6/7/2008 4:09:03 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42
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i dont feel the need to get married. 
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| 6/7/2008 4:11:31 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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roggor
Eek, AK
age: 50
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To get married is a statement that the relationship is solid. If the relationship is not solid, marriage will not make it so. If there is any doubt, don't get married. If both people feel the same about marriage and are harboring no illusions, at some point they might want to formalize their relationship. But to get married just because one likes the idea of being married? I think not.
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| 6/7/2008 4:12:50 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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roggor
Eek, AK
age: 50
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I will never get married again.
*Jinx* Never say "Never".
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