| 6/4/2008 11:01:24 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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juniebegood
Huntington, NY
age: 53
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Just curious, who wants to meet someone, and if all works out well, get married?
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Who wants to meet someone, and if all works out well, would be content to keep the relationship, just as it is?
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| 6/4/2008 11:03:23 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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jessetravis
Bonita Springs, FL
age: 30
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I do
Jesse
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| 6/4/2008 11:05:28 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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juniebegood
Huntington, NY
age: 53
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You "do" to which question, Jesse?
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| 6/4/2008 11:06:11 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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Just curious, who wants to meet someone, and if all works out well, get married?
OR
Who wants to meet someone, and if all works out well, would be content to keep the relationship, just as it is?
There is absolutely zero reason for a man to get married any more.
If in the off chance I do.. there will be pre-nups up her wazzoo.
I take marriage very seriously... only will do it once if I ever find
a woman insane enough ( and rich ) to ask me to marry her.
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| 6/4/2008 11:11:26 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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I would get married again.... if it seemed right.... then again, I don't know that I have to be married to have a lifetime commitment to someone....
It's really not a dealbreaker for me. either way... not today, anyway.... 
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| 6/4/2008 11:16:09 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
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live together or married it will be whatever we both agree on and as long as we are committed solely to each other.
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| 6/4/2008 11:17:27 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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nightowl716
Royse City, TX
age: 51
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Having married a woman who turned out to have an agenda and I was just an aid to her agenda. I lost more than I want to write. It has taken me 10 years to clean up the financial mess that has left me in near poverty because of this 'person'. And I am honest that I still have issues with what this mariage (my only one and last one) did to me. But at least I admit I have issues and I do work at resolving them.
Marriage is fine if you want kids, in your 20's or 40's or maybe early 40's. But once you reach you 50's. I see nothing but downsides to marriage.
And we have at least a 50 percent divorce rate. It would be higher but some cultures basically forebid divorce.
And some people are locked in a marriage for financial reasons. Or the old 'we stay together for the kids'. As soon as the kids are grown, time to get that long awaited divorce.
I have read that arranged marriages seem to work out the best for some reason. Maybe it is the cultures that do this.
As for me, iIWANT a long time companion wiht no expiration date. But I do not want to live with someone again. I like my space.
An actress once said 'People should not marry. They should buy houses near each other and visit'.
I agree with her.
Best relaitohips are those that you are close enough to go visit on a spur of the moment notice but when one or both of you needs space, then you each have your own home.
And as you get older, you get more set in your ways.
That is just life.
[Edited 6/4/2008 11:19:49 AM]
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| 6/4/2008 11:20:54 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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chatterbug32
Troy, NC
age: 33
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I will never get married again.
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| 6/4/2008 11:21:45 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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cse5711
Shelbyville, KY
age: 50
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Just curious, who wants to meet someone, and if all works out well, get married?
OR
Who wants to meet someone, and if all works out well, would be content to keep the relationship, just as it is?
when, and if I find that special one...either one would be okay
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| 6/4/2008 11:28:59 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
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I have every intention of getting married once in life...if it does not work out then never shall I marry again.
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| 6/4/2008 11:39:36 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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txchick3210
Lubbock, TX
age: 31
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I am divorced, but really would like to be married again to the right guy, and make it last.
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| 6/4/2008 11:46:52 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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federal327
Alexandria, VA
age: 62 online now!
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I'm not going to jump into anything fast. I am very open minded. I am not avoiding marriage and would walk down the aisle with a compatible woman.
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| 6/4/2008 11:47:35 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 47 online now!
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Does that answer the question?
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| 6/4/2008 11:54:01 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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I have every intention of getting married once in life...if it does not work out then never shall I marry again.
Marry me!!!!!
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| 6/4/2008 11:59:49 AM |
To get married, or not to get married. . . that is the question |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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Was married once.......like 18 years ago..so for me at this point in my life I see no reason to get married!
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