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| 11/22/2012 2:46:57 AM |
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realoldtimers
Toledo, WA
66, joined Aug. 2012
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First of all I want to thank my fellow widows that help me though some of my first. Now I have one problem that I ttrying to figure out is it wrong to have dinner with a picture of my wife in front of me when I eat tomarrow. Next i know some of you went though christmas with no money well i am in that boat. When i told my kids and grandkids and greatgrand kids that papa will not have xmass three of them left the house crying I told them that I told them I will make it up to them. It hurts me just thinking of it. any help any one can tell me where i can go for help will be appreaciated.
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| 11/22/2012 3:54:02 AM |
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falsedawn
Tacoma, WA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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I've had my share of hard times but sometimes I've gone to the Salvation Army for help. Reading your post Is not helping my weepyness. I have a young family so not sure they helped me out more because of it. But it doesn't hurt to try. I'm having dinner with my inlaws they have a shrine to my husband I bust in tears every time I see it. But I have to be strong for the kids.
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| 11/22/2012 4:38:34 AM |
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pingeye2
Savannah, GA
65, joined Jun. 2011
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It's not wrong to have a photo of your wife when you eat today..but she's in your heart until you pass.
Secondly, I'm sorry you don't have very good family ties with your children, grandchildren, that they can't give you a tree, a little side cash. Pity.
Make do with what you have. Make some homemade gifts for them..or make them some homemade cards.
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| 11/22/2012 11:18:19 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
58, joined May. 2009
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Of course, it's fine to have her picture in front of you when you eat tomorrow.
Are you eating alone, though?
It's always been a tradition in my family to light a white candle and have it burning during our holiday celebration. The candle represents the people we love who are not physically there with us.
Sometimes, it'd just be burning in the background somewhere, and sometimes it'd spur talk and stories and reminiscing and laughter and tears.
I'm kind of sorry, too, that some in your family left crying. I'm hoping it was because they're upset for you. Surely your family understands your situation and wants to gather round you.
My first Christmas after he died, I had no money either. We ate boxed mac and cheese and I was able to scrape up enough to buy my daughter two or three small presents. Family members mailed her a few presents so there were a few things under her little Disney tree. (That was all I could muster doing, besides not being able to afford to get a tree.)
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| 11/22/2012 11:25:05 AM |
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24milkduds
Vallejo, CA
58, joined Mar. 2012
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Nothing wrong with having dinner with your spouse pics..I know how you feel..I too am going through those same hardships..hopefully next year will be a year to have happiness in your life.
I told my grandkids I may not be able to get them gifts but only a kiss and love and they told me its okay, I could make them a card, all I have to do is take paper fold it in half and write something on it...so cute..I love my grandchildren..
My best to you
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| 11/22/2012 9:26:04 PM |
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whistlerblue
Lancaster, CA
60, joined Jun. 2010
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Now I have one problem that I ttrying to figure out is it wrong to have dinner with a picture of my wife in front of me when I eat tomarrow.
Next i know some of you went though christmas with no money well i am in that boat. When i told my kids and grandkids and greatgrand kids that papa will not have xmass three of them left the house crying I told them that I told them I will make it up to them. It hurts me just thinking of it. any help any one can tell me where i can go for help will be appreaciated.
Oh Gee I hope not. For special occasions, I make a special dinner and set an extra plate at the table, light some candles, and have dinner in her memory. It's a personal thing but there is nothing wrong with remembering our spouse. It allows us to remember the good times we had and gives us a moment to reflect on our lives. I often smile and cry at the same meal.
A Christmas "gift" does not have to involve something that has to be purchased. you can give of what you have----time, love, companionship, etc....Those who measure Christmas by monetary value are very disappointed.
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